My boyfriend says my vagina is too loose!
Q. I've been sexually active with my boyfriend (I also lost my virginity to him) for about a year and a half now. A few days ago I played with my PC muscles when he was inside me and he said it feels wonderful, and then proceeded to tell me that it was ...
A. 6 January 2010: Try telling law enforcement that you are old enough, because your boyfriend could actually go to jail for statutory rape for having sex with a child. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says my vagina is too loose!
Q. I've been sexually active with my boyfriend (I also lost my virginity to him) for about a year and a half now. A few days ago I played with my PC muscles when he was inside me and he said it feels wonderful, and then proceeded to tell me that it was ...
A. 5 January 2010: He is being manipulative and talking BS. He is just trying to make you insecure about yourself. Maybe next time you could tell him that his dic feels smaller and see how he likes it.... (read in full...)
I want no strings sex - but only with him!
Q. Ok so here's the situation. I am recently seperated from my husband, and started talking to this guy at work. He told me he had a girlfriend. So i chalked it up to harmless flirting. After a while the flirting became more serious. I know that him ...
A. 5 January 2010: You say that when he told you he was still with his girl and wanted to marry her, you got upset. Those are strings darling. No strings means meeting literally ONLY for sex. That means no calling, texting "just to say hi", nothing. You only ... (read in full...)
Is he just a mummy's boy or am I being unfair?
Q. My partner and I may have the chance to get a job as a couple managing a private house in a new area. The only thing is, my partner is reluctant to leave his elderly mother who was widowed a year ago. He tends to chauffeur her around at weekends. ...
A. 5 January 2010: I used to see my mother in law as competition for my husband's time and affection until I had my own child. I don't expect you to ever fully understand this until one day when you have your own child who depends on you for the first 18 years of ... (read in full...)
My husband has virtually no people skills and I am growing tired of it!
Q. Here's one for you. My husband treats me and the kids like gold. No complaints there. He treats our extended families well and also my friends. Notice I wrote my friends - he has none. He's a prick to pretty much everyone else in the world. ...
A. 5 January 2010: You are describing my ex husband. Perfect to me, family and close friends; a terror to everyone else. Fist fights everywhere we went so much so that it got to the point where I knew the drill that when that look came over his face, I would quickly ... (read in full...)
Widowed and lonely...
Q. Over a year ago, my husband of 28 years died. I did not realize how lonely and vulnerable I was until now. Four months ago I met a man on the bus that I enjoyed talking to every day for a 30 minute bus ride. Once I accepted his invitation to ...
A. 5 January 2010: My heart goes out to you for losing your husband; but you cannot begin a new relationship by taking someone's man. There are so many wonderful men dying to meet widows over 50; you just need to know how to meet them. The safest place is the ... (read in full...)
A married man has been pressuring me for sex. What do you think he meant by his last comment?
Q. I have been friends with a married man who is 29 years older than I. I met him at my work place 3 years ago. I am a nurse married and he is a physician. Anyway, we started to become really close. We started going out, texting, and sending pics ...
A. 5 January 2010: Something tells me that you enjoy the attention? He wants a sexual relationship and you want your ego stroked. So if you can't give him what he wants then he can't give you what YOU want either. Just let it go and work on your marriage instead... (read in full...)
Is he just a mummy's boy or am I being unfair?
Q. My partner and I may have the chance to get a job as a couple managing a private house in a new area. The only thing is, my partner is reluctant to leave his elderly mother who was widowed a year ago. He tends to chauffeur her around at weekends. ...
A. 5 January 2010: I think your partner is being wonderful and his attentive behaviour to his mother will bode well for your future (ie. He will care for you too). He is absolutely right to want to be there for her one short year after she was widowed. Maybe you would ... (read in full...)
My first time was not a good experience and now has me doubting that I might be gay!
Q. im 20 yrs old and im wondering if am i gay??? because i just lost my virginity to a girl complete stranger i dont know i just met her and did it. i thought the sex was gonna be real good cause its my first time but it wasnt hers and it was good but ...
