Why do I smell 'down there'?
Q. Why do I smell weirdly down "there"? Is this normal for me (I'm a 13 yr old girl who has already got her period)? If it's not normal what should I do? Help?? ...
A. 15 December 2009: in that case it sounds like you are perfectly normal; every woman has that slight discharge. If you really find that the staining of underwear is a problem for you, then buy the DISCREET ultra thin panty liners. They are as thick as a single piece ... (read in full...)
He stood me up - how should I act next time I see him?
Q. I was introduced to a guy 6 weeks ago by mutual friends who said he'd been asking them to set us up for ages but warned me he was really busy with work and may not be free that often (that had been the reason his last girlfiend dumped him). From ...
A. 14 December 2009: you dont have a real relationship yet so just brush it off, like oh I got busy too its ok. But dont sit around waiting for him, get busy with your own life. Ask yourself if you can have a relationship where you get no attention. Only us oldies can ... (read in full...)
I found a video of my girlfriend and her ex having sex and now I cant get it out of my head!
Q. i have been going out with this 24 years old girl from foreign country for 6 months now. she got 8 years old daughter which she gave birth during her young and innocent age. then she leave her country to my coutry and work in pub as a PR and never ...
A. 14 December 2009: I completely agree that your woman should not have deceived you about this. You have to now make a decision whether you are willing to fix things with her. As a person who already has children she is bound to have experienced a lot of things ... (read in full...)
Why do I smell 'down there'?
Q. Why do I smell weirdly down "there"? Is this normal for me (I'm a 13 yr old girl who has already got her period)? If it's not normal what should I do? Help?? ...
A. 14 December 2009: also make sure you havent forgotten a tampon inside since your last period... (read in full...)
Please help!!! How can I tell her how I feel about her without scaring her off?
Q. hi! I am Ali and lookin for help for my problems so can you help me? Plz! ok!! So i'm 13 and am in love with a girl but i am very shy. I am overweight and have a medium height. I always get nervous whenever she passes me nearby, i think she also ...
A. 13 December 2009: Hi Ali
You cannot go up to a girl and just ask her to be your girlfriend. Girls dont really like that. You have to talk about other stuff with her first. For example, you could go up to her and just tell her you really think the sweater she is wear... (read in full...)
My boyfriend got another girl pregnant but when I confront him he's denying it!!!
Q. I recently found out my boyfriend has another girlfriend that's pregnant and he told me its not what i think. I really like him, and im like falling apart without him. He called me the other day becuase he didnt know i knew about it. Then aft...
A. 13 December 2009: It all depends on whether the girl got pregnant before you or after you had started seeing him.
just send him a text saying people make mistakes and if he comes clean with you then you can work with him but if he doesnt then you will never forg... (read in full...)
He doesn't seem as "into me" any more! Is this down to his illness?
Q. My boyfriend of a month and a half is Bipolar II. For the first month he was attentive, romantic, physical and completely into me. He mentioned love before I did and couldn't wait to see me. Now he has become less physical and affectionate and seems ...
A. 13 December 2009: That is the dilemma with Bipolar/ Manic Depressive sufferers. They have periods of extreme happiness then periods of gloom and it can be hard on those who love them. You need to find out if he is taking his meds which will give him a more even, ... (read in full...)
This girl I am seeing is a maniac! I need to be rid of her..help!!
Q. i am with a girl since a year now. it was great but now she has started dominating me big time. always suspects me of cheating on her. she HAS to check my phone every time. she WANTS all my passwords(email, facebook, bank accounts etc). she doesn't ...
A. 13 December 2009: it looks like you are addicted to the craziness. Just record her threatening you then keep it in a safe place as a back up if you ever get locked up... (read in full...)
What's the best thing to do to cheer myself up after hearing this news?
Q. I'm in a horrible mood, I just found out that my gf slept with some guy while she was really drunk (we were on a break at the time but she told me she wouldn't sleep with anyone). We took a break b/c she is in Europe studying abroad and hasn't ...
