L think he's straight?
Q. l'm gay, and he's straight. l have only known him since September, but it feels like l've known him forever. Recently l have developed feelings for him, but l cannot get the courage to tell him, fearing it will obliterate what we have now. I have...
A. 29 March 2009: apparently he's straight and has a girlfriend so if you wanted to get with him, itwont happen...but if you want to tell him that you're gay then go ahead, if he's a good friend he wont care what sexuality you are, he just enjoys your company
good... (read in full...)
Should I move on or wait for her?
Q. ok so couple nights ago her ex boyfriend sister message my girlfriend (S) on myspace asking for her cell number. and she give it to her. so she text her saying that her ex boyfriend wanted to date her again. then next day S and me hanged out pret...
A. 29 March 2009: move on man....this girl clearly doesnt =know wht she wants....she's the hand and you're the yoyo, this girl's wasting your tim,e, you deserve better man
find somebody that really appreciates you
good lukc... (read in full...)
How do I let him down "gently"?
Q. i dont know how to begin so im going to try as best i can and hope it comes out right .. i have a lovely boyfriend who i believe i am in love with.. the problem is, lately iv allowed myself to get close to another guy (through msn and texts), even...
A. 29 March 2009: just talk to him, say "look i really like you, but as a friend....i already have a boyfriend(you've gotta tell him the truth), and im really sorry if i led you on or anything but i just want to be friends"
as long as you're not too harsh, he'l... (read in full...)
What to say on a first date?
Q. Okay so I'm asking out a girl but if she says yes I have nothing to say after so can y'all give me some ideas???...
A. 24 March 2009: You've gotten some great advice from everyboy, and i just want to add on to it
I agree with what "lauris is trying to say, it makes since, but idont really agree going to the movies would be a first date location....
on the first date the... (read in full...)
Should I tell her I made out with someone when drunk?
Q. Before I left for to Mexico for spring break I was kind of seeing a girl. We weren't officially dating but we told each other that over break we can look but not touch. So I went to Mexico and she went back home and I got blacked out drunk one ...
A. 24 March 2009: yeah i totally agree with "crazymind"
you should defenitely tell her yourself, it's gonna be even worse for you if she here's it from somebody else....
talk to her about, it's better that way
gudd luck... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is being really distant
Q. She says she's going through a stressful time at the moment with her parents and work. i know it sounds silly but shes stopped putting kisses at the end of her txts and everytime I talk to her it feels like she doesn't want to be talking. I'm scared ...
A. 23 March 2009: talk to her-COMMUNICATION- tell her how it makes you feel and she'll understand
and you've gotta let her know that you're there for to help her go through whatever she's going through right now..
goood luck... (read in full...)
Erection problems... Help!
Q. Help! Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7 months now, and whenever we try to have sex, it won't happen. Whenever he puts the condom on he loses his erection and can't get it back to put it back on again. It's happened around 10 times now ...
A. 23 March 2009: yeah i agree with "troubledtoomuch", the condom tip is a really good idea..if the condom's too tight.it just ruins everything...and you loose all your sensitivity aand you loose your hard on
also tell him to relax a little, it could just be n... (read in full...)
How do I get her to have sex or should I just move on??
Q. I have asked all of my friends so I guess I will ask and wait for a random person to give me the answer. I'm still in high school and my gf is older than me but she is a virgin and I want sex but I don't want to cheat on her.... she avoids the ...
A. 18 March 2009: wow dude it sounds like you just want sex from her.....if you cant wait then you should move on... (read in full...)
I'm not circumcized and amafraid of what girls would think
Q. I found out that i am not circumcised when i was about 12 or 13 and my mom told me to wash my skin good. I am mad at her that i am not circumcised because i think everybody i hang out with are circumcised and they think if you're not circumcised ...
A. 13 March 2009: beying uncercumsized doesn't mean you're not normal!!!
where'd you get that from??? you're perfectly normal...a guys iether circumsized or not!!! whats the big deal...some girls like guys who are circumsized because they "assume it's clea... (read in full...)
Got drunk..don't know if I had sex or not?
Q. I went to a party last night, and there was my crush- drunk. I had a few drinks and then I just woke up. I was at my friends house, she had a bit of a hangover too. I couldn't remember what happened. But I've been geting texts like- you had sex with ...
A. 12 March 2009: wow that's a horrible situation...you need to goto the person people thouhgt you had sex with and ask him if he had sex with you that night....next get a a prgnancy test cause you dont know if he used a condom or not..and get yourself for an std ... (read in full...)
