Are these gifts a little strange?
Q. If I get turned on when my wife wears leggings, and I get her a couple pair of leggings from Victoria's Secret, along with a sleep shirt to wear with each, do you think she might find this kind of strange? Our sex life is not so great, needs ...
A. 17 December 2009: You are a very smart man, taking the initiative to spice things up. Women love to be desired, its a huge compliment so I think she would love it. Also look at www.bodystocking.net for more ideas for next time!... (read in full...)
Have your period after sex and be pregnant?
Q. ok,so me and my Boyfriend had sex bout 2 and a half weeks ago,I was on my period then and i still had it after about 2 or 3 days after, I Don't have Any signs i Just Need to know if its possible to have your Period after you have sex and still be...
A. 17 December 2009: It is 95% unlikely that you could get pregnant during your period. You normally release an egg about 2 weeks after your period and the conditions in the womb have to be ideal for a fertilised egg to implant itself. When you have a period, your ... (read in full...)
Have your period after sex and be pregnant?
Q. ok,so me and my Boyfriend had sex bout 2 and a half weeks ago,I was on my period then and i still had it after about 2 or 3 days after, I Don't have Any signs i Just Need to know if its possible to have your Period after you have sex and still be...
A. 17 December 2009: It is 95% unlikely that you could get pregnant during your period. You normally release an egg about 2 weeks after your period and the conditions in the womb have to be ideal for a fertilised egg to implant itself. When you have a period, your ... (read in full...)
When I try to involve him in the plans for our wedding he gets mad and says whatever you want!
Q. Im 27 i have been with my fiancee for almost 9 yrs. we are engaged to be married in april of 2010. i am a stay at home mom he works. but i just cant get him really interested In our wedding plans. i am doing it alone and its to much on me i have our ...
A. 17 December 2009: Maybe the few times you have asked his opinion you have disregarded it anyway and continued to make your own decision and he is fed up because he knows you will do your own thing anyway. Rather than asking for input in every little thing, why don't ... (read in full...)
So much differenece and so much alike!
Q. Okay I have a big problem. Like a year ago I start going out with a man youngest than me,exactly half of my age. We did have so much good time and we still have it but I know we cant stay together for long because I just don't want nobody in my ...
A. 17 December 2009: If it is only his age that is a problem for you, then you are making a mistake. There is nothing wrong with dating a guy who is 25; you are getting your groove back, so why cant you just enjoy the experience? Ofcourse if you are fed up with him for ... (read in full...)
Cheated in a long distance relationship... can I forgive her???
Q. I am in a long distance relationship with a woman in another country for 3.5 years now. She is 26 now. We love each other very much and our sex is so good that it is almost unbelievable. To my huge dissapointment, after 6 months into our ...
A. 17 December 2009: Since you are so convinced that she has stopped turning tricks and it was nothing but an accident, perhaps you should give her another chance. Its unlikely that she will do this again very soon. But as a person who lives in the a third world ... (read in full...)
I am having second thoughts about my up coming wedding
Q. I've been in a relationship with my fiance' for 5 years now. We have a 3 year old son together who has major health problems, he has already undergone 5 open heart surgeries. My fiance' and I are getting married in March 2010 but I'm really having ...
A. 17 December 2009: Maybe you can ask for a postponement to give you time to work on the issues you have? You have been through a tough time but if you enter into an unhappy marriage you will negatively affect your son even more... He can still see his dad even ... (read in full...)
Cheated in a long distance relationship... can I forgive her???
Q. I am in a long distance relationship with a woman in another country for 3.5 years now. She is 26 now. We love each other very much and our sex is so good that it is almost unbelievable. To my huge dissapointment, after 6 months into our ...
A. 16 December 2009: It sounds like you are being thoroughly manipulated. As an escort, manipulation is de riguer; to make whichever man she is with think he is the best she's ever had and you have fallen for it. She is a professional so can you ever really trust what ... (read in full...)
What is the least painful sexual position for a virgin?
