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My husband cheated and I am so numb

Q.   Its funny how in a split second everything you knew and loved can just be stripped away from you. I heard a saying the other day and it stayed with me..."what does it mean to regret when you have no other choice." This has really struck a chord with ...

A.   10 December 2009: I am extremely eager to respond to your comments Mr. Indian male however I do not have the time required to respond as I must attend to my daughter now. I will take the opportunity to respond as soon as I put her down for the night. I do appreciate ... (read in full...)

My husband cheated and I am so numb

Q.   Its funny how in a split second everything you knew and loved can just be stripped away from you. I heard a saying the other day and it stayed with me..."what does it mean to regret when you have no other choice." This has really struck a chord with ...

A.   10 December 2009:  Sincerely thank-you for taking the time to write to me it really means alot. Im not sure if you got my first thank--you as i am still Learning how to navigate through this system. I pray for the day that my crying will be reduced to just 5 minut... (read in full...)

My husband cheated and I am so numb

Q.   Its funny how in a split second everything you knew and loved can just be stripped away from you. I heard a saying the other day and it stayed with me..."what does it mean to regret when you have no other choice." This has really struck a chord with ...

A.   9 December 2009: Sincerely, thank-you for responding. My heart is so broken and I cannot imagine a time that my crying can be reduced to just five minutes...how I pray for that day! I honestly can barely function. I try so hard to keep it together but its so ... (read in full...)

Fiance cheated on me and I can't cope...

Q.   Hi everyone, i have been with my girlfriend for 3 years and we got engaged last year. we had been very happy and everyone said we were good for each other. I am 33 and she is 23 but the age issue never even came into it, it really didnt, she was ...

A.   9 December 2009: Well the biggest question that you need to ask yourself is do you think she is capable of doing this to you again? You said you have both thought that the other one was cheating at times. These are red flags. is there something in her that is ... (read in full...)

How to deal with it?

Q.   How do i get over him its so tough I really need advice on this please We are seperating and its not easy I just spoke to him and he is so calm about everything How can two people that was so inlove and dedicated to each other turn out to ...

A.   9 December 2009: Any break up is hard. The deeper the love the harder it is. I know that men sometimes seem calmer and stronger than us but trust me breakups affect everyone involved .... (read in full...)

Should I resign myself to my current unhappy life or pursue the new relationship...it's just so hard. Is there an answer?

Q.   I don't know where to begin, so I will start with some background information. I have been married for 20 years, have a child in college, 1 in high school and 1 in 4th grade. I got married at age 26. When I dated my wife we had a lot in com...

A.   9 December 2009: It is so sad but very common unfortunately. It sounds like you are a good man and i can't believe I am saying this after just being cheated on myself. I understand your issues within your marriage. I can tell that you really love your wife. One ... (read in full...)

I snooped and found things, now how to confront him!

Q.   i know its wrong of me but i recently went thru my bfs cell phone and found things that bother me. How can i confront him without him knowing i went in his phone?...

A.   9 December 2009: It depends what bothers you on it and if you think you may need to hold on until you get the bigger picture. If you got an ace dont play it until the last card is dealt. It sounds like you are just in the gathering stage... (read in full...)

Should I tell my lover's wife her husband is a philandering fink?

Q.   hi there i thought i was the only woman who is involved with a married man but it seems there are out many out here and i wish someone can help me. we works for different companies, then texted, emailed, he sent me flowers, chocolate and w...

A.   9 December 2009: Its funny that tonite is the first time I am on this site and it was for the exact opposite reason. My husband cheated and i was looking for answers about how to deal with the pain. God is everywhere. I believe i was meant to be the first response ... (read in full...)

Married but falling for another man, what should I do!?

Q.   what do i do. im married, 1 child. great marriage, no lies, no infidelity, and no drama. but i think im falling for another man. hes married too. iv been apart working this past year and this man is working with me. were both apart from loved ones. ...

A.   9 December 2009: Are you kidding me? you have a marriage that is good and a husband that is true and a family yet you think what...you could have it better with this man? Fantasy is not reality. Lust and the thought of having sex with this man may excite you but as ... (read in full...)

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