A. 5 January 2010: Sex is always better if you do it with someone you love. Sex with strangers is unfulfilling. My guy friends often dislike the women they sleep with casually. Take your time to get to know your girl and don't rush things. The first time is rarely ... (read in full...)
I spent all night feeling guilty...
Q. It's my birthday and I'm having a little party with my family. My uncle leaves early tomorrow to another state (to his house) and another uncle of mine is taking him to the airport tomorrow morning. They both came to my house today and I was ...
A. 5 January 2010: If you were like 10 I would say its a big deal. Maybe they feel at your age over 30 its not that much of an issue any more. And the older you get the less important birthdays are, until you get to your 80's then it becomes a big deal again because ... (read in full...)
Our whole relationship has been one big lie! Help!
Q. i recently found out through a friend that my girl friend of 3 years has a AdultfriendFinder sliver membership, according to her profile shes been with 10 guys off there in the past year and also had a 3some, she has videos up using a toy that i ...
A. 5 January 2010: Adultfriendfinder is basically a site for people who want to meet for sex only, mostly married people or people in committed relationships elsewhere. So most likely she justifies her behavior by saying its only a physical thing and I don't love ... (read in full...)
How can I make sex more pleasurable for her?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been having sex for a little over two months. at first it was really painful for her now it just is when we start or if we go too long. she loves doing it but its not pleasurable for her at all shes turned on and we're ...
A. 5 January 2010: It takes up to an hour of foreplay for a woman to be ready for sex. Kissing, stroking, oral for her. Some women end up pretending to be ready just to get over and done with it especially if they sense that you are getting impatient and pushy. So ... (read in full...)
How do you tell if it's real labor or false labor?
Q. Hi there, I have a quick question. I'm 20 years old and 36 weeks pregnant soon to be 37. This is my first baby. How do you tell between real labor and false labor? I think I may be in prelabor right now, but I'm not sure. After my boyfriend and I ...
A. 5 January 2010: It might be good to still get checked by a nurse because although my contractions stopped too, I was found to be 3cm dilated. After that they stopped. I slept in the hospital and next morning without having felt anything all night I was only 4 ... (read in full...)
Do I get a divorce and go with this new woman or stay with my wife?
Q. Here are the facts: Married 4 years, prior to that dated for about 6. I am 30, she is 30, we don't have any children. We have owned our own home for about 2 years. Sex is not a problem, we have great sex. Sometimes she nags, but no big d...
A. 5 January 2010: Someone once said there is no person who can give you 100% of what you need. So you are probably getting 80% of what you need from your wife. And the remaining 20% from your girlfriend.
So now, you are thinking of leaving 80% to go and get 20%.... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and might be pregnant and afraid to tell my family
Q. ok i am 13 and i might be pregnant. i am stuck in a horrible situation. my parents just got in devorce and three or four days ago i movfed eight hours away from my mom and boyfriend. we used protected ex but the condom broke. he is 16 and loves ...
A. 4 January 2010: Firstly, you need to find out if you are actually pregnant. You can go to a drugstore and buy a test kit. If you turn out to be pregnant then phone 1-800 999 9999 for advice. Your boyfriend could go to jail because he had sex with an underage ... (read in full...)
What's the point to keep me around if he doesn't want me?
Q. My ex and I dated for about 2 years and a half years. We were so in love and planned on getting married. We have been broken up for about 5 months now. We broke up for problems on both of our parts. Not long after we broke up he started dating ...
A. 4 January 2010: "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?" That's what he tells himself. He is with you because he gets free sex. And he doesnt have to pay for a dinner or try too hard to impress like he would have to do on a date with another girl. ... (read in full...)
Girl I slept with is pregnant and I'm wondering do I contact her?
Q. While very intoxicated over the summer, I had sex with this girl from my hometown (who i came to find out is quite premiscuous). On top of that, I don't remember using a condom. The other day my friend tells me that this girl has been sending ...
A. 4 January 2010: Yes, maybe you can just contact her to tell her that you heard she was preg and you are wondering how she is. If she confirms then just congratulate her and ask who is the father. Do not ask "am I the father" because if she is as promiscuous as ... (read in full...)
