I agreed that my wife have sex with another man and now she is pregnant with his baby and won't give it up!
Q. me and my wife made a mistake but my wife thinks different, don't know what to do I’ve been married to my beautiful wife Robin for almost 2 years, we dated for just over a year before we got happily got married, I would say maybe about 8 months...
A. 21 January 2010: You need to make a decision. Do you want to stay your marriage? Your wife is having another man's baby and you have been manipulated into accepting it. If its showing then its likely that its too late to abort it. Who is going to be the legal ... (read in full...)
Caught my bf masturbating while chatting to another woman, online!
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend for 5 years, we met when i was 14 and he was 18, i was dating his friend (nothing serious) and eventually he and i hooked up. We had a great relationship in the begining (as most are), then i caught him jacking off while ...
A. 21 January 2010: WTF? You don't want him to see anyone else but you should be allowed to? You want a 3some where only you are pleasured by 2 people but they have to settle only for you? And now, he can't even masturbate, something 100% of men do anyway? You need ... (read in full...)
Discussing marriage with my bf...greatly upsets him. What should I do?
Q. I have been dating my bf for 4 years. Whenever we try to have a serious discussion regarding our future (marriage) he gets extremely upset with me (i.e. yells, shouts, HUGE arguments). I try very hard to do special things for him. I cook, clean, ...
A. 21 January 2010: If you are already giving him everything that a wife does then why would he marry you? For many guys, they like to be the hunters, not the hunted. They like to chase not be chased. You have to make him pursue you because right now you are acting ... (read in full...)
Am I cheating on my wife because my penis is too small to satisfy her?
Q. my penis is too small in size even in most excited condition (4 inch long and max. 1 inch diameter). Nevertheless i got married 26 yr old lady while i was at my 36. frankly speaking my penis does not fit well into her vegina. i can guess 50% of ...
A. 21 January 2010: You are cheating on her only if you are sleeping with ANOTHER woman. If you are only sleeping with your wife then this is an easy problem to fix. The main problem is not the size of your penis. The main problem is that you are not taking the time ... (read in full...)
I had my contraceptive rod taken out 5 months ago, now I'm trying to get pregnant and nothing is happening!
Q. hi i got the contraceptive rod in , it last for three years, unfortunately i had it in for four. i just got it out 5 months 6 maybe due to trying to get pregnant, but nothing happening.. do i wait longer for my body to get back to normal or ...
A. 21 January 2010: Your question is not very clear... Do you mean the little rods they put in your inner arm (Norplant) or the IUD they put in your uterus?
If its the IUD, was it the Copper T or was it the Progesterone releasing one (Mirena)?... (read in full...)
I am not coping with his past and the 3some he had!
Q. Years ago my partner had a threesome with his then wife and her female friend in their house, in their bed whilst their child was at her granny's. It was his wife who initiated the threesome, she took her friend back, etc. His wife has always been ...
A. 21 January 2010: I encourage you to listen to what lionelhutz has said to you. If you can't learn to somehow get that image out of your head then you are going to destroy your relationship. This is something that happened before you so you can not hold it against ... (read in full...)
I'm a 22 yr old female married but no longer like sex!
Q. I'm 22 years old and I'm happily married to my 30 year old husband.we've been together for four and married for almost 1yr.I don't have any type of sex drive anymore.its been like this for months we don't have a lot of problems I don't know what's ...
A. 21 January 2010: What contraception are you using? Anything chemical (Pill, Norplant etc.,) will interfere with your sex drive. For me, on the Pill for many years my drive was quite low. Then when I went off to try for a baby my drive came back with a vengeance. . ... (read in full...)
How do I convince him to have more kids?
Q. I am a 23 year old female in a relationship with a 33 year old divorced man. I live with him and we have discussed getting engaged this upcoming summer. My problem is, he already has 4 children from his previous marriage but I do not have any. How ...
A. 21 January 2010: If he is trying to convince you not to have any kids then you need to really think about if you want to be with someone that selfish. He has 4 and at your age you can't have any? I would walk away. Right now you're in love and nothing else matters, ... (read in full...)
