Cheated on me with her cousin and dumped me!
Q. Im not kidding you, I was with a girl for 8 months and I truly loved her but, she ended up cheating on me with her cousin, I fell into sadness and depression and felt as if I would never find anyone. One of the reasons she dumped me was because I am ...
A. 17 July 2009: agreed with honey pie.dude dont worry dont even think about her. apparently she doesnt love you and you can do way better if she dumps you for one of her family members wich is kinda lame, and wierd in a way.
anyways stay strong be conf... (read in full...)
I think my girlfriend is hiding something!
Q. I hav a girlfriend and I think she's hiding something. I'm getting worried. I'm getting worried. She isn't acting the same as she used to. And I don't really see her much. But we used to text all the time, but now she doesn't. Can you help me?...
A. 17 July 2009: yes i agree with hannah. dont fuss about it yet, it could be nothing to worry about. just sit and have a tlk with her. and figure out what's going on. good luck
i hope everything goes okay... (read in full...)
How do I tell a guy that's in love with me that I know all about his perverted doings behind my back?
Q. OK, this is gonna be long. So there's this guy I used to be friends with, but then our friendship just sort of wore off when he became a pervert. He shared his very creepy opinions about my friends with other people but never his opinions of me. ...
A. 3 July 2009: well its not wrong for the guy to say that he thinks ur hott and would want to have sexx with you out of all ur friends during the truth or dare..for one its truth or dare so you have to i gueess
but it did kinda get out fo hand with him send... (read in full...)
My pubic bone hit her nose....I can't seem to contact her since!
Q. Ok so this is kind of embarrassing for me and the girl. Iv been messing around with this girl, who i like alot, but two weeks ago while i was receiving some oral sex she decided to stick her finger in my anus. Well i jumped and my pubic bone hit her ...
A. 3 July 2009: i totally understand why you freeked out man..i would too..but its a fact that some straight guys like anal masterbation and because of the prostate it makes ur climaxx feel 10 times better..so she was doing it for you..
well she might feel emba... (read in full...)
I think my cousin remembers but is afraid to admit it!
Q. Well... Where to start? My cousin and I had sexual encounters when we were young. We gave each other back rubs or as we called it fratching. I stole 2 pairs of her panties in high school. Then was caught with them. 3 times I felt and fingered her ...
A. 3 July 2009: well in my opinion its wrong man..no matter how hott she is. and she's obviously uncomfortable with it so i think you should ahve a tlk with her about the things you guys did in the past to clear it all up. and then just be family.and forget all ... (read in full...)
How do I stop masturbating?
Q. How do I stop masturbating? I think it has become habit rather than necessity. I do at least twice to thrice a week, after doing it I always get feeling to not do it again, but I break promise made to my self. Please help overcome this habit, I...
A. 18 May 2009: yeah its normal bro..its just bad when yu go overboard..and it gets addictive....its very healthy infact... (read in full...)
She asked what was in my pocket, but I had gotten an erection! So embarrassed!
Q. Hi, I'm 14, about to be a freshman in high school, and I have a problem. I've been best friends with this girl for longer than I can remember. Last week, our school had the end-of-year Spring Fling (a dance). We went together as friends. When I went ...
A. 18 May 2009: Man...i understand yu, im in the same position as you so i know these things really well. I'm 14 and about to be a freshman, so i know these things happen all the time..
im proud of you man.props to yu for leaning in for th kiss, that was a re... (read in full...)
A poll regarding virginity
Q. I am wondering at what age most people lost their virginity? This is a really interesting subject to me and I am just curious, I googled it and it says the average age is 16, but thats seems a little old to me. It also said like only half of the ...
A. 16 May 2009: im still a virgin but my cuzin lost it at 15... (read in full...)
Love gives pain
Q. my girl friend is loving me so much from 6 months but now she is speaking with other boy over the phone i told her i dont like it but she said i'll flirt over the phone only nothing more i love u so much. i had fought with her she is still speaking ...
A. 16 May 2009: you need to have a sit down with her and talk about it and make sure yu get yur point across to her...make sur yu tell her..and make her understand dat that what she is doing makes yu uncomfortable....and hope she understands,,
good luck... (read in full...)
I can't win! What do I do with him?
Q. Hi, what do I do with him, he said I was too slim and that he doesn't like me that way, so I should add some weight, now I am a little bit fat and he complains I am too fat. What do I do with him?...
A. 25 April 2009: you shouldnt have to change who you are for anyone...especially if you love them, and if he loved you, he wouldn't care what you looked like... (read in full...)
I lied about my age to my boyfriend! Is he mad at me?
