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writes:I found out that i am not circumcised when i was about 12 or 13 and my mom told me to wash my skin good. I am mad at her that i am not circumcised because i think everybody i hang out with are circumcised and they think if you're not circumcised that is nasty. I get a lot of girls but never received oral or had sex because i was scared of what the girls would do. (would they know that i am not circumcised? Will they laugh? Will they tell everybody else?) I just wish i was circumcised so i can be normal and had lots of pussy already. Reply to this Question
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reader, Carolinew6462 +, writes (20 May 2009):
I don't know what part of the US you live in, but circumcision is becoming less common. On the West Coast it's less than 34%. Nationally, it's only 56%. Read this for more about rates.
http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/94200.php
Dude, I know when you're 16/17 you worry a lot about what other people think. But trust me, that's not important. Your mom did you a favor by not having you circumcised. It wasn't her body, so she let you have that choice.
For more info on circumcision and why you should be thanking your mom, watch this episode of Penn and Teller's Bullshit on circumcision
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xIZLna_uzLQ
Lastly, everyone else is right. You don't need to have had "lots of pussy already". There's PLENTY of time for that. And if a girl is put off of sex with you because you're uncircumcised, she's not for you. If she's truly into you, that won't matter a bit. Plus, having all the equipment you are born with, you are at a sexual advantage (whatever other people say). Just watch the video.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2009): My husband is the only uncircumcised man I've ever been with. We met when I was in my mid-20's, and at first I was a little surprised just because I hadn't seen an uncircumcised penis before, but trust me when I say, once things start happening and it gets hard, it's the same a circumcised penis. I don't even think about it, and as long as you keep up with your hygiene as your mom suggested, you shouldn't have any problems.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2009): I've heard that uncircumcised men have greater sensation during intercourse, and that they don't need to use lube while masturbating.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2009): If the foreskin was not normal, we would not have been born with it.
If you wanna get your penis cu up a bit, by all means do so... it is your body and you can do to it what you wish.
But personally, I wouldn't want ANYONE poking around my manhood with a sharp object.
Flynn 24
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reader, molly4  +, writes (14 March 2009):
 "I just wish i was circumcised so i can be normal and had lots of pussy already."okay lots of pussy? thats really immature but the truth is girls are too self conscious abut themselves to be looking at you down there..they wont notice or care and many may not know the difference its perfectly normal not to be circumcised. don't stress about it!
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reader, MinionServatis +, writes (14 March 2009):
 Well, tell your mom or dad that you want to get circumcized if it makes you feel bad. I love being circumczied, but I really don't think it matters to others, its not your fault that you are not cut, so just tell your parents and or your doctor, never to late
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2009): I'd heard about circumcision, didn't really know what it was until one day I was standing at a urinal next to a Jewish friend who looked over and said "you *are* circumcised!"
Your question assumes that people have a clue. Unless you're with a girl who has really been around, she won't have a clue either. Don't sweat it. When I was born (way back in the 1960s) parents had their boys circumcised as a matter of course, regardless of religion. Now it's discouraged, so you're probably not so different from the other guys anyway. As long as you're clean, it's no big deal. Chill, man.
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reader, Olivia(Y).  +, writes (13 March 2009):
 Girls are not going to care if you have a foreskin or not.Don't have sex with just anyone, find someone who you love and care about and you should feel more relaxed.Girls won't laugh at you because of what you look like down there. We are scared too about our bodys.Good luckLiviax
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reader, MyDestiny +, writes (13 March 2009):
 beying uncercumsized doesn't mean you're not normal!!!
where'd you get that from??? you're perfectly normal...a guys iether circumsized or not!!! whats the big deal...some girls like guys who are circumsized because they "assume it's cleaner" but im sure you keep it clean..and some girls like guys who are uncercumsized because the skin causes more friction during intercourse and it feels really good... so you shouldn't worry about that because you're alright,, alot of guys are uncercumsized...dont shy away from a blow job, if a girl doesn't like she's just shallow and doesn't deserve you...if she really liked you what... your penis looks like wouldn't matter...
and dont be getting mad at your mother for not wantin g you to go through that pain as a baby....she kinda actually did you a favor
don tworry about too much bro,.. you'll be ok
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