Confront now or later, Stay or Go: Boyfriend of 3 yrs found with account on adult social site AFF
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years now. We met through friends and we fell for each other quickly. I moved in with him about 7 months after we got together. A couple of months the move in we discussed marriage and were both in favor ...
A. 21 January 2010: This is far worse than I thought. Yes, if you intend to break up with him then confront him with full evidence to really hit it home. He will probably beg and plead for forgiveness and lie that he wasnt looking at the tranny stuff for arousal but ... (read in full...)
Our wild sex life has gone stale! How can we keep it hot?
Q. Any ideas on keeping sex exciting? Me and the better half have hit a bit of a brick wall, we started fast and now have no where to go When we met my other half had not had sex for 3 years and I was just out of a marriage where I hated having sex...
A. 21 January 2010: When sex gets stale it often means you are missing out on intimacy and passionate love making. You don't have to be a circus acrobat to have good sex. Sometimes even old missionary can be fantastic if you take the time to slow things down, make it ... (read in full...)
Confront now or later, Stay or Go: Boyfriend of 3 yrs found with account on adult social site AFF
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years now. We met through friends and we fell for each other quickly. I moved in with him about 7 months after we got together. A couple of months the move in we discussed marriage and were both in favor ...
A. 20 January 2010: Wow, this is just horrible. Welldone for being smart in catching him. I would say get the passwords to the email first so that you know forever who he is communicating with. Don't EVER reveal how you got the information because he will change his ... (read in full...)
Is it worth staying in this marriage when my husband admits to wanting to have sex with porn stars?
Q. Usually when I read questions about porn the answers state that the men are usually more interested in the acts than the women and 'he wouldnt really want to have sex with them'. However my husband openly admits he wanted to have sex with the porn...
A. 20 January 2010: I think that if he says this to deliberately hurt you then you need to tell him to go to hell. But if its just an honest fantasy, maybe you could play around with it, secretly spend a couple of weeks in a pole dancing class then surprise him with a ... (read in full...)
Is my wife dating another man?
Q. please help me to make a decision about my relationship? i am suspicious of my wife dating another man after reading a message on facebook to her friend stating she was going on a date but i arrived home that night discovering "going out clothes ...
A. 20 January 2010: Oh sh-t... Sorry to hear this. I hope you got registration number and car type to really give her a shock. Don't get your arm twisted in the confrontation. She can hold onto her story for several hours. If you can outlast her these first few hours ... (read in full...)
Is my wife dating another man?
Q. please help me to make a decision about my relationship? i am suspicious of my wife dating another man after reading a message on facebook to her friend stating she was going on a date but i arrived home that night discovering "going out clothes ...
A. 20 January 2010: Oh sh-t... Sorry to hear this. I hope you got registration number and car type to really give her a shock. Don't get your arm twisted in the confrontation. She can hold onto her story for several hours. If you can outlast her these first few hours ... (read in full...)
Is my marriage over for good? How should I deal with the sitution when he wont even speak to his kids?
Q. I got married four years ago through a beautiful church ceremony. a year later we got our first baby who is a boy and last year january had our second baby, a girl. My husband started fooling around with other women a year into the marriage and...
A. 20 January 2010: Welcome to the club. I have been there. I remember first hearing what my ex husband was doing and collapsing on the floor for over an hour not even sure if I was still alive. It was a painful time of crying, raging, sleeping all day. Then my ... (read in full...)
I'm having a struggle with sex in our marriage...
Q. Struggle I'm really in a struggle with sex in my marriage. I feel really pressured into having sex with my husband and I'm not even sure he loves and wants to be with me. We have both made our mistakes in this marriage and I don't about our ...
A. 20 January 2010: I'm going to get shot down for this but let me tell you that if everything else in your relationship is fine and he is NOT being forceful, abusive or disrespectful to you, then just give him the sex. In a relationship, sex is to men what emotion is ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's dad calls to much, how to control my irritated anger towards my boyfriend?
Q. Is he in the relationship with me or his dad dating us too? what can I do to stop me from getting so angry when his dad calls? ;I feel his dad calls to much and I know they have a close relationship and recently his dad found out he has cancer b...
A. 20 January 2010: It is not your place to decide how much interaction he has with his family. His father obviously has some separation anxiety from his son and over time he will let go. If you try to separate them its likely that you will break up with your bf ... (read in full...)
