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Archived questions from: 15 October, 2010 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm the only one in my group who hasn't had a boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4962 days ago

15 October 2010 (F) age 26-29 - Ok, I'm 14 and a freshman in highschool. I never, ever not once in my life ever had a boyfriend. Though in Junior high, most guys and girls start dating but as for me, not one boy asked me out. Well, when I was in the seventh grade, a boy asked me out, but I never responded, so ... (194 words)

LDR & phone sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

15 October 2010 (F)

age - I am currently in a long distance relationship. For some odd reason I keep asking him if he really wants this relationship. He answers it with he is not sure. I read quite a bit about ldr and also mentionedthis websites to him but he has no read an . I actually broke up once ... (220 words)

I say g/f is hot, friends think she's not

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

15 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I love my Girlfriend but my friends say she's ugly. I think she's hot. How do I get my "friends" to stop?... (22 words)

Boyfriend having a facebook with out telling me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4963 days ago

15 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well me and my boyfriend just got back together on our break and he says he'll change and every thing was goin great until I find out he has a face book . He never even told me and we been off and on almost three years now and he did a lot of stuff to me in the past and Idk ... (71 words)

I enjoy bj's more from guys that girls, does that mean I am gay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

15 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay...so I am really confused. I enjoy getting blowjobs from guys more so than girls, particularly because they give them better. Does that mean I am gay...I mean I have thought about it and I could not see myself having an intimate relationship with a guy, only with girls. ... (61 words)

Ex boyfriend getting married in December!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

15 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Ex-boyfriend is getting married this December! I am so hurt, it's so painful that I don't know how to handle my feelings... Everything from anger to hurt to jealousy. I can't seem to get over this man, even though I meant nothing to him all these years, just sex until he found ... (94 words)

I can tell he cares but is sex all he wants?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

15 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So me and my boyfriend have been dating for a while now, we're both in high school. Even tho we both know its wrong, we have sex. But lately i wonder if thats the only reason he's with me. We got in a fight about a week ago. But we talked and fixed it. But since then we've only ... (417 words)

I wonder if the pat on the knee was a subtle pass ... or not!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

15 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Have just started to get a lift into work (for just over a week) from a colleague who has moved to the area nearby, we work in different offices in our company so have only really talked and gotten to know each other a little during the mornings, today we had quite a good laugh ... (131 words)

My kids are Jekyll and Hyde

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

15 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi there, I just really want to know how other parents cope with teens. My two are 16 and 13 and they can be utterly horrendous at times which we have put down to hormones and try to deal with it the best we can. My husband and I seem to spend the majority of our spare tim... (467 words)

Update to my previous "non reciprocated crush" question

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

15 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I wrote this post a couple of weeks ago: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/to-me-it-seems-i-am-being-selfish.html I was glad to take CindyCare's advice, until my friend emailed me two days ago with a bizarre one sentence email about watching a tv show we used to ta... (91 words)

Jealousy and Birth Control

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

15 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - MODERATOR'S NOTE: Two questions from same asker combined: Q: 1 I am deeply in love with my boyfriend and bestfriend, will call him Victor. Victor and I are quite compatible, so for the most part things rolls along smoothly, but I do have a problem with my jealousy, that doesn't... (373 words)

Am I lowering my standards or changing for the better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

15 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - MODERATOR'S NOTE: TWO questions from same asker combined. Q: 1 I'm in a long distance relationship with my bf. We met each other during our exchange studies, spent more than half a year physically together. This is my first serious relationship and I'm quite confused at ... (600 words)

Is he just messing about?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4962 days ago

15 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - there is this boy i like but he flirts with me and calles me babe online and he tryed to hold me hand in school but i dont know if he fancees me or is just messing .....help... (38 words)

I have her number, a FB friends request pending, we will be seein each other in class, but how do I ask her out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

15 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey Aunts and Uncles, I need some advice on how to get a date with this girl I met recently. So here's everything you might need to know in order to give me something good: We met in the university, in our psychology class, 2 weeks ago. She was in the same group that I was... (1180 words)

I'm in a tricky situation? How do I go about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4963 days ago

15 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - She introduced herself to me. Ignored what the other guy said when speaking to me. Stood close to me while entering classroom. Waited until I finished a conversation to say hi. Asked me to sit next to her so she wouldn't be alone. Her arm and foot kept rubbing a... (240 words)

My boyfriend is being weird !

