While aroused strange liquid comes out.
Q. Hi, Well i am 18 years old and my penis is uncircumcised. My major concern is why when i am making out with a girl and i am erect, my penis produces a liquid? It is not cum, it's just something that i have no control over and i don't know what it is ...
A. 14 March 2010: This has got to be the weirdest post ever. Its as though he never bothered to read any of the answers or click on the Internet links. I give up.... (read in full...)
Next time we go away he wants to take his mum with us!!!
Q. my partner's 50 and been living with his mother again for the last 5 months due to financial difficulties. the whole situation is really depressing him to say the least. although his mum willingly put him up he doesn't have his own space - 'his roo...
A. 2 March 2010: The one you should have a problem with is your boyfriend, not his mother. I'm sorry to be so blunt dear but it looks like he is the one who didn't want you to come and he used his mother as an excuse. He knows you two don't get along so he played ... (read in full...)
I have heard a number of stories about my husband with other women, what shall I do?
Q. Dear agony aunt! we have been married for 9 years.mine was an arranged marriage.we later had 2 kids,one boy,3 years and one girl,5 years.I am 33 years old and my husband 34.My husband is a good human being.he is always concentr...
A. 18 February 2010: In that case, next time he starts getting violent, tell him you are phoning your father and you are telling him everything even if you won't. Actually pick up the phone and start dialing. Or tell him you will phone his boss at work. You really ... (read in full...)
Need opinions on what happened to me..thank you for reading!
Q. I am writing this as my "burn letter", to free me from the pain I am going through and to try to get over this and ask people what did I do wrong so please bear with me and read this, thanks! I went about 4 times with a girl in nov. 2008 (we were...
A. 16 February 2010: She sounds very spoilt and at the same time is used to having the red carpet rolled out for her by dominating rich guys. I'm sorry but she is not regular guy material. Sad thing though is that at 37 she might struggle to meet wealthy guys under 50 ... (read in full...)
My wife wont let me go down on her and it is a real turn on for me. Any advice?
Q. My wife is wonderful and we have a good sex life, but she won't let me go down on her. Or at least it hasn't happened in many years. She says she just doesn't like it, but its a real turn-on for me. Any advice? ...
A. 16 February 2010: Over 50 and still willing to go down? Still calling your wife wonderful?! You sexy thing you..!
Ok seriously, when my ex wanted to get me into oral, during lovemaking he once asked just to see it. He kept insisting he wouldn't do anything.... Ofco... (read in full...)
Advice needed. 15, pregnant and don't know what to do... please help!
Q. Im 15 I Am pregnant and dont know what to do.. Please help me? If your gunna judge than dont say anything....
A. 16 February 2010: I remember a few years ago, a cousin of mine became pregnant in the final year of high school. We had all grown up with the 'kick you out' threats so we were scared what would happen to her. So she packed a small suitcase, then went to talk to her ... (read in full...)
I have heard a number of stories about my husband with other women, what shall I do?
Q. Dear agony aunt! we have been married for 9 years.mine was an arranged marriage.we later had 2 kids,one boy,3 years and one girl,5 years.I am 33 years old and my husband 34.My husband is a good human being.he is always concentr...
A. 16 February 2010: Honey, I'm sorry but its obvious he slept with her. He is pulling the whole "never admit" thing that some men do. He will never come out with the truth. I know its very hard being in a foreign country without any other person to support you. My ... (read in full...)
Torn between two men
Q. Here is my problem.....I have been married for the last 12 years. This marriage has been very unhealthy and destructive in many ways. First my husband has been a drug addict and has been incarcerated for the past on multiple occasions. I have 2 ...
A. 16 February 2010: Before you completely leave your husband, you need to find out if the new guy is serious about you. Would he be willing to start a relationship with someone who's ex husband is seething with rage in jail (and might come out with a bad attitude) and ... (read in full...)
Could we be brother and sister???
Q. Hi there, im only 15 and ive become really close to my friend and we are like big bro and sister. I've been told that my mum cheated with his dad before i was born and i want to know if he is my brother. my mum wont tell me and his dad wont tell him ...
A. 16 February 2010: I know how you feel and that you would like to know. But in your quest you have to consider what this would do to your families. Both your parents' and his parents' marriages could be destroyed. Perhaps there are family secrets and other issues ... (read in full...)
I am pregnant to a foreigner who I don't hardly know!!!