Any hope for our marriage?
Q. I love this man more then I can tell you. We have been together for almost 20 years. We have had are ups and downs but lately its just bad. He blames me for all the bad going on in our marriage. He recently told me that I was fat and dicussing and ...
A. 20 January 2010: You are in an abusive relationship and he is probably cheating on you. Vanity is a huge sign of an affair so watch out for this. Never let a man control your life to this level that you live only for him. Now that you have given him all your ... (read in full...)
Is my wife having an affair with our son's coach?
Q. The idea that I am writing this is still odd. I was looking online to find signs of a cheating spouse and I came across this, so here I write. For the last year I have had this growing suspicion that my wife of 13 years has been having an affair. ...
A. 20 January 2010: It sounds to me like she just has a good male friend who has been supporting her through your illness. Unfortunately, asking her to give up this friendship or even confronting her about it may well be the straw that broke the camel's back. She has ... (read in full...)
Should I divorce my long distance wife?
Q. Hie.. I just got married about a month ago and I am already thinking about separation. The reason behind it is that i do not think my wife is a good wife. We hhad a history where were were dating for about a year and broke up due to commitmant is...
A. 20 January 2010: Your number one problem is that before marriage you did not discuss your divergent work schedules AND your expectations of each other. It sounds to me as though she was just desperate to be Mrs Somebody and now that she achieved that goal she is ... (read in full...)
Our gay friend was naked in front of my wife and I didn't like it!
Q. My wife has this male friend she was friends with for about 2 years before she met me. I'll call him BJ (for his initials). They were never bf/gf or I wouldn't let her still be friends with him (ex's are never a good thing when you're married). BJ ...
A. 19 January 2010: I think let this particular event slide. But for next time, make sure that you don't take him into your bedroom and stuff. If he is bottom gay its not unusual for them to see themselves as one of the girls sometimes. Just leave it but next time be ... (read in full...)
Questions for the girls: Is my height and my scar a turn-off?
Q. hi to the girls: whats the lower limit of height of the guys ud date? how bad is 5 10? i also have this big scar under my penis starts from right under the head to the balls is that a huge turn off for girls?...
A. 19 January 2010: Its only a problem to the girls if you yourself think its a problem. It boils down to confidence in yourself. Isn't Tom Cruise 5 5"? I don't think its hurt him too badly being a shorty. As for the scar on your dic, they come in all shapes, sizes ... (read in full...)
Hubby says I'm not fun like others
Q. My husband went to luncheon with some female clients and when they asked him to bring me for lunch one day, he replied that I'm not fun like them. He told me this when he came home and realized his mistake when I was offended. He tried to correct ...
A. 19 January 2010: He is acting like a real loser. But instead of sitting around listening to his tales of fun, why don't you create a social life for yourself. Find some friends that you meet once or twice every week. Dress up, look good and go out and have some ... (read in full...)
Am I obsessed by this guy?
Q. Hi all i need some help here, A couple of months ago i started a new job on a horse stud, my boss had warned me about the next door neighour(farming properties) and said that he was a brat and that he was not a nice person, we had a big bushfire ...
A. 19 January 2010: In that case maybe you are just beginning to depend on him too much. Be careful because you can ruin your friendship if he starts to feel your dependency. My suggestion is ask him to hook you up with one of the friends of the girl he goes to see. ... (read in full...)
My husband acts like I'm invisible!
Q. my husband and i have been married 10 years to each other. i have been married before 3 times. he has been married once. we met at rehab where we were both recovering from our own addictions. we are both clean and sober now. my husband, however is a ...
A. 19 January 2010: Dont worry, the pastors are used to dealing with manipulaters, they will be able to see through him. Just be yourself, don't hide any details about your husband to try help him save face. Just tell the truth of his behavior. I wish you all the best. ... (read in full...)
I got into a physical fight with my brother and now my boyfriend wants to beat the crap out of him.
Q. I am a 17 year old girl and well last night was a really bad night. My twin brother and me got in a physical fight. I was already really upset and he was just getting on my nerves because he was calling me names and saying stuff that was starting to ...
