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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I Risk the Friendship for Something More?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4635 days ago

7 September 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - My bestfriend/crush broke up with his girlfriend about a month ago and now he is spending more time with me. I think he likes me, he asked me to go to our schools homecoming last year after him and his girlfriend got in a fight. Sadly something came up and he couldn't go ... (121 words)

My ex has forgotten when my birthday is. Do I have a right to be peeved or am I making a big deal of nothing?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

7 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex and me were together for just under six months. It's been several months now since we broke up. We've tried to be friends since then but it has been difficult for me because she ended it and then got a new boyfriend soon after. Anyway, tonight she has text me to ask w... (175 words)

I lied to my online friend and I am worried she will find out

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there,, I met a girl online a good couple years ago and we got on quite well, problem is, I lied about a lot - Including my age. I'm 18 now but according to my alter ego I should be 20. Now usually this wouldn't be a problem but after a while of not speaking due to a hacked... (164 words)

She likes, would date me....BUT she still wants to have sex with other people!!!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

7 September 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, this is a WEIRD one. But maybe you guys can help. See, I know this girl who is sort of promiscuous. Yet she's hott. And sweet. And so we been out a bit. Never slept together or anything because believe it or not, I dont think people should do that outside of a committed r... (341 words)

He broke up with me. I don't want to 'get over him' - I want him back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend broke up with me on August 24th at 3:30 a.m. I miss him so much... At first he said he would come back soon that he just needed sometime to get his act together... Then he was married to this girl on facebook so i asked him if they were really dating he said no but ... (192 words)

How do I get this guy to talk to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I,ve been meeting my man for about 2 months now and even though we're not a proper relationship i,m happy with the way things are. we meet up once a week and go out on dates but the last couple of days he hasn't really been talking to me....I think he may think i,m being clingy ... (128 words)

She lied to me about her sexual past and I can't get over it, please help me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

7 September 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Before my girlfriend and I had sex for the first time she told me I was going to be her first. While we were having sex I realized she was lying to me. Also, I did a lot of research about virginity and concluded that she was lying to me. She told me, with tears in her eyes, ... (616 words)

I don't know which one to choose. my ex who I can't trust or his mate who I have gotten close to

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I've not long split with my boyfriend who i loved so much. (Roughly about a month ago after being with him for 10 months), he left me as he said he couldn't do it anymore but when together he has also lied to me all the time and said nasty things to his friends. We still ... (345 words)

Why is my b/f much more concerned with this girl's feelings than mine?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what I'm doing with my life anymore. It sounds so cliche, but nothing seems happy in my life. I have a loving family, but always feel so distant and lost, I keep all my friends at arms length despite not knowing why. I feel lost, but scared to try anything new. I'm ... (225 words)

I need a car, parents won't fix it, I can't get to a job or work without going through alot of trouble!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I Need Some advice!!!!!!!!! So I need a job real bad. My dad has 2 cars and 1 cost 200$ to be fixed. Both my parents Have jobs so I told Them if they fix the car I will pay them back with my first pay check. When I had job I offered my dad the amount to pay for the car for scho... (364 words)

How could he? Feel so hurt after finding my ex cheated on me before we broke up.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my boyfriend of nearly 7 years 6 months ago because we were so different and wanted different things. I know what I did was for the best but it still hurt, anyway he was so heartbroken but turned on me spreading horrible lies and got a new girlfriend within a we... (108 words)

How do I get these collectors to stop trying to locate my Bf's ex through me at the address where I now live?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Im receiving mail that belongs to my bf's ex wife. She never lived here with him, so im guessing since she went bankrupt, collectors are still looking for her with my bf's last name. Is there a way to stop these mail or an easier way for me to re direct these collectors to her? ... (61 words)

My sister chose my ex over me...now what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of two and a half years and I had a rather messy breakup just over a month ago. My sister knows I do NOT want to speak to or see him if I can avoid it and that I want nothing to do with him anymore, but she chose to be his locker partner this year at university ... (215 words)

Weird dream about the ex who moved away, what does it mean?