Q. Ok so i lied to my boyfriend that i was 15 and he is 15 turning 16 in May but i'm really 14 turning 15 next year so i told him my real age on AIM but he was offline and he hasn't txted me or anything.... Is he mad at me, does he still love me.....
A. 19 April 2009: yeh there's no reason too lie and you shouldn't have done dat..and one year difference doesnt mean anything...he shouldn't be bothered bye ur lil lie if he cared... (read in full...)
She is giving me mixed signals
Q. I think I am getting mixed signals, or she is playing games with me. Well, there is a girl in my Clinical Psychology class who sits right next to me, she seems to give signs that she might be interested in me; such as she always leans in to whis...
A. 19 April 2009: man i hate when girls do that too....it can get really frustrating and confusing...i should know-lol
i dont really know how to solve this problem...girls will forever be confusing..maybe you can just ask her out and tell her how you feel abou... (read in full...)
Addicted to the internet!
Q. This has nothing to do with love or relationships, but I think i'm addicted to the internet!! I sound like a sad loser that doesn't have a social life, but i'm simply on it more because there's nothing to do, and I have no money. Especially bore...
A. 13 April 2009: im da same...during da holiday week off, ive been boreed and have nothingto do, and so ive benn on the internet all day everyday..and da internet is kinda addictive.-lol
... (read in full...)
I'm 17 and I'm a sex addict
Q. ok im gana get down to the question i love having sex i just do its a part of me but am i over doing it i mean i wana have sex 24/7 im an addict i need a woman's oppinion how do i stop cuz i wana have sex 24/7 with my fiance all the time and im only ...
A. 13 April 2009: you need to try theropy bro....
do it, it'll help and it'll benefit you and your fiance's life together
... (read in full...)
We were drunk, skinny dipping and my lady grabbed my friend's package!
Q. Hey, Ive been seeing my girl for about 1 year and a bit and generally things are sweet and our relationship is mostly healthy on all levels. A small issue for me is her flirting when we go out drinking. Typically it doesnt bother me as im quite ...
A. 7 April 2009: talk to her....
i'd be really pissed too if my girlfriend was right in front of me feeling on my friends pack-talk about awkward-
and you've gotta keep in mind that you guys were drunk, and with her beying younger , she gets really loose wh... (read in full...)
We're close one minute then there's tension the next! Help!
Q. My girlfriend and I have been on weird terms lately and I've had some trust issues recently and I'm trying to open up, but this other day I was in her room and there used to be this picture of us and now it's just gone. A little strange. Anyway, so ...
A. 5 April 2009: open up more to her then...its a relationship, it's a relationship it's not gonna be perfect..you both have to work and contribute something to make it work so open up more tell her whats going on in your life, tell her what you hate/love whatever ... (read in full...)
How to move from friendship into more?
Q. My best friend is very flertive and touchy naturally, I'd like to know how I can get confirmation if she does like me or not in a special manner. I've been thinking of dating her for approximately 2 months now. I am afraid asking her out while she ...
A. 5 April 2009: just tell her how you feel about her, take a chance----
if you dont want to go straight on, ask as a joke and be like, would she ever go out with you if things were different and see what she says... (read in full...)
My friend gave a blow job and now I can't help but be disgusted by her!
Q. Ok, so here's the deal. Recently one of my friends gave her bf oral sex. I asked her over text and she ignored it. Then, rumors went around school so everyone knew basically. Then I found out it was true because she admited it. Shes only 12 and im ...
A. 4 April 2009: well i can see how you are shocked and feel that she is repulsive right nnoww...i understand that-she's only 12 and she's already gotten herself in that time of stuff
but the truth is it's a shame that a lot of kids are starting soo early thes... (read in full...)
I feel so boring...
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together a year, and in all we've been pretty good together, up until recently I've been feeling that we've lost something between us, I love him so much and I don't know what I'd honastyly do without him, yet my own ...
A. 2 April 2009: hey..sorry if you felt that way, but as i was no where near trying to judge you, i was just trying to pass out my opinion with examples
sorry if it came across me judging you, as i said im around the same age as you and been in something simi... (read in full...)
I feel so boring...
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together a year, and in all we've been pretty good together, up until recently I've been feeling that we've lost something between us, I love him so much and I don't know what I'd honastyly do without him, yet my own ...
A. 2 April 2009: hey..sorry if you felt that way, but as i was no where near trying to judge you, i was just trying to pass out my opinion with examples
sorry if it came across me judging you, as i said im around the same age as you and been in something simi... (read in full...)
I think I might be in love with my best friend
Q. Where to start... well I think I might be in love with my best friend. lol how terrible isn't being so close to her mooning over her from so close. I feel almost shameful because where so close. I don't want to ruin our friendship. I've always had a ...
