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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I can't orgasm, what's wrong with me?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

29 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello,ok so my and my hubby to be have a good sex life but one problem,I have never had a orgasm :( all my friends have,I dont know what is wrong with me. All the time we have sex it normally lasts for about 20-30 minutes, and by then he you know need to " the big c"..but ... (93 words)

I don't know whether the school heart-throb likes me or not!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

29 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys. I started a new school in september and there's this really hot guy, who seems to be the school heart-throb, (loads of girls like him) but he keeps staring at me and I can feel his eyes on me (if u see what I mean), he's really shy around me but a loud member of his g... (247 words)

I am torn between two girls I have fallen for....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

29 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am completely torn bewteen two girls I am in love with. My first girlfriend of 8 years is the same as as me(31). Everything was amazing in our relationship... except the sex. It was very dull and I tried everything to spice it up(games, dirty talk, romantic baths, etc) but ... (258 words)

I'm afaid if I leave and take the kids and let him see them he won't give them back to me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

29 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I want to leave my husband! I can't live like this any more and I told him today. He didn't really care that I was leaving but said I'm not taking the kids they're both 6. I'm afaid if I leave and take the kids and let him see them he won't give them back to me. What should ... (67 words)

Do you think he just wants to take things slowly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

29 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I would like some advice!! I was married for 5 years and separated 6 months ago. I have no experience in dating and I met this guy online. I met other guys but the first guy I dated we got on very well. What I found strange is that, we go out for theater, cinema and dinner b... (229 words)

Is this married guy looking for trouble with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

29 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - OK, this guy is a friend of mine. A long distance one. I met him in a deal from my office. Turned out we became keeping in touch as friends he told me he's married so we became friends since day one. He's military so we never lost touch out of what things were happening, but I ... (261 words)

God she's amazing... I think I love her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

29 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey I just went to go see this musical production called Les Miserables (( AMAZING )) It was from the local stage school. Anyway there was some friends in it.. One called (Anonymous)... Shes amazing.. So i have been talking to (Anonymous) for over a year.. we are re... (288 words)

I'm only 12 and I think I'm pregnant !

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

29 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - About 2 months ago, i had sexual intercorse with my boyfriend even though i am only 12 YEARS OLD!!! i really regret it because i started my period a year ago and i havent had my period for ages! and i think i might be pregnant. i am really scared. please help me. im only 12 :(... (58 words)

I'm seeing a guy that is 5 years older than I am and I'm scared to tell my parents about him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

29 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i dont know what to do......im seeing a guy who is five years older than me and i am scared to let my parents know.... (25 words)

What is the difference in feelings between real love, and infatuation or lust?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5596 days ago

29 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Kind of a general question. What is the difference in feelings between real love, and infatuation or lust? I ask as there is this one girl who on two occasions I have stopped feeling attracted to and then am again at a later point. Throughout all of it though I al... (71 words)

The pain will never stop

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

29 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing my current girlfriend for exactly 6 months now. I love her more than life itself, and she's everything I could ever ask for. However, there's one thing that absolutely tears me apart on a daily basis and feels like the pain will never go away. This is my... (828 words)

He is very angry and says I don't care about him...what more can I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

29 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My 20yr old boyfriend and i have been dating on and off for about ten months. over of which he has gotten a dui and lost his license for a year. i moved 4 hours away from him, for school that offered me a scholarship, about 3 months ago. i have been back home to visit and see ... (257 words)

It feels weird having sex with him because we are so close.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5596 days ago

29 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay im confused. I have this friend named chris. I have been friends with him for 6 years. He is gay. But i have had sex with him twice. I see him more then a friend. Like a husband, cus i can always tell him everything. I don't know if i'm in love with him. Anyways, I thin... (94 words)

I'm 20 years old and am in love with a guy who is 40 years old. My family thinks he is too old for me. Do I follow my heart ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

