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Girls, would you be attracted to an average looking guy with a nice body?

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Question - (28 May 2009) 7 Answers - (Newest, 28 May 2009)
A male United States age 36-40, *wardson10 writes:

I recently signed up to my local gym, and im looking forward to working out and getting "ripped", i dont want huge muscles but i want to be defined and have a flat chest/stomach, and strong arms.

My question is to all the girls and i want a completely honest answer please:

If you take an average looking man,with an average body that you arent neccesarily attracted to would you be more attracted to him if he was built?

I dont think im horribly looking but i dont catch many girls eyes, mostly because i have somewhat of a belly and a minor case of "manboobs", im 21 and 6'2 with blonde hair and blue eyes, my hope is that when i work out and get "defined" that it will help attract more girls, am i wrong in thinking this?

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A female reader, SugarCookie United States +, writes (28 May 2009):

If i have to judge someone on looks I tend to like the guys with a little weight but toned arms. I like someone it is comfy to cuddle with but I know could defend me with his arms if he had to.

However I am the kind of person that judges on personality. You could be stereotypically attractive and if you are mean or conceited I will find you ugly. You could also be 500 pounds and if you are a good person I will find you attractive. I am really one of those rare people that is attracted and repelled by the things that come out of your mouth and the actions that back them up.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2009):

Honestly you will attract more women and your properly look better in the face as well.

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A female reader, k_c100 United Kingdom +, writes (28 May 2009):

k_c100 agony auntWell me personally, I dont like guys that look like they have spent too long in the gym and I think a little belly on a guy can be quite cute! My normal type is a guy who is over 6ft and fairly slim, some muscle tone/definition is good but no girl wants a guy who is obsessed with his body/appearance!

You should want to work out so that you feel better about yourself, so that you have more confidence and so that you are healthier and fitter. You shouldnt be doing it for anyone else! And all girls are attracted to different types of guys, for some girls you might be just their type right now!

And remember looks are not everything, girls love a guy who knows how to treat a lady right! So dont worry too much if you think you are only "average", let your personality shine through and you will have no trouble attracting girls!

I hope this helps!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2009):

Yes, yes we would :)

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A female reader, ilovebowsandcherries United Kingdom +, writes (28 May 2009):

ilovebowsandcherries agony aunthun don't do it for girls do it for you.

i mean don't try and get a "great" figure because you want girls to look at you.

if you're not happy with what you look like then sure do something but don't do it for a silly reason because of girls.

i mean if i got to know you and i loved your personality i'd probably go for you i wouldn't care what you looked like so long as ou made me laugh and stuff

not all girls go for bodies alot of girls go for personalities and humour girls love it when guys make them laugh.

most girls who do go for like looks and great bodies are pretty shallow.

but if you don't feel happy with yourself then definately go for the gym but if you're happy with whom you are then fine just go to the gym for a bit of a work out.

but only do it for you!

don't do it for other people.

hope this helps.

x x x x

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A female reader, aphexinfinite United Kingdom +, writes (28 May 2009):

aphexinfinite agony auntno your not wrong. but dont do it because others will like you better for it do it because you want to be come more toned. and people will like you for the choices you make for yourself and not because of an image. good luck aphex xx

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A female reader, baybee-x-sparkii United Kingdom +, writes (28 May 2009):

baybee-x-sparkii agony auntNo, you will attract women quite well with that :)

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