A. 13 December 2009: I would be interested to know if YOU were also not sleeping with anyone during the break. About your mood; there is nothing anybody can do or say that will make it better. The first week is the hardest then after that it gets more and more ... (read in full...)
How can I make my cup runneth over?
Q. 24 F i want to increase my cupsize presently it should be 30 now i need it 36 how it can be possible pls sugest....
A. 13 December 2009: The number (32) is the measurement around under your breasts. The cup size is a letter (A,B C D). For example if you are very small breasted you might be 32A. Dolly Parton would be a 34FF. An average not overweight woman with medium breasts ... (read in full...)
My wife and I both had affairs but she won't forgive me for mine
Q. After many months of hell, and my wife's affair, my suspected affair, myself and my wife decided to give it another go. She has been honest with all that has happenned, so I decided to confirm to her the affair I had that she suspected. She's gone ...
A. 13 December 2009: This is how women work: if she confronts you about something and you come clean immediately, you may get hell for a few days but you will be forgiven. If you however, deny deny deny, putting her through an emotional hell roller coaster, it is ... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing by breaking up with him?
Q. okay so i have been dating this guy for 3 months now. and everything was going great he treated me better than any other guy ever has. but a couple days ago people kept coming up to me and telling me that my boyfriend was planning on breaking up ...
A. 13 December 2009: I agree with everyone and to add: make sure he sees you smiling and happy and moving on with your life. Dont let him see you walking around with puffy eyes your head down and stuff. All he will think is "she's pathetic I'm glad its over". Move on ... (read in full...)
Does my boss I fancy know that I was snooping on his facebook profile?
Q. Okay so I have been view my bosses facebook page (not on company computer). His photo, music, profile were open. (I have not ask him to be facebook friends do to the fact he is my boss but I am curious about him) A couple of days after I viewed ...
A. 13 December 2009: If you were logged in to your FB then he knows because FB will send him a "people you might know" list from those who visited his profile... (read in full...)
I just have to get this off my chest .................
Q. this one is quite long...sorry. ill start from the begining. i am in a long term reationship and after about 1year and a half, things werent soo great, lots of arguments, etc and he really didnt pay me any attention ant more. i really loved him but ...
A. 13 December 2009: The work guy is the type they call "assassin". There are there to pick up vulnerable women so they can offer them false comfort in exchange for sex. They target women in relationships because they enjoy the thrill of stealing forbidden fruit. But ... (read in full...)
If I follow my career dream it means another three years apart
Q. Hi My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now. We met when we were both working abroad over the summer, and when the summer ended we decided to keep things going even though he lives in Holland and myself in England. With the help...
A. 13 December 2009: I am going to give you practical advice and will get shot down by a few unrealistic people but here goes: your boyfriend is an heir to possibly a decent company? You already have a first degree. If I were you, I would join the Open University or ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wished his ex happy birthday on facebook but ignored mine!
Q. Things have been going amazingly well recently between me and my boyfriend. But I recently saw something which really upset me and got me thinking. This year, despite the fact that we text/call each other every day, my boyfriend didn't wish me a ...
A. 13 December 2009: It sounds like he is still in love with her. You should not put up with this. If he wants you then he should stop contacting her. About the photos, just take them!!!! Then wait and see if he dares to ask for them. Ask him to stop being each ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a baby and spends time with the baby Mama!
Q. Hi, I been with my boyfriend for close to 3yrs there is a big age difference between us but I love him very much. Anyway about 1yr ago he cheated on me and got another woman pregnant that hurted my soul because although I'm older then he is it still ...
A. 13 December 2009: if he is phoning her for things that have nothing to do with the baby then you are right to be upset. I think she is trying to get him back so you and your man need to both tell her together that she should only call about the baby. Don't turn it ... (read in full...)
My pregnant partner doesn't want sex but my libido is high!
Q. hi there, so my delema is this, i met this beautiful girl and she was pregnant, the father was waaay out of the picture, and i could not help but fall for this girl. she had a beutiful baby boy, whom is my world, and see him as my own, he is now 5 ...