29 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I really need help in deciding whether i should follow my heart or my mind. Im 20 years old and am in love with a guy who is 40 years old.when we are together nothing matters and its like the time stops.we both understand eachother, care for eachother and make eachother h... (114 words)

I'm gay and I want to know what I can do to find love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

29 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I am 18 years old. I am a gay guy and I have been trying to find love for the longest time. I live in a small town and I don't get out much even though I have a car. I really want to find love what should I do?... (51 words)

Help! Sex questions need answered!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

29 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - ok, heres the deal, my bf wants me to give him a handjob/blojob, but 1; i dont know how, im afraid i might not do it right nd 2; i dont know what cum tastes like. can someone help me out please?... (42 words)

Should I keep having sex with him? I'm 13!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

29 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! Basically I'm 13 and I have had sex with the same guy over 20 times. Is that bad cos if it is then I'm gonna stop doing it but we're madly in love and we're basically going out so I don't know what to do. thanks for the help! x... (55 words)

His ex is coming over from Australia and is staying at HIS house! Should I be worried?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

29 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now and I usually spend all weekend at his house. I occasionally see him during the week but we both work so it is sometimes difficult, if we dont see each other we will be in touch in some way every day. He split up with his... (318 words)

Why does he wait for me in parking lot, but says nothing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

29 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm in a FWB situation with a co-worker (we work in separate departments). One day he asked me what time I usually arrive at work so we could meet at a location inside the building in the morning. Well, I ran a little late and I saw him waiting for me in the parking lot, ... (192 words)

How can I forget my first love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

29 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I want just to forget my first love because she is getting married! What can I do please help me? ... (20 words)

I might be pregnant with my ex's child but he has moved on...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

29 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with my boyfriend for 4 and half months. We spilt up in the space 3 days, he had a new girlfriend and he rings me up saying he would still like to see me but now he's been moody and moaning at me just because I still have feelings for him, he was my one. Now I think I am ... (86 words)

Is my best friend jealous of my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

29 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with this guy and he loves me but my best friend or supposedly, keeps making remarks about him and saying that she doesn't like him. When she doesn't even know him, also on my birthday he came round to wish me happy birthday but she made him feel unwelcome and left ... (136 words)

I know that I am gay but love a woman very much.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

29 October 2008 (M)

age - I am a gay guy who loves a woman very much. She is so much my equal with humour and wonderful style and a lady who is sensitive to all around here. She seems to often have another perspective from which to view the world which seems more loving than my position (general things- ... (359 words)

I have gained about 7/8 kilos that I am finding EXTREMELY difficult to shift.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

29 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a problem that might sound trivial but is causing a real strain on my marriage. Since having our 4 children I have gained about 7/8 kilos that I am finding EXTREMELY difficult to shift. I have tried weight watchers, calorie counting, gyms and even a dietition/personal ... (259 words)

Was I too desperate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

29 October 2008 (F)

age - I met a really good man that had been broken up from his fiance of 3 years. I met him 2 weeks after their break-up. He and I had so much fun together. We are both 45 and his fiance is 37. We had more in common than she and he did. We did have sex. But the day after we had ... (133 words)

How can I help support him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

29 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - He is upset with how his life is right now with working and lack of money? How can I help and support him? And what is the differance between emotionally connected and mentally connected? Because he told me that he connects with me emotionally but not yet connects with me ... (53 words)

I just want him to know how much this is hurting me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

29 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been on and off with this guy for almost a year now; and about 2 weeks ago we broke up while i was away, but he didn't really give me a decent reason. - so then I was major sad, trying to figure out why he finished things when it was perfect before i left. So anyway, a d... (639 words)

How can I stop myself from getting upset when his feelings are not what I want him to feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

29 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - How can I stop myself from getting upset when his feelings are not what I want him to feel? How can I tell what he is thinking inside his mind?... (31 words)

I'm so excited... Am I pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

29 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright here goes, me and my boyfriend of a year and a half are trying 2 get pregnant 4 a year or so now and I believe now I might be pregnant, my period hasn't started I've thrown up a few times, I'm only a day late though I really hope I am, I don't know how much more ... (136 words)

