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How often should I swallow cum?

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Question - (20 October 2010) 13 Answers - (Newest, 24 October 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *lorida Simmons writes:

Me and my boyfriend like to do sex everynight.I really enjoy to give him a blowjob.He tells me to swallow his semen.I don't like swallowing.Is it harmful for body?Is it helpful?How many times in a week should i swallow cum?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2010):

we all do things we don't necessarily like. But I would say don't do it unless he is doing something for you. If he does something he doesn't necessarily like, but does it for you, then maybe you should consider it.

And it does make the whole experience better from the male perspective if you do swallow. Can't really explain it but for guys, it gives us a sense of, "yeah, she did it." Makes us know you really are willing to do anything to make us happy.

That being said, different people might disagree, but those sort of things should be left to your husband? I know this day in age no one waits for marriage to have sex, but where do you draw the line? Shouldn't there be at least a couple of first time experiences left for the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with?

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A female reader, birdynumnums Canada +, writes (23 October 2010):

birdynumnums agony auntI thought you could grow a baby in your stomach that way...

;^D

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2010):

If you don't like the taste, get him to cum further down your throat. It will not be as bad.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (20 October 2010):

Honeypie agony auntSemen can't harm you, but really if you don't WANT/LIKE to swallow then don't. Sex is not MAGICALLY better for a guy because you swallow.

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (20 October 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntI agree blow jobs are fun but swallowing is something I don't enjoy. Tried it once and about gagged, last time I did it. So I'm a spitter but not necessarily a quitter because I'm still giving blow jobs.

Don't knock it till you try it, then decide from there if you like it or not. Then tell your boyfriend your preference..he doesn't like it, too bad. There are girls out there who don't give blow jobs because they hate it. So he had better thank his lucky stars he has one that does.

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A female reader, petina1 United Kingdom +, writes (20 October 2010):

petina1 agony auntI say to my hubby of 36 yrs, You swallow a glassful, then i will. Needless to say it's never happened. It hasn't ruined the relationship because he loves me. Don't do anything at all that you don't want to do. Hope this helps.

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A male reader, Odds United States +, writes (20 October 2010):

Odds agony auntIt can't hurt you, and even if it could, he can't possibly produce enough, fast enough to do so.

In fact, semen contains a cocktail (ha!) of hormones that will give you energy and act as a natural anti-depressant. If he can improve the taste by eating a diet with lots of fruit (pineapple works really well) and oysters, you can both benefit.

So, when you do choose to swallow, enjoy it, it's healthy!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2010):

If you REALLY want me to answer that question, I would say you should swallow at least 297 times a week :) But then, I am a bit biased, as that is my absolute favorite thing sexually.

Seriously though, he should not be "telling" you to do ANYTHING you do not want to do. You are kind enough to give him oral and like it. If you do not like to swallow...don't. It doesn't mean you don't love him. I was in a 20 year relationship with zero swallowing allowed. I loved her dearly. I am in a relationship now with EXTREME amounts of swallowing. On a few occasions, over 6 times a day. Trust me...she is VERY happy and perfectly fine. She even said her skin tone improved and became more youthful and translucent. And I am on cloud nine. Nothing to harm you, but only if you like it.

Now if you excuse me, I have to take a protein supplement and eat a BIG leafy salad with a side of pineapple ;)

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A female reader, Honeygirl South Africa +, writes (20 October 2010):

Honeygirl agony auntAs often as you like - if you dont feel like it one evening - well then dont!

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A female reader, Gabrielle Stoker United States + , writes (20 October 2010):

Gabrielle Stoker agony auntYou can swallow it as often as you like without any harm (unless of course you're allergic or something). I've been swallowed quite a lot of sperm over the years with no negative effects (only positive, if consistent good health counts).

The important phrase is "as often as you like", though. If you don't like it, you should not be forced to do it. There are certain foods known to improve the taste though, including non-citric fruits and leafy vegetables.

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A female reader, xanthic United States +, writes (20 October 2010):

xanthic agony auntIt's not harmful, but if you don't want to do it, simply don't do it. It's your body and your choice, not his, and he should be glad you're giving him oral in the first place.

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A male reader, ivanichiaynus United Kingdom +, writes (20 October 2010):

 ivanichiaynus agony auntYou could always get him to improve the taste - eating fresh fruit and vegetables, limited red meat and drinking pineapple juice will all help.

You will not harm yourself by swallowing semen, however frequently you do it.

Ivan.

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A male reader, Ven United States +, writes (20 October 2010):

It really doesn't matter. Semen is going to hit your stomach and be little more than 1-2 grams of protein in your diet.

But if you don't like to swallow then you shouldn't be doing it. You treat him well, and he treats you well. It's great that you are willing to do that for him, but he needs to meet you halfway on that and not pressure you to do it.

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