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I'm starting to wonder if a relationship with a profiteer is better than nothing at all...

Q.   Ok, there's a lot of back story here before I get to the actual question. I was with this girl, my first girlfriend (I'm 32, kind of a late bloomer in this area). I don't have any relationship experience of my own, but I've seen lots of other ...

A.   25 October 2008: Wow can i just say is there anymore men like you and where can i find me one??? You want advice hun and i am willing to give it but it's going to be a very to the point bit of advice don't go back don't ever make do!!! You sound like a kind decent ... (read in full...)

I've been married since 1975 and I'm so tired of it all, what can I do??

Q.   im 51 he's 53 im searous hes not i am open and need to comunicate or talk he hates to he will not confront any issues that requires action. im tired and need some ways to get him to partisipate more and help with the responsibiltes of marrage. we ...

A.   25 October 2008: Hun i have also been here in your shoes and it gets a little tiring nagging all the time or thats what it feels like that we always have to nag it's so frustrating why do we have to nag our partners to get them to help why can they not see that it ... (read in full...)

How do I fall out of love now??

Q.   Hi everybody, I feel so frustrated because I fell in love with the wrong guy and now I do not know how to get him out of my head. I met him 3 months ago at a movie screening that I went to with my co-workers. I had finished a relationship recently ...

A.   25 October 2008: Oh sweety if it was only that easy if we could all control our feelings that would make us not human i can honestly say most of us have been where you are now and you are no fool i personally have been there and done that and the only advice i can ... (read in full...)

My penis is 5 inches and I'm too shy to have sex! Is that too small?

Q.   i am a male and i have 5 inches penis and i am shy to have sex . is it very small ? does girls will run away because it is small....

A.   19 January 2007: Sweety have you not heard of the expression it's not the size it's how you use it!!!And thats the truth there are some men that are gifted with a bigger penis but then when it comes too using it they haven't got the first clue!!!Things such as ... (read in full...)

We have great sex but he can't come! Is it me?

Q.   My boyfriend never gets off during sex. He says it like his whole body just relaxes and then he is limp. Hes hard the whole time and then just goes limp and doesnt get off. this is a first for me,is he just not attracted to me or does he have ...

A.   19 January 2007: Hi there sweety!!I can see how you would think that his problem is related too you but trust me it isn't if he was simply not attracted too you he would not get aroused in the first place!!Maybe your partner has things on his mind that maybe ... (read in full...)

When I'm not in the mood for sex my partner gets upset with me. I feel pressured sometimes. What can I do?

Q.   I was married up until last year and had an affair with someone else, since then I separated from my husband and I am now living with my new partner. When it was an affair we were having sex at every opportunity! Now we are together properly and ...

A.   19 January 2007: Hi there sweety!I must say your man sounds very persistant!But in no circumstance should you feel so pressured in to doing something you really don't want too or as you say when you are simply not in the mood he should respect this!Do you both ... (read in full...)

Hes emailing female escorts, what do I do??

Q.   My boyfriend and i have been going out nearly 4 years last christmas he cheated on me. Since then we have got back together but he says he wants to be with me and other times hes not sure. I have checked his phone bill and found nothing but hes been ...

A.   2 May 2006: Sweet theres no way you deserve to be treated like ths! He has already hurt you in a big way by cheating but he was fortunate too get another chance at making a go of things with you and it sounds like he is blowing this chance also.There is a true ... (read in full...)

Hes emailing female escorts, what do I do??

Q.   My boyfriend and i have been going out nearly 4 years last christmas he cheated on me. Since then we have got back together but he says he wants to be with me and other times hes not sure. I have checked his phone bill and found nothing but hes been ...

A.   2 May 2006: Sweet theres no way you deserve to be treated like ths! He has already hurt you in a big way by cheating but he was fortunate too get another chance at making a go of things with you and it sounds like he is blowing this chance also.There is a true ... (read in full...)

I'm not sure what to do about him, can anyone help?

Q.   Hi I've known by boyfriend since July 2005 but have only been dating seriously since December 2005. We have been getting on great and he wants us to go on holiday together soon and has already bought my birthday present even though it's not until ...

A.   2 May 2006: Hi sweet i can completely understand where you are coming from i myself dated a man that lost his mother and he too acted in this way.It is so hard too know what to do for the best all i can suggest is be there for him and support him in the best ... (read in full...)

He doesn't have a picture of me on his phone, just other women...

Q.   I think it is wrong for my boyfriend to have pictures of women on his phone as he has none of me. Is this right as i feel he doesn't love me much?...

A.   1 May 2006: Hi ya sweet,I have too say i do agree with you that this is not fair of your boyfriend for being neglective of your feelings and being a little unsenseative. Try talking too him and expressing how this makes you feel,Maybe it may be a case of him ... (read in full...)

Should I be there for my ex when he isn't or no?....

Q.   I don't know if you rememeber my previous questions... But this is mostly me asking if what I'm doing is ok, Recently my ex started dating another guy who is, to be honest not that great, he isn't that quick in the head and studders alot, maybe...

A.   1 May 2006: Hi Ya sweet! I feel that you really need to be careful because the only one your in danger of hurting is yourself.You should find someone who wants too be with you all the time and be with you because your you not just because they need a shoulder ... (read in full...)

I'm a tomboy, but want to be more girlier. What should I do?

Q.   hi i am 16 and i am a tomboy. the only problem is, is that i want to become a bit more girlier in the way i look. i want to start wearing make up and girlier clothes but its hard cos my older sister who is 17 is still a tomboy and i am afraid s...

A.   1 May 2006: Hey sweet i really wouldn't worry about it if you are comfortable the way you are then stay that way!!! otherwise have you not got girlfriends that you can exchange makeup tips with and go shopping with.You are still only young so try making suttle ... (read in full...)

I have a dream about my exboyfriend, what does this mean?

Q.   Well...I had a dream about my ex-boyfriend who broke up with me like in january. I Still like him but he likes another girl. Anyways, In my dream we still knew about our breakup and we were flirting and stuff. We really liked each other in the dream ...

A.   1 May 2006: Hi ya sweet trust me your not going nuts,I think i can safely say we have all been there and we have all had dreams about exe's.Dreams are something that you yourself can not control. its a sub consious thing that happens in our minds when we are ... (read in full...)

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