I just don't want to miss a wasted opportunity.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

29 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone this is my first post, just wanted your opinions on something. I went out with this girl for 2 months, and just ended up getting messed around by her. She changed from hot to cold from day to day, one day would love me, next day would pretty much ignore me. Eventual... (413 words)

Should I believe he really has feelings for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

29 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I met a gorgeous guy about a month ago. We instantly hit it off but i wanted us to take things slow and i told him i wasnt ready for sex. He understood. The problem is that now i feel things are moving just too slow. We only see each other twice a week (mos... (158 words)

Does he still love her...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

29 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help me, I dont know if my boyfriend is still in love with his ex girlfriend? We have been together for 5 weeks now, he is never sentimental with me. When i confronted him about this he got angry with me and told me i was being stupid, when i cried he got more angry. ... (307 words)

Is my boyfriend sincere with me?

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29 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hello everybody, I have a problem with my boyfriend, I had a talk with my boyfriend a couple of days ago, my boyfriend has a very hard time expressing his feelings and affection, he is extremelly shy and he gets embarazed of everything. We have been together for almost 9 ... (265 words)

I'm not on birth control and we didn't use a condom... dumb I know!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

29 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Umm.. heres my situation. My ex and I had sex last week... WE were really dumb and didn't use a condom. So I think he came in me... he even told me he might have.. plus I saw some on my underwear when I got home. I'm not on Birth control either. So here's my question... (132 words)

He cheated while I was at my brother's funeral and left me for the girl.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

29 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I had a boyfriend of 5 years, we were so great together! We have two kids! My brother died and so I had to fly to florida to get to his funeral and my neighbor called me while I was there tolled me that my boyfriend had a girl at my house and she was staying there. I came back ... (281 words)

Why is this guy ignoring me, after HE asked me out on a date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

29 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I used to see a guy two years ago, who i did get on really well with, we were instantly attracted to eachother. we started seeing eachother and it was fun until other people made him out to be a liar, and i got paranoid and accused him of lieing about loads of stuff. i ended ... (200 words)

Sometimes I think about death and it really scares me.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

29 October 2008 (M)

age - I have had a very good life and enjoyed all it had to offer. I still very much appreciate and enjoy everything that is around me and every day. I have a very good and happy life. However at my age, I am getting closer to end of my life. I don't need to see a psychiatrist or ... (342 words)

When things get serious I always back off, why is this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

29 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - what is wrong with me!!??? I've never had a relationship with anyone. I've been on dates etc but when things have started to become serious I put myself off the person that I'm with. I tend to like a person for ages and then when something finally happens, I pick little t... (178 words)

I dislike my good friend's husband and it's ruining our relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - hi, i really need some advice. i moved into a new area about a year ago and my three children started a new school. my youngest son made friends with a little boy and his mother and i have since become really good friends. i value her friendship and am ready to help her out. ... (329 words)

Am I making the right decision to keep my baby?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

29 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My Mum has always been my one and only source of unconditional love and support and the day she suddenly died was the most devastating of my life. I'm 26 and feel like I had the most important person in my life who I shared this unbelievable bond with has been ripped out of my ... (520 words)

How can I deal with disappointments in a more positive way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

29 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm currently in a relationship with a girl from school. We have started our relationship slowly, so that if things shouldn't work out, it won't change things too dramatically. We've met up outside of school in the evenings without anybody on our course knowing. We were ... (186 words)

Letting go of his past

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

29 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay here's the deal. I am 25 years old who is dating a wonderful man (age 29) for a little under a year. Our relationship so far is going wonderfully however there are certain topics that make things very tense. The number of people my boyfriend has slept with is relative... (334 words)

I absolutely know it wasn't the sex. Is there something wrong or am I just 'trippin'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

29 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I have started dating this woman a couple of weeks ago. She texted me 3-8 times per day. We saw each other 3 times. I spent the night 2 outa 3 of those times, the first night I spent the night, [in the morning] she asked me to come back that evening and hang out with her, I ... (193 words)