A. 19 January 2010: You should not let your boyfriend beat your brother up. The proper person to deal with your brother is your father; or your mother. This is a family affair and your boyfriend is not family. I understand your anger and hurt at what your brother did. ... (read in full...)
Wife found out about texts to other woman, and I don't think our marriage can survive this!
Q. I hope someone can help. I got very close to a co-worker, especially texting and phone calls plus some meetings when we could make it. Nothing sexual happened although we both led each other on to believe we wanted it to and the texts etc got pretty ...
A. 19 January 2010: Offer to take a polygraph test to prove that you are telling the truth. Or for me and my ex husband, after his first suspected affair, I made life a living hell for both of us, until he offered a meeting with the other woman where he professed his ... (read in full...)
B/f's mom walked in while I was giving him hand job!
Q. Help! My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year now and we're completely in love. I've never been more happy and comfortable with anyone. Well, today we were at his house in his basement with his previously Catholic mother home. I'm not ...
A. 19 January 2010: Well, it depends, what exactly did she say when she caught you? Did she scream or threaten any action?... (read in full...)
Is an old, young looking guy going out with a young woman, creepy?
Q. If a guy is 45, but literally looks 27, and goes out with a 20 year old, is that creepy?...
A. 19 January 2010: It sounds perfectly fine to me. She benefits from his financial stability and he enjoys her youth and beauty. So its sounds fair to me.... (read in full...)
Do you think my husband is telling the truth?
Q. I would like to know if my husband is telling me the truth, since we recently got married he told me he had a female friend and she was married and he had never met her, that she lives en PA and she is his friend because they talked over the phone ...
A. 19 January 2010: You need to call her and ask her politely what the nature of her relationship is with your husband. Calmly explain to her that her relationship with your husband is creating friction in your marriage. Tell her that you don't want your time wasted ... (read in full...)
How do you tell a guy you've been with for 3 months you're pregnant?
Q. How do you tell a guy you've been with for 3 months you're pregnant? So i've been with this really amazing guy for 3 months now and i'm 19 about to be 20. We have only slept together 5 times and I'm on birth control which is the crazy part....
A. 19 January 2010: Just make sure when you tell him you act very shocked. If you are beaming he might suspect you did it on purpose. Tell him about your 1 year old daughter but don't mention the baby's father just yet. Only the pregnancy and the one year old. Tell ... (read in full...)
I am not coping with his past and the 3some he had!
Q. Years ago my partner had a threesome with his then wife and her female friend in their house, in their bed whilst their child was at her granny's. It was his wife who initiated the threesome, she took her friend back, etc. His wife has always been ...
A. 18 January 2010: Why are you letting this bother you? Obviously the experience wasnt good enough for him to stay with her. So just forget about it and let it go. If he wanted a slut then he would have stayed with her. You are your own person and you make your own ... (read in full...)
Anxiety and insomnia problems...
Q. Does anyone know any good websites for helping with anxiety and insomnia?? I currently have real problems getting to sleep naturally (due to anxiety/panic attacks) and I worry it will affect my life/relationships! I have tried counsell...
A. 18 January 2010: I was suffering from insomnia and anxiety for 3 years. On average I would fall asleep at about 3am and up at about 7am. I would toss and turn for hours but the exhaustion still wasnt enough to get me to sleep the next night. The only thing that ... (read in full...)
Why might blowjobs be considered degrading? Help me understand...
Q. Hi All, Blow Jobs being degrading is NOT a view I hold. But I hear it mentioned often enough on this site to know that it's a view that many women do have. Usually it mentioned by "male askers" complaining that their partners won't give them h...
A. 18 January 2010: If the guy loves, cares and respects you, then its great. BUT if a guy treats you like crap, calls you names and then expects a blow job, THEN its degrading. The circumstances that surround the relationship are what determine whether or not its ... (read in full...)
I'm so confused! Does he love me or not?
Q. Hi i will try to keep this as short as i can. My story starts way back in Jan 2009 my boyfriend and i had a heated row the first proper row in 6 years. A few days later he said he didn't feel the same way about me anymore his feelings had changed ...
A. 18 January 2010: He obviously has not forgiven you for the fight you had. So now he is punishing you for it because he knows you are so desperate to make things work. Perhaps take a break from the relationship to just both heal. If you were wrong in the row, ... (read in full...)
