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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

FWB relationship is going haywire because I wouldn't sleep with his best friend. What am I supposed to think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4681 days ago

24 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a best friend who I care about dearly. He's my friends with benefits though. We've had this relationship for 7 months now. I developed feelings for him a long the way but he insisted that he doesn't want a relationship and that he's incapable to love because of his past. ... (313 words)

Best Friend Slept with my BF. Now What???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

24 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - A year ago I found out my boyfriend of one year slept with someone I considered a good friend behind my back multiple times. Obviously I was devastated, but I gave him a second chance and accepted him back into my life. During the past year I have came to terms with what ... (259 words)

He'll go days without texting me or seeing me, and now this summer is an LDR... I'm feeling neglected!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

24 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Agony Aunts! I have a problem for you. To keep this short - my boyfriend has communication issues, where he'll go days without texting me or seeing me while we're both at uni, making me feel nelgected and unwanted. I've told him twice about this and he promised to be a bet... (285 words)

Is it normal for someone to drop hints about proposing someday?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

24 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, I'd love some male and female perspectives on this please - I've been with my bf 10 months, everything is going great, and recently he's started saying he'd like me to move in with him, that he hopes we will 'settle down' (i.e., have a family) together, and has said ... (133 words)

I just want to understand why is he happy and I'm miserable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

24 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - For a year I was with a man that I was absolutely in love with. From the beginning there were red flags such as an occasional night of drugs, a recent divorce, little white lies. But then we talked, moved in together, and things seemed to be perfect. About five months ago ever... (334 words)

BF is a flirt but did he have a fling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

24 July 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - How do I know if I can trust my boyfriend? My bf and I were attending his nephew’s high school’s volleyball games. The nephew was new to the sport, and pretty much sat on the bench every game. At most, he got to serve once or twice. At these games there was a ‘team’ m... (756 words)

Guy cant seem to make up his mind - me or his GF. Whats going on here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

24 July 2011 (?) age 36-40 - This is long i know so if you're not going to read it please don't answer. I need help. Me and a guy friend since school (we're both 24 now) used to have a causal thing, when we were both single. We'd meet up and sometimes sleep together. I stupidly ended up liking him more ... (453 words)

Living around London. Where can BF and I go for a quick getaway?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4680 days ago

24 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a little bit stressed at the moment and i've asked my bf to take me away, I just mean away from my house for the day (sadly come home in the evening /early hours of the morning lol) because things are rough at the moment and my mum wont let me sleep over anywhere. I ... (107 words)

Would GF leave me if we can't concieve a kid? I

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

24 July 2011 (?) age 30-35 - My girlfriend is desperate to have a baby and I'm scared she'll leave me if I can't give her one. I'm 22 and she's 24, we've been together for 5 years and I love her to bits. We've been trying to conceive for nearly 2 years. People have said we're far too young but we love each ... (316 words)

Opinion on a girl who has made out with 13 guys before age 18?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

24 July 2011 (F) age 30-35 - Guys, in complete an utter honesty. If you were seeing an 18 year old girl and she told you she's got with (kissed) about 13 guys, none of whom she was in a relationship with. What would your opinion on her be? And would you want her to tell you that? Because my friend said n... (150 words)

I have no self-confidence and always let people use me....can you help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

24 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help, im so depressed i cant see any hope of getting out of this depression. I've always let guys use me. I've helped with money, everything but because of a lack of confidence and self esteem i have always come out badly. The last guy left me so financially badly of... (186 words)

My ex girlfriend cheated on me and I now I'm not sure if I can forgive her.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

24 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I was in a relationship with my girlfriend for almost two years. Recently, she suggested that we break up because due to reasons that I would prefer not to disclose. However, I still believed that she was the only person in the whole world for me, and we told each other that ... (297 words)

How can I win her love before I lose her to somone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4681 days ago

24 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am an 18 year old guy who has never kissed a girl. This really bothers me. I think I have fallen completely in love with my friend. The problem is she is best friends with another guy. Who I am also friends with. They are always together. As far as I know, they're just fri... (114 words)

He was really hurt when we broke up, but that was almost 2 years ago, so why can't we talk now and just be friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

