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Any tips to help me? I lack experience with gay relationships. Scared about going down on her. Help !

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Question - (24 June 2012) 4 Answers - (Newest, 24 June 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Well let me put it this way, I'm a gay girl who hasn't had much experience with a girl, crap!

I know :/, but anyway I've recently just got in a relationship and I'm petrified to go down on her in case like I throw up or something.

Guys used to make me throw up but maybe that's because I was gay and didn't know it hmm.

And I'm also scared she'll be like what are doing, because I'm not experienced and bad at it :/ anyway any tips to help me overcome being scared?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2012):

Because I've been with girls just haven't been down on one, and I'm not attracted to guys anymore from the age of 17 and when I was with them I didn't feel anything, I felt like I was forcing myself to do anything sexual with them just to make them happy not because I got enjoyment out of it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2012):

From experience I know what I like, so when I give oral I do what I know feels good. A girl knows what a girl likes. But also don't be afraid to question her pleasure asking how she wants it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2012):

Communication. Ask her what she likes sexually and tell her what you like (if you know) and just experiment with each other.

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A female reader, natasia United Kingdom +, writes (24 June 2012):

natasia agony auntJust out of interest, how do you know you are gay?

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