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4963 days ago

15 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i had sex with my boyfriend for the first time(am not a virgin) after, he said it felt right but he feels guilty cos he was selfish and would've waited till i was sure./.. but i was sure..he asked me 5times if i were sure and i said yes each time. now hes saying we are ... (110 words)

Why would my boyfriend want to keep this friend around?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

15 October 2010 (?) age 36-40 - While my bf and I were broken up, his friend (who started out as our mutual friend, whom we met through)sent me nasty texts on behalf of my bf. All 3 of us attended the same college, we both knew S (mutual friend,) but not each other until we met through S. I never bothered S ... (883 words)

HELP! I'm miserable without her, but should I let her go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

15 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend and I mutually agreed we should take “a break”. But this is not your average “take-a-break” story. We have been seeing each other 1 year. I am 41, divorced w/2 kids and she is 38, w/1 child and she has never been married. Bottom-line is we have a great t... (807 words)

One year of no contact, how do I act with ex now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

15 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I was in relationship for three years.she was everything to me i loved her so much and i was going to merry her..a year ago she started to change a lot and she was not intrested in me any more i did everything i can to gain her love back { doormate } but i couldn't after a ... (197 words)

Is it wrong to love my cousin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

15 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - my name is donna i live in texas. i have been in love with my cousin for 17 years. he is in love with me also. we first made love 17 years ago,it just happened. it was the first time we ever met. we spent a month together, then he had to go home back to arkansas. he got... (211 words)

How do I get him to propose?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

15 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 weeks now. Since day one we agreed it is a serious and committed relationship..two weeks after we started dating he took me to his home town for the weekend and show me around and also meet jis family it was a casual meeting nothing ... (329 words)

I realized that he was watching porn as I was cooking his dinner. Why does he hurt me this way?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

15 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - im with my bf 9 months now and when i got with him things werent so good as i just split up from an x things got really good and i changed everything for him how i dressed my friends and feel like a totally new person. he has accused me of looking at other men and the truth is ... (247 words)

Should I give him more time, or prove his impotence and get a divorce?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4963 days ago

15 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i am in a very big trouble. please help me. i got married 6 months back and my husband has not done sex with me. he always has lots of excuses for it like work,not in mood etc.sometimes even his member does not get erect or sometimes if it becomes erect, it goes inside my pusy ... (79 words)

My body aches all over the day after we have sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1678 days ago

15 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a really weird problem. I've been with my man for a few months now. Problem is the day after we have sex my body aches. My limbs feel bruised and my ribs are very painful. He's not rough with me and I understand that having sex means your body is in positions it is not ... (84 words)

I want to kiss him on the cheek!

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15 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - this is big, i like my ex still, but we've been really close were 'married' on facebook, and he calls me his wife and i call him my hubby, and he slaps my bum but he does slap other peoples bums. and this is probably the closest we have been without going out. anyway, i hugged ... (107 words)

Why don't white hot guys date black girls?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

15 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a black, fairy attractive young female. I've always been attracted to white guys because of my background. I'm pro interracial relationships and plan to settle down with a different race (white). I want to know why is it that hot attractive white guys don't date black... (181 words)

Need info on divorce and bankruptcy in the UK

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4962 days ago

15 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a friend in the UK who is married, has a lot of debt, owns a house out right (jointly) who wants to leave her husband. She thinks that if she leaves her husband she will end up with all the debt (as it's in her name). Is this true? Here in the US most states divide the ... (161 words)

Sexually frustrated... again...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

15 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - 27... I'm starting to believe I'm sexually frustrated and can't resolve my problem... After I broke up with my ex 4 years ago, I never dated or been in another relationship other than fuck buddies with no strings attached, when I was with my ex I was very frustrated, I've... (554 words)

Is it adultery if we're separated?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

15 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and i been marrried for 3 years. I love her with all my heart. We had problems but we got past them. This time shes being serious on being done and wants a divorce. We been seperated for 4 months now and she started seeing her ex boyfriend that she dated 3 or 4 times in ... (105 words)

