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Archived questions from: 11 September, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is it wrong to want to feel important to someone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3535 days ago

11 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Many people around me work and outside it,are called, nice, beautiful and amazing people, witty, special etc etc, people smile when they enter a room. My younger sister is loved by most, people love her and her family. I get it they are, im happy for them. Im an ok and ... (249 words)

Is there a chance for this relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3533 days ago

11 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been having some problems lately... I've been feeling a bit left out because he has a large group of friends and a new job and so on. We've still been hanging out and when we do it has been really nice and great just like always. There's just one thing ... (537 words)

My husband loves me but I no longer feel the same for him

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3534 days ago

11 September 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid. I told my husband I'm no longer in love with him. We have been married for 11 years. I have lost total interest in him. He is so hurt by this that I am willing to work things out. I care for his well being tremendously. He is constantly texting love quotes and ... (106 words)

I cheated -- how can I get him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3536 days ago

11 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I cheated on my boyfriend after a year and 7 months in our relationship. I cheated last week and everything's out in the open. The guy I cheated with was my old friend. This was the one and only time we hooked up since being in a relationship with my parter. Me and m... (291 words)

My best friend has suddenly become less helpful and I'm not sure how to handle it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3536 days ago

11 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Best friend is suddenly hardly helpful. My best friend and I have been friends for 20 years. She has always been easygoing and happy to help. However, over the past few years she has actually been quick to say "No" about a lot of things that I wouldn't have thought were ask... (237 words)

I miss my boyfriend and worry about other girls since we don't see each other

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3536 days ago

11 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a month now but we haven't seen each other since early this summer in July. It is now September and school has started. We don't go to the same school and I miss him. I'm worried that he is with other girls at his new school. Am ... (72 words)

I do not like my fiance's disrespect towards my personal space or the way he lets his niece invade it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3536 days ago

11 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been really upset with my fiancé since two weekends ago, i am really particular about my personal space and he knows that, as a young child i had to share a room with my brothers while living in an extended family household, my parents built a new house that we moved ... (443 words)

Do you think I should've had sex with him?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3536 days ago

11 September 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - Please help me!!! I had been going out with this guy for 2 years until he dumped me round 7-8 months ago. The reason for this was because he asked me if I'd have sex with him and I said no because we're waaayyy too young, (we're both 13) He said that if I loved him, I should... (231 words)

We broke up but are still dating trying to get back together. Should I continue this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3535 days ago

11 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My live in boyfriend and I broke up about 3 weeks ago. We were having some problems for about 6months to a year and we have been together for 3 years. The night of the breakup I put his things out on the porch because I was so angry, but I really wasn't ready for him to go. ... (219 words)

My boyfriend's sexual drive is waaaay higher than mine!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3534 days ago

11 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello everyone, I need your advice. Im 20, my boyfriend is 22. We are in a relationship for a year now. My boyfriend is the first guy I slept with and I love him more than anyone on this world. The thing is, his sexual drive is waaaay bigger than mine. To explain myself, ... (180 words)

I don't like that my girlfriend's dance partner pulls her close. Do I tell her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3534 days ago

11 September 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, Let me get straight to the problem.. My girlfriend has joined the dance classes and she went there today and she was telling me what happened there! Told me that theres this guy his dance partner.. While dancing he tends to pull her hard towards him.. Like too clos... (141 words)

I'm in love with my friend and he won't end things with his girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3536 days ago

11 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there,i am ruhi.for some days i hav been living in a dilemma.plz help.as i have a friend who already has a girlfriend and i feel i have fallen for my friend.for one year we have been talking to each other as a friend but now for last 5 months we are doing sex chat and it is ... (92 words)

He's not doing anything wrong but I'm still jealous

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3529 days ago

11 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, thanks in advance for looking at my question! I have just been in a relationship for about 2 and a half years and we are both very happy, we have had our struggles and arguments like any relationship but the past year we have just got stronger and stronger. I move... (347 words)

My ex is acting weird but hes the one who broke things off!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3533 days ago

11 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - He broke up with me after 2 months. through a letter! He said he didn't deserve me. i was too 'pretty', 'beautiful' etc. I didn't mourn or anything. these days he asks me about my love life nothing else. Now i'm with my man (he's my fiancee) and he flipped. he started crying ... (120 words)

Is it safe to trust my boyfriend after we have broken up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3536 days ago

11 September 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi everyone :) I am really like caught right now so I'm gonna ask for some advice here :) A few weeks ago my boyfriend and I broke up but after a few days he texted me to see how I was doing.. And we just started talking as if the thing that broke us apart was forgotten...... (270 words)

Why is my cousin being so mean to me? Is he getting back at me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3536 days ago

11 September 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi. I'm almost 15, a girl and a virgin. I never had a bf, only friends. The reason I never had a bf is that my parents didn't allow it because I was too young. Now a few months ago I've met this guy who's a friend of my cousin that lives near me and I liked him a lot... my ... (354 words)

My boyfriend's ex wants me out of his life because she wants him back

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3536 days ago

11 September 2014 (F)

age - My boyfriends ex girlfriend wants me out out of mt boyfriends life so that she can get him to back to her .but he doesnt eant get back with her.he broup with. Her 7 years ago .but she still thinks of him as her boyfriend.she has pitures of the two of them on her facebook page. ... (99 words)

Do I need to tell guys that I don't shave down there?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3517 days ago

11 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Same person who just wrote in about starting over sexually I just thought this was different enough for a new entry--I don't like to shave or really even trim my bush, I do very minimal maintenance.Once you're at that crossroads, where you're probably going to have sex, is it ... (148 words)

Need help trying to start over sexually

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3536 days ago

11 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm recently out of a long term relationship. We had been sexually stagnant, possibly incompatible. Early on there was pressure to orgasm and he would leave angry if it didn't work, or there'd be some let down and sometimes crying. This was years ago but I'm trying to explain ... (305 words)

I don't want to be just one of "his girls"!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3536 days ago

11 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I've known this guy for a year, were part of a group. I always found him attractive but didn't go there. A few months ago we were out, drinking etc and he saw I was getting chatted up by another guy. he subtly pulled me away and I ended up at his. we was going too but he gave a ... (303 words)

Their house cleaning isn't up to American standards -- would an anonymous letter be a good idea?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3534 days ago

11 September 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - We have some good friends who are smart, friendly adults. The only thing is, they seem to never clean their bathroom. For instance the toilet is often disgusting. My theory is that since they both grew up in a different country, perhaps their home culture did not put much value ... (107 words)

Am I too much of an oppressing person? Am I asking too much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3536 days ago

11 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Been married for 14 now first 10 were great, seems like I was living in a dream, but I had to wake up when he started getting aggressive, crazy, spacing out, staying out for long or wanting me to go for a few days with my family; my son 6then comes and tells me his dad been ... (504 words)