She has been an incredible partner both in bed and in satisfying my fetish, so should I marry her?
Q. I'm 26 years old and I have a major foot fetish. I know this friend from school and I told her around 2 years back about how awesome her feet were. this happened over a casual conversation and after a few weeks few weeks later (after a lot of foot ...
A. 4 January 2010: This would depend on if you were ready for marriage and if you had lots in common other than the foot fetish? The best way to judge is to ask yourself: if she didn't allow me this foot fetish indulgence, would she still be someone I could live ... (read in full...)
I suspect my partner of cheating. What do I do next?
Q. Is it a good way to Confront my partner if I suspect her of Cheating ? I am not sure. Trust Level is sliding... Asking her on those lines would be like giving up Trust and Confidence, that took years to build. (Denial is expected) Not...
A. 4 January 2010: A rational person would wait until they have proof before confronting. Investigate, set a trap, hide dictaphone in her car, get phone records; whatever gets you the truth. It just might be you being suspicious but then again you have your gut ... (read in full...)
Do I get a divorce and go with this new woman or stay with my wife?
Q. Here are the facts: Married 4 years, prior to that dated for about 6. I am 30, she is 30, we don't have any children. We have owned our own home for about 2 years. Sex is not a problem, we have great sex. Sometimes she nags, but no big d...
A. 4 January 2010: Because there are no major problems with your wife, perhaps you can try work it out. When couples get too comfortable, it is possible that the prospect of a new relationship is thrilling and makes your heart leap. But the reality is that the grass ... (read in full...)
How do you tell if it's real labor or false labor?
Q. Hi there, I have a quick question. I'm 20 years old and 36 weeks pregnant soon to be 37. This is my first baby. How do you tell between real labor and false labor? I think I may be in prelabor right now, but I'm not sure. After my boyfriend and I ...
A. 4 January 2010: This definitely sounds like real labour. I have had 3 kids and all labours started with back pain and were irregular. For a first baby, I would go to the hospital because you don't know how quick you will be. You also need the baby monitored for ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is cheating with a "cougar" and now has an emotional attachment to her. Should I move on?
Q. So I have been with my bf for 16 years. We have 2 teenagers together and pretty much live as if we are married, just no papers. Recently this past summer, he was out of town and met some 61 year old "cougar" in a bar. My bf is 41, so I can't really ...
A. 4 January 2010: When you have a man who lies like this, the best way is to talk to the woman. Not a violent aggressive thing but just call her up and ask her if she knows about you and if she is aware that you are still together and madly in love and that you have ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend had a baby and I didn't know, now I'm not allowed to see my son! What should I do?
Q. 9 months ago I was dating a girl Jessica, who I really liked, I go to college out of state and I'm not home alot. One weekend while I was home we were at a party and we got into a huge fight. A don't remember much about it but I know I said some ...
A. 4 January 2010: Because of the complexity of the situation, try diplomacy first. No need to start an unnecessary war. Ask your parents to make an appointment to go see the baby; after all its their grandchild too. Then while your parents are there, they can talk ... (read in full...)
Wife hates ex wife's crass comment to 9 year old
Q. My current wife hates my ex-wife whom I have almost no contact with. Help! I am usually pretty good at figuring things out, but this.... My ex wife is callous, crass, and often tells my kids (when they are with her) crude 'jokes' and talks about ...
A. 4 January 2010: Which woman are you married to? Well then, that's the one who's feelings you should consider. Having miscarriages is a horrible thing for any woman and I can understand her pain. Just empathize and tell her what a bitch your ex is and that you now ... (read in full...)
I have to beg him to focus on me. Can anyone help?
Q. My fiance and I have been together for a while now, and throughout the time of our relationship, there hasn't been any affection on his end, nor have my needs been met. He works, but plays hours of video games. I have to beg for him to give a break ...
A. 4 January 2010: I can guarantee you 100% that if he is already like this during your courtship (the time he is supposed to be impressing you), then your marriage will be worse. Maybe you are afraid to let go because you feel so secure and so used to having him ... (read in full...)
Pregnant with two possible fathers...