Should I believe him about this online dating account?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

15 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like I'm being stupid about this, but the other day I found out my boyfriend signed up for fling.com. He says he thought it was just an adult site where he could look at pictures, but it clearly is a place to find a fling. I questioned him about it once, but he acted ... (81 words)

Is this teacher actually flirting with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

15 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - well basically im 14 and i need to know if my teacher was flirting with me or just having a laugh so heres the story.... my friend was talking to him and i was messing about saying stop flirting with teachers and he turned around and said stop flirting with me and gave me a wei... (155 words)

I'm not sure if I'm ready to marry and have kids again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

15 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Serious crisis here Aunts and Uncles... I am recently divorced and with a new partner for a little over a year. I will admit I met her while I was separated, but we did not move in together until the divorce was iminent. We are very much in love, and it is a love like I ha... (679 words)

Was there a little shine there maybe?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

15 October 2010 (F)

age - is he Interested or not?? Just returned from a cruise and a much younger man who I fancied from before was still working on there-several people always book to go back on. he is going on another ship soon but I wont rebook Last time I was on ths ship I saw him staring at... (410 words)

What constitutes actually losing your virginity?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

15 October 2010 (M)

age - There are many questions posted about losing virginity on this board? But I want to know exactly what it means by losing virginity. (1)Penetration of the penis into the vagina, with the result that the woman's hymen is broken. For both the male and the female in this c... (212 words)

Will telling him my feelings scare him away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

15 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi - Maybe this is just my insecurities or maybe it is real. We have been FWB for the last months. Long distance one. He used to be the one showing lots of interest in spending time with me and I always had feelings for him. He is the one wanting a casual thing and I deci... (323 words)

How can I get over the guilt of my abortion?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

15 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This really isn't a question but I know many of you who went through abortions are probably feeling the same way I do. I had an abortion in 2008. I was 17, and It was NOT my choice. I am not 20 and I still can't get over it, no one understands. I never wanted kids, dont get me ... (243 words)

Does this teacher feel the same way for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

15 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My teacher is from america and is actually rather handsome. He's only 23 and im just nearly 16. At first we never talked but after a while we got used to each other and now talk an awful lot. He's even offered to let me use his house when i do a year out in america to study ... (163 words)

I never felt like his top priority! Was I right to end it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

15 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating a guy for 3.5 years and we recently broke up. The peculiar thing is that I’m not experiencing the feelings that are commonly associated with a break-up, (daily crying, no sleep, etc.) I don’t know if this is because I’m really over him or just because this ... (551 words)

Should I just cut him out of my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

15 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel I'm in need of some objective perspectives/feedback, so that's why I'm on this website. I've been seeing this guy officially for about a month now (September). We had some drama (3rd para) initially but I thought it was dealt with. So we agreed to see where things go. ... (583 words)

Simple question on asking someone out.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

15 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, just a simple and quick question: If I make an excuse to enter this girls office at work (Any excuse will do) - is it too rash to, after I strike up a conversation, say "Blah, blah, blah.... by the way, I know this is quite out of the blue but would you like to get some... (72 words)

Why can't we stop thinking about eachother and move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

15 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there Would really love some help with this please :) Me and my ex split up in February after being together for 2 years and quite a rocky patch. We did argue quite a lot, as we were both at uni and there was a lot to argue about-with us both going out nearly every oth... (408 words)

My girlfriend is jealous because I have to dance with another girl at a wedding!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

15 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm having a big problem. My best friend is getting married and I'm the best man. I have to dance with the bridesmaid and my girlfriend is pretty mad with me for that. I told her that its just a dance nothing more than that .. but still she's so jealous about it :( I know its ... (84 words)

He took my virginity and now I don't know how to handle the relationship!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

15 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was always desperate for love and to be loved. I met a guy at work and at first he wasn't my type and way too old (Im 24 he's 38), my family woudln't accept him. So I eventually (being nice) got to know him and started to develop feelings for him. He fell in love with me and ... (239 words)

Why didn't he tell me about this girl he turned down?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

