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anonymous
writes:im 14 and my girlfriend is really in experienced and shy, how do i know when she is ready for more than making out if she wont tell me because she is too "embarassed"
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (9 March 2009):
 If she says she's embarrassed, then honey - she ain't ready. It's really hard to say that to your boyfriend, and if you press her for an answer, she's going to feel pressured (whether that's the way you intend to make her feel or not) to comply. That's no good! I know that that's not what you want either. So, I'd say just back off and she'll let you know when she's ready.
Good luck!
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reader, MyDestiny +, writes (8 March 2009):
 just tlk to her and make her more comfortable in the situation..and you guys are really young so don trush into anything you're not ready for..she's inexperienced dont pressure her..wait till both of you are a little more comfortable and prepared...remember to use a condom when the time comes--(dont be silly wrap your willy)-lol
gudd luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2009): Oh, well I am 13 and when boys ask me how far I have gotten with past boyfriends I go all embarssed.
I don't know why, it's just I think most girls prefer not to talk about that sort of stuff, when we are ready we normally drop hints and stuff.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (8 March 2009):
 When she is not as embarrassed any more and feels happy with herself and your relationship is when she'll be ready. Give her a chance she's only 14! You should consider yourself ucky that she is making out with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2009): You are way too young to be doing more than making out. It's because she's not ready, not because she hasn't done it with other boys. So don't pressure her,
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