Q. Im 14, and me and my bf are ready for sex for the first time, im kinda scared though, whats the easiest/ least painful position for first timers?...
A. 16 December 2009: You will regret having sex so young. Think about it. If you go ahead and do it anyway, use condoms. And dont forget to come back here a few weeks from now to warn other young girls how much you regretted it. They all come back here these little ... (read in full...)
I'm a born again Christian. How to prevent the relationship while keeping the friendship?
Q. My name is Jerusalem, i'm 24 born again christain and i am not allowed to be in a realtionship and i met this gay his very nice person, he is realy nice to me. when we met I told him that i can't be in a relationship because i realy want to be a ...
A. 16 December 2009: I'm a bit lost here... Do you think Mary and Joseph were just friends? Which church is this that says having a boyfriend is against the word of God? All you have to do to stick to the Word is avoid sex before marriage. Kissing and holding hands is ... (read in full...)
We are happy, our mothers are happy but what will the wife say when she finds out?
Q. Had a wonderful friend in high school, I knew he was in love with me but I just wanted to be friends, 4 years after graduation he comes back into my life,by then I am a young single mother to a 1 year old son and he said he would be honored if I ...
A. 16 December 2009: You are old enough to know that men will lie to get what they want. How do you know his wife cheated? Wait, let me guess, he told you himself?!?! And how do you know his mother is ecstatic that he wants to dump his wife and mother of his kids for a ... (read in full...)
We both had affairs but she is so angry with me, I don't want to lose her!
Q. My wife is so angry about the affair that i had and the affair that she had, one minute she is calm and confident, the next she is so angry towards me, telling me to leave her alone. I dont want to lose her what can i do?, what should i say? Please ...
A. 16 December 2009: I don't know what else you would like us to tell you, except that you just have to remain contrite and let her rant without fighting her back. For you to keep reposting it must be really tough to deal with. Just take your punishment and maybe ... (read in full...)
Am I wrong for not wanting my 22 year old daugther to bring boys home?
Q. Im a 49 year old divorcee and have a boyfriend. We get on well and my 22 year-old daughter also accepts him. My daughter never has a boyfriend until recently she starts asking a boy at work out for a drink. She said they are just friends he is ...
A. 16 December 2009: It sounds like tou are worried she is having sex in your house and letting her bring boys means you are enabling it? Let her bring boys to the house but tell her she cannot have sex in your house. But the reality is that at 22 she is probably doing ... (read in full...)
I need advice for a manipulative and rude mother in law.
Q. This is what happened recently My husbands father came to stay with us after he got out of jail for not paying child support (it was from my ( husband and my BIL who are both grown) this man never works, smokes pot all day, and hadn't seen my ...
A. 16 December 2009: Your mother in law is not the real problem, your husband is. Just like you would defend your husband if any member of your family cussed him out, so should your husband defend you. This woman obviously struggled with her sons probably worked hard ... (read in full...)
After 12 years of friendship I have been dumped because God told him I wasnt the right woman
Q. Today wasn't really a good day my boyfriend and I broke up a couple days ago and this is really hurting becaus him and I have been friend for almost 12 years so Ialready loved him well u see he's started getting into church but in the process he ...
A. 16 December 2009: You often see this kind of fanaticism and radicalism in new converts of every religion. Later as they see that their expectations are not being met they tone it down or give up all together. You may well have to help him pick up the pieces when the ... (read in full...)
How much does appearance affect overall attractiveness?
Q. The basics are simple, I'm a little over 300 lbs(mostly fat), I'm a virgin, and I'm 25 years old. I've been losing weight rapidly, lost 25 lbs in 2 months and continuing to lose for my own self esteem. My question is, do girls judge a gu...
A. 16 December 2009: How girls will judge you depends on how you judge them too. If you met a 300lb girl would you date her? If the answer is yes then you can probably date any girl if you are confident, charming, sweet, fun, showered and smelling fresh etc. Women do ... (read in full...)
Am I correct in thinking he used his son as an excuse to cancel our wedding?
