Virgos and Pisces?
Q. why do they say Virgo and Pisces are not compatible? Im a Pisces who has the Virgo rising so I'm half Virgo and half Pisces.Im very picky and anti germ freak like a Virgo.but sometimes i can be clutter but most of the time im clean.i day dream a ...
A. 27 April 2010: Don't get hung up on zodiac signs and base your entire life/relationships around them. That's just silly. See te person not their sign and remember some people (regardless of their sign) will be a good fit for you, and some will not. It has to do ... (read in full...)
Virgos and Pisces?
Q. why do they say Virgo and Pisces are not compatible? Im a Pisces who has the Virgo rising so I'm half Virgo and half Pisces.Im very picky and anti germ freak like a Virgo.but sometimes i can be clutter but most of the time im clean.i day dream a ...
A. 27 April 2010: Don't get hung up on zodiac signs and base your entire life/relationships around them. That's just silly. See te person not their sign and remember some people (regardless of their sign) will be a good fit for you, and some will not. It has to do ... (read in full...)
Help with a hairy chin
Q. Hi...I need some advice. I recently just discovered that I am growing hairs on my chin!!!!! I keep plucking them, but its really beginning to freak me out and I am petrified that my boyfriend will see them and leave me. Is this normal? or is th...
A. 27 April 2010: Yes it's perfectly normal, as is hair on your upper lip, much to our horror. Hair grows where it grows despite our cultural rejecton of it. That's why they invented products like Nair and that little facial buffer. The buffer works okay you just ... (read in full...)
Did he break up with me because his feelings were too strong?
Q. Is it possible to have a guy have such strong feelings for you, that they dont know what to do with them and they end up just running away from it all? Especially when this person feels like they always need to be the tough guy and it's hard for...
A. 12 April 2010: Oh yeah, that makes perfect sense. And he probably didn't ask you out because he didn't know what to wear. And he didn't call because he got ran over by a truck as he was crossing the street, with cell phone in hand, and he's lying in a hospital ... (read in full...)
If I end it will I have made the biggest mistake ever?
Q. I have been with my boyfirend for 3 years. We have lived together for 2. He proposed 2 months ago. I accepted. I was initially excited. Not now. I feel very emotionaly vunerable.Im dealing with other issues, Idont know if I dont love him or am g...
A. 8 April 2010: Post-pone the wedding. You can remain engaged indefinately until you sort out your own head.... (read in full...)
I'm addicted to a brutal type of pornography drawings. How will my girlfriend react?
Q. If I have an addiction to pornography involving drawings of young girls being killed, then...when should I tell my girlfriend, and what response might she have? ...
A. 8 April 2010: You may need help/therapy. This is not normal to me and I'd run from you immediately if I was your g/f.... (read in full...)
My co-workers have stopped talking to me and I don't know why!
Q. I have a question it about my job. It been over two month now when it all started. Out of no where my co-workers stop talking to me it bothered me at first. I had no idea what was going on so I send them an email asking whats going on, that I don't ...
A. 8 April 2010: You didn't say how long you've worked with them. It could be a number of things. Maybe they heard a rumor that you got a raise and they didn't. Maybe they're jealous about the way you look, who you are dating, the life you live. Maybe they feel you ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a married, straight woman to get turned on by 'guy on guy' porn?
Q. I've recently become aware that I am incredibly turned on by pornography involving two men, most specifically pornography involving mutual hand-jobs and blow-jobs. I'm am a married straight woman. This isn't something that I can share with my hu...
A. 8 April 2010: Yes its normal.... (read in full...)
I made a deal with my husband's dad to marry his son, what if my husband finds out???
Q. I am a 24 year old married woman. I have a husband who will insist on getting up at 2:00 in the morning to go to Walgreen's because I have the sniffles. I get love letters and flowers, and get so much sex that you wouldn't believe me if I told you ...