He has an addicition problem with pain pills and alcohol.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

29 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for about nine months now. He was so respectful and patient on waiting to have sex till I felt we loved each other which was over four months, and he never flirts or is innapropriate with any other girls. He is basically the best boyfriend besides ... (207 words)

I've always had the hots for girls... but I'm female!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5564 days ago

29 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So here I am, I always had the hots for girls. Never tough like it would be something serious...... but now I get a little bit more serious about it....... I get turned on by girls I think that are cute........ I am wondering is it because I have been abused that I feel more ... (93 words)

Could anyone enlighten me as to why he wont text me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

29 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. i've been seeing my boyfriend for two months and its going great. the only problem is he never texts me or rings me when were not together. i see him a few times a week but i feel as though im the only one making an effort. i dont uderstand why he doesn't text me but i do... (89 words)

I love her but I'm not sure we are right for each other.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

29 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm with a girl who I love but I'm not sure we are right for each other. We are also good friends and have always been able to talk openly with each other, however I'm not sure how to approach this issue. We met 8 months ago. During that time I fell in love with her. She ca... (179 words)

We broke up so why the constant phone calls?

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29 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm confused. After two years of being together he breaks up with me. We have had a history of him breaking up with me and getting back with me (which hadn't happen often or I'd say no more). He decides to move out. I hadn't heard from him in a week, which was fine with me ... (133 words)

Falling in love with my best friend's sister who is 3 years younger, what should I do ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

29 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - im falling in love with my best friends sister who is 3 years younger than me what should i do ive felt this way since we first met and im to afrade to tell her how i feel it could jeperdise our friendship and my friendship with her brother i just dont no what to do pleas... (63 words)

I'm almost certain I'm straight, except for this. Can you help please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

29 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Yeah, I know you're all bored to death of these "I fancy my teacher" questions, and I can't claim that mine is different or extraordinary, but these feelings are messing up my life. I had this (female) english teacher last year. I started of hating her, because she replaced... (311 words)

We had sex and haven't talked since!! I don't understand her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

29 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - So I met this woman, we went out a couple of times, spent the night the first night (only to third base, my decision. yes, I'm a guy!) In the morning she asked me to come back over that night (watch tv). I did. For the next week I get 3-8 texts/day from her, a week later we go ... (112 words)

Help me get over him please, problem is - I can't find anyone I like.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

29 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I have liked this guy for a year now, and, even though I'm not around him almost ever, i still can't get over him. And i really really like him, but he doesn't like me. Now I want to forget about him and move on, which is really hard to do when you only have three guy frie... (111 words)

HE CHOKED ME..THEN BLAMED ME FOR BLACKING OUT

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

29 October 2008 (F)

- MY BOYFRIEND AND I WERE FIGHTING (VERBALLY) THEN IT GOT REALLY HEATED! HE PUT HIS HAND AROUND MY NECK THE NEXT THING I REMEMBER WAS REALIZING I WAS ON THE FLOOR! WITH NO MEMORY OF FALLING, HOW I GOT THERE, OR ANYTHING..... BUT WHAT MAKES THIS SITUATION EVEN MORE MESSED UP IS ... (125 words)

He denies being registered on an adult friend finder site, and now he's in a mood with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

29 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, ive been with my boyfriend for a year. However, last week he left his hotmail accout on at my house, and i discovered that he had registered with 'adultfriendfinder', a sex hook up website, saying he was single and looking for one on one sex. he has constantly denied it s... (163 words)

He said I can have sex with other guys because he is not sexually attracted to me, but it hurt him when I did!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

29 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some input here. I have been seing this guy. He is not ready to commit to boyfriend/gfriend. We had a good talk last week and he said that he cares a lot about me but he is not in love with me. Said he loves me but he does not feel that sexual atraction towards me. He ... (486 words)

Why are these guys nice to my girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