Q. I am pregnant and I dont know who the father is. I have been sleeping with 2 guys for the last 3 months. I have never been so reckless. however I believe that this neglegent behavior was more of a defense mechanism to prevent gettingin an emotional ...
A. 4 January 2010: If you don't want an abortion then don't have one, but don't trick guy 1 into thinking the child is his... That is extremely cruel and almost as immoral as you think of abortion. For him to fall in love with the child only to find he has been ... (read in full...)
Should I get the authorities involved about my psychotic mother?
Q. I posted on here a couple weeks ago about how I wanted to fly out and see my long distance boyfriend. I'm 19 and live at home and my parents are refusing to let me go. I bought the ticket and took off work already. Well my flight leaves tomorrow ...
A. 4 January 2010: Call authorities against your psychotic mom?? Excuse me but do you not live in their house? If you are old enough to disregard their advice then you are old enough to move out of their house and live on your own. If you are under their roof then ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is addicted to Second Life and it's becoming too real for him!
Q. My boyfriend is addicted to Second Life. He is on there constantly. He has a job in there , he is also a woman in there. He is obsessed with this to the point now he just has to be there. He talks about it always. At first he was worried about how i ...
A. 4 January 2010: Funnily enough, last night I watched a documentary about this trend and one advisor said if you were spending more than 2 hours a day then it can become a problem. They also said most second lifers lose interest after about 6 months to a year. So ... (read in full...)
I think I have a split personality
Q. Hi, I think there is something wrong with me. I have split personality's. It sound's strange but true. One day I can be the most happiest person alive. I talk a lot sing loads, I buY lot's of nice expensive things for myself and I become very sel...
A. 29 December 2009: It ia virtually impossible to properly diagnose you here. You need a professional to do it. You start of with going to your GP or Paediatrician if you still have one. S/he will then recommend a Psychiatrist who will run some tests. Everything is ... (read in full...)
Family isn't nice to the guy because of his looks
Q. My parents are normally pretty open minded and supportive of what I do, I am 23 yrs old and have been dating Matt(25) for almost 4 months now. He is the leader singer in a band, has over come an addition as a teenager and has been clean ever since. ...
A. 28 December 2009: If he really cares about you then when he comes over to your house he can make an attempt to tidy himself up. Maybe remove a few of the piercings and wear something that covers the tatoos and brush/ tie his hair back. Your parents will see this as ... (read in full...)
What do I do...i can't change my age.....
Q. She's 2 years older than me and told me she likes me I mean I like her but what should I do now? She wishes I was 2 yrs older and we get close holding hands leaning on each other but... She told me in a txt but wHat should I do now I'm sure she has ...
A. 28 December 2009: if she said she likes you then she doesnt have a problem with your age. When I dated a younger guy in high school what got me melting was his confidence. He was so sure of himself, made plans for us, came to pick me sometimes and even leaned in for ... (read in full...)
Raped and having difficulty coping with the what ifs...
Q. On December 2nd 2009 I was grabbed on my way home and raped by a man I'd never seen before. I went to A and E and got given PEP. They said that if he was positive the chance that I will get it considering I'm taking PEP is less than 5%. I remote ...
A. 28 December 2009: If classes are too much for you, there are also many many online support groups like aftersilence.org run by former victims. You are not alone, reach out and get help. My mum (a nursing manager on the NHS) has just confirmed that therapy is free and ... (read in full...)
Husband having an affair I don't know what to do!
Q. I posted before but have added some more information. I'm not sure where to begin as I'm totally lost but to cut a long story short my husband and me have been having some problems over most of our marriage (we've been together for 22 years and got ...
A. 28 December 2009: You need to buy this book "Love Must Be Tough" by Dr James Dobson. It has step by step advice for how to deal with your man. I think you can buy it second hand with shipping included for $4 on Amazon or rent from library. I would recommend that you ... (read in full...)
My sister is embarassed by our mother, can you help our mother?
Q. i am asking this question on behalf of my Mum because she cannot use a computer. My sister is 32 years old and has disowned my Mum because she is "embarrassing because she is poor". My mum works so hard to make ends meet, bought her first house la...
