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I am currently single. I have a decent job and and I am a mother. There is nothing more that would complete my life than to fall in love with a special man again. I am taking great care of myself physically and mentally ,so if I meet someone special I am ready to give my all to that person.

She is the one I want, but am I the one she wants?

Q.   I've been really close friends with a girl for about six years now - she's helped me through some tough times and we've remained close friends despite living a few hours apart for the past two years. I've always been rather fond of her, but now, I'm ...

A.   29 December 2013: I would ask her out. Maybe , she is interested in you and oblivious that you like her. However, there are two red flags.First, she likes to go out and party alot, and secondly, she says she is commitment phobic. There is a saying , we miss 100 ... (read in full...)

I am interested in a man that bakes alot o f cookies. Is he Gay?

Q.   I have a wonderful life. I have everything bit cannot find love. I have been very unlucky in my search for love. M question is , I met a man that works at my gym. I am attracted to him. Everytme , I goto the gym he comes over and talks to me ...

A.   2 February 2013: Actually, he has said he is adduced to sweets and gained weight. He said he was cutting back on sugar. ... (read in full...)

I am interested in a man that bakes alot o f cookies. Is he Gay?

Q.   I have a wonderful life. I have everything bit cannot find love. I have been very unlucky in my search for love. M question is , I met a man that works at my gym. I am attracted to him. Everytme , I goto the gym he comes over and talks to me ...

A.   2 February 2013: I am the OP. I wanted to clarify, in a previous conversation the guy said he was addicted to chocolate and sweets. I told him I loved chocolate Martinis, that they taste like dessert. That is how the discussion came up. Bottom line, he is not into ... (read in full...)

Five dates and no chemistry? Are my dating expectations unrealistic? Any thoughts on what to do?

Q.   I need help.I am a 50year old divorced women. I went through a horrible time with my divorce that took years of my life away from me. I have tried to put one foot in front of the other in the dating world. I did not have success with online dati...

A.   19 August 2012: Thank you anonymous. People think I am younger too.I have worked out all my life and it has helped . I meet a lot of women that project negativity because they feel insecure. Hence, we do not become invisible but more confident , happier and want ... (read in full...)

Five dates and no chemistry? Are my dating expectations unrealistic? Any thoughts on what to do?

Q.   I need help.I am a 50year old divorced women. I went through a horrible time with my divorce that took years of my life away from me. I have tried to put one foot in front of the other in the dating world. I did not have success with online dati...

A.   19 August 2012: Aunty Em. I am sorry you feel invisible. I do not at all. I get a lot of attention from men. It is hard to meet the right one though. I went on five dates with this man in particular and have not felt the desire to kiss him although is is a great ... (read in full...)

What makes big boobs more valuable?

Q.   I have small breasts nd I hate them. I mean, they're healthy, and that's cool, but despite my feminine body still at 23 people say I look like a 10 year old boy. I don't. I have a defined waist, wide hips, a curvy butt, thick legs... I've never seen ...

A.   19 August 2012: I have a 36 DD and I am thin. When I was your age, I was so embarrassed to have big boobs because of the comments and stares. I am very fit so luckily I have become more confident through the years. But, they are far from perfect. I have big nipp... (read in full...)

I'm attracted to a married man, what should I do?

Q.   I have never dated a married man,. There is one man , he is 38 I am a youthful 50 year old female. I work out a lot and take good care of myself, I get a lot of attention from men. I really do not seek it out though. Anyways, I am in this man's ...

A.   17 August 2012: This is the OP. I am 12 years older than him, hardly old enough to be his mother but thanks for the dig.... (read in full...)

Are we together or not? So confused!!

Q.   I have been with this guy for about 4mnths. We have had sex go out together but I don't know if he really likes me. He always checks in tells me where he is and during sex the last time he tried holding my hand but I pulled away because he has not ...

A.   29 May 2012: So you have sex not knowing if you are boyfriend or girlfriend but will not hold his hand?... (read in full...)

Do I worry about her or continue to trust my boyfriend?

Q.   Dear readers I am in a new realtionship with a Man for 4 months now. He have a female friend whom he's very closed to and so does she to him. It makes me quite uncomfortable-- especially that i can see how excited and proud he is of her-- I notic...

A.   22 April 2010: I would truSt him.. There are so many things in life we cannot control. Sounds like she is not interested. The longer you are together the more in lovE with you he will be. I have a male friend like that and did not feel attracted to him. Sounds ... (read in full...)

Ha! And I thought it would never happen to me!!!!

Q.   *OP's own title* I am a single middle-aged women, usually sensible and certainly suspicious of online dating. Four months ago I was contacted by a younger man on a mutual interest website. He lives in another country and speaks another language! Afte...

A.   6 April 2010: I think you should be flattered however, I think it is a fantasy for a younger guy to be with a women that is older! He is probably interested in a hot sexual relationship or in having a women support him! He probably did have feelings for you. What ... (read in full...)

Son bringing home leggy pretty girls and I'm stuck with my lumpy wife!

Q.   My son has recently started bringing girlfriends home: they're leggy, pretty, polite, pleasant girls. Then I think of my wife - I've got a lumpy, angry, middle-aged wife whose libido went AWOL 15 years ago, who gets out of bed at noon, spends 12 ...

A.   5 April 2010: You say your sons female friends are balanced! They are showing their best side. You do not know what is going on in their minds! What are you doing to help the problem! You should not even be looking at these young girls ewwwww!... (read in full...)

Son bringing home leggy pretty girls and I'm stuck with my lumpy wife!

Q.   My son has recently started bringing girlfriends home: they're leggy, pretty, polite, pleasant girls. Then I think of my wife - I've got a lumpy, angry, middle-aged wife whose libido went AWOL 15 years ago, who gets out of bed at noon, spends 12 ...

A.   4 April 2010: First of all how do you look? do you have a beer belly? Are you letting yourself go? I would suggest treating yopur wife the way you did when you were first trying to win her over. Bring her flowers for no reason. Take her away for a romantic ... (read in full...)

The last thing I wanted was a sexless marriage!

Q.   i was three months pregnant when i married in december. i can count on one hand the amount of times i have had sex in the last 10 months. i feel desperate to have sex but my husband is always too tired and would prefer to watch tv. i am back to my ...

A.   5 November 2009: I completely understand. Women peak sexually in thier 40's while a mans desire goes down. He probably has low testosterone. There is a website lowt.com he can visit. This is very common at his age. I am sorry for you as it can make a women feel a ... (read in full...)

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