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Do women like to catch a glimpse of a man's penis or balls?

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Question - (20 October 2010) 39 Answers - (Newest, 25 October 2012)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Do women like it when men wear shortish kind of shorts and maybe you catch a glimpse of what he is packing here or there (san undies, of course). I love it when I happen to catch a glimpse up a woman's skirt, or into her shorts, or down her top to her nipples when her bikini gales at the beach or pool. I would like to return the favor - and to turn women on. Do women like seeing a man's penis or balls?

In the alternative, I also love to see a woman with "camel toe". Do women likewise get hot seeing "moose knuckles" if you know what I mean?

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A female reader, Summerfuninpa United States +, writes (25 October 2012):

If you allow any part of your junk to be visible you're a creeper!

I don't want to see a strangers junk!

However I do check out bulge. I find it hot if a guy is in loose fitting jeans and you can make out the outline of a soft one. Seeing the outline of a strangers hard on is creepy. Causing your man to sport a hard on in public can be fun but it should be covered! I think most women want to leave it to their imagination

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2010):

Okay so most people here have said no, but me begin honest, yeah... I like it when I'm at the pool and a man is wearing those tight spedos... And even when i'd be giving my boyfriend a wank or head, I do take a look... It's only fair that we get to see the man bits, so if you do want to return the favour you can upload pictures :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2010):

I hate it when men adjust their balls - espically when in a meeting. It is disgusting! Then I have to shake these bloody pigs hands -very professional indeed!!!!!

Men in 'tight' garment that reveal their bulge is an eye sore. Very embarressing, I get very very very pissed . That package is best kept under wraps.

I don't know whether the women here will agree but it is mostly the unattractive ones who want to show off their 'assets'.

LoveGirl

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A female reader, spacexoddity United Kingdom +, writes (24 October 2010):

Sorry, but no. Most women can't think of anything more unattractive!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2010):

Hello,

N' how old are we?? Most woman would find it most unappealing to see your package, unwrapped underneath anything you are wearing in public. We could care less and would find you rather to be very conceited, n just plain gross, like a perv giving a peep show. You would probably get the police called on you if you really pushed the issue and made it kinda obvious.......YUCK, keep yourself covered so we need not be poking out our eye balls when we see you coming!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2010):

Uh, NO! Have you ever wondered why women don't comment "nice penis and balls? re: men???!!! Nice eyes, butt, smile, physique, YES!

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A female reader, jgflakes United Kingdom +, writes (22 October 2010):

Mate?! A Penis is not pretty and I have to tell you nobody wants to see the last chicken in the shop look in public.

I am with my partner now for 5 years and I dont even find his penis good looking.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2010):

lol, funny how guys feel like they won the lottery when they catch a nip-slip but woman gag at the sight of our junk

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A male reader, heartfullalove Ireland + , writes (21 October 2010):

heartfullalove agony auntNOOOO! You want to request the menu before you're shown it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2010):

Yes, I love seeing a stranger's penis, it makes me just want to suck it, and whenever I see a guy in tight shorts, so that the seams separate his balls, I get all itchy and I can't stop thinking about them and hoping he'll take them out for me ... what are you, some kind of freak?

No!! Quite a few women here seem to enjoy the thought of turning on their BOYFRIENDS in public, and seeing a bit of a bulge in their BOYFRIEND's pants, and I admit that's a bit of a turn on for me ... but only because he's my boyfriend and there's a deep emotional attachment, i.e. it's not just seedy. Also, he'd never wear those horrible shorts, THAT would not be sexy.

I'd HATE to see a stranger's genitals, in public or anywhere else. Because if you think about it, penises are kind of disgusting. They're dangly and veiny and seep disgusting substances out the end, and balls are just saggy and hairy and nasty ... why would I get turned on if some perverted freak showed me that? What, you think I'd be all 'Oh baby, I want it in me right now'? No way. Yes, I enjoy sex with my boyfriend, but again with the emotional attachment. I wouldn't if it was just sex.

Also ... what's with the camel toe? You seem really turned on at the thought of clothes that just don't fit right.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (21 October 2010):

eyeswideopen agony auntI love that show, SS!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2010):

A resounding NO! Guess I'd better not go as Lt. Dangle for Halloween!

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (21 October 2010):

eyeswideopen agony auntI've got to put in my two cents...no...especially old man junk. This question makes me kinda throw up in my mouth.

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A female reader, dmartin89 United Kingdom +, writes (21 October 2010):

dmartin89 agony auntNO NO NO NO NO!! Yuck!!

For fashions sake, men shouldent wear short any shorter than just abovve the knee.

I don't want to see some other guys bits, it makes me feel sick when I see guys in speedos or too tight trousers.

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A female reader, Honeygirl South Africa +, writes (21 October 2010):

Honeygirl agony auntDefintely not!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2010):

I'm going to have to stamp a huge no on this question.

That's not the way to meet a woman but it is the perfect way to scare off every woman in a ten foot radius.

If I caught a guy trying to look up my skirt, I would immediately label him as a perve and either slap him, yell at him, or both. You are probably embarrassing or creeping out a lot of women by staring at them when they have clothing "malfunctions."

I like making my boyfriend have a hard on in public because to me, it's sexy. Catching a glimpse of an outline of HIS penis, is great. However, notice I said outline only not the actual thing.

I would not like it if his junk was showing for any other woman to see nor would I like seeing a stranger's junk. If there's no attraction emotionally then I'm not interested in seeing your junk unless I'm looking at porn online. I don't want it forced onto me in public. That's neither the time nor the place.