15 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my bf and i have been together for 6 years. I recently travelled and he started a new course at a new uni and made a couple friends. one of them was this girl who out of the blue told him that she likes him regardless of the fact that she knew about me and my bf's relationship. ... (300 words)

Can anyone help me figure out what she meant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

15 October 2010 (M)

age - My wife has an active fantasy life and requires lots of attention. Recently, she asked me to spank her--she said the idea of being spanked excited her, but then afterwards said that it was disappointing, that I "didn't do it right." I guess she meant (she wouldn't tell me) that ... (92 words)

How can I get up the nerve to break things off with my long distance girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

15 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a rather shy guy, and not very good at standing up for myself, so it was really hard to try and break up with my girlfriend. My girlfriend and I had been long distance for well over a year, but things haven't been going so well. I decided that my feelings for her were ... (302 words)

One minute he seems to care, the next he doesn't. What's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

15 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I fell out with a mate a while back and have only just got the courage to talk to him again after wieghing up the pros n cons of the options. We basically fell out because he treated me different from the rest and hardly spoke to me and then i recently found out after ... (519 words)

Why does everyone get along with one of my friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

15 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There usto be a group of us then we all split up because of big arguments.She is a quiet girl but it's like when theres an argument between the gang and we all split up she still speaks to everyone. If i go gossiping to her she doesnt seem botherd, like if i ask her a queston ... (196 words)

Will my boyfriend continue the cycle of abuse?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

15 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well me and Caleb have been dating for years. His dad abused his mom(not really in front of him). He has also done the same to Caleb and choked him even just last week for grades..he fights back with his dad whenever this happens. Thank god because of last week he moved back in ... (194 words)

Is it normal for your vagina to loosen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

15 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been having sex with my boyfriend rather often but it was until today after we had sex, my vagina loosen alot and the feeling of it was like, flabby. I didn't know why but i was really affected by it. Then we had sex again and i did not enjoy it because of my loosen ... (66 words)

Was losing your virginity as you expected it to be?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

15 October 2010 (?) age 41-50 - Was losing your Virginity as you expected it to be and would you change your mind if you could go back?... (21 words)

Do I stink or does my colleague have a problem with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

15 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a female 25 years old. I'm a travel agent by proffession..went to school then college for two years and got a travel n tourism diploma. That was just for background info. I have a problem at work.. i'm the only black consultant in the company of about 22 employees.I have ... (427 words)

Why did we break up instead of working things out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

15 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My exboyfriend and I are 22 and 23. We were dating for on and off for 5 years right out of high school up until about 3 weeks ago. we dont have any children and have never lived with each other but seem to have made it through alot. We broke up because we had been arguing alot ... (258 words)

Should I propose, even though I can't afford it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

15 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for just over 2 years and we've spoken before about getting married.I know she would like to get engaged,because she told me,and i do to,she hinted about new years eve.Thing is,if we do get engaged,i wouldnt be able to save for our ... (141 words)

New boyfriend stopped calling. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

15 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I Recently met this guy, we went on a few dates n ended up sleeping 2gther, we did it mor than once nw, i dont know where i stand with him, bt i knw tht he has a girlfrnd, i sometimes only see him once a week, bt he used to call and now all of a suden he stoped calling, what ... (98 words)

My marriage date is set, my chat friend lied and I am getting all negative!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

15 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i m at d worst stage of life. i m a just passed out enggineer age 22. my parents promised me for havin an mba n just after d month i graduated they fixed out a guy 4 marriage.i did a blunder 2 yrs earlier by being in a relationship wid a married man..(dis man fooled me n ... (258 words)

I fell in love and then found she works as an escort

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

15 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I just want to write something what is going on in my life and hope to have some feedback from you readers. I'm a 32 year old Dutch guy who is single for a few years now, i have been dating in these years, but i just cant find a girl/woman who realy attracts me... (1189 words)

Should I accept my boyfriend's mother's facebook friends request?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

15 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure what to do. My boyfriend's mum has sent me a friend request on facebook, and i dont know whether to add her or not. We get on pretty well, but i had a look at her profile without confirming the friend request, and she sometimes writes embarassing things on her ... (269 words)

He was seeing somebody else all during my pregnancy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