Q. My boyfriend asked me to marry him a few weeks after his son left for Afghanistan for 1 year. Two days before our wedding he told me we had to wait for another year. He could not get married without his son being present. I was in total shock ...
A. 16 December 2009: He was completely insensitive, and there were probably other issues, but his son excuse might be plausible. He loves his son who has gone to this terrible war zone. So his priorities may have shifted from his own happiness to wishing for his son to ... (read in full...)
Who gets custody of our child before we go to court?
Q. me and my wife of 5 years are splitting up. we have a 1 year old child. who has rights of the childs custody till we go to custody court? I live in indiana ...
A. 16 December 2009: The child usually stays with the person who has been providing most of the care (babysitting/feeding/bathing/changing) and usually also with the person who is in the family home. At such a tender age its usually the mother, but we don't know your ... (read in full...)
Coin flip time, which girl will win me, A or B?
Q. 2 girls... girl A i have liked for a long time(5years), but she was in a relationship which has been broken off which she has a kid from, which is 1 year old.the father is a loser who doesnt help out and who there is constantly problems with. S...
A. 16 December 2009: Girl A will be better in a relationship because she will work harder at the relationship since she has failed before and will want to do it right this time, if you can learn to accept the kid. The child is innocent and should not stop you from ... (read in full...)
Women's feelings about "needing time"
Q. i cant really make this clear, because im not seeking a clear answer, i just want a generalization from female members, what are reasons for a girl telling a man she wants time to work on herself? I ask because ive recently had a neighbor with whom ...
A. 15 December 2009: She wants him to propose and she is tired of waiting; pure and simple.... (read in full...)
When husband is angry he completely shuts down
Q. When my husband is angry/upset (at me or otherwise) he completly shuts down. He doesn't want to talk, and he lets all of his responsibilites go by the wayside and seems to deal with it by sleeping. I try to leave him alone (as I have learned, the ...
A. 15 December 2009: This is childish behaviour. You must not tolerate it. How did he resolve problems before you were married? Did he give you the silent treatment? Maybe give him a taste of his own medicine when he is in a good mood then you shut down, don't cook ... (read in full...)
Period ended 2 weeks ago but I found some blood today!
Q. I finished my last period between 1 and 2 weeks ago but today i found a little blood in my knickers? Is this normal?...
A. 15 December 2009: Sometimes when you are ovulating, about 2 weeks after your period you might get a little bleeding. All sorts of irregularities take place during your first few years on your periods and usually only stabilize when you are about 18. My daughter (14) ... (read in full...)
I'm scared my family will disown me if I marry my bf.
Q. hi, i'm 25 years old muslim girl. i'm currently in a 5-year relationship with the man of my dreams, he is african and a christian. he treats me with respect, i have never met a man who is as driven, understanding, supportive and kind as he is. and ...
A. 15 December 2009: If he loves you then he will have to convert in name only. It happens all the time. At the end of the day it I'd the same God of Abraham/Ibrahim, Isaac/Isak and Jacob/Yakub. It is just that one group believes that Issa/Jesus was a prophet and the ... (read in full...)
I can't lose weight no matter what I do!
Q. I'm wondering why I can't lose weight no matter what I do. I've changed the way I eat and I exercise regularly, however, I haven't lost a pound. I vary my workouts so that I've been eating super healthy: oatmeal, salads with no dressing, little ...
A. 15 December 2009: what are your workouts like? How much weight/cardio. I started a workout program of 30min cardio (stepper/treadmill/cycle/walking) five days a week, 1 hour weights 3 times a week in April 2009. Diet similar to yours. After the first month I had ... (read in full...)
I have only one ball!
Q. Hi, im a 17 year old guy still in school im a virgin and my dick was 6" last time i checked maybe 5 months ago but thats not my problem my problem is i only have one ball in my sack nd i can feel the other one to the left right above my dick nd this ...
A. 15 December 2009: I suggest that you don't try yanking your ball down yourself; you might damage some delicate nerves and tubes. Go to your doctor. Usually this problem is picked up when you are still small but it might have been overlooked. Undescended testicles ... (read in full...)