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7 September 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i had a dream that my ex boyfriend from a month or two ago was across the street in some car. he recently moved away so i havent seen him since we broke up. the reason why we broke up was because he was moving. the breakup was really bad and so hard so right now i really, ... (156 words)

Why are these married friends suddenly ignoring each other?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - There are two people in our circle of friends who have suddenly started ignoring each other/playing it cool with each other. We are all married and have been friends for many years and do things together with our respective spouses. They are not married to each other. I am... (106 words)

How do I get her to let me into her heart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (M)

age - i am 62 and seperated from my wife , i have a girlfriend of 59, she too is seperated pending divorce , she told me her husband broke her heart, and she has put up a wall, my problem is that i am deeply in love with her ,and want her to let me in to prove it, also we never sem ... (93 words)

Dark days ahead as the affair is coming to an end?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been seeing a married woman for quite some time now, and I've come to the realization that it probably has run its course and will probably fizzle out in the not too distant future. The encounters have been mostly sexual in nature, although we have developed feelings for ... (260 words)

Mixed emotions about my relationship and now I'm wondering 'what if' about this other friend. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4625 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so lately i have been having mixed emotions about my relationship, i love my boyfriend we have been together 2 years now he is my first boyfriend so i know nothing other than him. Although i had a dream last night that i slept with this guy that i used to ALWAYS talk to ... (191 words)

Why does he keep ignoring me? How do I fix this? Is it my fault?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I recently got into an argument because I got mad that this girl kept flirting with him. He didn't go along with it but he didn't make her stop either. She used to call him petnames, until I begged him to make her stop. She knows we're together. She lives in ... (222 words)

Love and sex are 2 different things so is it ok to sleep with my cousin when I have a boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I am a girl and I slept couple of times with my cousin. We're not in love with eachother (at least I'm not, and he said he isn't either) but sometimes we still share a bed. Is that wrong? I recently got a boyfriend, but I have my doubts about him. Is it still wrong to sleep ... (72 words)

Is there a cream that can make your hymen come back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My questions goes like this. Is there any cream that can restore back the hymen after sex? Having sex for the first time doesn't hurt.why is it so? And there were no Blood stain. Two to three fingers can enter into my virginal.does this mean am loosen?... (51 words)

Could there be a problem later on with us being the same age?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all,need some advice please...i and my boyfriend are 19.infact i'm a month older than him.my question is;could there be any disadvantage(s) of us being same age.we also have plans of getting married in a couple of years time.... (40 words)

Was it too soon to tell him I think about us having babies?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now..today I sent him a text message at random, saying that sometimes I think about us having babies. I asked him later if that was too weird of a text, because he didn't reply. He told me he just didn't know what to say to it. ... (98 words)

I have an attraction to older men and don't know what to do about it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night I had a weird dream. It began while I was standing on a dark street, alone, and I walked down to the end and the only other person who is there is my driving instructor (With whom I have no physical attraction, but otherwise I don't hate him either), anyway I sorta ... (542 words)

I asked her to meet me but now I don't know what to say!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Guys please help me, there is this girl in my class that I love, I already told her how I feel and I told her that I want to be with her.. but she says she doesn't know what to do or how to react to this feelings I have. we get along but we don't really like spend that time ... (106 words)

I need help to decide between two men

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help to decide between two men. I created a pickle for myself and I am having a hard time finding the right way out of it. Background: I have dated a guy for five years. I am currently 26, he is currently 30 years old. It has been five years of both good and bad tim... (299 words)

My husband won't have sex until I dress up like a man??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 32, and my husband's 36, and I work in website design/corporate sites on a freelance basis, my husband's a chef at a local restaurant/Indian place. Over the past 3-4 weeks or so, he's been begging me to dress up differently when having sex. Fine, I thought - not the usua... (437 words)

My Boyfriends Favourite Perfume is his ex's

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I just wanted to run something by you girls and guys, see what you think. When I started going out with my guy we were talking about perfumes and stuff and he said that his favourite perfume was Flowerbomb.(this is a perfume ive always really liked to never worn since... (459 words)

An ex contacts you just to jump on you because you seen them and didn't ask how they were?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a male best friend and he asked me a question the other day which has me a little stumped. He saw his ex out somewhere while he was with a group of friends. He didn't speak to her at all. A couple of days later she contacted him via email only to have a go at him for not ... (144 words)

Is my husband using me to be his nanny and housekeeper?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married to my husband for 6 years. we have two toddlers, one of whom is in preschool, the other one is too young still. I work part time in the evenings. My husband works days. I run the house, balance the checkbook, etc (I am in charge of everything that goes ... (452 words)

I don't think he's ever going to comit to me properly and fully

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Im not sure where we are going anymore.I have been with my partner for 18 months now,though i have known him for over 4 years(we were friends for a long time) Our relationship has always been a long distance one,he is currently in kabul i see him for 10 days every 2 weeks.It ... (236 words)

