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Caught my boyfriend masturbating to porn 4 hours after I gave him oral. Does that mean I didn't do it right?

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Question - (22 May 2012) 7 Answers - (Newest, 25 May 2012)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay so I went to go to sleep last night but my boyfriend stayed up. I was playing games on my phone because i couldn't quite fall asleep. I decided i would smoke a cigarette before i finally decided to sleep. I realized that I didn't have a lighter. So i went out to the living room to grab a lighter and before my eyes there's my boyfriend jerking himself off to porn! I honestly wouldn't mind about the masturbating at all, it is natural. I do it, he does it, everyone does it. I was just thrown off because i gave him oral 4 hours earlier. I personally felt like i didn't do the job right if he needed to jerk off again! he said he just felt like it cause he's a guy. i mean if that's the case than cool it's something that we can laugh about. i just need another opinion.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2012):

Thanks guys! you opinions helped. i think the exact same thing, i just wanted to to know if there were hidden signals. thanks for your help!

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (23 May 2012):

person12345 agony auntFour hours is a pretty long time. If you're OK with porn then this is nothing abnormal and nothing to worry about. Haven't you ever finished, then wanted to go again?

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (23 May 2012):

Honeypie agony auntCould be that he was actually thinking of what you did for him earlier, hot horny popped the porn on and went at it.

At least you guy has a healthy appetite.

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (22 May 2012):

chigirl agony auntI'm glad you asked him. If I were you I'd take his answer as it is and not try to read anything more into it. I'm not a guy, but my experience with men has shown me they usually tell it to you as it is.

Besides, who said you can't get horny more than once every 12 hours?

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A female reader, natasia United Kingdom +, writes (22 May 2012):

natasia agony auntHe is right. He is a teenage guy. He could do that 10 times a day no problem. That's what they're like.

Don't worry. They slow down (a bit) when they get older ...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2012):

If he said he just felt like it then that's all it was.

Just ask him if he enjoys it when you give him head and are you good at it in general. If he says you are then trust him.

4 hours is ages by the way when it comes to being horny again. The fact that you already gave him head probably just means he thinks you'd done enough for him that day and it would be rude of him to ask you to please him again so he took care of himself.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2012):

Waiitttt... why didn't he get you to jerk him off? :S

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