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy + , writes (21 October 2010):

CindyCares agony aunt I am already turned off by a crime against style like "shortish" shorts- imagine by the unrequested exhibition of their content. Totally crass.

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A female reader, soconfusedhelp United States +, writes (21 October 2010):

soconfusedhelp agony auntEW NO

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A female reader, smiliek Australia +, writes (21 October 2010):

smiliek agony auntewww hell no. I feel embarrassed as hell if i realise that my clothing isn't sitting right and someone could glimpse something. If i saw someone looking (as it sounds you do) i'd more likely slap you then feel good because of it. And i'd rather see an attractive man dressed well then his bits hanging out or him wearing pants that are far too tight. Yuck

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A female reader, Gabrielle Stoker United States +, writes (21 October 2010):

Gabrielle Stoker agony auntThere are few things in the world I like more than the delicious sight of a man's 'goods', but only IN THE RIGHT CIRCUMSTANCES. When it's forced on me through an indecent article of clothing or otherwise, it gives off the impression of a disturbed individual. A pleasant smile goes further than a sneak preview.

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A female reader, Aunty BimBim Australia + , writes (21 October 2010):

Aunty BimBim agony auntSomehow I don't think these are quite the answers that were being sought .... a nice smile will get you way further than any glimpse or full on view of a man's dangly bits!!

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (21 October 2010):

The Realist agony auntI want to add that it's not about the man's junk as it is for men looking at women. What you want to show off is some muscles or a good smile. I think the women would agree that would far more attractive coming from a stranger then his junk out in the open.

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A female reader, Nime United States +, writes (21 October 2010):

Nime agony auntNo, definitely not. If a man was allowing any part of his groin to be visible in public I'd think he was perverted and possibly disturbed. I'm sure many women would consider it sexual harassment.

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A female reader, Philosophyzer United States +, writes (21 October 2010):

Philosophyzer agony auntWell, here is a woman who actually LOVES the sight of a naked man. In the right circumstances, I love seeing a bulge in my boyfriend's pants or shorts. I also love seeing all of him. However, I WOULD NOT enjoy seeing a glimpse of a stranger's junk. Sometimes a slight bulge in some great slacks that fit nicely around the ass is great, but not a raging hard on in public... lol In public, MUCH less is more.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2010):

Ewwwwww ewwwwww please no. Keep your junk hidden.

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (21 October 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntNow are you talking about when a man wears those shorty running shorts, that I swear up and down that I can see balls swinging? Those men usually run in my neighborhood, when I'm driving I almost wreck because it's like watching a train wreck..horrifying.

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A female reader, followtheblackrabbit Cayman Islands +, writes (21 October 2010):

followtheblackrabbit agony auntUgh...for me personally, it's not hot :/ A stranger's jingle bells *shudders* just doesn't do it for me. No matter how attractive the man. Some women though check out the rear and love seeing men in beautiful tailored pants or well-fitting jeans. I think women prefer more mystery, nothing too in-your-face :p

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A female reader, jujubelover United States +, writes (21 October 2010):

jujubelover agony auntI agree with all of ladies, YUCK! Girls definitely do not like seeing any part of a guy peeking out of anywhere, it's more of a turn off. I don't know why, but seeing a toned guy with jeans and no shirt is more of turn on than a naked guy. We are not like guys, we like guys when they are dressed nicely; in a tux, nice suit or just dressed up a bit. In my opinion less in not best! So please don't do it....ever!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2010):

Absolutely not! It takes a lot more than a glance at some flesh to turn a woman on. In fact, you would more than likely receive the exact opposite reaction from what you were hoping for.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2010):

I know it's not something I'd like to see.

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A female reader, DanceInTheDark Canada +, writes (21 October 2010):

DanceInTheDark agony auntDear god, for the sake of society, don't.

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A male reader, slimfish New Zealand +, writes (21 October 2010):

slimfish agony auntyou sound like a real wanker to me.

there seen to be lots of guys like you that hang around pools and beaches, causing all sorts of trouble.

its attention seeking, and may get you a criminal record.

at your age you should know whats right and wrong, but then i suspect you know that already.

get help fast.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2010):

Never ever do that please!!!!!!!!!

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A female reader, DenimandLace44 United States +, writes (21 October 2010):

DenimandLace44 agony auntNo...NO...NO...No way!

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A female reader, mystiquek United States + , writes (21 October 2010):

mystiquek agony auntNo, not in the least. It seems like the man is screaming for attention, and quite frankly, its just plain yuk. If I seen something like this out in public, my first reaction would be "God, what a pervert". Women as a whole aren't turned on by the physical sight of a naked man the way guys get turned on by naked women. We're just made differently.

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A female reader, Just Saying United States +, writes (21 October 2010):

Just Saying agony auntNot really... a man showing his goodies to women is not attractive at all, infact most women would get disgusted or offended. Just don't do it....

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A female reader, xanthic United States +, writes (21 October 2010):

xanthic agony auntDefinitely not, it comes across as a pathetic attempt to get attention when done purposely (and believe me, we can tell when it's done on purpose). Even if it's not, it's still not something I'd want to see.

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A female reader, Aunty BimBim Australia + , writes (21 October 2010):

Aunty BimBim agony auntyech

no!

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States + , writes (21 October 2010):

Tisha-1 agony auntIt doesn't turn me on. Well, if it was Brad Pitt.... maaaayyybbeee. But most guys, um, no, it's just kind of exhibitionistic and honestly, doesn't do anything for me. In fact, if the guy is overweight or unattractive, it is really kind of yucky to have to look at the dangly bits too. It becomes a bit pathetic, honestly.

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