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I want to try getting with a girl I've liked for a long time. She is in a relationship but do you think she will be bored with him by now?

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Question - (5 September 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 5 September 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *amuel1 writes:

Hi

I sent some emails to a girl at school almost a year ago now saying that I liked her, but she rejected me because at the time she was in a strong relationship.

Now I am thinking about trying to win her affections once again but I am not sure if this is wise. Will her

relationship still be strong or will it have become boring given that all this time has elapsed. I don't know if she is looking for someone new, but I sure do hope she is. Help!!!!!

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A male reader, pavel38 United Kingdom +, writes (5 September 2007):

Do you know if she is actually still dating the same guy ?. Don't take this the wrong way but it may be that she wasn't in a strong/serious relationship but didn't want to hurt your feelings. I think before you ask her again you should, if you haven't done already, do some 'homework' to find out whether she is dating someone, whether she was dating someone serious a year ago etc. You could just go for broke, but you may end up being embarrassed or annoying her. Hope it works out for the best.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2007):

Try and make her see that you really like her. You should'nt count on boredom or anger or anything from their side. If there is then you are lucky, if not then try and convince her that you will be nicer to her than him. Give it a shot.

From: The li'l helper

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (5 September 2007):

It never hurts to ask. But many relationships do not end in boredom, they grow stronger.

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