Q. Dear Cupid please help let me know opinion, your experience, view to help me have all the picture. I am white girl form central europe, my parents were always trying to lead my life the way they wanted. Yes I was the best student etc, model,...
A. 16 February 2010: My advice is that if the Brazilian guy is still interested in you, why don't you try work things out with him. Perhaps the two of you can discuss how to move forward from here. Everybody has a talent at something, lack of education does not mean ... (read in full...)
Worried about partner's future ED/low sex drive as he gets older in a significant age gap relationship
Q. If you've been in/are in a significant age gap relationship, have you ever worried about this: your significant other experiencing ED or lower sex drive as he gets older? I'm with a man who is 20 years older than me (I'm almost 21) and I sometime...
A. 16 February 2010: My partner is in his early 60's and wears me out. This is his program: zero alcohol, zero smoking. Low cholesterol diet, eats mostly seafood diet (not 'see' food diet!) which is high in omega fats (good fats), beef and pork only occasionally, ... (read in full...)
Will a doctor prescribe me HGH?
Q. If i ask a doctor, will he perscribe hgh to me? Its known as human growth hormone...
A. 16 February 2010: How tall are you? If you are thinking of getting it for bodybuilding and weightlifting purposes a doctor is not easily fooled. While its not strictly a steroid, its anabolic properties are the reason why most young guys would want it and doctors ... (read in full...)
Next time we go away he wants to take his mum with us!!!
Q. my partner's 50 and been living with his mother again for the last 5 months due to financial difficulties. the whole situation is really depressing him to say the least. although his mum willingly put him up he doesn't have his own space - 'his roo...
A. 16 February 2010: This is one of those situations where you have to play along. Firstly you say a lot of negative things about his mother, yet she has been forced to take in her 50 year old son! Her house, her rules!! Secondly he obviously loves her and is grateful ... (read in full...)
Will you say a prayer for us please...?
Q. Me and my fiance have been trying to conceive for 7 months.. We hope that we've done it this month.. We really do.. But i feel the need that if someone were to pray for us, for the miracle of life, then it'd help us, so please, say a prayer for us? ...
A. 16 February 2010: I am assuming you are Christian? If so, Jesus taught in the book of Luke that if a person is sick they visit a doctor as well. So whilst you are in our prayers, don't hesitate to seek help; God could use a doctor as well to give you the miracle you ... (read in full...)
Saying anything makes my situation worse..what can I do?
Q. Hello. My issue is that my boyfriends mother hates me and he wont tell her how she is affacting our relation ship only that she has been stressing us out. When in all reality she has been making him wonder if we shouldnt even be together. Along with ...
A. 16 February 2010: You need to give more detail; why does she hate you? What exactly has she said to you to indicate this? Does he live with her? What has he said about this? Is his father in the picture?... (read in full...)
Advice needed. 15, pregnant and don't know what to do... please help!
Q. Im 15 I Am pregnant and dont know what to do.. Please help me? If your gunna judge than dont say anything....
A. 16 February 2010: Call 1800 230 PLAN or 1800 999 9999. These two organizations have free counsellors that will help you through the decisions you have to make. They will also help you tell your parents if you decide to keep the baby. If you decide not to keep it, ... (read in full...)
I'll never be able to forget that my father always favoured my older sister
Q. Hello, I have a question about my father. We are four sisters and since we were small he used to compare us. He has always favoured my biggest sister. He has even confessed that he liked her most because he finds that she has more qualities than the...
A. 15 February 2010: I would suggest that you write your father a letter telling him how you feel. Tell him truthfully that you feel he has never loved you as much as the others and explain how this has affected you. I as a parent have always loved my children equally. ... (read in full...)
How to provide her with comfort?
Q. Hi. I need some advice, i've been with my girlfriend for 9 months now, i'm 27 and she's 36 we both have a lot in common and share some great times together. Her husband died nearly 3 years ago in a motorbike accident and she also has two daughters ...
A. 15 February 2010: It sounds as though she might be feeling guilty about moving on yet her husband died so perhaps she feels like she is betraying his memory being so happy. People who lose loved ones often go through these stages of mourning. In psychology we call ... (read in full...)
How long to wait for sex
Q. Dear Cupid, I just ended a relationship for many reasons and our sexual connection was weak. Most of the time it was just straight sex. We had oral sex maybe every blue moon. When I was married I enjoyed oral sex very much and have missed it a...