Anyone else in a relationship with an eccentric personality like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of nearly one year has an unusual personality. He's eccentric, strong, brilliant, has some OCD/control behaviors, lacks some social graces. I wonder if he might have a little Aspergers (and yes, I'm educated enough to make that assumption). He tends to keep his ... (228 words)

What does abstinence till marriage mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i am a girl of 22 years old and im still a virgin but just started dating a guy few months ago and i think im ready to have sex, i believe in sex after marriage but the problem is i am not ready to get married and i'm affraid that maybe i am commiting a sin as i am a ... (69 words)

Women: Is a gentle heart, or rather a fundamental aversion to violence and conflict, just a completely unattractive trait for a man?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I am at heart a very mild person. I do not like conflict. Violence, of any kind, is simply unnatural to me, and goes completely against my nature. I grew up in a suburb where violence was never part of our daily lives. Sure, some kids chose to fight on occasion, but that was ... (805 words)

My gut tells me to leave him alone but my heart misses him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been seeing this guy for about six months now. (We work in the same building, on different floors, and have known each other for four). Anyway, we are both in other relationships but came together because we were both unhappy. We hook up but have never been out on an ... (306 words)

I'm questioning my feelings for my BF but I don't know what to do because he's so deeply in love with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So, I've known my boyfriend for 5 years now. He's been my best friend for a year and we got together almost 6 months ago. It was all good for about 3 months, then I started questioning my feelings (partly because of the sex - I've never came and he acts so selfish during t... (176 words)

I am falling in love with my flatmate and there is no sign of any level of commitment

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I would love some advice. I share a house with a flatmate, for about a year we are both pushing 40 so no one young or vunerable here. We are the best of freinds and get on great, lots of flirting happens and the guy is great fun, lovely to me and on a day to day life ... (176 words)

How do I stop being so dependent on him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - We pretty much had been in a relationship for about a month before we both went off to college two weeks ago. There is a two hour travel distance between the two colleges, so technically we're long distance. My biggest worry with him is hell dump me because i am his first ... (265 words)

Does he still like me and in time will come back? Or is he just being friendly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey guys , my boyfriend broke up with me last week and I'm devastated ... He ended it Cos he still had feelings for his ex of 6 years .. When he broke up he said he needed time and if he could get rid of the feelings for her he would cos he doesn't want them cos he wants to be ... (296 words)

Guys: Why would you give a woman your number if you have no intention of answering her calls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Men why give women your phone number if you know that you are not going to answer for her? thats crazy... (21 words)

How do I get my girlfriend's trust back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

7 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - so to start i messed up i know why did i lie in the first place i dunno. so the story goes: she finds out i still talk to one of my ex and i lie that it has been a while she finds out and the trust is broken and she doesn't know if she can believe what i say anymore. this... (737 words)

My girlfriend is clueless about other guy's intentions, should I confront her or just let her make her own mistakes?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

7 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all, My girlfriend and i have been together for 2 years i am 22 she is 19 she has just started to go out with her friends in the day that she used to know at school which is fine she can do what she wants i do have a problem however when she meets up with these guys who... (316 words)

Why did this guy delete his comment on facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Why did this guy delete his comment on facebook ?. I wrote a comment on his wall saying that i was disappointed that he had been thrown off a tv programme, and that this woman who didn't like him on the programme should have left, and i said it was brilliant how he stood up to ... (276 words)

Is this a scam?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have an appointment with a Casting Agency, which i applied to to become a Supporting Artist/Extra, but they told me that i have to pay £40 to have some photos taken !. Do you think this is a scam, and should i not bother going to them ?. I have heard of some people getting ... (80 words)

How do I confront him about the texts I found on his phone?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - please can you help me, i checked my partner of 2 years phone and found a lot of girls numbers and some very sexy texts, which he has replied to, i am heartbroken ,how can cofront him when i had to put his pin number in to get in his phone ,i feel really bad for going into his ... (87 words)

I love my boyfriend with all my heart, but why cant I stop obsessing about this other guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Please, help me. I have been with my partner for nearly two years now i am 20 years old (turned in June) he is my first love and i truly love him with all my heart and being,i picture my life with him and we have a fantastic relationship- we're open with each other, we both are... (609 words)

Is he having sex with her to get her money?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - am a girl of 25 years and have dated my guy for almost 5yrs now and it looks as if am not having money now aday so he's chasing a girl that has money....but i ask him about it and he said..his trying to get that girl's money for as to get marry..so in this case what should i ... (77 words)