29 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear All: I am facing a really difficult situation lately. The thing is, I've been dating with my gf for almost 3 years and we love each other a lot. The problem is, we're not living in the same country due to the fact that she went to England to further her education, which... (225 words)

My step brother's ex and I like each other, is this OK?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

29 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Well where to start, I have fell in love with my stepbrother's Ex-girlfriend that he does have a kid with. At first we was just friends and as time had gone on we both became each sounding board. One day we started talking about our feeling about miscellaneous subjects and ... (182 words)

We fight about her past all the time, I can't accept it as I feel she always belonged to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

29 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi iv been with my girlfriend since we were sixteen and im now 21 and shen is 20, im intelligent and have a photographic memory of everything in the past which is a big problem. we have broken up a few times in between that but now we have been together for 2 and a half years ... (311 words)

Any possible damage if we continue to play with this genital torture?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

29 October 2008 (M)

age - My GF and I have been together for about 5 years. We are both shaved and have genital and nipple piercings. We enjoy play piercing by inserting needles into her labia, clit and hood and my glans, shaft and sack along with other forms of genital torture, alternating as doms... (90 words)

My ex says we could get back together if I change, but chances are slim. What to do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

29 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so my girlfriend of 2.5 years and i broke up. I thought we were doing alright she apparently thought we weren't compatible. When i asked for a second chance she said i had many chances to fix us then and didn't pay attention or listen. She says she doesn't want a boyfriend ... (191 words)

Fooled twice ! Does he deserve another chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

29 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for two years. We met online in 06 and started dating in the late summer. He had just gotten out of a divorce where his ex cheated on him multiple times and had a child with another man. I know I'm the "rebound" chick, but after two years I think th... (414 words)

Should I marry a man twice my age ? Does age really matter ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

29 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi.I am 20 years old and I am in love with a guy who is 20 years older than me.he was married twice before and has 2 kids from his first marriage. we totaly understand eachother and have no problems in our relationship. he makes me really happy and we are totaly in love.I h... (98 words)

I'm going through MLC and I'm so lost and confused

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29 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 33, married 7 years (but I've been with my husband for 13 years) and have 2 kids, one 14 (from a previous relationship) and one 2. I've never been single from the time I was 17. When I met my husband, I had just gotten out of a relationship. I did not want to get into ... (450 words)

He likes me, he likes me not

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

29 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well...i am really confused right now. I really like this one guy and i told him tht i liked him but as answer i got tht he is not in the mood for a girlfriend right now which i understand, because of his past experience, well a couple of weeks later my friends were like OMG he ... (186 words)

Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??!

This question has 53 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

29 October 2008 (F)

- Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??! Theyre so nice when they want sumthing then they discard you like a piece of rubbish. They can be the best boyfriend ever but wont think twice about dumping you for another woman and flaunting her in front of your ... (173 words)

I am a lady who is dating two man at a same time. The problem is I don't know which one to choose.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) age 41-50 - I am a lady who is dating two man at a same time. the problem is i dont know which one to choose. course the other guy i have been dating him for five years and this present one its only been seven months please help confuss ... (47 words)

Why would a guy say he "used to fancy me" but keep sending me mixed signals?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

29 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - why would a guy say he "used to fancy me" but keep sending me mixed signals? like one night he came up to me and the bar and put his arms around me..and sometimes he asks to hold my hand, looks me in the eyes and bes really touchy feely.. ive been so upset and confused for ... (183 words)

How far will a woman go to hide the truth?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

29 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i am looking for answers.my wife had a little fling with another man recently that she says was only a kiss.i don't believe her.she will look at me in the eyes and swear on her kids life and god.has anyone ever heard a woman say this and not even mean it?can a person be that ... (446 words)

Impulsive/Annoying GF Should I move on and see other people ?

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29 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I’ve been seeing my girlfriend for a year and getting to know her better, now we’re in a serious relationship of three months but it seems like things are not working, their just getting worse and worse meaning our relationship may come to an ending. We know each other ... (209 words)

He breaks up with me...now he calls all the time. What gives ?