24 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my boyfriend a year and a half ago after dating two years. He took the break up very hard, he was in counseling for like four months because it destroyed him so much. Because I felt kind of bad about everything, we reconnected about eight months ago and started ... (393 words)

Should I try to reconcile with my long term boyfriend or try to have a go with my facebook friend??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4680 days ago

24 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - As I am new to this website, I just hope that everyone will welcome me with the open arm. I just hope someone could give me a suggestion which I can eventually move on with my problem @ question. Before you keep on reading, please note below: • A = my long term boyfriend ... (454 words)

He wants to have sex with me, but not have to look at me or kiss me, what is his deal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4675 days ago

24 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all, he wants to have sex with me but he does not want to kiss me! I fell ?in love with a guy I met for a month in a hall i was staying for a short visit. He is 29 and I am 30 years old. He initiated the friendship; he used to come and watch TV with me in the TV room and ... (497 words)

My husband doesn't want me, but he won't let me move on without him either, please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

24 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my husband for almost 14 years. We have been separated for the past 2 years. We have been on again and off again . Our marriage hasn't been perfect at all. There has been infidelity on both sides. I filed for divorce but he decided he wanted to work things out. ... (152 words)

Girl I have been dating, poses for sexy nude modeling photos on the side. How should I deal with it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

24 July 2011 (M) age 41-50 - Hello, Maybe you all can help me with my problem. I am a 31-year old guy, and I recently started dating this very beautiful girl I met randomly in the metro station. She's 26, and works as a legal assistant. But on the side, she models. She hopes to make it her profession o... (287 words)

Confused and looking for answers....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

24 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys.ill try keep this short.my ldr wants a baby so bad i dont know what to do.im not on birth control and i will go this week for that.my problem is that i told him that im preg and he is happy but i didnt just lie.im not sure if i am.im scared to take a preg test.i told ... (126 words)

I am Not a Romantic, but I think I'm in love for the first time. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4641 days ago

24 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - The other week in my class, I started talking to this girl who sat in front of me. Now, I will tell you now that I am NOT the kind of person to "fall" for women at all. I know it makes me sound like an asshole, but I am really the kind of guy who only looks for one night ... (336 words)

Who broke up with who?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

24 July 2011 (F)

age - Just out of curiosity, if a woman breaks off an engagement to someone and states the reason as being- "I just want to be me and he doesn't", what exactly is she trying to say. Call it naive if you will, but does that statement pretty much mean she did the breaking up? Th... (213 words)

She wants some space! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

24 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm back with my ex wife, and for the first five months it was great. But now she is saying she wants some space, and she is losing her feelings for me slowly! she said space apart, to see if we will grow closer together.... (45 words)

I called off our meeting and disappointed her! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

24 July 2011 (?) age 41-50 - I'm in a mess. I was in a LDR up until January with a lovely girl. I broke things off as I really felt scared to commit - she was thinking of moving to be nearer me and also I was having doubts. Anyway, after the break, I got in touch again and we remained friends. However ... (318 words)

Should I continue trying to have a relationship with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

24 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Here's the deal, I am 18 and he's 27. I've known him since I was around 8 years old and he was 17. He disappeared for a few years and came back this year... Now I am very attracted to him. He's been texting and talking to me...(As in, he texts first every morning.) I would li... (95 words)

How do I deal with all his past relationships with women....help!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4681 days ago

24 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello People, Here i am 22 years and looking for a solution for my love life. Actually i am in a relationship past 10 months with a guy 28 years who was my boss. Now we don't work together. I used to like him previously when i was working with him at the initial ... (562 words)

Stressed, because my friends like to drink and I don't! How do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

24 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I get pressure from people all the time, the same people. ALL my friends drink! I'm not much into it because I hate the taste. I will try a drink but I will never like it. I'm just sick of all my friends pressuring me. It's like they never heard of the word "No" It's hard to ... (144 words)

I want to have sex with him..should I invite him to my place?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

24 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I didn't do much physically w/this guy the first 3 times we hung out (even though we spent time at his house), but now I want to let him know I'm interested in going further. If I invite him to my place for our next hangout, will that send the message loud and clear? "I just ... (93 words)