A. 15 February 2010: If you are waiting then it means that you want something more than just sex from the person. Perhaps a relationship. If its just sex you are after and you don't mind if you never see him again then there is no waiting period. For a guy who you ... (read in full...)
Is there any way to determine if a much younger woman is attracted to you? What do I look out for?
Q. I am attracted to this younger lady whom I would guess is around 20 years old I am fifty but my question is is there a way to determine if a younger much younger girl is attracted to someone like me who is fit? Are there signs I can watch for th...
A. 15 February 2010: The tried and tested 'just friends' approach is the safest. Just because she is smiling and friendly it doesn't mean she is ready to be romantic. Perhaps you remind her of her favourite uncle or something so don't take friendliness as a romantic ... (read in full...)
30 years old and never got my first kiss!!!
Q. I have strange question - pathetic really, I am 30 years old and never got my first kiss. Can someone tell what a kiss feels because I'll never be kissed due to my appearance. I'd really love to know. If you're wondering why it's because guy...
A. 15 February 2010: And what is wrong with your appearance? I saw a woman who was born with no legs and no arms and she is happily married with 4 children. My best friend who used to say the same thing because she is an Albino is having her second child. I once ... (read in full...)
How should I express myself?
Q. I'm a heterosexual straight guy who loves women and everything associated with them but lately there has been a guy who has me interested. we are best friends and we talk all the time( aim ) etc we go to the same school and we trust each other. im ...
A. 15 February 2010: Firstly, relatively few people are 100% exclusively straight or exclusively gay. The rest of us have a range of sexual attraction from fleeting through to bisexual. Google the Kinsey Scale for more information about this; Kinsey was a psychologist ... (read in full...)
We have sex once a week and he thinks I am a sex addict?!!
Q. Hi My husband thinks I am a sex addict and it is making me feel paranoid. We have been married for a year and have sex about once every week and a half to two weeks. He says he is attracted me, but we barely have it. The only time we do is when I ...
A. 15 February 2010: I don't think this has anything to do with you. It sounds as though he is suffering from Erectile Dysfunction but is ashamed to admit it. Yet on the other hand, now that you are in your 40's you are in your sexual peak period, so your appetites are ... (read in full...)
While aroused strange liquid comes out.
Q. Hi, Well i am 18 years old and my penis is uncircumcised. My major concern is why when i am making out with a girl and i am erect, my penis produces a liquid? It is not cum, it's just something that i have no control over and i don't know what it is ...
A. 14 February 2010: Listen; when you are just making out, you normally become aroused and start to get turned on. As you start to become turned on, your brain tells your peepee to start getting ready for sexual intercourse. This does not mean you will have sex, but ... (read in full...)
I feel it is not fair that my wife wont give me anal sex when my ex-partners enjoyed it so much!
Q. do girls like anal sex, Ive been after my wife for 7 years and she just won't give it too me. I feel like thats not fair, Ive had other relationships where my partner enjoyed it sooooooooo much. how do i get my wife to try something new, we've ...
A. 11 February 2010: If your exes were so wonderful and gave you everything you wanted then why are you no longer with them? If she doesn't like it then don't keep nagging her about it. She will only resent you and be put off other stuff too. Or maybe ask her to do ... (read in full...)
How do you work out your pec muscles and get rid of belly fat?
Q. hey! i know this is non related to love or anything but how do u work out your pec muscles? i am male soo and i have like lower bellyfat and i hate it, and i do run about 2miles every week, and i havent seen a change in those areas so help plzz ...
A. 11 February 2010: Good pec exercises are bench press 3 sets of 12 reps, flyes on the cable cross over 3 sets of 12 reps and also dumbell pullovers 3 sets of 12 reps. As you become more accustomed to the routine you can adjust sets/reps/weight to continually change ... (read in full...)
While aroused strange liquid comes out.
Q. Hi, Well i am 18 years old and my penis is uncircumcised. My major concern is why when i am making out with a girl and i am erect, my penis produces a liquid? It is not cum, it's just something that i have no control over and i don't know what it is ...
A. 10 February 2010: Huh?! Did you click on the link provided in the first answer you got? That link has it all including actual photographs. And in my experience with both circumsized and uncircumsized men, yes, they have this clear liquid.... (read in full...)
I am so paranoid about having my period that I don't want to leave the house, cant concentrate at school, ...I even dream about it!