He doesn't hug me but is all over his mates
Q. im going out with this guy for two moths now and we really love each other. but he'll never tell me whats bothering him he just puts his guard up and stresses at me and now hes always stressed about sumat coz our group of friends have had an ...
A. 10 March 2009: talk to him about it
dont put the situation a side
confront him about it... (read in full...)
It hurts to be with her..it hurts to be without her!
Q. hi im 15 and my girlfriend well ex now got into a fight about her and her ex (he moved away but is comin back next year) okay heres the story she always talks to him which yeah im fine with but she calls him when shes with me and they say sweet th...
A. 10 March 2009: you deserve much better bro!!..you sound like a gudd guy...follow your own path, she's taking you for granted...distance yourself way from her
she'll soon realize what she's missing!!!
gudd luck... (read in full...)
Me & best friend had a threesome and now things are kind of strange
Q. Ok so back in Jan. me and my bestfriend had a three way with this guy that i know and they never meet each other until that night and he came out and picked me up and we went and got her. so when we went back to his house to start up. and after we ...
A. 10 March 2009: get yourself away from this guy!!!
this guy's a wacko..just sleeping around like that, you need to get yourself out of the situation and get youself chaecked out for a disease or someting cause it's possible..
it sounds like all this guys wan... (read in full...)
G/f too embarrassed to tell me anything
Q. im 14 and my girlfriend is really in experienced and shy, how do i know when she is ready for more than making out if she wont tell me because she is too "embarassed"...
A. 8 March 2009: just tlk to her and make her more comfortable in the situation..and you guys are really young so don trush into anything you're not ready for..she's inexperienced dont pressure her..wait till both of you are a little more comfortable and ... (read in full...)
Why does 1st time sex hurt the girl so much?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together over a year, and we are now both 16. We have talked about sex and decided to wait until we were both of age, and also decided to use a condom. However, the other day her best friend had sex for the first time ...
A. 8 March 2009: it's because it's her first time..and she's tight down there
and she'll it's common for them to bleed their first time because when you insert them you break their hymen..that's normal... (read in full...)
Are all females overly critical of their appearance?
Q. Hi there...well I'm just after some opinions here. Do all females really judge themselves badly on their own appearance? I've had a couple of girlfriends in the past, both in their early 20's, who both seemed to be convinced that...
A. 8 March 2009: no not all girls..just most
and its not only girls that are like this
so are some guys... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is so close to his male friend that they call each other "baby"! Do you think he's gay?
Q. My boyfriend has a best friend and they have been really close that they even call each other baby. It was until I started to show that I didn't like that, that they stopped but my boyfriend still calls him behind my back even when he sends sms or ...
A. 8 March 2009: yeah i agree with armymedic....
i dont think he's gay, guys fool around like that all the time..it's normal... (read in full...)
We lost our virginity together but now she's terrified she's pregnant!
Q. I'm 15, me and my girlfriend lost our virginties recently and now she's scared of being pregnant. I'm scared that she's mad or something, I need help. PLEASE I dont want to lose her. How can we stay the same like we used to be? We usually spend some ...
A. 8 March 2009: yeah i understand that you love her,and she loves you..that's great im happy for you
but i feel like you guys rushed into this kind of thing a little bit too fast..it was a really bad move to have sex at this age, an even worse move without a co... (read in full...)
I need to tell my parents that I may have schitzophrenia
Q. This can really change my life and the people around me. I am ready to tell my parents that I may have schizophrenia, I am ready, I am not that afraid, I am, but I can take it, I just don't know how to tell, my mom, someone help, this can really ...
A. 4 March 2009: what is that??... (read in full...)
26 year old virgin needs help!
Q. I'm a 26 year old male... and I'm a virgin. Not only have I not had sex, I've only kissed a girl once. I've never had a girlfriend. I'm the guy that always got caught up with liking girls that just want to be "friends." But, I was a moron and just ...
A. 4 March 2009: you shouldn't feel tha tway man, therre's nothing wrong with beying a virgin
some girls find it kinda hott
you should go out with your friends more often, how are you going to me that special some one if you just stay inside your room...a... (read in full...)
26 year old virgin needs help!
Q. I'm a 26 year old male... and I'm a virgin. Not only have I not had sex, I've only kissed a girl once. I've never had a girlfriend. I'm the guy that always got caught up with liking girls that just want to be "friends." But, I was a moron and just ...
A. 4 March 2009: you shouldn't feel tha tway man, therre's nothing wrong with beying a virgin
some girls find it kinda hott
you should go out with your friends more often, how are you going to me that special some one if you just stay inside your room...a... (read in full...)
How do I tell him I just want to be friends but nothing more than that?
