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Can I get past someone's looks and fall for them?

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Question - (22 April 2012) 6 Answers - (Newest, 23 April 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

after a not so great relationship for four years i am now dating. i have met nice man but in truth he does nothin for me! he is very.sweet kind etc and i no he feels a great deal for me. i no i sound shallow but im wonderng can u get past someon e's looks? can u fall for the person? i can't help feel i want to be attracted a bit to someone! i don't have the highest sex drive so im worried i ent want it at all with someone im not very attracted to

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A male reader, tottenhamhotspur Canada +, writes (23 April 2012):

You want to start dating 'good' guys- and this is good.

But physical attraction is a very important part of any relationship. Would you want to be with someone who wasnt attracted to you?

Maybe you are attracted to him but don't realize it or admit it. Maybe you arent and should just keep looking for those qualities in guys that you do find an attraction towards.

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A female reader, natasia United Kingdom +, writes (22 April 2012):

natasia agony auntIf you don't fancy someone at all then they are not a partner - they are a friend. You really must have some natural attraction for them, I think. So no, this guy won't do. He is only a friend. Keep dating and looking.

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A male reader, bronzed adonis United Kingdom +, writes (22 April 2012):

bronzed adonis agony auntUnfortunately we cannot choose who we fall for or who we are attracted to. That kinda chooses itself for us. I have a feeling you may have met this man on the rebound.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2012):

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well i think after making bad choices with men in the past i thought i should try looking for personality rather looks. but not sure its gonna work lol

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2012):

If he does nothing for you then why date he may as well be moved to friend zone. Let him go find a woman who is physically attracted to him

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A female reader, Thisiscrazy Australia +, writes (22 April 2012):

Thisiscrazy agony auntAttraction to another is what makes you look at someone you look at them from across the room..

Something more has pulled you towards him if your not attractred to him what sent you in his direction.

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