A. 8 April 2010: Why in the world would you agree to this arrangement? You were already a married woman, so there should not have ever been a deal to begin with, regardless of your dad's financial woes. To make a deal like this, indicates your Dad has no respect for ... (read in full...)
Choosing between two important men in my life!
Q. There are two important men in my life, how do i know which to choose to be with? One of them are my childrens dad and the other is a rebound relationship, and im ingadged to the rebound guy and he does things i dont approve of all the time and my ...
A. 8 April 2010: Do you really have to pick one of them? Out of this whole, big world could there possibly be a Bachelor #3 in your future? Someone you've yet to meet. I think so. Rebound relationships never amount to much. Ex-relationships are always a bad idea, ... (read in full...)
My ex offered me a cruise. Do I take even though he's hoping we get back together?
Q. Since breaking up from my ex I have had feelings of relieve mainly because we no longer live together. After the dust had settled we have remained platonic and by choice are still not dating anyone else. My dilemma is whilst there are still raw emot...
A. 8 April 2010: I think it would be a disaster for you to go and will send him some kind of hope, that you want to get back together. Surely he can invite a friend or family member to go with him instead. I think it would be awkward and just make things more muddy ... (read in full...)
Caught my husband on a swinging site and don't know what to do.
Q. Last month I discovered on my partners computer whilst he was at work that he had joined a swinging site upset and confussed i decided to join myself to view his profile once i found him I became heartbroken as his relationship status was single and ...
A. 8 April 2010: You mind as well tell him the jig is up and put all the cards on the table. Your marriage has been a bit of a lie in my opinion because he has another side to himself you didn't know about until now. You may love him but you're actually in love ... (read in full...)
He works 24/7 and either he's going to die or our marriage will!
Q. My husband is workaholic in denial. It slowly destroyed our marriage, what was 25 year long so far. His absence was causing lots of pain,and created a dysfunctional unhappy family..No, I'm not blaming everything on him,but I always tried to fix t...
A. 8 April 2010: I am guessing he's always been a work-aholic, you were just busy raising the kids so you didn't notice, or had your hands full enough, it wasn't so much of a problem. I don't think you're going to change him, only he can do that and he's showing no ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend gives more love and attention to the dog than to me!
Q. My BF of 12 yrs and I have not had sex for about 2 years. We have been in/out of counseling and are currently seeing a new counselor for one last chance to salvage our relationship. I am 57, divorcedX2, and he is 63, divorcedX3. I am aware of an...
A. 8 April 2010: Sadly he is only focusing on the fact that you are aging while failing to acknowledge his own advanced age. I suspect he is in denial about his own remorse and therefore cannot find comfort or attraction with you. It is true that some people, ... (read in full...)
Does she mean this as a friend only?
Q. Does these comments that agirl im chatting to online mean ive entered the friend zone? or do girls look for these qualitys in a potential partner. "You're so perceptive and sensitive and funny." I'm a bit confused as to what you Ladys look f...
A. 8 April 2010: Every girl is different. I look for a guy who has some humor, preferrably dry. I think most women are attracted to a man who is comfortable in his own skin, notices them but doesn't become a doormat to them. Don't be afraid to talk about yourself; ... (read in full...)
Feeling guilt over leaving!
Q. I have been with my loving partner for three years now. The problem is i still have this guilt that i cannot seem to get over. I was married for eighteen years and my ex husband was a good provider, he was verbally abusive towards me, not interest...
A. 8 April 2010: You broke a dysfunctional home. Quit beating yourself up. Kids are resiliant when they feel loved. Do you love them? Then quit acting like this. Allow your partner to come around and live a normal life in front of them. If you quit behaving like a ... (read in full...)
Any advice as I am hurting my husband but I just can't force myself to participate.
Q. My husband has a child from a previous relationship. The mother of the child is very protective of him and really does not like to let him out of her sight. He is her only child. The child stays with my husband alternate weekends. when the child is ...