Would like to meet my in-laws! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

24 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all. I need some help here pals. I have been seeing this lady for a while now. We love each. We intend to get married one day but this has been brought forward because she is now five weeks pregnant. She is to graduate next month, I work in a bank. I would like to live wit... (111 words)

Is there a connection between my eating behaviour and my love/sex life.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4681 days ago

24 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been experiencing something rather odd these past few months. I feel compelled to eat often (high-calorie food in particular) even though I can tell I'm not physically hungry; I don't know if I can call it comfort eating because I don't feel depressed as such, just kinda ... (261 words)

How can I give her the message I don't want to be friends?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

24 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have this friend, lets call her E, that went off the deep end this year. It wasn't drugs/alcohol or anything like that. She turned into a total dork and just stopped being a good friend. She would freak out over small things and then when someone had a real problem she ... (178 words)

Husband won't give me oral....what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4681 days ago

24 July 2011 (F)

age - How can I get my husband of 14 years to start liking to give me head again like he used to. I said I didn't like it once and now won't do it at all and when he does it is not good.... (43 words)

Is now the right time and am I the right age to have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

24 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am 19 and i have a bf. He's also 19 and I am stil a virgin. We have been dating for 6months nd we love each other very much. Whenever i go 2 his house we only kiss nd hold each other.Recently,he told me he would like too have sex with me. My question is_ 1. Am i ok... (110 words)

I hate playing these dirty little games but are they the only way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

24 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I am with relationship with this beautiful girl here for the last three years. Six months back, I was very upfront with her and she would find me available to her whenever she needed me . But after sometimes, I noticed that she started giving me attitude despite still in love ... (241 words)

I want to tell him how I feel...but I don't want to scare him...please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

24 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I don't really know where to start, I've been seeing this guy for about two months now, we've known each other longer than that, but it's only been two months that we're actually "dating", or should I say, having sex ... I would love it if he would want want something ... (209 words)

Is there a way to tell how my FWB feels?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

24 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im a college student and have worked for the football team at my school for over a year. When I first started I had a lot of the guys hitting on me and I liked the attention but wasn't looking to be the "football whore". One of the players I took an unexpected liking too, after ... (448 words)

Are these spots friction marks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

24 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Its not really a relationship problem, but moreso of a health question (if its okay to post them here). I recently got back from Hilton Head Island, SC, and everything was fine down there. After two hours of being on wave runners, we went back to our house and i hopped int... (232 words)

My family wants me to dump my BF b/c he is a Veg. How do I handle this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

24 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear, Cupid, My mom wants me to break up with my boyfriend because he is a vegitarian. I don't mind making meatless meals at all. I don't miss meat and he does not care if I cook and eat meat when I want to do so. It is not like he pressures anyone else to be a veg. When my ... (213 words)

Please help, I don't want to get hurt but I really like him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4681 days ago

24 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - so i have been friends with this guy for a few months he is a really extremely shy guy he knows i like him alot last week i ended up kissing him it was nothing special just our lips pressed together for a few seconds. After he dropped me off at home i texted him and asked if ... (601 words)

I like watching gay sex but got turned off having real gay sex. So what does that mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

24 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so i am 19 years old and confuse right now. Since i was 15, i starts watching gay porn and found myself horny and turned on everytime watching it. I also always fantasizing myself with guy when i masturbate. The problem is, i am physically attracted to women. I'm in lo... (193 words)

I'm afraid I've gotten into another relationship where I am not going to be put first!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

24 July 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Help me, I need advice - due to my past relationships with my mother, ex-husband and ex-BFs I'm worried I've gotten myself in yet another relationship where I'm not appreciated and loved as much as I should be. Due to that feeling I want to cut and run after being in a ... (111 words)

How can I squirt when I climax?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

24 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've seen porn and couldn't help but notice that some girls on there squirt while they orgasm. They squirt sometimes through the clit and sometimes through their vaginal hole. I'm still a teen and a virgin so I don't know how I can do this. I've masturbated before but when I ... (75 words)

