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Her boobs are amazing!!!

Q.   I am an arab man (but also a christian). the rules and traditions in my country told men to treat women except their wives as sisters (with no sexual feelings) and told women not to wear sexy clothes. of course man and woman can do whatever...

A.   7 November 2010: oh you poor thing - or simply weird- ... arab countries lmao well my guess is that u're from Egypt ... people there have sex all the time 7abeby it is totally normal .. and if a girl knows u're looking at her boobs and intentionalyy shows u her ... (read in full...)

Isn't it up to the man to ask the woman out to dinner?

Q.   I met a man online and had a date last night. I almost cancelled, because I thought I would not like him. Anyway, we met up and laughed all night. We talked and talked, held hands amd it was a blast. He walked me to my car and kissed me goodnight.. ...

A.   29 March 2010: maybe he doesn't like you ideology about the man asking the woman out . it is a little old fashioned and in my opinion uncalled for ... (read in full...)

My husband accuses me of giving him an STD.

Q.   please help me. i always have pimples in my vigiena.the pimples always appeared and afther 2 or 3 day it disappeared.six month a go i married.i did not tell my husband about that . now he came to know that i have pimples in my vigiena.the problem is ...

A.   7 February 2010: when u have pimples on your vagina , you go see a doctor . now there is no poing arueing about it with him if it is an STD or not , you both go get tested and checked out . and if it is not an STD like you say he will know that you are not lyin... (read in full...)

My mom found my boyfriends underwear and freaked out!

Q.   I asked my boyfriend if i could have a pair of his boxers, i usually used them to sleep in. My mom didn't know i had them, but she knew my boyfriend. I'm really not close to my mom, so I never told her me and my boyfriend were boyfriend and girlfrie...

A.   7 February 2010: is he a good person ? if he is then i guess you have nothing to worry about , just introduce him to your parents again and show them that he is a good guy and that you have a healthy relation and that there is nothing to worry about , don't lie ... (read in full...)

My long distance boyfriend has stopped calling as much or answering his phone.

Q.   we started our relationship a couple of months ago. my boyfriend works in another city and has very little time. whenever i go there to meet him, we stay together and have sex. but recently he has stopped picking up my calls from morning till night. ...

A.   7 February 2010: long distance is a hard thing to do and it rarely works , even for people who have been together for years cause it is hard to not have the one you love next to you when u need him/her . and all you mentioned is that you have sex when you have time ... (read in full...)

I don't like anal sex and my boyfriend is being an ass about it

Q.   i have a problem with my boyfriend, he stated that i don't agree we have anal sex then this proves i don't love him that much ,,, but i tried it and i hate it hurts alot and i don't get it it's not like we can't have sex other wise , now i don't ...

A.   12 July 2009: Yea either he starts respecting you and your wishes or dump him. He is pressuring you in to something sexual. That is low... (read in full...)

I got irresponsibly drunk, had sex and my parents want to sue him

Q.   i kinda got raped. i cant explain but i can try. i was drunk. i passed out , was consantly throwing up, but continued drinking. he carried me into his room. i was awake, i didntr say no but i didnt say yes either. im 16 and he is 22. my parents ...

A.   12 July 2009: And why exactly do yo want them not to sue? You started this with - I kinds got raped ?- there is no kinds you either did or you didn't and this is a future of a human being, if he did rape you then he deserves it if not then speak up. Your post ... (read in full...)

I'm a longer but I don't really want to be

Q.   I am a male, 18, and have no idea what to do about me. I am quite an anxious person, and want advice on what to do. I find it quite hard to interact with other people, often people my own age. I never eat with other people at college and rarely make ...

A.   12 July 2009: this sounds like me when i was little , it is social phobia i guess i still get it every once in a while , cant really help you since i grew out of it by having supportive people around me who showed me that it is ok to be me and just relax . you ... (read in full...)

Why do I love watching gay movies?

Q.   Basically, i've loved watching gay movies for about 3yrs now. I kind of watched one by accident at first and became obsessed with the buzz it gave me and just continued to collect them. I guess i'm just wondering what people think of this, and if ...

A.   12 July 2009: it is normal to like the sight of two guys kissing , like toatally normal , google it and you will see that lots and lots of other girls like it too i dont think it is a big deal at all !!... (read in full...)

Should I let my b/f go clubbing with his mates?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years now. I've recently turned 18 and he's nearly 20. We live together now and throughout our entire relationship he always told me he prefers not to go clubbing because it's not for him. Then out ...

