How can I tell if a nice lady wants more than just a friendship?
Q. I am single man attracted to a lady with 3 kids. I have not dated her yet but have been talking with her off and on for about 6 weeks now. I have mentioned to her that kids are resilent and they are good to have around sorta my way to let her k...
A. 3 March 2010: It honestly does look like she's lost interest for now. I think perhaps she feels she gave you a chance to pursue her and you didn't take it? Us over 30's don't often make the first move. Although in the past I have avoided guys I liked if I wasnt ... (read in full...)
I found another man's underwear under the bed!
Q. I just found men's underwear under my side of the bed. I'd like advice on what to do. This weekend, I was searching for a pair of old sneakers and they were shoved way under our bed on my side. I have no clue how long they've been there, I usually...
A. 2 March 2010: Hey! I just thought of something. Perhaps there is DNA on the undies! Men usually leave nasty little crusty patches or skid marks (ugh, gag!). So when you confront her about whose they are, tell them you can have a lab test to confirm it!!! Psycho ... (read in full...)
I found another man's underwear under the bed!
Q. I just found men's underwear under my side of the bed. I'd like advice on what to do. This weekend, I was searching for a pair of old sneakers and they were shoved way under our bed on my side. I have no clue how long they've been there, I usually...
A. 1 March 2010: Let me tell you something my friend. If you were my husband, I would without a doubt be able to convince you that they were yours and you would even begin to question your own sanity. If you have no other proof, do not assume she will suddenly break ... (read in full...)
Trying to have a baby!
Q. Me and my husband are trying to have a Baby. So if i were on top of him and he came inside me like halfway almost at the tip of my entrance and i stand up then go and lay on my back for like 5-10minutes. Could that help us to have a baby. We are ...
A. 1 March 2010: The best position to become pregnant in is doggy style. He should climax deep inside you. If you want a boy, the best time to have sex is 2 weeks after the first day of your last menstrual period. For a girl its best about 10 days. These are ... (read in full...)
Why would he need pills for erectile dysfunction when he is away from home?
Q. My husband travels for business. When he returned from a recent trip, the two cialis pills in his pillbox were gone. Should I ask him what happened to them? He keeps a password on his phone and laptop so I can't check those. We've been married 32 ...
A. 1 March 2010: Ok, I went through the exact same thing where my X had Viagra in his hiding place then a few days later without any sex they disappeared. I wanted to believe my friends' well meaning theories about masturbation etc. but deep in my heart I knew a ... (read in full...)
I really would like to emigrate while I'm still young but I don't know how?
Q. Not a relationship question..I'm 18 i've lost contact with everyone from school and college, so my best friend is the only person ive really stayed in contact with,my job is boring, i can't find a decent guy where i live, there's not a lot to do ...
A. 1 March 2010: I may be mistaken but last I checked, UK, Canada, India, Mexico and China don't qualify for the Diversity Visa/green card lottery because those countries have the highest number of immigrants to the USA.
So let us know, how far have you gone wit... (read in full...)
How can I bring up the 'separation' conversation with my wife?
Q. well it has been a few months now and I have seen a lawyer and a counselor I think I am ready to have the seperation chat with my wife of 5 years we have been together for 9. I just wanted to ask how does one approach the other on this? Even though ...
A. 1 March 2010: Did you manage to resolve your situation? ... (read in full...)
How can I tell if a nice lady wants more than just a friendship?
Q. I am single man attracted to a lady with 3 kids. I have not dated her yet but have been talking with her off and on for about 6 weeks now. I have mentioned to her that kids are resilent and they are good to have around sorta my way to let her k...
A. 26 February 2010: In my opinion, if she is giving you signals, take it and run with it. The friendship approach is only for you to use as a safe approach just in case she is not in the same frame of mind. So if she gives you strong signals then ditch the friendship ... (read in full...)
How can I tell if a nice lady wants more than just a friendship?
Q. I am single man attracted to a lady with 3 kids. I have not dated her yet but have been talking with her off and on for about 6 weeks now. I have mentioned to her that kids are resilent and they are good to have around sorta my way to let her k...
A. 26 February 2010: Oh goodness! Not in the least! That's what this site is for, being honest about how you are feeling so people can give accurate advice. I was hope all the others who get your follow ups would also give their opinions because I didn't want to sound ... (read in full...)
Pubic hair has to go. Any advice.