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29 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend broke up with me one month ago. He said he loved me but needed to see others because he was too young. so he has been and so have i. The last week he has called or txt me every day. It has been about random stuff but it is every day. He has called me drunk two ... (99 words)

I spent an amazing summer with him. I go abroad and he hooks up with another woman in only two weeks after I'm gone !!!

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29 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Thank you for reading, I know it's a novel! Sorry!! I met a guy on a dating/social website in May, and we started dating in July shortly there after, he asked if I would be his ‘girlfriend’ I didn’t see much point since I was moving in a month, but he said it meant a lot to h... (928 words)

I finish way too fast when we have sex.

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29 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have a bit of a problem. My girlfriend and I have been together for quite some time, and we have always had really good sex up until about 2 months ago. Lately I have been finishing way too fast and we usually don't even have time to switch up positions. this is fairly ... (116 words)

Has the age gap finally caught up with us? I'm so discontent!

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29 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Where do i start????...ok so im 31 and my partner of 15 years is 41, we have 2 children, and here is the BUT i dont really know if I'm happy any more, we separated about 2 years ago for a year, then got back together when we got back together things were just like they used to ... (285 words)

I always have bad luck in love.

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29 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I've always had really bad luck with love. I have only ever liked two people in my life, and the first was last year. I liked her for about a year without any hope, and nothing happened, except that she got a boyfriend (and subsequently broke up with him because he tried to ... (409 words)

He says he is not breaking up the relationship, all he wants is distance.

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29 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't understand what my man wants. The last time I was with him he told me that he wanted a distance between us ..... because he can't do two things at the same time faculty and me so he said he's gonna stay with his studies and for me it was ok ...coz I would put school ... (266 words)

I'm being bullied in school...

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29 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a problem. I get bullied in school because I made a video on youtube. The song is I kissed a girl by Katy Perry and thats why everyones saying that I'm a lesbian even though that's not true. When I walk through the school corridor people laugh and sing "I kissed a girl". ... (229 words)

After a year, am I over my ex or not?

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29 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so this is kind of a long question. Well 2 years ago I met my current GF. I didn't like her at the time but she was like my best friend. I knew her for like 3 months and then she eventually introduced me to my ex GF, also my first. Ok so I went out with my EX for 7 ... (360 words)

How can we stop this awkwardness around each other?

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29 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - This one girl and I, we've had a complicated past, but we are currently going steady with each other. I am convinced that I'm head over heals over this girl, and am also convinced that she's head over heals of me. Now, a few days ago we had a sort of falling out. We ended up... (255 words)

Does he still like me or just like as a friend?

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29 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My the ex and I have had a huge fight 2 weeks Ago, he said that he don't want to be my friend anymore which really hurt me! Last night, we met and I asked him why he kept asking about me whenever met my friend or cousins and why he still wants to be friends again.. His answer ... (113 words)

Why didnt she listen to what I said?

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29 October 2008 (F)

- My ex-boyfriend broke up with me in August and started seeing someone else straight away. A few weeks later I found out I was pregnant by him. I told him and he said he would support my decision of what I wanted to do. I wanted to keep the baby and I wanted him to get back with ... (458 words)

I want to date my friend.

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29 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I love my male friend and we had a french kiss the other night. I want to tell him how feel but I am scared that he will turn me down and that our frienship would be weird. I actually want to date him. I keep on getting mixed signals from him. I don't know if I should tell him ... (67 words)

I have some concerns about my husband's online activities.

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29 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have some concerns about my husband's online activities from before we got married and up to now. When we were first getting together, he lived in another state because he was stationed there with the Air Force. So I moved there to be with him. This felt like it was a ... (857 words)

Breaking up with her didn't go as planned!

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29 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I wanted to break up with my girlfriend for a while. I went to my ex (who is was first my gf) for advice tips for breaking up (nicely) and she told to call my gf. I called my girlfriend to ask her for a ride home. When she got to the house my ex told her come then it hap... (128 words)

Gay guys... have you ever had a relationship with a straight or straight guys have you had a relationship with a gay?