A. 28 December 2009: This is the most disgusting thing I have ever heard. What on earth is your sister thinking? I think this calls for a family meeting where everyone present takes your mother's side to show your sister the consequences of her behaviour. In the ... (read in full...)
Raped and having difficulty coping with the what ifs...
Q. On December 2nd 2009 I was grabbed on my way home and raped by a man I'd never seen before. I went to A and E and got given PEP. They said that if he was positive the chance that I will get it considering I'm taking PEP is less than 5%. I remote ...
A. 28 December 2009: I am so sorry for what you are going through... My first advice is that you go to the therapy class your nurses gave you. You probably feel like there is no point and would rather crawl into your bed, but talking person to person with other ... (read in full...)
He's making me feel guilty because he pays for me on dates!
Q. i've been in a relationship with a wonderful guy for over a year now. in the beginning of the relationship, things were fine. i was in high school and he was in college. neither of us were quite financially sound (hey, we're students), so it...
A. 28 December 2009: I will get flack for this from the guys but there is nothing worse than a stingy boyfriend. Ofcourse its great if you pay for some dates and stuff but if he is now going to the levels where he actually asks that you pay, plus won't even pick you ... (read in full...)
I took sperm off his condom and inserted it into my vagina. Could I be pregnant?
Q. i'm 18 and i want to get pregnant so bad, my boyfriend came in me but it wasnt my ovalating date, a week after he knew it was my ovalating day an he didnt come in me, but a drop of sprem hit my vagina, after that he put on a condom when he was done ...
A. 28 December 2009: You might be pregnant; but if you are not maybe you should think carefully about this. I know you probably feel like you and your boyfriend love each other and he would support you if you were pregnant. But I would urge you to try rather do things ... (read in full...)
I'm nervous about meeting my online friend, should I meet up or hold off?
Q. I've been talking to this guy online for a couple of days and we text and stuff and we've seen each others pictures and I've seen him on webcam and I like him and he says he likes me and wants to meet up but Im kind of nervous about meeting up with ...
A. 28 December 2009: how old is he?... (read in full...)
What's the safest way to cum inside my girlfriend without getting her pregnant?
Q. My girlfriend really wants me to cum inside her, while yes this sounds very hot, Im at the same time very apprehensive to do it because i'm not ready for a kid, she said she is going to get on the pill so we'll wait 7 days before we have sex, but my ...
A. 28 December 2009: There is no safe way to cum inside a woman and avoid pregnancy. Some might say the first 3 days after her period are safe but one of my children was conceived with this timing method. For the pill to be fully effective you have to take it for 14 ... (read in full...)
I can't have her I want her and yet I've never met her
Q. I dont know how to approch this and i dont expect an answer but here goes... So names Edi(alias) and i met a girl on the internet. well, met on an online game. at first it was just commradery, then friendship. we talked a lot, about life, frie...
A. 28 December 2009: Whats wrong with just meeting? No expectations, no promises; just a meeting to see each other in person. You don't only have to meet when someone is making a permanent move. One of you can just jump on a train/bus/plane to see the other for 2/3 ... (read in full...)
No more romance
Q. Hey folks Maybe somone here can help... I have now been married for 16 years and with the same wonderful woman for 18. Have 2 older boys with her and we are still very much in love with one another we rarely argue and in 18 years i can count on o...
A. 28 December 2009: You have already received very good advice from others, especially about the fact that her hormones might be off. Easily solveable with a visit to an obgyn. However, if all else fails, never rush for talk about a divorce first. Ask for a ... (read in full...)
Why does my husband think showing me his flaccid penis is a turn on?
Q. Married 6 years and very happy. My husband is 15 years older than me but eveyone who knows would say I am the mature party in our relationship. We have a toddler and our sex life is gearing back up now that nights are less interrupted and back to ...
A. 28 December 2009: I have read and reread your message and am trying to understand what the problem is. After a few years of marriage, SOME men become silly like that; running around the room naked, making puppets with their winkie and balls, trying on your thongs, ... (read in full...)
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