Does his reasoning make sense and am I being really petty?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost five months. Things have been going generally fine, but he appears to have an issue with showing affection and care via text message. When something comes up, or if he has done something during the day, he would tell a little part of ... (179 words)

The difference between someone using you for sex or just having huge sex drive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - If you're seeing a man and he seems very focused on sex, is that always a bad thing? I'm seeing someone, we haven't slept together yet, but he does seem to bring the conversation around to it a lot. That said, he has told me he isn't going to be pushy towards me and he's glad... (196 words)

Boyfriend has broken up with me, what do I do next? Give him space? Go and talk to him? Or give up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey - I need some help. My boyfriend of 3 years recently broke up with me. He said he still loved me, cared for me and fancied me but there was something missing. He also said he still wanted us to be friends. He has contacted me a couple of times since to see how I am but ... (194 words)

My ex wanted me to stop seeing the new guy so I did, and now he doesn't want to get back together anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I had been seeing this guy for about 5 months and was having a good time however one of my exs got back in contact with me. He phoned a few times and we flirted back and forth and recounted old memories. It made me realise how much i missed him and my ex kept saying i should ... (160 words)

Why do girls say they want a nice guy, when we all know that is a load of crap?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

7 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - The past 5 girls i have talked to, i have asked them the same question. What qualities do you like best in a man? Amazingly they all said as long as hes nice idk...... really? i have people tell me i am too nice , that im the nicest guy they ever met! Obviuosly none of them ... (92 words)

So am I just being paranoid or is there something wrong with this picture?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Ok, I need your input..Im not very good at spotting deception. I started seeing this girl, started out real good but then got a little rocky..we broke up, a couple days latter we talked and hashed out our problem..during the conversation, which started out as a talk about ... (681 words)

What the hell am I supposed to do to get through her trust issues? I want to be her hero and save her from this nightmare...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay I'm gonna jump right in and say it. I've fallen in love with a girl! And here's my problem. This girl, we'll call her Rose for the time being, has some serious problems. I met her over the internet and I know that some of you will be like " Dude! Yóu can't fall in lo... (665 words)

Is this my fault or is she taking her anger out on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i posted on here last week and am looking for some new follow up answers. the girl i've been dating for the past two months had her grandfather get sick and put in the hospital. they were incredibly close, and she immediately shut me out and told me she no longer had time ... (716 words)

I cant orgasm!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i have had sex hundreds of times but have never experienced orgasm. i tried to read about it...one should relax, experience the love, positions, excitement, days of the months and blah-blah-blah...but nothing has worked for me. what to do??... (39 words)

We only make love once a week now and he always falls asleep so early! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married for 6 months now. Ours was an arranged amrriage. we love each other. my husband is very loving and caring. both of us working but whenever we get time with each other during the day, he teases and touches me. but when we get to bed, i dont know what happens ... (136 words)

Is my partner's brother just trying to be macho in front of me? Or is he trying to tell me something?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship with my same-sex partner for almost two years. My partner has a brother who is "straight" he has a girlfriend, and always has that macho man attitude. He treats his family, including his brother really rude, on the other hand he treats me with a... (237 words)

Am I being too demanding? Is it ok to feel jealous of his attractive female friends and ex's?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi people I share a wonderful relationship with my bf of about a month. Before that we already knew each other for almost a year. Although he looks like an average Joe, he's a real charmer and in fact, his exes are really good looking and he has had rumors with girls in the ... (160 words)

I'm falling for him but he doesn't want a serious relationship after a bad break up, and now there is a new job offer for me that could mean I move abroad....what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well say 2 weeks ago i added a guy on facebook that i knew (worked together for like 2 months) -he was with someone- so yeh, when i added him, he asked me out for coffee for a few hours later. Stayed out with him till 6 in the morning just talking and getting to know ... (265 words)

Is my boyfriend hinting that he wants to have a baby with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is always making jokes. He's rarely ever serious. Just to give you detail, I am 20 and my boyfriend is a middled aged man who is divorced with 2 children. About a month into our relationship, he started making jokes about getting me pregnant so he would ... (326 words)

Is she looking for a rebound or does she actually like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So i've been talking to this girl every single day nonstop for almost a month now...when we talk, she would always say the cutest things to me and it just makes my heart melt. We went to go see a movie together a week ago and she said that she wanted to get me flowers but ... (138 words)

She asked why I like her and I couldnt think of a reason!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - well im in a relationship with a girl for about 4months? we dont really keep track. and she asked me why i liked her, and i couldnt give her a explination, i tried thinking of why i like her but i couldnt think of anything! but something about her just attracts me to h... (117 words)

Do ALL men really watch porn??