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29 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey gay guys have you ever had a relationship with a straight or straight guys have you had a relationship with a gay? What was it like? How did it start? let us know!! ... (39 words)

My boyfriend is persistently texting his ex!

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29 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is persistently texting his ex all day and probably all night for all I know. We have had our problems in the past and I cheated on him several times but now we have talked through things and he understands that I'm not going to be immature anymore, but I'm not ... (193 words)

My friends keep putting me down and tell me to lose weight.

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29 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey people here I am again in need of help? I am having trouble about my friends because of my weight they have been putting me down an continue to make fun. Also people have been pressuring me to lose weight and treating me to lose weight or else I won't have my 15 birthday ... (75 words)

He keeps lying about his porn viewing!

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29 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - an interesting question aimed to the menfolk out there: My best friend's bf was watching porn almost quite frequently. she was finding out his habits by checking the history on the pc and thus confronted him numerous times over the last couple yrs. his many excuses were, he... (1051 words)

Experience Gap

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29 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with my girlfriend for over two years now. She is a few years older than me and had a few partners before we met. I was a virgin when we met. It came out a while ago that she was unhappy with our sexual relationship and had lied about her number of previo... (139 words)

This married man has my heart held captive!!

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29 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Did I really lose it, or was I looking for love in the wrong place? Is it too late to fix the mess I got myself in? OMG what have I done, well it’s too late for all the crying and antidepressants, regret and maybe even counseling. Love has gone too far this time, but I love ... (588 words)

What should I do about this guy??? Help!

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29 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so i really like this guy, and i think he likes me too. see we met in this teen leadership class, which is a class where you pretty much spend time with new people and make new friends, and he sat by me all midterm. we are really close now, and i think he likes me, but i ... (175 words)

How do I drag him away from his computer and into my bed?

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29 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing this guy for a while now, and it seems that he never wants to have sex. It seems like he's much more interested in his computer games. Any suggestions as to how I could get him more in the mood?? Like what are some things I could do or say? Thanks, Victo... (60 words)

The condom split - what should I do?

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29 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i have a question that is really worrying me. i am 16 and my friend is 17. we are both gay and have been friends for the past year. we have also been sexually active with each other since a short time after we met. we just recently started having intercourse. this is like ... (139 words)

I called my girlfriend my ex's name while making love... BIG MISTAKE!!!

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29 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My girlfriend (for a year) and me were making love and I call her by my ex's name (they're names sound similar)by mistake. She flips out saying I'm still thinking of her sexually (I do think of her but only as a friend and nothing else.) She started crying and I couldn't say a ... (124 words)

In love with older married man, with his baby!

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29 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I break away from this married man, that I have had a baby with and commited myself to for the past two year? I have never had such a sad issue in my life, how can i leave him.. for good when I am so addicted to him? I feel powerless when it comes to this man!!... (60 words)

Does Jordan like me???

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29 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend (the one I just got done with) well, his best friend is one of my good friends. we'll call him jordan. Jordan has a girlfriend, but he always walks with me and comes up behind me and wraps his arms around me, grabs my ass, holds my hand, puts his arm around m... (109 words)

Do I have any right to tuck what happened with his brother away forever?

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29 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was dating a guy that I fell in love with for about a year. He has kids I have kids. We were pretty involved. Life happened and our path ended. His life needed him in one way and my life took me another. We still talk from time to time, less because I think dealing with ... (373 words)

I think I'm in love...

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29 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I asked a question a few months ago, about this guy at work I had a huge crush on, I thought and still think I'm in love... I wasn't able to get over him and apparently, he was sort of into me as well. Here it goes: Back in May, we went out clubbing, he had a few drinks, ... (783 words)

I'm still in love and missing her terribly, please help.