How can I ever let go of this?
Q. last weekend me and some friends went to a local lounge and started having a few drinks.... Except for me, I finished a bottle of spirit (I know this because of the bill I later found in my pocket....) I actually should have had alcohol poisonin...
A. 18 January 2010: You obviously had some kind of black out. There is not much you can do to change what happened but you can take control of your drinking from now on to prevent this from happening. This is dangerous self-destructive behaviour. I think you should ... (read in full...)
Which one do you think could be the father? I'm two weeks late.
Q. Ok ive been so naughty and feel so bad but ive slept with 2 different guys this month... The 1st one my ex boyfriend we had unprotected sex but it was only anal sex and he came there.. the 2nd guy i met on new years eve i have slept with twice we...
A. 18 January 2010: it could be either guy. Your first step would be to buy a pregnancy test kit so you can stop torturing yourself. If you indeed are pregnant then you need to think about how complicated it would be to have two possible fathers, both denying its ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a body fluid fetishes
Q. My boyfriend is into all fluids that are produced by the body and his "fetish" has now gotten out of control. He wants me to take a laxative before anal sex so that i can s!%t on him during sex. If he's in my anus will the poop come out?.... and ...
A. 18 January 2010: Poop would probably come out if you take a laxative. Since you are of a reasonable age and seeing that there are people who do nasty shyt like this (no pun intended), my advice is that you do it in the shower with the water running, not on your ... (read in full...)
Should I push my feelings away?
Q. A couple of days ago I gave a girl a note and it had my feelings about her and that I think she is special and how I like her more then a friend then later that day she sai she had to talk to me then she said she don't like girls then she said she ...
A. 18 January 2010: As a lesbian or gay person, it is never a good idea to suddenly express romantic interest in a straight person and put yourself out like that without at least being friends with them first. Doing this is a world of hurt and pain and you will face ... (read in full...)
Am I obsessed by this guy?
Q. Hi all i need some help here, A couple of months ago i started a new job on a horse stud, my boss had warned me about the next door neighour(farming properties) and said that he was a brat and that he was not a nice person, we had a big bushfire ...
A. 18 January 2010: Before you go all 'Brokeback Mountain' on us, can you explain if you have feelings for him or are attracted to him in any way? Don't have a kneejerk reaction to this question; seriously ask yourself some honest questions about your sexual ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my boyfriend's daughter?
Q. my boyfriend is 50 and has two children a 14yr boy and 16yrgirl (he rarely sees his boy). my partner's been separated from their mother for 15 years (who is remarried and has another child)- the daughter has him wrapped round her little finger and ...
A. 18 January 2010: It is still the original parents responsibility to control her behavior. If they can't do it then you have the choice of finding an unencumbered man with no kids to drive you crazy. You have said she is close to your boyfriend's ex; there is ... (read in full...)
Is my wife dating another man?
Q. please help me to make a decision about my relationship? i am suspicious of my wife dating another man after reading a message on facebook to her friend stating she was going on a date but i arrived home that night discovering "going out clothes ...
A. 18 January 2010: You need to use the Gestapo method: "I know everything. I have been investigating. But I want to hear it from you why you are doing this to us." hopefully she will break down and tell. If she starts to deny, just walk away from her midsentence and ... (read in full...)
My husband acts like I'm invisible!
Q. my husband and i have been married 10 years to each other. i have been married before 3 times. he has been married once. we met at rehab where we were both recovering from our own addictions. we are both clean and sober now. my husband, however is a ...
A. 18 January 2010: He is very obviously being abusive. God would never force you to stay in a relationship where you are being treated in this way so dont worry about that. Why dont you seek out counseling for yourself at your local church. You may meet other women ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my boyfriend's daughter?
Q. my boyfriend is 50 and has two children a 14yr boy and 16yrgirl (he rarely sees his boy). my partner's been separated from their mother for 15 years (who is remarried and has another child)- the daughter has him wrapped round her little finger and ...
A. 18 January 2010: You cannot compete for a father's affection for his children. They were there first and they will outlast you I'm afraid. Your role as a possible step mother was only to be involved with him and be a friend to the children. It was not your place ... (read in full...)
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