A. 13 December 2009: pregnancy is a time when many women are hot for sex. In your girls case, maybe she is tired from caring for the baby as well as the pregnancy. It takes a huge toll on your body to be pregnant this quick after the first. I recommend that she starts ... (read in full...)
I want to encourage my wife to have more sex!
Q. i am very interested in sex, talking about sex, trying different things .... my wife too enjoys it a lot. but not always. she gets into mood only once in a while. actually there were occasions where she was over powering me, this happens only som...
A. 13 December 2009: Have you tried telling her that you want more?! If you are open enough to let her sleep with your brother then surely you should be able to just say what you want. The key is to say it with love and sexiness, not in an ugly demanding way. If you ... (read in full...)
I think two staff members at my school are having an affair
Q. I think that 2 people at my high school are having an affair. The thing is, their not students. I think he knows I know as well. Lets call my principal 'Street' and my vice principal 'Watson'. Street is the macho principal. Watson, is the woman who ...
A. 13 December 2009: I think you and your friends should stay out of it. These are adults who know what they are doing and its totally their business. Ofcourse at your age its fun to gossip about it and stuff, but what would not be funny would be if you tried to ... (read in full...)
I have heard rumours my 15 yo boyfriend is gay, and I am a girl!
Q. Hey, im 14 and my boyfriends 15. i'm worried about his sexuality and i'm not sure if its just rumors starting to sink in or if he really is. don't get me wrong he is really sweet and very funny but sometimes he sends off signals. when we first ...
A. 13 December 2009: don't pressure him about it. Make him your friend and confide in him a little so that he feels you can be trusted. Then let him know you would be ok with it if he was bisexual. After a little while he will open up and admit whatever he is. Then ... (read in full...)
Your average sized guy...
Q. How are us average sized guys meant to reconcile the fact that the average sized girl can take more than 50% volume of dick that we have? Our goal is to give maximum sexual pleasure, and in almost all cases, bigger is better (up to a point) (don...
A. 13 December 2009: Huh??? WTF are you talking about?!
The only difference between a guy with a big dick and a guy with a small one is.... wait for it.... CONFIDENCE! If you ever heard a girl say she prefers big dicks, she is talking about the confidence the guy has.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a baby and spends time with the baby Mama!
Q. Hi, I been with my boyfriend for close to 3yrs there is a big age difference between us but I love him very much. Anyway about 1yr ago he cheated on me and got another woman pregnant that hurted my soul because although I'm older then he is it still ...
A. 13 December 2009: If he is your genuine partner, I would ask him to meet me half way and let me be present at some of the visits. That way, you know for sure that they are no longer together. I know its hard to even think of being in the same room as her, but if ... (read in full...)
This girl I am seeing is a maniac! I need to be rid of her..help!!
Q. i am with a girl since a year now. it was great but now she has started dominating me big time. always suspects me of cheating on her. she HAS to check my phone every time. she WANTS all my passwords(email, facebook, bank accounts etc). she doesn't ...
A. 13 December 2009: I would use my cellphone to record her making the rape threats and admitting they false. Once you have her on tape, then save it on your PC or somewhere safe. Then break up with her and tell her you are going to the police or to her father with ... (read in full...)
He's no longer my professor, so should I pursue a relationship with him?
Q. Okay, I'm a student in college, and this semester I got to know a professor who offered to help me with another professor's class, because I was having difficulty understanding the material on my own. Over the course of the semester, I went to this ...
A. 13 December 2009: he is obviously interested in you. If you are over 18 then you can consider having a relationship with him after you have consulted your "code of conduct" manual. You need to be sure this is not forbidden because you could get him fired for ... (read in full...)
My Dad's gf is threatening to leave him and I don't want her to! What should I do?
Q. This is really hard for me so here it goes. Well I feel as if my dad and his fianceé are always arguing. Today I did not mean to but I heard what they were saying and she(we will call her Alli) is crying. They were arguing and Alli was talking about ...
A. 13 December 2009: Since you are close to her, why don't you talk to her first and tell her that you couldn't help overhearing their fight. Tell her how much you love her and don't want her to go. Ask her to try work things out and go for counseling.