15 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend I have been together for almost 2 years. 4 months ago I gave birth to his son and not long after that I found out he had been seeing someone for a year. But he said nothing was going on and she said the same, though people have said they acted as though they wer... (157 words)

He thinks he is being funny but I find it a real put off!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

15 October 2010 (F)

age - Help please I have this man i'm seeing and have been for quite a long time. What is bugging me about him is the fact that he likes to tease me because he likes the way i bite back at him.well i don't mind a joke but some of the things he says to me get me down.things like... (194 words)

I just need to get her out of my mind!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

15 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hello everyone. i litterally need everybody's advices, coz im litterally going crazy , here is the situation, im in LDR relationship since 2 yrs now with my gf and for some reasons we couldnt meet, anyway lately she really changed so much i mean it was crazy like , one day she ... (365 words)

I cant see a future with him, should I dump him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4963 days ago

15 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone I am in a relationship with my bf from almost 2 yrs. He used to be my best friend. But now i am not able to undestand him and his behaviour. We both are shy and till date, we've only hugged and kissed each other. I am 19 yrs old girl. He sometimes says he wants... (235 words)

I am fed up of doing all the chasing with her!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

15 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - i have been seeing this lovely woman whom i met on a date site, i like her a lot although we dont see each other much she lives 15 miles from me. when we do meet i always treat her nice ie meals etc however my problem is she will not get in touch with me unless i contact her ... (130 words)

Will I ever feel better, can I trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

15 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I need advice as i have no one to confide in My husband had a year an a half affair with a workmate 5 years ago. We did not have sex very often because of me, i was suffering depression after my children and i think he felt regected and very sad about this. He would ... (270 words)

Never ending sufferings

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

15 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 19 yr old girl and i am depressed about the things that l am suffering. Even though i am a very positive girl, still i am not able to overcome the obstacles. I was molested by my maternal uncle since childhood till now bt still i remained quiet because of family ... (253 words)

I'm dating my best friend's girlfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

15 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi... a BIG PROBLEM... i am dating my childhood frinds girlfriend for the past 3 months....they had relationship for long eight years in which they had breakup twice and that too for one yr and second one also the same...they patched up back one and half years back.....m... (211 words)

Girlfriend was a prostitute and slept with over 350 men before I paid for her to get out of that scene, but I'm struggling to deal with her past!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

15 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Dear All, I am 38 years old and left my wife after 16years of a less than satisfying marriage a year ago - we are currently going thru Divorce - we do however have a beautiful young son who is just the best thing in my life - he is 6years old. Anyhow, a few months afte... (1477 words)

She might be pregnant but she is pushing me away, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

15 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi guys, am in a predicament right now. I and my girlfriend met last November, we been dating since then.Although we broke up in September this year fot three weeks,when we got back together, we got carried away, now her period is late and shes very anxious and is crying, ... (161 words)

I'm at a loss, I have no idea what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

15 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I've been with my girlfriend for 4 years and just feel like she doesn't find me attractive or want to be with me anymore. We are both 23. We have lived together for the last 2 years, and spend most of our time together, other than when we are both at college. I ca... (752 words)

I'm lonely depressed and sex is not enjoyable with my husband!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

15 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently got married to my 1 year fiance and we ve now been married for 3 months. Its been hard. I wouldnt say Im unhappy, I love him dearly and he means the world to me. I dont even know where to start.. Because of his work, I moved halfaway around the world for us to be... (377 words)

Is he trying to leave me or does he just need space?

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15 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my partner for 6 years, we are in a Long distance realtionship, and have had every plan to be together in marriage and move.My bf is having a hard time in life right now and dealing with his moms ovarian cancer in which she only has a few months to live, he is ... (339 words)

He's starting to act like me! Does that mean he likes me?

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15 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Agony Aunts, I really like this guy. I've known him for about three years now, and when I first met him, he was really shy and awkward... but as I get to know him and see him grow as a person, I can't help but notice that he's starting to act like me! Like, we talk the... (120 words)

I've been married 2 years and I'm still a virgin

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15 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i am 23year old married from 2 years and still a virgin. my husband is being patient with me but i get frustrated.my husband even had a affair but he was not sexually involved with gal but now its all over.he says he loves me.ours is love marriage and we know each other since ... (59 words)

I am 19 and want to make love with my 48 year old friend

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15 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi well im 19 and for the last few years iv really wanted to make love to my friends mom who is 48 she flirts with me and has even held my hand when no one is around how can i take this even further i really want to and think she does too please help me... (57 words)

LDR - guy disappeared, but he's back again now. Should I write back?