Q. There is this guy that I am almost sure likes me, I have no interest in him besides friendship. Right now I'm sensing that he will tell me that he likes me or to be his girlfriend, I don't know how to tell someone you still wanna be friends and ...
A. 4 March 2009: just let it down on him nicely...and tell him you just wnat to be friends and jsu tdont feel that way
but make sure he doesn't get offended and hurt, because it really hurts to be rejected by the one you love
gudd luck, it'll be alright... (read in full...)
Do guys find genital piercings on women sexy and a turn on?
Q. I want to get my clitoris hood and inner labia pierced. I would like to know from the guys if they find genital piercings sexy and a turn on. Of course, I'm doing it for me but would like to know what guys think of them. P.S. I'm single so I have...
A. 3 March 2009: personaly i dont think peircings are that kool
but gudd luck and have funn,..and make sure you go to a really clean shop... (read in full...)
Like me? How do I get him to ask me out?
Q. so there is this guy. he is a senior and i a junior. (high school) we only see each other once a month. he liked me my freshmen year and i started liking him my sophomore year. so this last month we had to o to a workshop sort of thing. we go to a ...
A. 2 March 2009: just ask him out..... (read in full...)
When he gets angry he takes it out on me!
Q. right, well me and this lad have been seeing eachother. We have been out before, but now it is more of a seeing eachother thing, Im only 14. When he gets angry, he tends to take it out on me, and i hate it. He gets really frustrated and takes ...
A. 2 March 2009: if you're not happy then leave...if you're always getting hurt in a situation then bail out
but he could have some anger issues and apperently doesn't think before he speaks, alot of people have that problem... (read in full...)
What to do if your b/f is having a bad day
Q. what would u do if ur BF is having a bad day? i want to destract him, and do something really sexy with him, but his ex gave him a blow job, and im willing to do it, but i just want to be sexy, so unless i have to, i dont want to just yet. so wha...
A. 2 March 2009: yeah i agree with jessica..just be there and be happy!!!!
he'll enjoy your company...be flirtatious and touchy feely, and he'll feel wanted and loved...and it should bring a smile to his face..... (read in full...)
I want to be with her so badly and cant get her off my mind
Q. I love my ex girlfriend who broke up with me 4 months ago...there was a point in our relationship where i was going to visit her at school (Both freshman) and i didn't...That weekend served as the turning point and things snowballed and she broke up ...
A. 2 March 2009: the way you're feeling right now is probably the same way she was feeling when she was going out with you....beying connected to someone you love but cant have them there with you, to hold, and to love is reealy hard..
she probably felt it to h... (read in full...)
They are TWINS and they both like me!!! Help!
Q. Okay,I Need some advice please... one of my good guy friends likes me more than I thought and wants to start a relationship... but the problem occurs when him and his twin brother both like me. I have been into his brother since I first met him. I ...
A. 2 March 2009: im really sorry... i wish i could help on trhis one i just cant seem to think of the right thing to do in this situation......
maybe you could talk to both of them and explain to them the situation and hopefully everything will work out.... (read in full...)
I find it very hard to make friends.
Q. I find it very hard to make friends. I am very lonely at times especially after college when I go home and on some weekends. I don't know if it is my attitude as I don't believe I'm aggresive or whatsoever. For example at college, I go in...
A. 2 March 2009: just make sure you interact and conversate with every body in the class..even if you're just saying hi or asking to boroww a pencil..it's a a start
dont be shy just talk to a few people..start a conversation..and over time things will pick up
... (read in full...)
I want to get with my cousin
Q. I want to get with my cousin. We used to play and kiss when we were little but now we are older I'm 18 years old and she is 19 and I want to see if I can have something more with her, I don't care if she is my cousin, I realy like her. I hit her ...
A. 1 March 2009: yahh man i know how you could develope these feelings for your cousin but it's just not righ
get a girlfriend instead who is not your cousin
and i think she already knows that you like her becaus eshe saw your boner when you were lookin a... (read in full...)
Does sperm live that long and if I wiped it away does it mean it's safe?
Q. I know this is going to sound a little sick, but I generally tend to masterbate in the bathroom. And I got some semen on the toilet seat (this being the rim on which the person sits). I cleaned it up with handsoap and anti bacterial wipes. But I'm ...
A. 1 March 2009: hahhahaha.. this question is so ridiculously hilarious...lmfao!!!
anyways if you're going to masterbate in the bathroom bu tdont wnat to cum on the floor/shower/toilet seat then i agree with "Jesssicarabbit" and cum in a tissue, or toilet pape... (read in full...)