Q. Okay, I feel little bit embarrassed to ask this question but I`m not comfortable to talk with persons face to face about that. Here`s the thing: before I get into sexual activitys with my boyfriend I want to remove all of my pubic hair. I already ...
A. 26 February 2010: Just ask them over the phone if you are embarrassed; they do this all the time. Just be considerate enough to take a shower beforehand so that you are clean. And tip extra. ... (read in full...)
Are my rough tendencies in bed the same as abuse?
Q. So, as you all are pretty much aware, I am against hitting women. However, I like to whip and spank women during sex, and I like sex to be as rough as possible. (consensual of course) Anyway, I know who I am and that I don't pose a danger t...
A. 25 February 2010: If its consensual and the woman fully agrees before hand then have fun(?). My advice is that you thoroughly discuss with your partner beforehand. For instance, don't leave out that you will smack her face as well; that is very different from a smack ... (read in full...)
Help, my weight problem is making me feel like crap!
Q. Hi aunts. ok ive yet to meet any female that doesnt have this problem. but ive been feeling really self concious about my weight. the thing is that i know im over weight but my dad (very unpolitley infront of family and friends) pointed out to m...
A. 25 February 2010: Go to www.bodybuilding.com. Click on "Transformations". There are tonnes of success stories there. I started writing to one of the women who had the same starting weight as me and had the After pic I most wanted to look like. From looking like a fat ... (read in full...)
Is this love... for a priest?
Q. hi, Please don't angry with me, I know that this is wrong, but actually i just want to share my feelings. You know I have a friend of mine who is a PRIEST, he is not handsome actually, but he is Good. We became closed, I realized one day that I a...
A. 25 February 2010: Dont feel bad about your feelings. Even God himself said man should not be alone... Love between man and woman is good too in God's eyes. The only problem is that because of his vows he might not be able to give you what you want. He is an adult so ... (read in full...)
I am afraid of the consequences for my family if I leave my husband
Q. my husband and i fought 2 days ago because i let my maid wash clothes...my bad relationship started 10 years ago when he started womanizing with about 5 different women....i was submitted to slaps,kicks,gunpointing,shouting,black and blues,all kins ...
A. 25 February 2010: This is a very difficult situation. You have to consider reporting him to the police so that at least they will take the gun. Also speak to the abused women helplines in your country. And tell his parents about his behaviour. Or when he starts ... (read in full...)
Can you get anything longer lasting for your nails other than nail varnish?
Q. I have long natural nails, the length of your typical false nail. I more often than not wear a 'french manicure' style varnish with the white tips.. My problem is that the nail varnish doesn't last long and often chips or flakes off, so i'm ...
A. 25 February 2010: I don't know if the nail bar has this, but I normally apply a coat of clear varnish over my nail and the manicure can last 2 weeks without chipping. This is a Revlon clear varnish which costs about 3 times more than the regular clear varnish you ... (read in full...)
My husband isn't interested sexually in me anymore. What should I do?
Q. What could be wrong with my husband ,and what am I suppose to do? I;m in my late forties, looking 30 something ,taking care of myself... But my husband just does not care about me,as a sexual being. I m totally frustrated, because I just don't get ...
A. 24 February 2010: Perhaps he has Erectile Dysfunction and is too embarassed to admit it. You need to tell him you dont feel he wants you any more so you are considering a separation so you can think about what you want for your life. If he keeps saying he loves you ... (read in full...)
Wife went down on old man just to come to the USA....
Q. I love my wife, but now I just found out that my wife sucked the d__k of a 59 year old man in order to get a VISA to come the final time to the USA, the time that she met me and married me! I knew she wasn't a virgin, but I'm caught up on two...
A. 24 February 2010: I admire you for seeing the funny side! Chances are she gagged the whole time. She didn't do it for personal gratification so don't worry about it. 95% of the women you have dated have had oral sex with other men before you so why is this issue a ... (read in full...)
How to approach my threesome fantasy again without seeming pushy?
Q. dear cupid i have a fantasy having a threesome with my wife i spoke to her and she willing to do but she hasnt mentioned it again how can i approach the subject again without it looking im pushing the subject ????? ...
A. 24 February 2010: It depends what ratio you are talking about. If its MMF maybe she doesn't want to look pushy either. If its MFF then maybe since its your fantasy she is waiting for you to bring it up. Be sure she wholeheartedly agrees with this because your ... (read in full...)
Marriage foundation... confused!
