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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi I've been qiv my bf for 5 years and we hav a son together. And his family don't know yet. My son is 2 1/2 years old . And I really love my bf. But wen the question goes on to marriage. He says he can't marry me coz of family and religion. We are both from different back grounds. But I'm ready to leave everything for him. Everyday i'm crying my cry out. He's always saying wen I find the rite gal I will marry her. I'm always saying we hav a child together and we should get married. But he's always saying he can't coz of family and religion. I can't believe wots happening he chased me for 6 months to be wiv me I left my husband and know I'm in this. He promised to be wiv me for ever. He's put a roof ova my head and etc. He used to love me so much it was unbelieveable. Day and nite by side . Never been so loved in my life they way he loved me. Past 4 years. And now I feel he doesn't love me anymore. May be coz I've gone fat after birth and gone out of shape. Wot do I do to make him love me again. Or do I just move on. He's not gonna marry regardless. How do I make him change his mind. How do I get he back. I love him so much wiv out him my life feels empty. Help please . I wanna keep him ??? Help
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (7 May 2010):
 It is very clear that the guy is a bastard. I wonder whether his religion doesn't frown on his having a child without marrying first. It's highly likely it does frown on that. In that case, he's a hypocrite to play the "religious" card on you for marriage but not for sex. Apparently his religion didn't matter before.
I am sorry to say this, but probably you will never ever get him to marry you. He has already told you you're not the "right gal" for him, in his religious opinion.
Leave the man and find someone who has the balls to love you.
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reader, raiders  +, writes (7 May 2010):
 He probably sees you as a person who is willing to cheat on her husband and make her husband think that the 2 year old son is his, when in reality this kid is her lover. He don't want you he used you and you lost a good thing because of him your husband, You dug your own grave now move on.
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