A.   12 July 2009: to answer you last question , do i feel comfortable letting my bf go clubbing with his friends ? well it is a yes and a no . a yes cause i do trust him and trust how he feels towards me and know he won't cross any lines or do something that he won't ... (read in full...)

My cousin and I had sexual relationship but now I think he was using me

Q.   please dont juge me ok so i was around 7 when my 13 year old cusin came to live with us and before that we didnt really know each other about 3 years after living with my family we would flirt with each other and then we moved on to oral sex then ...

A.   12 July 2009: 14 and 20 .. sorry but seems like he has been using you .. and even if he did/does care this is not even legal and you are way too young for this , just move on as much as you can ... (read in full...)

Sex on the first date what should I expect now?

Q.   This guy and i met at a club. We talked and called each other the next day and decided we should hang out that night. He drove quite a distance to see me. Things got really hot and ended up having sex on the "first date". Now i'm not sure whether or ...

A.   12 July 2009: well don't be waiting by the phone really , don't put too much hope on the whole thing .. it might have been just a one night thing for him , or he might be interested in getting to know you more .. u just knew him so don't stress it ... (read in full...)

I'm insecure and I wish he wouldn't talk to her anymore.

Q.   Hi i've been in a relationship for over 3 yrs with a guy i really really love. He loves me as well. We live in different cities and cant meet on a daily basis but talk for over 3 hrs a day..... I do not have any past-he's the first guy in my life....

A.   10 July 2009: just left my bf cause of the same reason basically , thing is he has been with me for 8 months and her for 4 years before me . look keeping on thinking about it will lead u nowhere , tell him all you fell and how it makes u feel insecure and all ... (read in full...)

A few questions for the ladies out there...

Q.   I have two questions for you girls! 1. When you say about yourself you were complicated. What do you really think about yourself? 2. You say to your partner after 4 months: 'I am open for a serious relation ship now.' or '...

A.   28 June 2009: t oanswer your second question , as much as i can really i think the - iam open for a serious relationship now - means that the person wanst really fully commited to the relation or maybe seeing people on the side and now made up his/her mind... (read in full...)

What was your favorite age and why?

Q.   hey guys and girls can you answer this plz , tell me which period of age was your favorite and why !!!!!...

A.   27 June 2009: now actually .. i'm 20 . i'm living the life i should have been when i was 18 i'm having fun going out going to college and all that ... (read in full...)

What do I do about his drinking problem?

Q.   Am i worrying 2 much? Me and my bf been together almost 2 yrs got a gorgeous daughter but the prob is he has a drink problem! He has gotten loads better, but i cant help but feel that horrible knot in my stomach that he might go back again. His ...

A.   27 June 2009: if by a drinking problem you mean an alcoholic but he still drinks a bit now and says he is in control , he is not .. and it will get worse and u should worry sure , if it gets like it used to and he starts drinking alot , leave the house or kick ... (read in full...)

My husband is addicted to DearCupid and is an aunt on this site. How do I bring this up to him?

Q.   Hi everyone. Late at night my husband gets out of bed. His sleep has been getting worse. I'm a pretty deep sleeper, so I don't ever get up to check on him when he goes downstairs at night. All I know is that he gets up around one in the morning and ...

A.   27 June 2009: i think that by posting this u already pretty much brought it up ! .. see how it goes from there and try and open it up with him . talk about it and about the stuff he posted and that concern him and see if u can help ... (read in full...)

I'm worried about not getting my period! I'm late but I'm also a virgin.

Q.   I keep having "the feeling" i'm gonna get my period, but I don't..and it's 9 days late I think. Btw I am a virgin. And maybe it's a little cramps, but it's just the feeling I have when I have period but I don't have it so I'm worried..?...

A.   25 June 2009: i'm not sure what u mena by virgin , u mean u never had intercourse bt fooled around and u're worried abot that or u're just worried about your period being irregular ?? ... (read in full...)

Was it rape or sex?

Q.   okay so i was a virgin...i started talking to this guy he was gorgeous..whe had known eachther for a while and decided to go out and we ended up in his room. at first just teasin the making out but then he started pulling my jeans and i dit want to ...

A.   12 June 2009: and i'm sorry your first time had to be like that .... (read in full...)

I want to have sex and yet am repulsed by it

Q.   I've never heard of anybody who has this problem. I am a man in my late 20's, who like most other men is desperate to have sex, yet at the same time I'm repulsed by it. The reason why is because I despise the human race, I view all emotions as ...

A.   12 June 2009: see someone who can help you ... (read in full...)

Was it rape or sex?