Q. Hello, I have been chatting with a man on a dating site for a while we even discussed marriage. So he soon asked out on a date. But then he told me about a foundation that was helping people to get married and that they would be given money and ...
A. 24 February 2010: The best person to clarify is him, so ask him. If you are discussing marriage then you should be able to talk about this. Is your country a Muslim country? If so, I doubt there will be a government fund for gay marriage. ... (read in full...)
Will the tearing of restored hymen hurt?
Q. I am sexually active for 1 year with my ex-bf. I told my current bf that I am a virgin and I gone through the hymen restoration surgery 3 months ago. We plan to have sex next week after a party and I worry he will hurt very bad like my first time. ...
A. 24 February 2010: It will probably hurt like the first time. But why did you restore your hymen if you are going to destroy it again for another boyfriend? I'm assuming you are Muslim and you did this for your future husband? If so, then in a few months when you ... (read in full...)
Pubic hair problems, help!
Q. okay, im 14 and i already have a bunch (not a whole freakin forest) of pubic hair. it kinda worries me for 3 reasons, one im scared when i start having sex guys will see it and be disgusted by it, two because i do not know what to do with it, and ...
A. 24 February 2010: I went to boarding school so I know that all women have hair as you described (all over and even the upper thighs) Men too. The best way to deal with it is to shave it with a electric shaver (like those cheap $5 battery operated ones in Walmart). ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my boyfriend that his extra weight is killing our sex life?
Q. We've been friends for 3yrs, and recently hooked up. We've just completed 1yr together and expecting a child in 3mths. Along with my belly bump, he's gained weight. I'm normally 115lbs, 5'3, I know my belly will go after the baby's born(already a ...
A. 24 February 2010: Start talking to him now that you need help getting back into shape after the baby is born. Tell him you would like to do it together with him. After baby, go to the gym together or for walks/runs and stuff. You don't have to be ugly to him about ... (read in full...)
A miserable and unwanted desperate wife
Q. Hello, I have been married for close to four yrs, and am very disappointed in my marriage. Since the beginning I have so miserable with my husband. We have the same age (26 yrs). My husband is a very explosive with a bad temper. When he gets mad the ...
A. 24 February 2010: You cannot make anybody change. When people show you who they are, believe them the first time. Your best hope is for an improvement. And to get an improvement you have to create a crisis in your relationship. My advice would be NOT to threaten, ... (read in full...)
Help, I don't love my wife but can see no way out.
Q. Please help me, I'm in despair. Im 35 years old and married to a woman I can not stand. We have 2 children aged 5 and 3 and have been together for 8 years. We are not compatable at all, I am sociable, she is not, I am fun, she is forever serious....
A. 24 February 2010: Firstly, stop the drinking and any other self-destructive behaviour. That will work against you in custody court. Regarding access to your children, speak to a divorce lawyer, preferably a female. I think 1st consultations are often offered free.. ... (read in full...)
Need the adult kids to move out as I'm stressed out with their lack of respect!
Q. I am deeply bothered by something. My ex husband and I are no longer married, because when we were married years ago, he had absolutely no respect for me. I felt I didn't deserve this. I worked hard at being a good wife and Mother. I had always ...
A. 24 February 2010: I'm sorry this is happening to you. But you are right and this is the most shocking I've ever heard. Just stick to your guns and let them go out into the world. You have done enough. ... (read in full...)
Why are men so cruel when it comes to dating us curvier women?
Q. Ok..I previously posted a question...I went on a blind date with a gentlement who I was talking to for 2 weeks..we were constantly on the phone and texting galore..It felt fantastic, he learned about me and I of him... I'm not big, but I'm not a ...
A. 23 February 2010: To be honest, the problem here is not the men who clearly state they want slim women. The problem is you are trying to date men who are not into your type. Why don't you avoid connecting with guys who like slim women? How many more times do you ... (read in full...)
Why do people have such big regrets about losing their virginity?
Q. I'm an almost 18 year old virgin, and I've heard other women say that they've regreted their first time and wish they had waited. I don't understand. Why did they regret it and what did they wish they had waited for? I've been a bit upset about wh...
A. 23 February 2010: I think some women regret it because the guy they lose it to disappoints them in some way; then later on they meet a guy who they feel they should have waited for rather than lost it to some random guy who doesn't even care. Having sex just to get ... (read in full...)
I can't leave my kids and I can't stay with my wife, what should I do?