I texted my wife's sister and she's no longer talking to me!
Q. i have this sexually fantasy of doing it with my wife's only and youngest sister. she's not pretty. dark, thin, small breasted and all but i am really turned on when i think of having sex with her. i texted her anonymously but she's very bright she ...
A. 15 December 2009: WTF did you think she was going to say to her sister's husband?! I suggest you send a txt and say "I am very sorry, I wasn't thinking and I'm a stupid idiot. It will never happen again". Then let it go. If I didn't get an apology I would ... (read in full...)
Husband has no time for family
Q. My husband and I have been married over 20 years. He has never been very affectionate. But, my previous relationship was too affectionate, so I thought this was what I wanted. Anyway, he has never shown me a lot of attention, but lately it is ...
A. 15 December 2009: I am assuming you have already told him how you feel? If so and he does not change his behaviour, let him come home one day and find you gone without letting him know where you are. Disappear for a full 48 hours, just leave a note that says "I'm so ... (read in full...)
What is the best way for my friend to deal with this situation?
Q. My friend met this person a year and half ago and thought she had found her soul mate. He told her he felt the same. But at the same time he told her they could never be socially together because he comes from a Bangladeshi rural family and he is...
A. 15 December 2009: In order to not be ostracized and rejected by his family he will definitely need to marry a young single woman and bear children. If he had been married before and this was a second marriage for him, then the family would be ok with it. He has to ... (read in full...)
16 year old has diapers?
Q. I am a mom of 2 girls, 16 and 13. I was cleaning there rooms while they were at school and found a pack of open adult diapers in the 16 years olds room. I have no idea why they are in there and really am concerned about what to do. Should I talk to ...
A. 15 December 2009: it could just be for a prank or a school play. We also found diapers and baby food in my brother's room years ago and it was left over props for some class sketch. The only way to be sure is to ask her and tell her if she doesnt want to discuss it ... (read in full...)
Why do I get these bad feelings in my tummy just before something bad is going to happen?
Q. I am having bad feelings in my belly it hurts then something bad happens like once i was out and my tummy was hurting and then i got a call and my loved one died can someone please answer this it will help me a lot thank you very much xx...
A. 15 December 2009: Maybe your gut feelings/premonitions mean you have some sort of psychic powers! Google how to know if you have psychic abilities... (read in full...)
What am I supposed to learn from my affair and failed marriage?
Q. I had the affair first, im still trying to understand why. I pushed my wife away then she had an affair. I have lied and cheated, i have been egotistical and controlling. I have hurt my wife and my young children. I have destroyed everything that i ...
A. 15 December 2009: The lesson is "love the one you are with". The grass always looks greener on the other side but once you cross over there are nothing but weeds. Try to continue to be there for your wife as a friend, calling her just to chat, coming over with ... (read in full...)
In love with a dj
Q. there is this popular radio station in my city and i have been chatting with one of its well know dj for 4 years via emails,we became very good friend we know almost everything about each other. we call and text but when have never met and wh...
A. 15 December 2009: You are in love with the fantasy and so is he. You can only know after you meet him. Why dont you meet him and then you will know for sure. SA DJs' are so promiscuous because they have celebrity status and have women throwing themselves at them ... (read in full...)
Will my dependency on sex workers affect any future relationships with women?
Q. I'm worried that my dependancy on sex workers might one day make it impossible for me to be in a real relationship with a woman I see strippers about 2x a week and visit prostitutes 3-4x a month. i also call sex phone lines or watch pornogra...
A. 15 December 2009: My advice is that you start researching on sex addiction or just try google "sex addict anonymous". This type of life has already affected your ability to make normal relationships but I really think you can be helped by a 12 step program. So try ... (read in full...)
Are these normal customs in Switzerland or am I being taken for a fool?
