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I'm not circumcized and amafraid of what girls would think

Q.   I found out that i am not circumcised when i was about 12 or 13 and my mom told me to wash my skin good. I am mad at her that i am not circumcised because i think everybody i hang out with are circumcised and they think if you're not circumcised ...

A.   14 March 2009: Well, tell your mom or dad that you want to get circumcized if it makes you feel bad. I love being circumczied, but I really don't think it matters to others, its not your fault that you are not cut, so just tell your parents and or your doctor, ... (read in full...)

How to make out and use my tongue

Q.   hi aunts im a 14 year old guy and i've never had a girlfriend before and i feel so pathetic right now.....never kissed or anything like that.. but now i do have a relationship with this wonderful girl..she's awesome and every thing is great we...

A.   12 March 2009: Well, you can tell her that you don't know how to, some girls like to teach, and or it will be in the moment. O and if you get an erection, just make sure to hide it, and or wear boxer briefs, since they are tight, when you get an erection, it won't ... (read in full...)

Should I tell Adam what I did?

Q.   Hi guys, I need some help... and I dont know what to do. I did something really bad and I'm ashamed. Well me and my buddy Adam are like two peas in a pod... we're the best of friends we're really close and nothing could tear us apart, we get along ...

A.   12 March 2009: Well, you have to realize that you are a guy, ok, now that you do, ok like any other guy, you are horny, I mean thats just in our nature we will always be horny, and we take every chance we get to have sex, why because when we get turned on, it is ... (read in full...)

I need to tell my parents that I may have schitzophrenia

Q.   This can really change my life and the people around me. I am ready to tell my parents that I may have schizophrenia, I am ready, I am not that afraid, I am, but I can take it, I just don't know how to tell, my mom, someone help, this can really ...

A.   4 March 2009: Thank you all, its just that I have a hard time telling them flat out, I also think about the effects they can take on, what if they think I am crazy, I cant take that.... (read in full...)

Puberty means one thing to me... ACNE!!!!

Q.   Huh!!! I feel soo frustrated!!! Puberty, puberty!!! Yeah I'm happy knowing that I'm growing and stuff but puberty also has a dark side!! ACNE!! oh my god I hate it. I feel soo self conscious about it, when is it gonna just go away!! I have it ...

A.   4 March 2009: Get a dermatologist, you know, ACNE, is not the darkest side to puberty, the darkest for me was the out of control mood swings, very angery and sad, that was the most horrible time of my life, my best guess for your solution as a home remedie is to ... (read in full...)

I think I have schizophrenia, but I don't know how to tell my family...

Q.   Hey people fellow advice givers, well, I have schizophrenia, and I just don't know how to tell my parents, I mean I have not been diagnosed with it but I have researched alot about is and I am really convinced that I am,and i want to tell them, but ...

A.   28 February 2009: Thank you all, but I don't think anything is wrong with me, I have multiple personalities, I confuse reality with something that is not real, I am paranoid, but i don't think anything is wrong with me, I like that fact that I have another me. If I ... (read in full...)

Hate him

Q.   So ya I talked about this boy that love me and is obsessed with me ya I said I hated him and his mom his mom called me and was like don't talk to him anymore but I did call him some other mean stuff he yelled at me once and I didn't like that then ...

A.   26 February 2009: Don't you just hate love... (read in full...)

Everytime I masturbate I have bad luck, bad karma or something bad happens!

Q.   HI! This might seem silly, dumb or mentally not normal to some but i have a weird problem, so please don't judge too soon. I also don't have any mental issues, been checked by the docs so Please don't say that you have issues. It seems like...

A.   26 February 2009: Well maybe your penis is just mad at you, try Jacking off in different methods. (read in full...)

Did I just had an orgasm?

Q.   Soooo my gf and me were having fun she was giving me a handjob and i was getting close to finishing i started shaking and when i did it looked like a hose had gone off in my pants..... after i was freezing and the light killed my eyes and it almost ...

A.   21 February 2009: Remember, Ice cube under your scrotum... (read in full...)

Masturbation at a younger age?

Q.   Is Masturbating at a young age 'good' for a girl?...

A.   21 February 2009: Masturbation is healthy no matter what age.... (read in full...)

Did I just had an orgasm?

Q.   Soooo my gf and me were having fun she was giving me a handjob and i was getting close to finishing i started shaking and when i did it looked like a hose had gone off in my pants..... after i was freezing and the light killed my eyes and it almost ...

A.   21 February 2009: Now I have for you here, when you feel it coming, put a ice cube under your scrotum, you will explode, the feeling is awesome. for more, got to (read in full...)

Its killing me having all of these feelings!

Q.   I'm 16, and theres this girl i've known for about a year and really really really like her. We are good friends and she considers me to be one of her best friends, but she drives me crazy. Like a couple of weeks ago we were at a party and both got ...

A.   21 February 2009: You know what she needs to know her truth, you said that she was practically sober, and you were somewhat drunk, so she did the wrong, you were just buzzed, so you went along, so that means that she is not speaking to you because she feels guilty ... (read in full...)

I'm curious about this after watching it

Q.   Hey well i'm a gay male, and i watch a lot of porn where guys eat the cum. So i was just wondering, what's it like? I mean how is it? uz lately i've been thinking abot it after i jack-off, then i think about it for too long, and end up not eat...

A.   21 February 2009: Now I'm not gay, but when I see the girls eating cum, it makes me wonder, so I looked into it, trust me, I tried eating my own cum, and it took me like 10 tries untile I finally tasted it, I have to say, mine was salty, so I did research, and I ... (read in full...)

How to prolong the climax?

Q.   Okay I am about to have sex for the first time. I want to know if there's anything I can do to make myself not finish fast. Any advice would be great. Oh and yes I am being smart, I'm using a condom so don't worry about that. Thanks...

A.   20 February 2009: Ha, turn off while having sex...... look into her eyes while doing it.... (read in full...)

Whenever we make out I just lose my mind!

Q.   Hi, I'm a 14 year old guy and I'm in a current relationship with this girl, I'm really in love with her and she's in love with me.. we've been going out for 8 months. I really want to have sex and I know you're gonna say ohh I'm too young, oh there...

A.   20 February 2009: Well its become your not in love, you are fourteen, you just need more experience in order to know what love is, and it may feel like love, but hey, and if you're that turned on, just jack off or something, If you two are both ready, by all means go ... (read in full...)

Sex in public

Q.   So, I love the idea of potentially getting caught having sex—that is of course without actually getting caught. Sex in risque places is just a big turn-on for me. So, I was wondering…where are some good places to have sex at with the least chance of ...

A.   20 February 2009: Well, know this do the research or something, but if you get caught having sex in public, you will be registered as a sex offender, so no matter where you move to in the U.S. anybody who wants to know about their neighborhood will see who are sex ... (read in full...)

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