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Do Women See Penises As Men Do Breasts?

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Question - (6 September 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 8 September 2010)
A age 26-29, anonymous writes:

When a man sees a nice pair of boobs, they usually get turned on. But when a woman sees a penis does she get turned on like a man would by boobs? I was reading a post on here earlier and a woman said she doesnt find them attractive at all. If a woman doesnt like a penis then how can she be physically attracted to men? Do they just like the feel of one instead of the sight? Are there any women here who are straight and dont like the sight of a penis?

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A female reader, Miamine United Kingdom +, writes (8 September 2010):

Miamine agony auntGreat question... mmmm.. I like the penis.. I think they are cute. But I think our women parts look more sexy and are neater to tell the truth.

The thing is babes, women don't really get as excited as men about sexual parts. We get aroused by hands, eyes, nice bums and big feet.. men on the whole don't notice these things. It doesn't make men or women wrong, we are just different. The things that turn us on and make us arroused are different too.

Yes, many women don't think the penis looks pretty, but they might like the guys pretty eyes or big muscles instead. Also, it's not the look of the penis that interests us women. We are more interested in how a man treats us, and how he uses the penis when he gets close to us or when we get naked and go to bed.

Men and women are more than their sexual parts, we find people sexy for the things they do, they things they say and the way they treat us as well.

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (8 September 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntYou know a male friend and I were discussing in general how unattractive and rather ugly genitalia looks..Don't know what we were expecting or how to even make it look any better it is what it is... I mean we're used to it because we all have one or the other. Doesn't mean you're gay, it's just that the sight of a dick just doesn't do it for you. With all that being said, my husband does it for me when he walks around with his shirt off..so I'm easily turned on. I like his dick and I'm not revolted by the appearance it's just that other things turn me on and whipping out a dick isn't one of them.

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A female reader, Gabrielle Stoker United States +, writes (6 September 2010):

Gabrielle Stoker agony auntThere's no one answer to that, because obviously not everyone reacts the same way to the same stimuli. Personally I love the sight of a shapely (not I do not say 'large'), well-maintained penis. It's a huge turn-on because it gets me thinking of how much I could enjoy it. Doesn't work for everyone though, so either way don't give it too much thought.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2010):

Don't worry about it. Not being very excited by the sight of a penis is not a big deal. It doesn't mean you are a lesbian or anything.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2010):

I do feel turned on when I see a -nice- penis (such as my fiance's ;) ).. Because a nice penis feels good. But that more goes with men feeling aroused by seeing an attractive vagina. You know its going to feel great. Breasts, on the other hand, would go more with a nice body.. Like I enjoy a nice toned body the way a guy might enjoy nicely shaped breasts. (I say shaped because a lot of guys don't like huge breasts... I have almost all guy friends and the bigger the breasts, the more they are turned off because they tend to look fake or sag or just make the body look ickk.)

But some girls don't like the appearance of penises. Some guys don't like breasts. (My man doesn't- he's a self proclaimed "ass guy".) Some guys think vaginas are ugly. People really are strange.

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A female reader, Morrissey-fan United Kingdom +, writes (6 September 2010):

It depends, it seems to me men get turned on a bit easier than women.

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