Q. I am married for 10 years with 2 kids, 2 years old boy and a 4 years old girl. My wife and I have been to therapy and everything possible to save our marriage. I am the person that did look for the therapy and is always looking for a “salvation” for ...
A. 23 February 2010: Sorry to hear your situation. Why don't you have full custody or joint custody. Joint custody, especially if you try find accomodation close to your current home can be workable. You can take them for every night and drop them at school in the ... (read in full...)
I feel so helpless, my boyfriend has had to leave to continue access with his daughter
Q. This is a difficult one. Me and my partner have recently seperated but still love each other very much. We had been together for 6 years and lived together for four. I have 2 daughters and he has one that lives with his ex. His daughter had been ...
A. 23 February 2010: How old is this child? Anyway the basics of being a step parent is you must never reprimand a step-child who does not live with you full time. The sensitivities of the situation mean she is a temporary guest in your home at that time and little ... (read in full...)
I enjoyed our day of sex at the hotel despite both of us being in relationships, but now he has become distant. Was it just the thrill of the chase or did I not live up to his expectations?
Q. I am soooo confused! After a lot of flirting, sexting, and finally making out, I slept with my co-worker. He pursued me for a long time, I was supposedly this dream of something he could never attain. We spent an entire day together at a hotel. ...
A. 23 February 2010: Women often have trouble understanding the unspoken rules of "no-strings attached sex(NSA)". He was attracted to you sexually and that's it. He doesn't want a relationship or for it to go beyond that hotel room. To men, sex and love are not the ... (read in full...)
His other women are making me miserable but he is denying me a divorce
Q. Married for 33 years.My husband used to be rude sometimes, and very lovely others. 15years ago I got a phonecall telling me he has a son out of our marriage and still is this woman. I had a very rough time.Asked him for divorce. he denied. ...
A. 23 February 2010: I'm sorry you have been made so miserable in your marriage. At first I wanted to go on about what an a** he is; but I will let the other posters do that while I give you an alternative view:
Men often don't tell their wives their needs and end up g... (read in full...)
What do I do to make things better between my daughter and I so that we can have a close relationship?
Q. I have made a mistake that hurt my daughter badly. It was 10 yrs. ago, when she was 10. This guy who was a 'friend' was coming up to our house. He was interested in starting a relationship with me and likewise. My daughter got a kind of like 'pu...
A. 23 February 2010: Ok. I need to give you a wake up call. You need help. Your daughter is a sociopath and might even have a borderline personality disorder. She hasn't forgiven you for dating a guy she liked when she was 10???? That is strait-jacket asylum talk ... (read in full...)
How can I tell if a nice lady wants more than just a friendship?
Q. I am single man attracted to a lady with 3 kids. I have not dated her yet but have been talking with her off and on for about 6 weeks now. I have mentioned to her that kids are resilent and they are good to have around sorta my way to let her k...
A. 23 February 2010: As a single mother with 3 kids, in excellent bikini shape and financially independent, I have had lots of men try to sleep with me without even really knowing me. I was celibate for 2 years and I didn't even care because when you get to a certain ... (read in full...)
What do I write in the note?
Q. Right guys here is the situation. I sent a girl a valentine's day card and she saw me. A friend of mine confirmed to her that it was my handwriting. If anyone has asked, i have denied the fact that it was me. So, she knows i like her and so does ...
A. 22 February 2010: Never put anything in writing; you never know where it will end up. You don't want a bunch of giggly girls laughing over it in the bathroom or people in your class coming up to you to quote mockingly from it. ... (read in full...)
I want to know what he likes in bed but he seems so embarrassed to tell me!
Q. I've been with my husband for 7 years. I love him to death and only want to make him happy in every way. but we have one issue. He is only my 2nd partner, and im like his 6th or 7th. I had a lot of growing up to do sexually, like watching porn, ...
A. 22 February 2010: Try ask him in the heat of the moment when he is less inhibited; as part of dirty talk. "do whatever you want right now baby"...
But be prepared for anything; what if he wants to cum in your mouth/face? What if he wants anal? What if he says I wa... (read in full...)
Followup to my question about my girlfriend's trip to Thailand
Q. This is a follow up question to the one asked previously. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/she-is-away-in-a-foreign-country-and.html So my gf came back from Thailand and openly admitted to having a couple of Canadian guys (apparently couples...