Then sepa... (read in full...)
I feel my daughter is being left out - what do I do?
Q. My daughter is in fifth grade and is one of four girls. Two are very cliquish and are practically glued together. Buddying up with the other one is not an option as the other girl is more interested in fitting in with the two who are very ...
A. 13 December 2009: You are completely wrong to approach another mother to organize a friend for your child. As a mother of three I understand how it feels to have your child have friend problems. When my children were that age and younger, they would whine to me "so ... (read in full...)
Everything is a mess! Dad threatened my boyfriend and I haven't heard anything from him since.
Q. [Mod: Stated age incorrect poster is 15] hey im 15 and my ex is 17 We broke up because my dad caught him round mine when he wasnt aloud(We wernt doing anything just sitting there chatting) and my dad phoned his mum up and started shouting at ...
A. 12 December 2009: If he won't talk to you then just let it go. You phoning 20 times will just make you less attractive. Your dad scared him off and he has probably been getting stress from his parents too. I think he is also embarassed by his scaredy cat run off ... (read in full...)
I never should have let her go and now I want her back
Q. My girlfriend and I of 4 years recently separated. In June of this year I decided I wanted to marry her. I was sure. She was the only woman in the world for me. I was so close that I sat down to buy the ring, but they didn't have the diamond I ...
A. 12 December 2009: "Rhythmn and blues" has given away all our secrets!!! Well I guess you are our patient here, not your girlfriend. As a girl who has used this method I must say that R&B is spot on. You have to cut all this desperate behaviour immediately. She ... (read in full...)
I am getting all the communications from his friends, but little from him!
Q. Please someone give me some advice. I have been dating a man for about 6 months now. He has constantly been in my face telling me he loves me and I will be his wife. Well, I didn't say anything to him about this but a really good friend of his ...
A. 12 December 2009: Totally back off for a couple of weeks and give him space. If you betray his friends by using their statements in your fight, they are often the ones who influence his decisions so don't make them fight or you will be enemy number one to the whole ... (read in full...)
I had never found my wife physically attractive so I left her for a woman I am attracted to
Q. This is something I am really struggling with at the moment and am in desperate need of some advice. A couple of months ago, I announced to my wife of 2 years (been together seven years in total) that I didn't want to be with her anymore. The re...
A. 12 December 2009: If you are not happy with someone, nobody can convince you otherwise. But you have behaved like a gigantic asshole by telling her she has never been physically attractive to you. You should never have said that because you have totally destroyed ... (read in full...)
My partner appeared in an adult movie to get money to support her and our baby!
Q. Hi, I have come across that my current girlfriend was recently in an adult film. we weren't together at the time, but we have a child together, i am 22, we had our daughter when we were 20 we were together for 1 year prior to the baby's birth. We...
A. 12 December 2009: I don't think the custody judge will be very sympathetic to your case if you used this issue to try take the child. The judge will want to know why you abandoned your pregnant partner and left her to fend for herself. You make it seem like you were ... (read in full...)
I want to talk girl talk with my mother, but she doesn't know how!
Q. I need help everybody! I have communication problems with my mother, I want to talk to her about some "girls' things" but I can't, she never had "the talk" that every mother has to have with her daughter; So I really want her to understand that I ...
A. 12 December 2009: The best way is to write her a letter detailing what you have just posted. Try use a loving tone not an angry tone. But be as honest as you can. Tell her in the letter that if I don't hear from you by such and such a date then I will know you are ... (read in full...)
I have to initiate all physical contact, and even then he sometimes wont respond!
Q. Hi. My boyfriend is 3 years older than me, and we've been together for just 4 months? Thing is, he really loves me, as I can feel it. We hold hands and stuff. But, when it comes to hugging or kissing, he doesn't really like to do it in the public ...
A. 12 December 2009: I also don't like PDA's (public displays of affection). It is something that comes from your upbringing and that is just the way it is. I come from a conservative family and never saw my parents or anyone in my community handling each other in ... (read in full...)