Q. Well my issue is that I feel like I'm the only girl in the world who is extremely paranoid of her period. It's always on my mind, because i'm always thinking about "well, what if i get it this day when i have to do this" and I also worry about it so ...
A. 10 February 2010: Wow you sound like you have developed some anxiety related to your period. Perhaps you heard so many negative things about it and now you have paranoia. Firstly, the practical aspect; most adult women move with a spare pair of panties, a tampon or ... (read in full...)
I treated her bad and cheated on her, ... now I am losing her. How can I win her back?
Q. i am a male 32 yrs old and in a realationship for 6 years with a beutiful woman and i have 5 kids , 2 that are with her and i have treated her bad most of the time and i cheated on her last year and was so quick to have given up on us and now she ...
A. 10 February 2010: Ok, I'm going to get nasty anon comments but you are here for help, so this is my advice, as someone who was cheated on by my ex husband. I fell for his method twice until he cheated on me again for the 3rd time which is what made me leave him and ... (read in full...)
He said I could be a stripper at Seaworld because of my weight gain!
Q. I have gained weight in the past 6 years my fiance and I have been together..lately when he gets angry he calls me fat or a pig. He even said to me the other day I could be a stripper...at seaworld. Now he says he won't have sex with me until I lose ...
A. 10 February 2010: What's your weight and your height? He's being a jerk but we would also like to know how overweight you are. There is a big difference between wanting to lose 20 lbs and wanting to lose 150 lbs. If you don't want to answer, go to ... (read in full...)
I psyche myself up to give my boyfriend a lap dance, ... and then I chicken out!
Q. ahhhh ive been wanting to give my boyfriend a lap dance and make him so horny he screws me senseless. lol. i get in the mood i get a cute baby dolls outfit. i think i look all sexy and stuff i pick out the music, but i get to scared and chicken out. ...
A. 10 February 2010: Why don't you look in a classified ads paper and see if there are any classes in your area? Also enquire at local dance studios and gyms. And picking outfit and music is not enough. You have to practice a routine, you can choreograph it to know ... (read in full...)
My ex says he does not want to be held down and that women are arseholes, yet he has sex with me eveytime we meet up.
Q. Hey, so i dated this guy for 3 years then we broke up and we both started dating other people. the girl he was with though lasted a year. after they broke up he took me to niagara falls and for the past year i have seen him 1-6 times a month since ...
A. 10 February 2010: Men have the ability to have sex without feelings or committment. You cannot get a man to commit to you just because you give him sex. If that were possible then there would be a lot of married hookers!! The problem is that you are sleeping with a ... (read in full...)
I am 19, want to get engaged and pregnant but I am afraid of my parents reaction.
Q. Me and my partner (both 19) have been together for a a year and 2 months we love each other dearly and are mature for our age. We have talked alot throughout our relationship about having a child and also getting engaged. It seems like forever ...
A. 10 February 2010: If you approach your parents with the idea of having a baby first then they might not be so understanding. Why don't you tell them you are getting engaged. This is relatively safe to say to them I think. Then get your own place and announce a ... (read in full...)
My mum found condoms in my dad's bag and was in tears all night. Should I tell him!
Q. I'm so sad right now. A few hours ago, my mom spoke softly to me that she found out something about my dad. She found condoms in his bag yesterday. She told me that she cried the whole night. I don't think she confessed to my dad yet but soon..she ...
A. 10 February 2010: I'm sorry this is happening to your family. Unfortunately there is nothing you can do except be there for both your parents. If the start fighting about it, then they won't be able to easily get through this if you directly involve yourself in all ... (read in full...)
I am tired of feeling guilty for being attracted to older men!
Q. i find myself extremely attracted to older guys! not just because some show signs of maturity and have more in common with me but also because of their physical appearance. this isnt something recent its just something i dont really talk about for ...
A. 10 February 2010: just clarify, how much older are the guys you like? You are sixteen, right? There's a huge difference between a 16 yr old being attracted to a 21 year old guy and 16 yr old being attracted to a 61 year old so tell us the age range you like. ... (read in full...)
I need advice on repairing a mother-daughter relationship!
Q. Ok, this has nothing to do with a romantic relationship. I need some advise on how to repair a mother daughter relationship. I just recently gave birth to a beautiful baby girl, it is my moms first grandchild and she is thrilled to be a new gran...
