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Should I rekindle this relationship?

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Question - (6 May 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 7 May 2010)
A female United States age , anonymous writes:

I broke up with this person who was married and I still care about this person. It has been 2 years now and want to know if I should pursue to rekindle a relationship with this person or leave them alone. This person said they still care and love me. I do too and I don't know how should handle this. I want this person back. I am a relation with someone too.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (7 May 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntThere is a reason why he is in the past. He is not meant to be yours.

Furthermore,he is married and he will not leave his wife for you . Don't be taken in by those sweet words .

He is history.

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (7 May 2010):

Danielepew agony aunta) You're obviously unhappy with your current partner. Is it worth keeping that relationship? Apparently, NO, since you're thinking of rekindling the other guy.

b) The other guy was married and apparently is still married. I don't think you need the kind of problems that come with that, but it's your life.

c) When a married person says s/he "cares about and loves you", I wonder what the meaning of "care" and "love" is. I do care and love people I was involved with in the past, only it doesn't mean I would date them again.

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A female reader, raiders United States +, writes (7 May 2010):

raiders agony auntHe is married why would you want to rekindle a relationship with someone else husband..

Your are in a relationship why would you cheat on your boyfriend, I think you should leave your boyfriend since obviously you don't love him enough to stay faithful....

If your old boyfriend loved you and had real feelings for you why did he not leave his wife for you...

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A female reader, laetitia Canada +, writes (7 May 2010):

laetitia agony auntDo you still have contact with this person? Perhaps you can start by find out what this person is up to these days...

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A female reader, PixieGwen United States +, writes (7 May 2010):

PixieGwen agony auntAre they still married? if so, its a bad idea.If theyre divorced..then I dont see why not :)

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