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I'm currently single, with an 8 year old son. I've lived a fairly interesting life and have a fair amount of experience in relationships to offer advice to anyone that cares to listen.

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I try to keep most of my responses on the lighter side, unless the situation calls for a more serious tone.

Don't get pissed off and email me if you don't like what I have to say. I'm just having fun.

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I feel like I'm ruining his life because of my moods...

Q.   I started seeing my boyfriend when we were both with previous partners. We work together, but in separate offices, I'm nearly 21 and he's 31. We have been together properly for about 5 months. He has a daughter from his previous relationship and ...

A.   25 August 2006: I've dated women who "got into moods" over my seeing my ex-wife and my son. I have never touched my ex-wife (nor any desire to) since we divorced more than 5 years ago, so he is probably telling you the truth when he says it is over between them. He ... (read in full...)

I feel like I'm ruining his life because of my moods...

Q.   I started seeing my boyfriend when we were both with previous partners. We work together, but in separate offices, I'm nearly 21 and he's 31. We have been together properly for about 5 months. He has a daughter from his previous relationship and ...

A.   25 August 2006: I've dated women who "got into moods" over my seeing my ex-wife and my son. I have never touched my ex-wife (nor any desire to) since we divorced more than 5 years ago, so he is probably telling you the truth when he says it is over between them. He ... (read in full...)

Horrified to find my lovely boyfriend has been posting his willy on "bi-curious" sites!

Q.   I discovered my boyfriend of 2 years posted on adult internet sites seeking 'couples or females'. I recently clicked on the history tap on the internet and to my horror I found photos of my boyfriend advertising himself as a bi-curious male,...

A.   25 August 2006: You weren't being unfair at all. This guy is creepy. Who posts pictures of his wanker on the internet along with his name, address, and email address? A creep of a boyfriend, that's who. Lose him. ... (read in full...)

Why so many arguments?

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. We love each other very much but lately we keep arguing, I dont know what to do?...

A.   25 August 2006: You've offered too little info for anyone to really help. Who is starting the arguments? What are you arguing about? - are two questions that come to mind that might help. It takes two to argue. Maybe you need some time away from each other. Give us ... (read in full...)

She says shes happy with me, and then breaks up, could this be her meds ?

Q.   so i have been going out with this one girl for about a year and a half. she is 23. i am 24. this was the best relationship both of us have ever had. this girl has been on meds since high school. it seemed that throughout our relationship everytime ...

A.   25 August 2006: Walk away. Better still, run away. I've been involved with women who are bipolar, hormonal, you name it. It's like riding a friggin' roller coaster. When times are good, it's great. . . but when times are bad, it's hell on earth. Find yourself... (read in full...)

Will my best friend say no if I ask her out?

Q.   There is this girl i really like. She is my best friend and I think i love her but I don't want to ask her out incase she says no. What should i do?...

A.   24 August 2006: If she says "No", and laughs in your face, just walk away sheepishly. If she says "No" and offers an excuse like her pet goldfish died and she's in mourning, laugh at her and say you were just testing the water. Make up a funny story about the time ... (read in full...)

I think I might be in love with my friend! He's in my thoughts all day, until he texts or calls me at night!

Q.   I've been battling with this confusion for quite some time now. I'm starting to get strong feelings for this boy that I have been knowing for about a year and half or so. It's obvious that we like each other, but we opted to keep things on a friend ...

A.   24 August 2006: Ah. . . a tuffy. Love or infatuation, the age-old question. Whether 'tis nobler in the mind to suffer the slings and arrows of outrageous fortune, or to take arms against a sea of troubles, and by opposing end them? I digress. Whenever I have been... (read in full...)

It's a love hate thing...

Q.   Please help me out. me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 months. I hate his feet which feet arent supposed to be attractive anyways. Sometimes the way he moves his hand up and holds it up i hate it. It reminds me of someone gay. Just little ...

A.   24 August 2006: It sounds to me that you don't really want this guy around. Everyone has faults. . . even me, LOL, but if you care for him, his feet should be the least of your concerns (even if he looks gay, doing whatever it is he does, LOL). Tell this guy that ... (read in full...)

I think I _may_ have married too soon... My wife can't bear to be touched by me!

Q.   How do you tell the difference between settling down, and just settling? Married, and regretting it. Finding my wife and I are quite incompatible sexualy, and I often wonder whether I just gave up looking, and settled too early. I feel unwanted, and ...

A.   24 August 2006: Hi. The biggest part of any relationship is communicating. Obviously, this is lacking in your marriage. Talk to her. Find out what the problem is. If she clams up, ask her to go to counseling with you. If that doesn't work, then I think you might ... (read in full...)

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