Q. Hi Thanks all of your time. Dear All I with my BF have been together around 2 years. We are stay together about 2 years, He is a Swiss guy (from Switzerland), and I am Asian girl (Chinese). We were break up with 2 month+ ago. I was confused and...
A. 15 December 2009: This behaviour is not normal ANYWHERE in the world. He is treating you BADLY. He is LYING to you. You need a NEW man to treat you better. Dont give him your money. Just tell him its over.... (read in full...)
Am I crazy to be consumed by the idea of having a threesome with my husband and another man?
Q. My husband and I have been happily married for 20 yrs. Recently I have had fantasies about having a threesome with him and one of his friends. I mentioned this to him and he loved the idea and asked which friend? It doesn't matter to me as long as ...
A. 15 December 2009: Maybe you have been looking at porn with 3somes involved? Have you done this before for him? Do you also know that your husband will be expecting you to reciprocate with one of your friends? How comfortable will you feel if he asks you to ... (read in full...)
Why do I smell 'down there'?
Q. Why do I smell weirdly down "there"? Is this normal for me (I'm a 13 yr old girl who has already got her period)? If it's not normal what should I do? Help?? ...
A. 15 December 2009: in that case it sounds like you are perfectly normal; every woman has that slight discharge. If you really find that the staining of underwear is a problem for you, then buy the DISCREET ultra thin panty liners. They are as thick as a single piece ... (read in full...)
I cannot get a boyfriend and don't know why...
Q. Hello.I am a 19 year old girl. My problem is I might never find a boyfriend. I dated this guy once but we were 12 and were just kids. Our idea of gf and bf were occasional hugs and love letters. He gave me my first kiss. actually my friend matched ...
A. 14 December 2009: Groom yourself, do your hair really pretty and take care of your skin by wearing sunscreen even in the shade, your dressing and your general appearance (eyebrows, nails, everything). Go and get those free make overs at the Edgars MAC counters ... (read in full...)
Pregnant and alone again...Should I abort? will I have regrets?
Q. I'm pregnant and very depressed. Its very hard for anyone to understand what I'm going through. I already have a 17 year old son which I raised alone which was damn hard and now I'm pregnant again and I'm alone again. I'm starting all over again ...
A. 14 December 2009: Its all about weighing your options, do you have a job and a home? I hear health care and child care are very good in Canada. At your age you may also never have another chance at having a child.
Just write up a list of the good reasons to abor... (read in full...)
I'm worried I could end up marrying the wrong person! Should I accept him or let him go?
Q. I've been with my fiance a year now, he proposed to me 8mths ago, but since then he's been going off and on. for no reasons he'll start avoiding me later he'll come back and beg me. Last 2 month he came to my house i saw him off, when he got home...
A. 14 December 2009: I think you are making a mistake if you marry him. He is unreliable as your boyfriend and this will get worse when you marry him. Move on before its too late. Try and get that book "he's just not that in to you". I think he has other women because ... (read in full...)
Have you given into the "what if??"
Q. So I've posted quite recently in the past couple of weeks about my boyfriend who was using an internet dating site and if I should break up with him. I ended up breaking up with him but I really want to take him back. I'm so confused and don...
A. 14 December 2009: give him one more chance but make it clear that this is the last time. Then let it go. Dont bring it up every time you think back. ... (read in full...)
He stood me up - how should I act next time I see him?
Q. I was introduced to a guy 6 weeks ago by mutual friends who said he'd been asking them to set us up for ages but warned me he was really busy with work and may not be free that often (that had been the reason his last girlfiend dumped him). From ...
A. 14 December 2009: you dont have a real relationship yet so just brush it off, like oh I got busy too its ok. But dont sit around waiting for him, get busy with your own life. Ask yourself if you can have a relationship where you get no attention. Only us oldies can ... (read in full...)
Why do I smell 'down there'?
Q. Why do I smell weirdly down "there"? Is this normal for me (I'm a 13 yr old girl who has already got her period)? If it's not normal what should I do? Help?? ...
A. 14 December 2009: also make sure you havent forgotten a tampon inside since your last period... (read in full...)
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