A. 22 February 2010: From what you are saying, she is acting like a woman that wants a proposal and she is trying to jumpstart it by acting unpredictable as though she has other options. Sometime women do this to see if you are still serious. If she is saying she now ... (read in full...)
How can I tell if a nice lady wants more than just a friendship?
Q. I am single man attracted to a lady with 3 kids. I have not dated her yet but have been talking with her off and on for about 6 weeks now. I have mentioned to her that kids are resilent and they are good to have around sorta my way to let her k...
A. 22 February 2010: Firstly, women absolutely thrive on attention. So if you remember tidbits from previous chats then that is a bonus. And women do get sexually interested in men who start off as friends. The key here is to move quickly from friendship zone; within ... (read in full...)
Is my man over his ex?
Q. I have been living with my boyfriend for 1.5 years. He has always been faithful and trustworthy. He does however, mention his ex on a regular basis. He'll reference memories they shared, knew what the weather is like in her hometown... I've found ou...
A. 22 February 2010: It does sound like he still cares about her a great deal. Perhaps she is the one that ended the relationship. Why dont you ask him in the gentlest kindest way you can muster. Just say it in a leading way rather than a direct question. Instead of ... (read in full...)
I'm worried that because of my yeast infection stopping us having sex he will cheat on me!
Q. i have recently had a yeast infection and then i took the monistat one day thing and the symptoms started to feel better for like almost a week. while it was feeling better i had sex like one time and now i have one again . im currently using the ...
A. 22 February 2010: Firstly darling, you got it again because he didn't get treated. So he is reinfecting you, especially if he has a foreskin. I would suggest you tell your doctor to give you the cream so he can use it for 7 days every night before bed.
S... (read in full...)
I thought he had dumped me so I destroyed his records, and now I feel very guilty!
Q. i have been seeing this guy for 2 and half yrs never met his family or children. he stays with me and goes home on a Wednesday to see his children, 2 weeks ago his mum died he never told me he hasnt been in touch at all. i sent him texts he hasnt ...
A. 22 February 2010: From your age I'm assuming you mean music records? If so, then go on the web and shop around on ebay and other sites for replacements. Sorry is not enough; you have to get them back. If he hadn't already seen them then remove them quickly because ... (read in full...)
Followup to my question about my girlfriend's trip to Thailand
Q. This is a follow up question to the one asked previously. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/she-is-away-in-a-foreign-country-and.html So my gf came back from Thailand and openly admitted to having a couple of Canadian guys (apparently couples...
A. 22 February 2010: Usually if a girl cheats then she won't mention any guy at all. She will just say she stayed in her hotel room all night and was bored. I think she told you as an attempt at openess, but what will happen from here is that if she ever goes to work ... (read in full...)
When ever there is a private moment my stepdaughter flaunts herself
Q. I am a man in his early 50's,,very fit and keep in good shape.I am also married with 2 teenage daughters,and another step daughter from my wife's previous marriage.We all had a lovely pleasant family unity until my step daughter started maturing and ...
A. 22 February 2010: Well in that case, her behavior doesn't require a gentle approach. You tell her firmly and loudly "put some clothes on NOW." You should not tolerate it. Just imagine that its one of your younger daughters behaving like this. Its completely ... (read in full...)
No matter what I do my wife never feels content, and now she is threatening a divorce. What should I do?
Q. I have a small online business so I work at home. I have a wife, a lovely 1.5 year old daughter and I love them very much. We moved to a new house out of state to start a new beginning with our daughter. As our new home is bigger, my wife would ...
A. 22 February 2010: You have to have a meeting to discuss your marriage. She sounds like she is depressed. If you can't speak to her because it degenerates into a fight then write her a letter expressing how you feel and that you want her to tell you exactly what she ... (read in full...)
What do I do to make things better between my daughter and I so that we can have a close relationship?
Q. I have made a mistake that hurt my daughter badly. It was 10 yrs. ago, when she was 10. This guy who was a 'friend' was coming up to our house. He was interested in starting a relationship with me and likewise. My daughter got a kind of like 'pu...
A. 21 February 2010: Your post is not making sense. Do you mean she hates you for dating this guy? Or did he abuse her or something?... (read in full...)
When ever there is a private moment my stepdaughter flaunts herself
Q. I am a man in his early 50's,,very fit and keep in good shape.I am also married with 2 teenage daughters,and another step daughter from my wife's previous marriage.We all had a lovely pleasant family unity until my step daughter started maturing and ...