Q.   okay so i was a virgin...i started talking to this guy he was gorgeous..whe had known eachther for a while and decided to go out and we ended up in his room. at first just teasin the making out but then he started pulling my jeans and i dit want to ...

A.   12 June 2009: im sorry bt your question lacks detials , he pulled down you pants and u didnt want to , did u protet ? did u say no ! at all !! before you spaced out ?? did say you say anything during ?? , a no is a no so if u did say NO STOP and he didnt then ... (read in full...)

Should I be concerned about this discharge?

Q.   Well basically... I am a 15 year old girl. More or less daily i get some type of discharge flowing from my vagina. It is white and creamy. I have been getting it for quite sometime now, although i have not started my period. and the other da...

A.   12 June 2009: no , the white dischargee is totally normal , if it doesnt smell fishy . the brown reddish i guess could be a sign of ur period starting yes ... (read in full...)

Relationships: What would you not tolerate?

Q.   This is'nt an advice question as such, but I do require help. I know it would be difficult to say, and every case is different, and you probably have no idea how you would act in the actual circumstance, but; What things would you never put up wit...

A.   12 June 2009: cheating , lying and ofcourse goes withot saying .. abuse ... (read in full...)

I'm insecure and need reassurance from my boyfriend

Q.   My boyfriend and i haven't been together very long but i sent him a text yday saying I didn't feel like he really cared for me like he used to. To this i got no reply so today i sent him a text asking him for his address so i could send his stuff ...

A.   12 June 2009: take a little break , taht is what i think , dont call now , even if it is all that you want to do , give 2 weeks or something then call and see how it is ,... (read in full...)

Was I molested or raped?

Q.   When i was a little kid around 7 or so my brother (around 10) would force me and my younger cousin to engage in sexual activity with him. i knew it was wrong but i was young and didnt know what to do. so i would tell him no and after a while he ...

A.   26 May 2009: As for r childhood yes that is assault, as for yor bf he is a jerk for doing that when he knows yor past but maybe he thought u were over it but that isnt assault it would have been if said stop and he didnt though.... (read in full...)

My sex drive is out of control!!!

Q.   First of all, im a guy. i accidently pressed the female option on the form thing and now find that i cant change it. so i masturbate ALOT, and im horny all the time. i find it really difficult to find a girlfriend that satisfies me and time and time...

A.   16 May 2009: to answer your qestion about does this happen to other guys well you sound like my bf , he too would go like 4 times in a row and more if he has been drinking , literally he would be on for hours , that i actually thought that was the norm , i dont ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend goes on forever... I can't get him to finish! Help!

Q.   This is not a handjob qestion by the way, whenever i give my bf a hand job I never seem to get him to - finish - he does seem to like it judging by his sounds and comments but i can give him a 45 mins hand job - im not exadurating - he precums and ...

A.   16 May 2009: he always asks me to try oral but i dont want to as it is something like a big deal for me i'm not ready so ... and more info he does let or fluids then get a little tinny bit softer but not like finished what is that !! does that mean he doe... (read in full...)

Scars and very self conscious about them

Q.   hey i have scars on my legs and knee and i am very self conscious about it especially when its summer and my friends wear skirts because of this i dont like wearing skirts and shorts or going swimming what should i do...

A.   16 May 2009: have stretch marks and know where you are coming from , u can forget about it and have a good time or u can uply some body makeup . get the right color for ur skin and it will look great... (read in full...)

Only 2 weeks but I think I really screwed things up

Q.   I'm in the first two weeks of a new relationship and PMS has just kicked in for this month. I've suddenly become really unhappy and irritable. And I'v already took it out on my BF through about 10 texts this morning, to which he hasnt replied to ...

A.   16 May 2009: cool it off for a day or sth or atlest untill he calls you and simply explain that you were PMSING ... i think he will understand... (read in full...)

Should I be jealous of his past?

Q.   I am very in love with my boyfriend of two years, the only problem is my extreme jealousy which tears me up inside. he has had one other major relationship in his life and a few other fairly major relationships whereas he is my first boyfriend and ...

A.   3 May 2009: have the same thing with my bf , has pjotos of his ex gf and it bothers the hell out of me and i also want him to want to delete them but the thing is that , if it was a serious long relation where they like wanted to spend their lives together he ... (read in full...)

15 and never been kissed by a boy!

Q.   hey, ok i have a problem with myself. i am really slim but my mom is really slim aswell so it kind of runs in the family. no i am not anorexic and i don't have a eating disorder, i eat like a pig infact and just comfort eat but i dont know where it ...