I'm starting to become gay but I want to fall in love with a woman

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

24 July 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - im a 16 yo guy that is struggling with the most weird thing that could have happened to me, being gay. it all started when i was very little, probably 10-11 when i had my 1st erections. i remember that anytime i saw a muscled guy my penis will just pop, but i didnt really payed ... (225 words)

Because of my past my girlfriend thinks I'm a "monster waiting to happen"

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

24 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - The other day, me and my soon to be wife were talking, she thought I've been acting weird since we was dating when it came to sex and just now decided to ask me about it, of course I didn't want to tell her the reason why, It's something I haven't told anyone, and it got to ... (258 words)

I think I'm a pathological liar..how do I fix this?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

24 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I think i might be a patholgical liar. Its not like i make up complete stories, but i constantly manipulate stories and tell lies. Like for example, this past week i was with my cousins and my one guy cousin whose close to my age saw me with my bikini top down (one big wave..) ... (126 words)

My daughter needs help in finding an attorney that deals with military matters

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

24 July 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello,I'm the mother of a military wife. My daughter's husband is in the army and had an affair on her. As a result of the affair came a baby. My daughter and her husband already has two boys 5 and 2 yrs of age and now he's trying to get a quick divorce from my daughter before ... (168 words)

Torn between two women...I don't know which one to choose and how to let the other one down

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

24 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, I'm a 22 year old college student. I am torn between two women. I don't know which one to choose and how to let the other one down. They both have feelings for me and want to exclusively date. So I have classes with one of these girls 4 times a week and we talk everyday ... (284 words)

First date advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

24 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I've got a date coming up on Tuesday and in really nervous. This is my first proper date and the guy is older than me (im 15 he's 17). Hes invited me out into town for what he said "shopping, Starbucks stuff like that". I'm really nervous and Need some advice past the whole be ... (145 words)

What could this brown discharge be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

24 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I apologize ahead of time for the graphic nature of this question. I had sex with a new guy last night after a long-term relationship ended. But this morning I have strange light-brown discharge. It doesn't have much of an odor, but I'm very concerned as I've never had this ... (139 words)

Does she like me? If she does, there must be some hint, right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

24 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Does she like me? If so there must be some hint? It does not make sense. Theres this girl at work, we get on well. I been away for a month and come bk to find everyone telling me i should ask her out because she likes me. I was told there is competition and some other guy keeps ... (181 words)

I am bored and lonely, and the moment I find someone to hang out with while my boyfriend is at work, he gets angry and upset .

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

24 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, my bf and I had been together for quite some time. First, we were long distance, then I moved in with him about 2 years ago. When I first moved in I didn't have any friends or family. I still don't have any family here, but I manage to find friends from work. But there ... (362 words)

Qeustions for the guys ...do you prefer bigger women ?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

24 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Qeustion for the men. What do you think about bigger women ? Would you ever date one, or do you prefer smaller women, do you find bigger women attractive or do find slim women more attractive ? I ask this because well im trying to start dating and ive kinda been rejected alot, ... (77 words)

Why can't a man take me further than my bed?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

24 July 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Just because I have huge boobs, a small waist and so I have been told a pretty face, can't a man take me further than my bed????I want a partner not just sex.What is their problem or is it mine????... (40 words)

Is the fact that we are meeting again a sign, or am I looking too deep?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4682 days ago

24 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - "If you truly love someone, you should let them go; if they come back, it was meant to be; if they don't, it never was." Is this really true? I'm one who believes in fate, not coincidence. I tend to over-think things through though. I've been going through a longtime depression ... (186 words)

What does a healthy relationship feel like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

24 July 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi all, I have not had very many experiences in relationships. Some time ago, I got into a bad relationship and did not realize how bad it was until it began to threaten my performance at my job, my mood, my outlook on life and my confidence. I became withdrawn, nervo... (176 words)

New guy has kind of shoved himself into my life, but isn't reciprocating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4682 days ago

24 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. I need opinions! I've been seeing this guy for 3 months. It all started on my birthday when he organized an office party. In 6 yrs, none of my coworkers ever bothered to do it for me even though I've done it for them. Anyway, he's 10 yrs older than me. I'm 28. ... (309 words)