A. 21 February 2010: In what way does she flaunt herself? ... (read in full...)
How can I tell if a nice lady wants more than just a friendship?
Q. I am single man attracted to a lady with 3 kids. I have not dated her yet but have been talking with her off and on for about 6 weeks now. I have mentioned to her that kids are resilent and they are good to have around sorta my way to let her k...
A. 21 February 2010: I would not give her a note expressing interest. Try talk to her; get her at a moment alone like you did when you complimented her blouse. The problem with expressing a romantic interest first before a friendly date is perhaps she doesn't see you ... (read in full...)
How can I tell if a nice lady wants more than just a friendship?
Q. I am single man attracted to a lady with 3 kids. I have not dated her yet but have been talking with her off and on for about 6 weeks now. I have mentioned to her that kids are resilent and they are good to have around sorta my way to let her k...
A. 20 February 2010: I would NOT encourage you to indicate you want to be more than friends before you have had a chance to go on a date first. Women find it hard to be romantically interested in a guy they don't really know. They like to warm up to a guy. So if you ... (read in full...)
How can I tell if a nice lady wants more than just a friendship?
Q. I am single man attracted to a lady with 3 kids. I have not dated her yet but have been talking with her off and on for about 6 weeks now. I have mentioned to her that kids are resilent and they are good to have around sorta my way to let her k...
A. 20 February 2010: Yes, the compliment thing is hard for some women; I also used to do that. I would encourage you to ask her out on a date. Not 'may I take you out to lunch'; that's a weird way of asking. Maybe 'I know this great little café' or 'you need to taste ... (read in full...)
I really would like to emigrate while I'm still young but I don't know how?
Q. Not a relationship question..I'm 18 i've lost contact with everyone from school and college, so my best friend is the only person ive really stayed in contact with,my job is boring, i can't find a decent guy where i live, there's not a lot to do ...
A. 17 February 2010: To get a work permit, you have to have a special/rare skill that is on shortage in America. Here are a few examples:
Medical doctor (to states with fewer doctors or to war zones), aerospace engineer, computer science specialist, Iraqi/Afghan inte... (read in full...)
I really would like to emigrate while I'm still young but I don't know how?
Q. Not a relationship question..I'm 18 i've lost contact with everyone from school and college, so my best friend is the only person ive really stayed in contact with,my job is boring, i can't find a decent guy where i live, there's not a lot to do ...
A. 17 February 2010: I don't know if you read my previous post; you cannot work without a work permit and a social security number. Any employer will ask you for this. Unless you find work as an illegal nanny/maid as many illegal immigrants do. Like I said, visit ... (read in full...)
I really would like to emigrate while I'm still young but I don't know how?
Q. Not a relationship question..I'm 18 i've lost contact with everyone from school and college, so my best friend is the only person ive really stayed in contact with,my job is boring, i can't find a decent guy where i live, there's not a lot to do ...
A. 17 February 2010: Just a correction; sorry since I last visited the site, immigration.gov has been changed to uscis.gov. Everything you would need to know is there.... (read in full...)
I really would like to emigrate while I'm still young but I don't know how?
Q. Not a relationship question..I'm 18 i've lost contact with everyone from school and college, so my best friend is the only person ive really stayed in contact with,my job is boring, i can't find a decent guy where i live, there's not a lot to do ...
A. 17 February 2010: There are a few community colleges that might accept GCSE O Levels, but now, most good US universities take GCE A Levels dear. When my brother went to the US in 1991 they took O Levels but by the time my sister went to the same university in 2003 ... (read in full...)
I really would like to emigrate while I'm still young but I don't know how?
Q. Not a relationship question..I'm 18 i've lost contact with everyone from school and college, so my best friend is the only person ive really stayed in contact with,my job is boring, i can't find a decent guy where i live, there's not a lot to do ...
A. 16 February 2010: Look into becoming an au pair for an American couple with young kids as well. Google it; many au pair agencies on the web. ... (read in full...)
How can I bring up the 'separation' conversation with my wife?
Q. well it has been a few months now and I have seen a lawyer and a counselor I think I am ready to have the seperation chat with my wife of 5 years we have been together for 9. I just wanted to ask how does one approach the other on this? Even though ...
A. 25 January 2010: I have been through this. Mine was the "I'll kill myself" type. So I did it in such a way that I 'slowly deflated the balloon rather than popped it suddenly'. I just spent a few days saying I need to work things out in my life. Then I suggested ... (read in full...)
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