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29 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a married man in a love affair with a married woman. It seems that her husband has an idea of my exitence. Because of this she says she cannot seem me anymore the way we used to!!! But having said that we talk everyday and she tells me how much she loves me and misses me! ... (96 words)

What in ones mind makes it logical to mess around with a person already in a relationship?

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29 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What in ones mind makes it logical to mess around with a person already in a relationship? I understand if one is unaware, but if one cognizant of the other relationship, why bother? what makes one think that they're better than the other person? One should know they will ... (94 words)

Should I tell her how I feel so early on in the relationship or should I wait?

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29 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - When beginning a relationship is it ok to talk about how one another feels about them, or should i just wait it out and let things run its course? I've been dating my girlfriend for 3 weeks and I know from past relationships and my feelings that i am more in love with her th... (131 words)

What on Earth is going through my boyfriend's mind?

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29 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need to understand what the hell is going on in my boyfriends mind. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 10 months. I am 18 and he is 23, and we both live at home and are both studying. He says he doesnt want to move out of home and live with someone unless h... (269 words)

Is there an acne cure that works?

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29 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this kid and he noticed this zit on my nose ): I kinda got the swelling down but how can I make the redness go away? I've tried so many acne medicines ): and I pop the blackheads on my nose... like all of them. lol. but it messes up my skin? the skin on my nose ... (88 words)

My boyfriend really wants to make-out with me.

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29 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need help! See, my boyfriend really wants to make-out with me, and I really want to make-out with him, but I've never made out with anyone before, and I think he has. I've kissed him already, but we haven't gone any further then a short-light kiss. Does anyone have any ... (67 words)

What can I do to control myself?

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29 October 2008 (M) age 36-40 - I'm 19 and I just simply put can't get over my sexual urges and I end up masturbating. Honestly for me this is just extremely frustrating even though my head and rationality says something else my body tell me another. I've had strong sexual urges when I was younger too but ... (147 words)

My ex-boyfriend won't move out, what do I do!

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29 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone. I have broken up with my now ex-boyfriend of 8 months because of him trying to get back with a ex. So as a result of that, I do not want him living with me anymore. He is not on my lease, he does pay half rent and utilities. I told him he has 1 month,2 AT the ... (224 words)

Please explain exactly what 'spooning' means.

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29 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a little confused about spooning. i know it's a form of cuddling and i know its a very intimate position, and that the female faces away from the male, but is it a rear entry position? or can you get to the other part?? ... (48 words)

I pushed him too far and now he's gone. How do I get him back?

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29 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I know? I just DO. I just have a feeling. I've never felt this way about anyone. It's an attraction I can't explain. I don't want to seem desperate, but there's really no way to assure you that I'm not. I will do whatever it takes to get my boyfriend back. I ... (204 words)

I want him to make a move on me. How do I let him know?

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29 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - what should i do? i am in LIKE with this sophmore named Dillon 'goo' Manchell who is one of the big guys on campus named Dillon. he's our school's starting quarterback, and is kinda cocky at times, and is very good looking and popular. pretty much everything i'm not. i'm one of ... (107 words)

He blows hot and cold. Should I stay with him?

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29 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Right now I'm dating a guy who I really, really like but I don't know what I should do about him. He ignores me all the time, and when I ask him why he says that he doesn't want to be too clingy. I understand that, but now it's gotten to the point where he wont even say hi to ... (206 words)

Can anyone help me out, so I can at least get this part of my stress off my chest?

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29 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - here's the deal.. i have a boyfriend. its going good i like him alot. we hang out a lot. but i have this feeling with my ex. he's always liked me a lot and now he has a girl (they're not together, but pretty much) and he hasn't talked to me as much. and i just want to talk to ... (116 words)

How can I help my suicidal friend to get help?

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29 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I don't know how brief this is gonna be but I'll get straight onto it. My friend said shes suicidual. And I mean yeah I believe her, and she goes through some awful shit. But she won't talk to anyone. I've said I'll talk for her. Consuelling, parents anything, and I'... (205 words)