A.   16 April 2009: not at all , 15 is really young , i got my first kiss at 19 .. totally normal ... (read in full...)

I think I am pregnant, but no access to pregnancy test kit!

Q.   i live in Cairo , Egypt . suspect that i'm pregnant and need a pregnancy test , i know most of you are from abroad but i have no idea where to go , the pharmacies i've been to i never saw any and here u can ask yea but for someone my age and with no ...

A.   15 April 2009: i don't have anyone to ask to do it for me and i dont wan to freak him out over nothing -in case it wa nothing - i did tell him my period is late he was like im worried lets see a doc lol , you know like a little laugh but maybe he is really worried ... (read in full...)

How do I give him the go ahead without straight up telling him?

Q.   I am 18, turning 19 in a few months, and I really want to lose my virginity. My bf and I have been dating for almost two years but we've kept it pretty innocent; we're both virgins. The funny thing is, all my friends think we're sexually acti...

A.   15 April 2009: have an indoor date , start making out and stuff , take your shirt off and so on then when it starts to get heavy if he stops or holds back pull him nearer or tell him i'm ready or anything that would make it clear that it is ok ... (read in full...)

Creepy new teacher tells me I need to be a "good girl"

Q.   we have a creepy new teacher cause the original lady left on pregnancy leave. ok. now ill admit i look a little mature for my age (long bleach blonde and black hair, make-up and a Monroe piercing) but in no way was i provoking this guy. he...

A.   15 April 2009: i dont think you should go and talk to him , i think you should totally talk to someone at the school and your parents , good luck ... (read in full...)

My ex jumped straight into bed with her ex immediately after we broke up, why??

Q.   Hi.. Me and my girlfriend of 4 years broke up 2 weeks ago and ive just found out that she has been sleeping with her ex!! She was stringing me along also and giving me hope that we might get back together, but now its just out of the question. I ...

A.   15 April 2009: maybe she did get back with him - or sleep with him- cause she was really hurt and wanted comfort from a familliar person/situation .. that is kind of natural with some people .. look dont be quick to make up your mind about her being unfaithfull i ... (read in full...)

G/f would black out and wake up with guys..she can't remember what happened!

Q.   My girlfriend recently told me something that I wish she never had. She was going through a tough time, and slept with guys, then woke up with them in her bed, and didnt remember what had happened. She said this happened several times. There was ...

A.   8 April 2009: i get where u come from , my boyfriend wont give me a number either and in his case it was just sex not blacked out sex , the only thing i know you shouldnt fo is act like it is a big deal infront of her , take it easy on the subject and ask in the ... (read in full...)

My sister asked me about masturbation. What should I do?

Q.   My sister asked me "What is masterbate?" She's 11 and I was shocked at the time to I just told her "You'll find out when your older." because I couldn't think if I should tell her or not. So, what should I do, should I tell her what it is if she ...

A.   7 April 2009: i think she asked -you- for a reason , maybe she feels close to you and that she can ask you anything , that is something that i think you should keep going , not answering her would just make her ask someone else , and make a distance maybe between ... (read in full...)

When will I start?

Q.   Well, Im 13 soon to be 14. Mainly for girls to answer, but I haven't gotten my period yet and im worried that theres a reason for it. Is there? Or does it just come slower for some people?...

A.   5 April 2009: my sister got hers when she was 15 , and was irregular too ,, that isnt so uncommon but maybe u should see a doc , my sister had anemia so that was the reason maybe he would write u some vitamins that would help... (read in full...)

What impact do you think that your answers have had on someone? Is it possible that an answer on this site has changed someone's life?

Q.   My fellow aunts, I would like to know if you all ever wonder about this. What impact do you think that your answers have had on someone? Is it possible that an answer on this site has changed someone's life? I'm asking out of curiosity. I of...

A.   4 April 2009: i know that when i asked and people answered it gave me atleast a new prespective , most of the thigns people ask are stuff they cant talk to with their friends so i believe that any answer that comes from expereience would help someone ... (read in full...)

What a boring sex life!!!

Q.   I have a boyfriend and we have been having sex quite a lot within these 18 months. The problem is, every time we have sex, we are just simply kissing and caressing each other's genitals. Then, my boyfriend will be on top of me and poopps! He comes ...

A.   7 March 2009: being shy about this to lots of people is normal but obviously it is bothering you so try to find a way to open the subject again ,, maybe try and like stand up while u're making out and start taking a piece of cloths off at a time and pulling him ... (read in full...)

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