A. 29 March 2010: Pardon my bluntness, but honey you are letting this b**tch to exactly what she wants and you are giving in to her verbal demands. She's putting a wedge between you and your husband and enjoying every moment of her maniuplation over you! Stop being ... (read in full...)
Feeling guilt over leaving!
Q. I have been with my loving partner for three years now. The problem is i still have this guilt that i cannot seem to get over. I was married for eighteen years and my ex husband was a good provider, he was verbally abusive towards me, not interest...
A. 29 March 2010: You need to pick a home and stay there. If you don't love your husband, then for God sakes, don't go back there. Your kids will adjust. Once the divorce is over with, they may just love the partner you found, as much as you do. They can come and ... (read in full...)
Can people change?
Q. My husband had a 3 year affair with his niece who was 15 when it started. He was 30. He says she initiated it and that he was to far in to get out, he said she threatened him with suicide if he left her. He was raped by family members as a young ...
A. 29 March 2010: It's perfectly okay to give him another chance, and a bit admirable I must say. Will he change? Maybe. But to be safe, I wouldn't hire any cute 15-year old baby-sitters, or house-keepers or leave him alone with any other young women if you want him ... (read in full...)
What am I doing wrong to not lose the pounds?
Q. ok so recently me and my sis have joined the gym! were both the same dress(16) but Im a bit taller and weigh 20kg more than her! Whenever we go to the gym she also does everything at the bare minium and always ends up sitting down or just asking can ...
A. 23 March 2010: How do you know she's losing more? Do you see what the numbers are when she steps onto the scales? Does she eat the same foods you do? Because you mention that you both extercise the same (actually you do more) but you don't compare your dietary ... (read in full...)
I'm a pupil and I can't deal with my teachers backstabbing me...
Q. hi im a fifteen year old girl, and recently i found out that some teachers have been talking about me. im a fairly good student, a bit loud i admit, but nothing too bad. however, my friend's mum works in the school office, and the other day she over...
A. 23 March 2010: Well, if you really think they said these things and you value their opinion of you, then maybe it's a wake up sign. Maybe it is time to step back and look at yourself the way other see you and make some changes. It doesn't mean you have to be ... (read in full...)
Astrology!
Q. hello I would like to ask what do people think of astrology did anyone read some predictions of his horoscope and it really happened! please give me your experience...
A. 23 March 2010: I wouldn't put much faith in them. Sometimes there may be some parallels but they're so vague, and could actually apply to anyone. For instance. Have a trusted friend pick a different horoscope and read it to you every day without you knowing it's ... (read in full...)
He's married, could he be interested?
Q. I'm not interested in getting with a married man, but I am wondering what his behavior means so that I know how to act accordingly (if its friendliness, I'll continue to be friendly, if its interest, I'll know to show him that I'm not going to be ...
A. 26 February 2010: For someone who claims to NOT want to become involved with a married man, you're spending w-a-y too much time thinking and obsessing about his every move, every comment, every glance in your direction. I think if you really aren't toying with the ... (read in full...)
How do I get my parents to like my boyfriend?
Q. Ok guys so I just got back together with my boyfriend and my mom who said that she would support me in any decision that I make is not really happy about it. She hasn't really liked him since the first time I brought him home. Since she did not ...
A. 9 February 2010: There's probably nothing you can do to change her mind. She simply thinks you should have higher standards. Maybe you're too close to the situation to see it through her eyes. Perhaps you could do better. I mean do you really see yourself with this ... (read in full...)
Why do guys confuse women all the time! Come on guys, let me know your thoughts
Q. I am so very much confused. I am in a relationship that is not the greatest and hasnt been for such a long time now. Recently i have been talking to my partners brother a lot as i lean on him a lot for emotional support and he knows this, this has ...
A. 2 February 2010: I think it's possible the brother has developed feelings for you and this is going to continue to be weird and problematic for your relationship. Would you be better off to simply date the brother? He may be a better match for you, unfortunately ... (read in full...)
Is it possible for facial herpes to be passed to the genital region?