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I guess I should ask this as a curiousity question, aimed at men preferrably. Now, I have been on this site awhile and asked and answered a few questions. What I always hear on the topic of porn- ALL MEN WATCH PORN. Is this true? Now I will say how this goes in my relationsh... (373 words)

Was she just trying to be nice in actually flat out rejecting me? How should I act when I see her again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

7 September 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - So last night after going out with my friend I told her that I liked her. She was a bit shocked but proceeded to tell me that she was not rejecting me but simply saying no for the time being because of circumstances in both of our lives at this point. She said that maybe in the ... (245 words)

Is it ok for a guy to sympathise and cry with his girlfriend?

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7 September 2011 (M) age 30-35 - Is it wrong for a guy to cry with his girlfriend? I'm usually not the type to show much emotion. But not to long ago my girlfriend started to cry because of alot of stress she's been going through (the friends she has tend to put her down for who she is. And she says that the ... (72 words)

He says he can't do long distance but then says he will wait for me. What?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This is going to be kind of long, but I'll try to keep it as short as possible: I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half. I just moved away to finish school (only 3 hours away from him). He told me from the beginning that he has tried long distance relation... (255 words)

He gets mad when I don't want sex!

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7 September 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey guys, i'm 15 and basically i've been with my 16 year old boyfriend for 3 and a half months now, and we started having sex 2 months into our relationship. since then we've had it 37 times. I don't know if its right but I feel completely taken for granted. whenever we have ... (238 words)

Am I the only person who doesn't like casual sex?

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7 September 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Firstly, I want to say that to those whose opinions vary from mine- I respect your choice and this is not meant to be 'anti-promiscious' in general, even if I personally am for my life. I am 25 and in my first year of college. I am loving it here- and loving living in reside... (165 words)

Is it normally to feel physically sick after a break up?

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7 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it normal to feel ill, after being hurt in your relationship i nearly split up with my boyfriend tonight, and i started shaking feeling sick, going cold it felt like i had the flu. I had a cup of tea at the side of me and could hardly pick it up because i was shaking so ... (83 words)

Am I mental for dating a married man and worrying that he's cheating on me with other women?

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7 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really starting to think I've got issues. I've been with this guy for almost four yrs. About a yr in, I found out he had a gf but stuck around anyway like a total idiot in hopes that something would change and we'd end up being together. About a yr ago, they got married... (440 words)

Tips on how to ask a girl out!

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7 September 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I fancy a girl in my school. We are very good friends and she does know a lot about my past. I am considering to ask her to be my girlfriend. This is not my first time asking a girl out but the last two times failed and I don't want to fail again because... (112 words)

Will this relationship last?

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7 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I am currently in a relationship and have been for 5 months now. I'm so happy but I feeel that when I'm not with him I'm really sad. I have noticed that I seem to get jealous if he goes out when I'm stuck indoors. I do love him but as this is like my second proper ... (126 words)

He wants to have sex but I think I'm too young, what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

7 September 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok. So I know your going to complain about my age. :/ so please don't. See I have been dating this guy for 2 years from today. He is amazing and is always making me feel special about myself. He says that the love he has for me is uncomparable to the love I have for him. Bu... (105 words)

Ever since he's gone long distance he doesn't make the effort to communicate.

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7 September 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a few months at university and over the summer we've had to go long distance. At first it was all fine but lately it's been a problem of communication and I keep on feeling as though he doesn't make enough of an effort to keep in ... (214 words)

I'm just scared in case this effective sperm donor tries to claim MY child.

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7 September 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I had a one night stand with a stranger several years ago... shameful bad naughty me, i get it. It was my one act of stupid foolish wildness that prompted me to be a better person, to never be so silly no matter what life throws my way. I am not the person I was. Basica... (375 words)

My crush is ignoring me!?

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7 September 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So I'm in a totally frustrating situation with my crush right now! Before summer break, we would talk every day at school, and flirt like crazy (verbally, but I also read up on body language and he matched pretty much everything). Through the summer, I worked a lot and so did ... (251 words)

Is she after me for sex or is she just outspoken with her thoughts?

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7 September 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So I've been hanging out lately with a lady from my job and I needed some insight as in what is exactly going on. First off I'm lesbian, but I haven't made this known to lady I been hanging out with. About 2 weeks ago I took her out with me for a meal, n she returned the favor ... (422 words)