My girl gets angry at me for silly reasons. What can I do to stop her immature behaviour?
Q. I am 27 years old and have been in a relationship with my girl for 4 years now. We met on the internet, and at first we were just internet friends, but one thing led to another and to make the long story short, she moved from her country to my own ...
A. 1 March 2009: i think you shouldn't as you say say it "treat her like a queen" anymore....dont be that attentive to her for like a month...to make her appreciate what she has..a really gudd guy...aand if she comes and asks you why you have been different all ... (read in full...)
Does he deserve an apology?
Q. Ok I really was attracted to this guy, occasionally he would come to my job to see one of his family members and every time I saw him we would talk, well he ended up having surgery and I sent him a get well basket. I heard he was very thrilled in ...
A. 1 March 2009: yeah i believe you should apologize
be the adult in the relationship, apolagize for the nasty messages..and just talk to him about what ticked you offf (calmly)...and tell him whats on your mind and hopefully your relationship will get bett... (read in full...)
I'm 17 and totally in love with my friend.
Q. I'm 17 and totally in love with my friend. We had a thing around 2 months ago and ever since then I haven't stopped thinking about him - even in the period of having a boyfriend. He keeps blowing hot and cold - flirting and calling me and then ...
A. 1 March 2009: stop beying depressed
get it out of your system and tell your guy friend that you're attracted to him and have feelings for him...if he feels the same way, then great!!
if he doesn't that's still okay..atleast he'll know that you like him... (read in full...)
Eye contact between the sexes
Q. Hi. I was just wondering... If a man looks at a woman, who has been looking at him, and she immediately looks away, is this generally because she 1) Does not want to give the impression that she fancies him? or 2) She wants him to think that she...
A. 1 March 2009: welll she could have been cheking you out when you weren;t lookin and when you turn around and see her she turns around too cause she doesn't want you to know that she's been staring at you the whole time..... (read in full...)
He's no sparkler... more like a damp squib!!!
Q. Hi, I'm 15 years old and I have been going out with this guy for like 3 days now... he's liked me a lot before so I thought I'd go out with him and give him a chance. I've spent a long time with him but I don't feel any kind of spark or like it's ...
A. 1 March 2009: i think you should give it a little more time..and spend extra time with him to get to know him better and see what happens...give it atleast a week..and see what happens
but there's no reason why you should stay in a relationship if you'... (read in full...)
Feeling terrible after having sex
Q. i just had sex i feel terrible is this how this is soppose to feel and another thing thing is i didt use a codom should i tell my parents...
A. 28 February 2009: your first time is never perfect..you have to work at it with some you know you truly love and he loves you back...study your body and his body to know whats most pleasurable to both of you..
anyways having unprotected sex was a not so smar... (read in full...)
I have learned to live with my height!
Q. Being short is more of a problem for a guy than a woman.I know because while growing up i experienced it happening to me.At school i was treated differently by teachers and the odd teacher used to point out my lack of height.There was a science ...
A. 27 February 2009: what are you worrying about..there's absolutely nothing wrong with beying short... yes i know people make funn and jokes about that sort of thing..im 14 and 5ft 10 in so i have have some friends that are shorter than me..
i make jokes too but ... (read in full...)
Feeling sick with diarrhea, after anal sex! Help!
Q. My boyfriend and I had anal sex unprotected, and i then gave him a blow job. That was yesterday and today i am feeling sick with slight diarrhea, could this be because I sucked him after anal? :(...
A. 27 February 2009: ooohhh gross!!! that's really disgusting
like "damluvaam" said, i would do that again if
i were you....
i mean isn't it obvious not to do that??
you know what comes out of there and puting your mouth on some thing that was in there wit... (read in full...)
Am I too young to give him a handjob?
Q. So I am 13 and I have a boyfriend who I absolutely adore and I really want to take it to the next level with him. Am I too young to give him a handjob? And if not how do I do so?...
A. 25 February 2009: i agree with auntie ranch...."leave his penis in his pants" ..you guys are too young to be getting sexuall..you're only 13, im a 14 year old guy and i would never do that kind of stuff at this age..wait till atleast when you're 16, when you're a ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't she want to have fun and play around like she used to?
Q. this is just a quik 1 :) iv been goin with my gf now for .... amount of time and we used to have fun and play around (coz we are too young for all the way) but lately it desn't seem she wants to, its nothing to do with her period cos..... well it ...
A. 25 February 2009: yeah she's probably scared and feels that she's being pressured into some thing that she's not readyy for -you say that you do things to her but she never doesn anything to you-she's afraid and worried ...you guys are really young,.dont do ... (read in full...)
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