A. 1 April 2009: tehn try it out man...tell her how you really feel and ask her out....since you guys are so close it probly wont effect your freindship afterwards if it doesnt work out.....give it a shot... (read in full...)
I feel so boring...
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together a year, and in all we've been pretty good together, up until recently I've been feeling that we've lost something between us, I love him so much and I don't know what I'd honastyly do without him, yet my own ...
A. 1 April 2009: Okay your 13-15, so am i and you shouldn't be having sex at this age..you should be out there having funn with your friends...as you can see a relationship can really f-up your emotions since your bofriend is immature and doesnt treat you the ... (read in full...)
Taken girl with a lot of male friends...
Q. I used to be friends with a ton of girls, but there was a bunch of stupid drama so I became friends with mostly males by the end of high school. I'd hang around them and just chill and play video games or eat or something. When I got to college, got ...
A. 1 April 2009: NO...he's beying unreasonable....ofcourse girls and guys can be friends, even if all your friends are guys...you need to tak to your boyfriend and tell him that he needs to trust you more that you can have friend s too even if they're guys...you ... (read in full...)
I don't know if he's straight or bi?
Q. Well im new at this so bare with me...I am 22 years old and am bi. And i have this guy friend that is a year younger then me. To make a long story short we have known each other for about 5 years and are fairly close. My problem is, is that i dont ...
A. 1 April 2009: you should tell him that you're bi, since you guys are really good friends for five years...you should be able to tell him that, and he shouldnt have a problem with it, any ways it's a possibility he could be bi too, you never know... (read in full...)
Is it best for us to stay together or go our seprerate ways?
Q. Hi, I'm 15 and I have an amazing girlfriend, she's also 15. Well we've been going out for two years and we've had our ups and downs but were still together. here are some of the bad things. She cheated on me about 2 or 3 times with her her ex that ...
A. 31 March 2009: explain the facts of her doing all that crap to herself, it's bad for her,
drinking?? ssmoking pot??
she could geet so drunk that she ends up having unprotected sex, and get hiv/std's or gets pregnant, or gets raped, or gets in a car acci... (read in full...)
I don't know if he's straight or bi?
Q. Well im new at this so bare with me...I am 22 years old and am bi. And i have this guy friend that is a year younger then me. To make a long story short we have known each other for about 5 years and are fairly close. My problem is, is that i dont ...
A. 31 March 2009: does he know you are bi????... (read in full...)
Too scared to ask her out...
Q. I love a girl called Lois, I'm too scared to ask her out. You see me and her both have a lot of stuff in common and we kissed once. But this is the complicated part were both 13, she's seeing a 17 year old. I asked her out in class by reading a poem ...
A. 30 March 2009: woow jessica, you're right i totally missed that peace of detail... (read in full...)
I hate being single!
Q. I hate being single, I'm starting to think something's wrong with me. It seems like no matter what I do, nobody is interested in me. I actually hurt myself quite badly on the way home tonight, I punched a brick wall and my shin really hurts. My ex ...
A. 30 March 2009: i feel you man...just hang in there
go out meat new people and you'll find the right one someday..you;ll soon find your soul mate... (read in full...)
I think I love my friend's best friend...
Q. I have been going out with my current boyfriend for nearly two years. And the other weekend I hooked up with his best friend. Both me and his best mate have decided to keep it a secret. But I think I now have feelings for his friend now. Although I ...
A. 30 March 2009: stop doing what ever you're doing with his friend....i you truly love your boyfriend you can atleast give him that....cause if he were to find out im sure it'll break his haert....and he must not have such good friends if they are willing to fool ... (read in full...)
I told her I had a crush on her but she said she's not interested... what now?
Q. I like this girl we've looked at each other from time to time and I said that I have a crush on you and that she's beautiful. She replied saying "ha thanks:)" and then we talked and today I sent her a message with the words of the song "your so ...
A. 30 March 2009: move on man, she doesnt like you, she doesnt liek you..it's not liek she's the last girl on earth you're gonna feel this way about...."there are plenty of mermaids in a sea of fish".....you'll feel this way again for someone else, well a bunch of ... (read in full...)
Is it over for good or just a break?
Q. My boyfriend and I have dating for 2 years and 7 months. He is 25, but I was his first girlfriend. We have talked about marriage in the past, but he has avoided the topic for almost a year now. He hasn't been saying "I love you" back for the last ...
A. 30 March 2009: what you need to do is ask "HIM" that......only he knows the answer to that question,... (read in full...)
How can I show I trust?