I would blow my friends off for him,,but wont blow his off for me
Q. Hiiya, i really need your help. Im so confused and upset. There is this boy.. We are in the same year at school and same year. we have about 8 lessons together a week, that is out of 25. We have been pretty close for about 2 years now... but there...
A. 12 December 2009: Most boys his age act this way. They lack confidence to leave the pack until they are about 21. Whereas girls leave the pack and only have 2 or 3 friends by the time they are in their senior year. Also, maybe he just doesn't want people in his ... (read in full...)
My ex hacks into my computer and has sent nude pics of me to my dad
Q. Disaster. My ex will hack this and read this as usual but still want advice. He went mental because I got a new boyfriend so he hacked my email and sent a naked picture of me to my dad. What do I do? He said he deleted the pictures but he's ju...
A. 12 December 2009: Go to your mum and tell her that your female friend took a picture of you when you two were playing around, then pretended to send it to your dad to scare you as a joke. Tell her she pressed send by mistake. Do it now before your dad sees it. It ... (read in full...)
A guy I like wants to get to know me before he decides if he wants to go out with me
Q. this guy i like and he likes me says: he likes me and does as far as it goes.. he wants to get to know me and decide.. he doesn't wanna lie to me.. wtf? is he talking about?/ what does he really mean?? should i forget about him?? t...
A. 12 December 2009: huh? I don't understand what you don't understand.... He wants you to be friends with him before the two of you get into a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, like he said. He does not want to be your official boyfriend until he has spent sometime ... (read in full...)
I'm nearly sweet sixteen and he is twenty ...
Q. So I just met this guy about a month ago through a couple of my good girl-friends. He is really nice and is so sweet to me, which some guys aren't because Im kinda overweight. I really like him and I don't know how to show that I do without being ...
A. 12 December 2009: Since you are not yet 16, take a while to get to know him; he can go to jail if anything happens between you when you are under 16. Just continue to be yourself, relaxed, friendly and not desperate. Because of the age gap, I would definitely not ... (read in full...)
We broke up and he has a new girl, but he knows I am still in love with him
Q. me and my ex broke up almost a year ago, and since then have remained really good friends, he told me that if i changed my attitude and was the girl he fell in love with again i would be hard to resist, we talk all the time (i live with him, for ...
A. 12 December 2009: Ok dear. I agree with the other replies; especially the douche bag one. But this is my advice on how to deal with it: so far you have been very sweet to him; very predictable and stuff. You now need to be different and think outside the box so ... (read in full...)
I know a relationship with him cant be good, but my feelings are still strong
Q. I know I really should have learned my lesson by now, but I've been involved in a really strange off and on relationship for almost two years now. I want this to end badly. I'm a really laid back girl. I don't like to argue, no trust issues, I'm ...
A. 12 December 2009: You need to get out more. Start dating someone else just for friendship and to also show yourself that you can do better. Start with online dating or something where you can start chatting to other guys. Confide I. Your friends. I remember I used ... (read in full...)
Why are some guys only interested in sex, I am losing faith in love
Q. why do some guys.. make you think HE REALLY LIKES YOU..but he just wants sex... when you DO GIVE in he never calls you again.. and if u DON'T GIVE in he doesn't call and changes his number?? why are all they looking for one night stands?? ...
A. 12 December 2009: Try on line dating. That way, you form a relationship by talking first. Also put it in your profile so that only guys who want to respect you will contact you. There are plenty of good men out there. And technology has made it easier to meet them!... (read in full...)
I don't know if I am being paranoid, or if there is a problem!
Q. I am currently seeing a married man who had separated from the wife before we met. He told me the truth from the start and we had a beautiful friendship. My gut at the time told me to give him a chance, after all, he was the sweetest guy I had met ...
A. 12 December 2009: My dear, its very obvious that he is cheating on you... I don't even know why you stayed with him after he abandoned you at the airport. He just doesn't know how to tell you he wants to break up so he is doing shit to piss you off. This is my ... (read in full...)
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