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15 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I know you might get these a lot, but I wanted to hear this great community's input. I was in a LDR - we were together for about 2 years. We loved each other, or so I thought..keep reading. Work took a lot of his time, very busy, so sometimes it would take longer for him to r... (227 words)

How do I prevent my ex from relapsing, without giving him hope?

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15 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My (ex) husband and I have been seperated for 6 months and have lived apart for 8. I married when I was very young, had only dated him (a whirlwind courtship that was sweet and blissful) for a short time before we were married. For the first 6 months after we were married ... (522 words)

Should I walk away knowing he'll be deployed, or try to stay?

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15 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been talking to this kid since July 2010, he's in the army and is stationed in new York (I'm in Ohio). He is originally from here and met him on one of his visits home. It is now october and I think I am starting to really fall for him but here's the catch- he is going ... (168 words)

How can I ask this girl out?

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15 October 2010 (M)

If I marry my 3rd cousin and we have children, will they be born with birth defects?

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15 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everyone, well i have been dating my third cousin for 7months now. My mom does not approve and my dad is like watever, he says if that makes me happy then to do what ever i want. He is 8 years older than me and im 18 so you do the math. well from his part of the family ... (219 words)

Can't make the big O

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15 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been sexually active for three years with my boyfriend of four years.we where each others first and i have never had an orgasm I've tried everything vibrators,four play, oral, lube,relaxing etc.. i'm sexually frustrated because of it..i need a release in that area.. Help ... (47 words)

I like a guy, but he tells me he doesn't want love right now?

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15 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - He's a friend of mine and he broke up with his girl friend recently and is very hurt. I like him, but when he tells me those things I back off. I know he has been introduced to girls and he has been hanging out with them. I want him to know I'm there, but I'm afraid he wi... (147 words)

I'm an in-the-closet gay guy, and I really like this guy I work with.

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15 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I've asked a couple people I know about this, but I want to get an outside opinion. I'm an in-the-closet gay guy, and I really like this guy I work with. Sometimes I think that he might like me back, but I feel like its just me seeing what I want to see. Like when he ... (199 words)

We are both married to others but love each other

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15 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - its been almost 3 yrs we are both married with children ...he has 4 and i have 3. We were together the first time for 10 months he broke it off and went back to his wife and kids...a month went by he contacted me we talked on and off the on what wouldve been our anniversary we ... (182 words)

My dad's 35 year old friend (a teacher) is flirting with me

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15 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Gah, I hate talking about crap like this but I'm going to anyway lol. Ok, so there's a guy that lives below us, and him and my dad are really good friends. He's about 35, not married, and I've always had a really big crush on him. Then last year, he started teaching at my high ... (249 words)

Are we just friends or is he starting to like me?

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15 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so there was this guy that I've been going to school with since about the fifth grade. He came from another school and when he first came I really liked him and everybody told him, but he didn't like me, so I gave up on him, but me and him have become best friends. Now ... (137 words)

I'm not ready to have sex with him, but I'm afraid he'll break up with me if I don't!

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15 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - well i'm 15 and my boyfriend wants to have sex his 16 and i kinda want to wait a year or two i love him alot and i dont want him to brake up with me if i tell him no. how do i tell him i want to wait without him braking up with me?... (56 words)

I was scared so I pushed him away and now he doesn't want to be with me

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15 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - ok so it goes like this, I have been single and afraid to date anyone for the past 5 months. Till one day sitting on a deli bench I met a guy who totally sweeps me off my feet we are perfect for one another. Then I start doing it, the pushing him away not because for any other ... (176 words)

I'm attracted to other guys but I don't want a relationship with one

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15 October 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - So, I'm now 16, and I realize I am attracted to other guys. But, I don't want to have a relationship with one. As for girls, I now am starting to get less turned on by them, and yet, I still do like girls too want a relationship with girls. Am I gay? or just curios? ... (56 words)

How do I pull myself together so that I even want my heart mended?