Q. Is it possible for facial herpes to be passed to the genital region?...
A. 2 February 2010: YES.... (read in full...)
How can I let her see texting her ex is hurting our relationship?
Q. lingering ex bf this girl I am dating tells me she isn't talking to her ex. I notice her texting someone who I am certain is her ex bf while we hang out but when I ask he about her relationship with him she tells me she doesn't talk to him. wh...
A. 2 February 2010: Well if you didn't actually check her phone, she may not have been texting her ex. So you may be jumping to conclusions. I'm not advising you to snoop through her phone, because if you find something you don't like, how do you tell her without ... (read in full...)
My partner keeps changing his mind about commitment.
Q. My partner keeps changing his mind about commitment. We have been seeing each other for 7 months and have both got a child each. We live over an hour from each other but manage to spend most weekends together and a couple of nights in the week. We ...
A. 1 February 2010: He sounds really flighty and immature. But the relationship is new. If he still acts like this by year 1 or more he's probably not going to change.... (read in full...)
I need christian advice about living together.
Q. I need the christian advice. I have been dating "Ted" for 6 months now and he is a wonderful man. He is so important and special to me. Due to the economy a couple of months ago, his business failed and he needed to find somewhere to live. Due to ...
A. 1 February 2010: I think it's interesting that he didn't feel guilty about having sex with you BEFORE you guys entered into this living arrangement together, because I think most Christians would say that was your first no-no. Have either of you talked about getting ... (read in full...)
How do I get my parents to like my boyfriend?
Q. Ok guys so I just got back together with my boyfriend and my mom who said that she would support me in any decision that I make is not really happy about it. She hasn't really liked him since the first time I brought him home. Since she did not ...
A. 1 February 2010: First of all do you have any idea why she doesn't like him?...This would be the first thing you need to figure out (if you don't already know) and then depending on the reasons she gives you, we will be able to answer your question better.... (read in full...)
How do I win my wife back and keep our little family together?
Q. i just recently found out that my wife is having an affair. this is a guy she worked with 10 years ago. he now lives in las vegas. i over heard her tell him that she loves him. we live in va. they were together last weekend when she was supposed to ...
A. 1 February 2010: The only way to win her back is if she wants her marriage to work out. Otherwise it's a lost cause. But given what you've told us, tell her the same, and suggest marital counseling. She may go, just to talk to someone neutral about her feelings and ... (read in full...)
Is he still emotionally attached to his past life?
Q. my boyfriend and I (been together for 1.5 yrs) were watching a sad movie last week and while watching it he was typing on his laptop. I looked over at one point and he was clearly crying, which he denied. I just wrote it off like it was maybe the ...
A. 1 February 2010: He is definately not over his past relationship/marriage. Some people take longer to move on after a break up. I mean, how long ago did the marriage dissolve and how soon did the two of you start seeing each other in relation to his divorce? These ... (read in full...)
Is there ANY hope for us in the future?
Q. My boyfriend and I of 4 years have been in turmoil for the past 3 months. We had gotten into a large fight back in Nov, things where said that wheren't meant. He said the most horrible thing a man could say to a woman he was to be in love with and ...
A. 1 February 2010: Regardless of what you want, it seems pretty apparent that he does not want to be in the relationship anymore. Take a good look at what was going on between you in the months prior to this blow up, and you may discover signs that you previously ... (read in full...)
Is marriage REALLY that important?
Q. My fiancee and I have been together for over 16 years now (since we were 11 and 12) and engaged for eleven years. We have two children (2 and 4 with another on the way). Up until quite recently, I had no intention of ever setting a wedding date. ...
A. 1 February 2010: I suppose not, but alot of people are kind of traditional about stuff like that. Also if something were to happen to you, and you do not have both your names on your house, property, cars and bank accounts, she may find herself in a most difficult ... (read in full...)
I admit being OTT about hubby talking to another woman, but he says I am nasty and vindictive!
