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writes:Silly question I have to ask. Well, do guys tend to compare the sex with different partners... I mean.. having a new girlfriend would they wish she would make love as his ex? And is a virgin more appealing than some woman who has had some experience in sex?
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker  +, writes (14 September 2010):
 I've wondered that myself. I suppose it depends on the guy though. I've certainly had some men who were 'told' by their friends that I was something that they needed to experience at least once, so I assume I've been discussed!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2010): With most guys less experience is better. A full virgin can be the most appealing to lots of guys but it also carries more importance. Some guys don't want virgins just because they won't want to commit to a relationship. They know that having sex will probably mean more to the virgin than it means to them. Even when the girl says she won't take it too seriously they don't always know what they are in for. Sex carries emotional consequences that virgins don't always understand will be there beforehand. (But a lot of those same guys would still like a virgin if they were settling down for a marriage. It's not the virginity that they don't like. It's the relationship expectations that make them think twice when they just want an easy screw.)Some other guys really don't care about virginity and experience. They just want a girl who is good in the sack so they are fine with experience. These are not the majority however. Especially not the majority of guys under middle age.
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reader, Elydiese  +, writes (12 September 2010):
Ignacio ramos are you like answering a different question she asked nothing in coparison to what you wrote. Anyway i'd say some guys do some guys dont i think it depends on how comfortable they are with talking about it with their friends
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2010): Talking with my male buddies, I can say that yes, most guys not only compare lovers in their own mind, but will discuss the differences to other guys.
I do not discuss details much, like "oh, this girl gave a better blowjob than so-and-so", but in my mind I know the differences. For example, my ex would not swallow or do anal. Even a whiff of pre-cum during oral and she'd pretty much stop everything. And sucking me off after sex...with her "stuff" on me...forget it. But she gave the best head of my life and she was very loving despite her hangups. My current GF does everything, but she is rougher and not as tender and loving as my ex. Which do I crave? Probably both for their own reasons. As partners, we adapt to the plusses, and deal with the minuses.
If I would want something from my current lover that I enjoyed with a past, I would try it. If it was good, I'd keep doing it. If it wasn't, I'd do something else. We emulate teh likes of our past, but ultimately people are all different. But women do the comparison thing too. When I met my current GF, she used to like to have me pull out and come in her mouth. She also liked to suck me off at teh door, on her knees before I left. Then, after we became very committed, she stopped. Later on, when talking about her ex, I found out she did those things with him a lot. So she was emulating things she liked from before. It kinda hurt, but it makes sense.
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reader, LOSTasYOU +, writes (12 September 2010):
 Well i think that all depends on the person and their way of thinking. Remember though, the past is the past and theirs a good reason why they aren't present today. As for the other question it all depends on the man's likes and dislikes but to be honest, it really doesnt matter whether she is a virgin or has had previous sexual relations. Especially if its with someone special and who appreciates you, they'll love it either way.
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reader, Ignacio ramos +, writes (12 September 2010):
Its a crime for a 19yo woman to have sex with a 15yo boy and under the law its calld child moelestion and thats agset the law for a woman your age to have sex with a 15yo boy
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