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writes:i met some afew weeks ago and met up with them on friday i really like him before but i was with someone at the time we spoke on MSN and he said that he would c how it went if i wernt with my bf in the end in dumped my boyfriend and that was wen i met up with this lad we kissed and he showed a real interest in me he said he would text but never did and now im hearing that he is saying im a psyco please tell me what that is all about i need a male point of viewthanks
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reader, anon_e_mouse +, writes (5 March 2008):
 Sounds like you rushed it a bit ditching the bf, meeting up with this other guy you've been messaging, and then going for the kiss. Perhaps there are trust issues there already? Personally, I would be cautious in his shoes to be honest as you did ditch the bf for him and it could well be him next time round (from his point of view).
You were simply in a relationship with your bf you no longer wanted to be with, got in touch with this other guy and and rushed into his arms (after ending it). This happens all the time and certainly doesn't make you a pyscho...
Either you said or did something that led him to come to that conclusion, or he's heard it from somewhere else - do you have any "mutual" friends? Does he know your ex? Or perhaps someone else from your past? Or it could be him that's the pyscho.
I take it you guys talked - what about? When you met up was it just the two of you? What did you do? There must be a reason.
Thinking about it what does it really matter anyhow? He's obviously not interested judging by what you say so get out there, have fun and you'll meet someone when you least expect it :)
Best of luck!
Have to agree with others here there has to be more to the story than this. People don't call other people a pyscho and "run for the hills" for no reason.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (4 March 2008):
 Your behaviour is like someone with a nut or wire loose in the head.
Your actions are viewed as abnormal. What ever you did I don't know.
Maybe you ex may have a part in this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2008): Just exactly how old are you? If a bloke called me a psycho then i would run like hell in the opposite direction and tell him to get stuffed. You dont deserve this and shouldnt put up with it, unless you have been stalking him or something just as bad. Forget about him and move on.
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reader, deejuliet  +, writes (4 March 2008):
 I think we need some more information. There must have been something that triggered the 'psycho' title! You dont have a lovely evening together and everything is nice and sweet and then start yelling 'psycho!' Some bit of conversation? Did you seem to demanding of him? Want a commitment right away? Say nasty things about your ex? Express some wierd sex desires? There had to be something that the two of you are seeing from differant perspectives here. Or maybe he is the one that is 'psycho'.
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