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I think I might have caught my husband on a dating site?

Q.   Dear cupid, I was looking though our computer last night and came across a site that should not have been on there when my husband asked me what i was looking at i asked him if he knew about this site he said no its a pop up i dont know alot abo...

A.   13 March 2009: You can check the history folders, not the one on the internet, because it really never gets deleted. And, a lot of those sites are pop ups, sometimes when i'm on a proxy server or, some moderate site Adult Friend finder adds come up and show my ... (read in full...)

Why is it more of a turn on if the girl swallows?

Q.   I supose this is a question for the guys/men - Why is it better for a girl to swallow? I was told its very sexy and if the girl that does that for you is amazing. Why? Is it sort of an 'acceptance' thing? And if she spits, is it a 're...

A.   7 March 2009: Me, myself. It doesn't really matter if they swallor or not cus after ejaculation there pretty much out of it and need to recooperate. Cus i think thats like super good when it's happening or i'm masturbating and stuff but after orgasm i'm like ... (read in full...)

Should I quit my job?

Q.   My wife and me haven't had sex in 6 weeks because I haven't been feeling too well and I have high blood pressure (she knows about it) and it makes me really tired. My high blood is due to my very stressful job. My boss over works me and some other ...

A.   3 March 2009: If you feel you can't continue you should quit the job.. and what's your profession? You might be with one or without, and can your wife benifit the house with her job?... (read in full...)

I think dad will ruin plans to have sex

Q.   ok well my dad asked me to talk to im before having sex and me and my gf are planning to very soon and her dad know and i think hes getting her birth control pills i want to be responsible so he will trust me more but i think he will ruin our plans ...

A.   2 March 2009: Your talking to parents about having sex? and your 13-15 i think you should wait, and to stop him from ruining it, talk to him about it or don't tell him ya did...... (read in full...)

I feel so slutty! Please help me!

Q.   Hi I really need help :/, I'm only fifteen and I can usually get boys with ease but everytime I go see a boy, This may sound werid but I always get really horny and want sex with them and straight after it I always seriosul...

A.   24 February 2009: k c100 was a good answer. Your hormones are flying around, you should feel this way, it's normal, just relax. Now i'ma guy and same happens to me, but i don't get horny cus then i'd be embarresed... (read in full...)

Help in masturbation...

Q.   This is a little embarrassing, but I need answers! I'm 19, have NEVER masturbated before in my life but I'm not a virgin (I've only had one partner) and the guy I'm with now doesn't believe in sex before marriage. I like him a LOT and I can see ...

A.   22 February 2009: Stimulate your clitorus and maybe get some dildos or a vibrator, google 'how to masturbate' and that will help a lot, touch yourself and see what feels good and keep doing it.... (read in full...)

I feel really guilty, should I tell her?

Q.   A few weeks ago, a girl I liked a lot, kept asking me to buy her flowers. I was still under her influence because I liked her a lot. There was a new girl I liked, but at the time nothing had happened. Even though this other girl had a boyfriend she ...

A.   22 February 2009: tell her and tell her your sorry, if she doesn't take that then you shouldnt be with her... (read in full...)

Did I just had an orgasm?

Q.   Soooo my gf and me were having fun she was giving me a handjob and i was getting close to finishing i started shaking and when i did it looked like a hose had gone off in my pants..... after i was freezing and the light killed my eyes and it almost ...

A.   22 February 2009: Yea seems like you had an orgasm, now to give her one she won't forget :)... (read in full...)

Can my parents relationship affect mine?

Q.   I was wondering if anyone else thinks that the type of relationship your parents have can affect the types of relationships a person has as they grow older. Like if your parents argued a lot when you were a kid if that will make you more prone to ...

A.   22 February 2009: Parents are a big part in your life and how you turn up but ultimately it's your decision. My mom and dad argued a lot, and my dad left when i was 5. I hate my mother, my brother and grandma which live with me but i still love them very much. I ... (read in full...)

Does he just want anyone or does he genuinely want me?

Q.   Ok so I broke up with my bf but later on in the day i felt so horrible like a part of me was ripped away. So the next day at school he was being kinda mean to me (i can understand that) And as I was walking to class one of his ex gf's tapped me on ...

A.   22 February 2009: Get somebody you love unless your fine with being with a player. He sounds like an asshole and liar and they always turn up breaking your hearts.... (read in full...)

When is the right time to have the sex talk with your BF?

Q.   When is the right time to talk about sex with your bf?...

A.   22 February 2009: When you feel that your both ready for sex. It's up to you, and you should always communicate because thats what makes a relationship work, is communication. If you feel he's ready and you love him, then talk to him about it. Don't ask us bec... (read in full...)

What is this bleeding from?

Q.   My boyfriend and I were making out and he started fingering me, lets just say, harder than he usually does. It hurt, which of course, I expected the pain but when I went to the bathroom afterwards, I was bleeding but I ended my period 2 days before ...

A.   22 February 2009: Most likely you broke your hymen, which can be broke from things like this, or sex. It's a thin layer of skin in your vagina that when it's broken you bleed, can be broken with a tampon or doing the splits, but it only happens once. Maybe you shou... (read in full...)

If two gay guys have sex, did both of them lose their virginity?

Q.   if two gays have anal sex do both of them lose there virginity? like if one of them is on the recieving end and the other on the giving is it only one of them that loses it or both?...

A.   22 February 2009: It's your opinion. Most would think you lost your virginity. Modern is having sex, anal, vaginal and sometimes oral. If you think you lost your virginity then you lost it.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants sex, don't think I am ready, what to do?

Q.   i am 13 and my boyfriend keeps wanting me to have sex with him......i think in want to too but am still only 13, you only live once!...

A.   21 February 2009: You are way too young, maybe if ya would look at some of the posts here. Many of the same questions. Never have sex until your both ready, and he shouldn't ever force you or pressure you to do something you don't want to do. Your too young anyway... (read in full...)

If two gay guys have sex, did both of them lose their virginity?

Q.   if two gays have anal sex do both of them lose there virginity? like if one of them is on the recieving end and the other on the giving is it only one of them that loses it or both?...

A.   21 February 2009: Technically, any man born natural(not C-Section) and with a penis is not born a virgin because his penis was in his mother's vagina... (read in full...)

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