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15 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My heart is breaking and I feel like the rest of me is following. I don't know what to do or who to turn to. I don't know whether to hold myself together or let myself fall apart. How do you mend a broken heart? How do I pull myself together so that I even want it mended? ... (85 words)

Do I tell my in-laws their daughter cheated on me?

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15 October 2010 (M)

age - I found out my wife been cheating on me. Do I tell her father and mother? ... (16 words)

How can I break through with my partner's kids?

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15 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - How can I break through and become friends with my partners kids who basicly hate me. They are polite but very very stand offish. is there anyway I can reassure them being my friend doesnt equate to replacing their real parent. I just wish we could all coexist happily while ... (55 words)

15 and 3 months late for period but all the tests are negative!

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15 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i need help...i am 15 years old and i am 3 months late for my period. i am having all the symptoms of pregnancy but ive taken four pregnancy tests but they all came back negative. do u think i could be having false negatives or its just all in my head?... (52 words)

Why did he get quiet after I asked him if he was sure if he wanted to live with me?

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15 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and i have known each other for 6 years. We decided to get back together earlier in the year. He lives 2 counties away and have to pass my county to go to work. So i asked him did he want to live with me to make his travel better. He was happy because he wanted to ... (96 words)

Living with very obsessive much older man & scared to go on a secret free weeked trip with my ex

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15 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in urgent need of 100% honest advice. I don't have much time so this is why I'm reaching out. Just for the sake of imagination I'm blond, female in mid 30s slim build, cute, look much younger than I am. Here's my situation.. I've been living with a man who's older than my ... (1246 words)

Is our relationship unhealthy?

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15 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am a sixteen year old girl, engaged to (no, I'm not pregnant) my nineteen year old boyfriend and best friend of two years. One thing that was immediately obvious to everyone, including us was that we are both jealous, obsessive, and controlling people, but we both understa... (694 words)

My boyfriend is very popular and some days it really gets to me!

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15 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf is very popular with girls [in that he has many many girl mates who are always contacting him and wanting to see him]. He won't cheat and I know he loves me. But I still struggle on those downer days where you overthink everything. How can I stop this getting to me?... (55 words)

Should I dump the girl I love to go for a hotter girl?

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15 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I am currently in a relationship with someone I love. My friends say she is gross and ugly. A "hotter" girl likes me but I don't like her. Should I dump my current gf and go for the other one?... (41 words)

Help about friend that I've lost or is mad!

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15 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i met this girl she was cool and all and we told each other we liked one another, but then she became all shady and we got into an arguement and she told me to give her some space, and so i did i dint talk to her or notice her for almost a week even though i see her the whole ... (299 words)

How am I supposed to tell him when I don't know myself?

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15 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend a year now, and when we make love he asks me to tell him when i am about to cum but i never kknow myself and then when i do he ask me why i didnt tell him, how can i tell when im coming? ... (51 words)

I've been trying to persuade my ex to come back for ten months!

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15 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex girlfriend who I love a lot and she knows it, recently got drunk in a party and kissed one of my friend. This hurts me a lot. At first, I pretend that I am okay with it but my best friend found out that I was upset about it and told her that without informing me. she ... (319 words)

Be a Single mother searching or a in a false marriage?

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15 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 and my fiancee is 25 we ave a 6 month old son, Our relationship began when we mt at work and at the time i was still honing over my first love whom i had been tryin to get back with for 2 years, so when he told me he loved me i think i was so desperate to feel loved ... (373 words)

Who's my Daddy?

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15 October 2010 (F)

age - My son's ex lies to their 3 yr. old daughter that my son is not her father that her boyfriend is and her boyfriend reinforces this 100 percent. They will not allow Amy, the little girl, to call anyone daddy but bill the boyfriend. Me and my son have to straighten her out, but ... (132 words)

Scared to meet my daughter.

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15 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i know this is a strange one for most of you out there but hear it goes. im scared to meet my daughter. we have been estranged for 2 1/2 yrs not through any fault of ours. her dad came up one saturday afternoon had her for the weekend and neva brought her home.i neva knew where ... (285 words)