Q. I have a girlfriend who I love with all my heart. We are both honest and we trust each other. We are both people who have been burned by love before. We are both people who take their time before we trust another person. Somehow we seem to be ...
A. 30 March 2009: well you need to talk to her and apoligize for deeming that you dont trust her..and you need to get over your insecurities, whoever you are, what you look like, or whatever your personality's like you're perfectly capable of having the most poular ... (read in full...)
Too scared to ask her out...
Q. I love a girl called Lois, I'm too scared to ask her out. You see me and her both have a lot of stuff in common and we kissed once. But this is the complicated part were both 13, she's seeing a 17 year old. I asked her out in class by reading a poem ...
A. 30 March 2009: who cares about your friends...if they really are your friends they'll except who ever you're dating.......
From Bigfoot to Megan Foxx, who ever it is they shouldn't hold you back
so you need to ahve a talk with them, and tell them if they'... (read in full...)
I let alcohol mess me up. How can I say I'm sorry?
Q. DC readers have always helped me out and now I REALLY hope you can help me. I have a great relationship with a friend of mine who I would hope to one day make my girlfriend. I have screwed up before and she has always forgiven me. We are best...
A. 30 March 2009: well make sure you see her in person...and apoligize deeply....and tell her why all those things came out when you were drunk, tell her how you really feel about her, tell her exactly what you said in your 5th paragraph and more....
"The... (read in full...)
Too scared to ask her out...
Q. I love a girl called Lois, I'm too scared to ask her out. You see me and her both have a lot of stuff in common and we kissed once. But this is the complicated part were both 13, she's seeing a 17 year old. I asked her out in class by reading a poem ...
A. 30 March 2009: yeah man as soon as you see her, ask her to step out of what she's doing for a sec, and make sure that it's just you two, make sure she can hear you, eye contact and all....tell her how you feel about her and ask her out....and if your nervous, ... (read in full...)
Too scared to ask her out...
Q. I love a girl called Lois, I'm too scared to ask her out. You see me and her both have a lot of stuff in common and we kissed once. But this is the complicated part were both 13, she's seeing a 17 year old. I asked her out in class by reading a poem ...
A. 30 March 2009: Just go for it, you'll never know unless you try...
you'll do fine since 21 other girls want to be with you, and you've already kissed lois so that's another plus...go for it-gud luck... (read in full...)
Why every Sunday only???
Q. I rarely get spontaneous erection, but for some reason EVERY sunday when i go too sell newspapers at a local flea market, i get a seriously hard too get rid of erection.I dont rub up against anything much, theres no "lovely ladies" there really, and ...
A. 29 March 2009: thts good acvice down their, but if it doesnt work try wearing jeans and boxer breifs, so when you get your next hard on it wont showa s much
guuddd luck... (read in full...)
I'm turning 17 and my Dad treats me like I'm 10!
Q. hey.. what can i do when i hate my dad that i don't even want to talk to him or look at him!!! he treats me like shit, just because i turned off my phone to have a bit of fun he freaked out and sed i don't deserve a phone and i'm never going out ...
A. 29 March 2009: wow..Denny gave you some great advise there...
i suggest you learn from it bro, cause i may be a few years younger than you but i know how you feel right now, i m going through the same thing and i've got it even worse than you......but dont... (read in full...)
I fancy my best mate's ex
Q. my best friend went out wit this girls and she dumped him im still gud friends wit her and now i really fancy her i don't want to tell her because i don't no if she likes me or not but i also dont want to go out wit her because i dont want to make ...
A. 29 March 2009: well if you guys are such good friends, im sure you guys can atleast talk about it, tell him that you like his ex, and would he mind if you aske dher out
or if dont want to go straight to the conversation then do it as a joke...be like "hey... (read in full...)
Any thoughts on getting over my nerves around him?
Q. okay, theres this boy i really like and we finally are boyfriend and girlfriend again, he says he thinks im nice looking and cute, and tells everyone he likes me and i feel the same about him. about 3 days ago he asked me out and i said yes, but we ...
A. 29 March 2009: just relax, be yourself around him....as you said, he's nervous too so get him to loosen up a little ...you need to take a deep breath and just be you...
talk about different topics...you ask first cause it's easier for the girl to tlk so he c... (read in full...)
L think he's straight?
Q. l'm gay, and he's straight. l have only known him since September, but it feels like l've known him forever. Recently l have developed feelings for him, but l cannot get the courage to tell him, fearing it will obliterate what we have now. I have...
A. 29 March 2009: apparently he's straight and has a girlfriend so if you wanted to get with him, itwont happen...but if you want to tell him that you're gay then go ahead, if he's a good friend he wont care what sexuality you are, he just enjoys your company
good... (read in full...)
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