A. 10 February 2010: I think you are possibly not fully aware of the pain your mother may have gone through because of your step-mom. She probably protected you from most of it. And during the time that she was dealing with her personal hell, she probably comforted ... (read in full...)
Am I the only one scratching his nut-sack to a bloody pulp ?
Q. OK, here goes a big gulp of pride swallowing. I mean I just want to say that I am worn out, and tired of frigging scratching my freaking balls (scrotum) to bleed unto a bloody pulp. Sometimes they too soft and moist, so I scratch; but other times ...
A. 10 February 2010: You need to visit your doctor. It sounds like you might have a fungal infection. The doctor would give you a pill to swallow and a cream to apply. You might also have crabs so perhaps collect your pile of skin cells and take then with you to the ... (read in full...)
While aroused strange liquid comes out.
Q. Hi, Well i am 18 years old and my penis is uncircumcised. My major concern is why when i am making out with a girl and i am erect, my penis produces a liquid? It is not cum, it's just something that i have no control over and i don't know what it is ...
A. 10 February 2010: Every man has this dear. It is pre-cum and its meant to lubricate the tip of the dick before sex.... (read in full...)
My Husband only wants sex once a month! I am always ready for it!
Q. my husband hardly wants sex. I am always ready and want to. He only wants sex maybe once a month...
A. 10 February 2010: I think this problem is quite common in this age group... You need to tell him in a loving and caring way that you miss that part of your relationship. If he is otherwise healthy (no medications for BP, Diabetes, cholesterol etc), if his waistline ... (read in full...)
My sex addiction is leaving me spirtually, physically, mentally and financialy exhausted. I need help to stop this!
Q. Im 28. A husband for 3 years. A father for 2 years. Im a sex addict. I have been for 10years. I use prostitutes. Not so long ago i confessed all to my wife who somehow stuck by me and eventually forgave me. Recently i started again. Crazy thing is i ...
A. 10 February 2010: I don't think you will get the help you need on this site. Your problem requires professional help. Try calling this sex addicts' helpline: 1800 941 5313. ... (read in full...)
He's much older than me..will this be a problem?
Q. I am carrying this kind of problem everyday. I am confused and i don't know what is best and right to do. I currently having a relationship with a guy who is older than me and separated from him wife. I am 23 years old and he is 50 years of age....
A. 9 February 2010: I understand what female anon is trying to say and I appreciate her comments, but its not quite that way for everyone. My man is over 60 and our sex life is the best I have ever had. Its less frequent than my previous relationship at about twice a ... (read in full...)
He's much older than me..will this be a problem?
Q. I am carrying this kind of problem everyday. I am confused and i don't know what is best and right to do. I currently having a relationship with a guy who is older than me and separated from him wife. I am 23 years old and he is 50 years of age....
A. 8 February 2010: I also come from a culture where pleasing your parents is everything. Yet I have disappointed mine many times and was the last to get a degree when everyone else had already done their masters. I got divorced which is a big NO in my family. So when ... (read in full...)
I'm using an implant, can this fail? Since Christmas I've been feeling pregnant.
Q. Hey Aunts. Could Someone Help and end my confusion? i had Implanon (impalnt) inserted Early Last Year, Around June i think or before, The Thing is ive had light spotting since it was inserted but since Christmas/New year ive had no pe...
A. 7 February 2010: just take another pregnancy test to rule it out. ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my 16 year old son getting his girlfriend pregnant?
Q. I am the mom of 3 sons ages 18, 16 and 13. I just found out that my 16 yr old son got his 16 yr old girlfriend pregnant. We have been very open about sex and had MANY safe sex talks. I knew that he had a girlfriend but didn't know that they were ...
A. 7 February 2010: You need to ensure that your son takes full responsibility for his actions. He needs to step up and do the right thing. This is one of those situations calling for an objective counselor to talk him and his girlfriend through their options. Try ... (read in full...)
He's much older than me..will this be a problem?
Q. I am carrying this kind of problem everyday. I am confused and i don't know what is best and right to do. I currently having a relationship with a guy who is older than me and separated from him wife. I am 23 years old and he is 50 years of age....
A. 31 January 2010: As long as he is not cheating on his wife then I don't see a problem with seeing him. Personally when I have dated older men I have been treated better, they are more faithful, more stable. Better than the roller coaster of a young guy who is still ... (read in full...)
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