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writes:this is more a question for girls, but if one of your friends was flirting with your bf and tried to get into his bed with him, would you tell her nicely to back off or just give it to her straight? a friend of mine has recently done this and i was fuming. my bf kicked her out and when i confronted her the next day, i wasnt bitchy as i tried to control myself but i felt like i had no effect on her at all! she didnt even seem sorry and said that i didnt have to worry because they didnt do anything (saying it as if my bf doesnt care about me at all and would gladly hook up with her). she has always messed around with friends boyfriends before (and also with my ex!)and its so frustrating because she must be really thick not to know whats wrong and right by now. safe to say we're not friends anymore...
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2009): tell her subtly that she needs to back off. no true friend does this to another. dont bitch about it though. tell her nicely and tell her sharply. good luck
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reader, Shauniiee babii  +, writes (1 June 2009):
Seriouslyy? Givee it to her straightt she needs to understandd that she needs to back off!! Goshh sum peoplee are so brazenn!! Jelousy springs to mindd!!
good luch hun
s x
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2009): well just tell her to F off and leave your bf alone. you do not be subtle. tell tell her and yes, be crude.
protect what is yours and don't be ashamed to use whatever means.
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (1 June 2009):
 i was going to say what sort of friend is that?
not a friend at all.
good to get rid of her.
i mean you trust you're boyfriend right?
well at least he kicked her out and shows he respects you.
as for her well she needs to get herself her own man and stop scrounging around for other peoples.
she's going to end up sad and lonely
i mean you've tried telling her.
so tell it to her STRAIGHT maybe she'll listen this time rather than ignore it.
hope this helps.
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