Q. I have recently got married for the third time. My new husband speaks daily with a woman we both know and I asked him to stop. He told me that I was trying to censor him, nothing is going on and that he won't stop contact with her as there is no ...
A. 1 February 2010: Or your husband is simply "keeping his options open" and not truly committed to his marriage. That's what it tells me. I think you should move forward with a divorce and watch how quickly they suddenly become a couple.... (read in full...)
My wife is being very secretive
Q. My wife and I have been married for 7 years and we have 3 children. My wife is on facebook and has a lot of guy friends on there and she will not except me as a friend I ask what are u hiding and she says nothing I talk to my girlfriends she has ...
A. 1 February 2010: Yes you should be concerned. She is cheating, at least emotionally if not sexually and trust me it will lead to more over time. She must be bored or unhappy at home. Her behavior is not that of a happily married woman. Insist in couples therapy and ... (read in full...)
Hubby wants the cake and to eat it too!
Q. My husband, out of the blue (after 14 years of a good marriage and a 10 year old child)started having a secret affair with his married colleague. They managed to hide it for nearly an year during which i accidentally discovered and confronted him ...
A. 1 February 2010: Go see a lawyer and file for divorce! Take the house, and the kids; he can go rent a dumpy apartment and see his kids when the courts say he can. You should not feel guilty or settle for the current arrangements. ... (read in full...)
I admit being OTT about hubby talking to another woman, but he says I am nasty and vindictive!
Q. I have recently got married for the third time. My new husband speaks daily with a woman we both know and I asked him to stop. He told me that I was trying to censor him, nothing is going on and that he won't stop contact with her as there is no ...
A. 1 February 2010: So why does he insist on keeping in contact with her if there is nothing going on, and no plans to allow anything to go on later? I am wondering if she was in the picture before the marriage? If so you should've dealt with it before you said your ... (read in full...)
I got my sis to speak to my wife about sending money to another man. Now she says I can thank my sis for her dirvorcing me.
Q. Hi everyone...im in alot of confusion and disbelief... ok so on monday the 26th my wife used my credit card to send money to some guy names Ivan...so i texted my 2 of my sisters and asked them to ask her what was going on cause i tried texting ...
A. 1 February 2010: I think she's using your sister as an excuse to end a marriage she was probably contemplating ending in the first place. What I'm wondering is why was she sending money to this man? Did she ever explain that one to you? Regardless of what your ... (read in full...)
Never thought I'd fall for a married man...super confused here!
Q. I never thought I'd fall for a married man! I didn't intend for things to get so heavy.I work in the same building and see him everyday..he just told me he wants to end our affair of only 1 month. Yet on the weekend he texts me and sends me pics of ...
A. 31 January 2010: He's already said he cannot continue seeing you. If he texts you on a week-end, delete it and don't respond. Make him stick to his word because you are always going to be on this see-saw of emotional suicide if you continue to be the "other woman". ... (read in full...)
He accuses me of cheating everytime I go overseas! What can I do?
Q. I have a seven years old relationship with a gentleman who is accusing me of being unfaithful to him everytime i travelled overseas. I went overseas three times since we are together and he thinks i am having sexual intercourse with guys in those ...
A. 31 January 2010: I suspect he is the one having sex when he is overseas, and he assumes you are doing the same. Plus if he shifts the focus off himself, he doesn't have to see his own unfaithfulness. Perhaps your vagina feels differently than the women he was ... (read in full...)
Given his ex is on the scene should I even be considering marriage?
Q. My fiance continues to talk with his ex. I believe it is her that initiates the contact. I've read his emails to find this out. She says things like, I miss you more than ever and I miss you so much I could puke. It has been 3 years since they hav...
A. 31 January 2010: He needs to chose. You or her. If he chooses you, and obviously seems to since you are engaged to him, then he MUST tell her that he is engaged to someone else and to stop contacting him immediately. Then sit back and see if he does. If their ... (read in full...)
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