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Shy 15 year old, trying to get a girl

Statues: Friends (With girl)

I live in Arizona, i love videogames and i am here to read about relationships and learn from people about how to not make mistakes

I guess i will try and help out people here also and in my input on things

I want to talk to her about sex, but don't know how.

Q.   I have been in a relationship with this girl for over a year now, I want to talk with her about sex, but I can't ever bring myself to... How should I start the conversation?...

A.   20 May 2009: You shouldn't, you should wait, im 15 and i aint gonna have sex Even with a condom, i dont understand why guys under 20 want sex so much Save it more Marriage so that you get to have it the first time with your true love... (read in full...)

I know I'm ready for marriage, but logically am I too young?

Q.   Hello, im 18 years old and my girlfriend is 20 we have been together for a long time now, and she and i have been talking about marriage i know im ready for it and i know she is too.. but logically am i too young?...

A.   19 May 2009: I will probally wait 4 to 5 years before i propose and i have amazing ideas for it but anyway i want to get married in my mid 20s 22 at the least Wait at least intell you can drink alchol legally Im only 15 i suggest you listen to q1605 ... (read in full...)

My husband is hiding his marriage from his friends!

Q.   My husband and I got married five months back..My husband had married once and the got divorced. He told me the reason for their divorce is because his Ex- wife got a better paying job and then they started having problems. Even though I had all ...

A.   19 May 2009: What is wrong with him, If i got married i would announce it to the world if i had to, because finally i found someone who can tolerate me and be loved by me, finally someone i can hang out with, live with, have kids with I dont know whats w... (read in full...)

Her grandfather is dying, how can I be there for her and cheer her up?

Q.   hi, theres a really huge problem i have, my girlfriend's grandfather is dying and i dont know what to do. i want to cheer my gf up but i just cant seem to find any ways to do so. knowing the fact that i cant do anything about it hurts. i really need ...

A.   19 May 2009: And buy her some things for no reason, like just randomly walk up to her and say i got you some flowers or chocolate Good Luck ... (read in full...)

Guys: Would you stop liking a girl if she was stupid?

Q.   guys,would you still like a girl(now you like her a lot) that got just a bit lower grades at an exam than you did?and you know she did better than you at every contest you went at?would you consider her stupid and stop liking her?would this stop you ...

A.   18 May 2009: Im smart and have C's, im just lazy and hate homework sure grades are helpful in life and its good to have great ones but i wont hate someone just becasue they didnt get an A or B Also remember Einstein wasnt an A student... (read in full...)

Is she ignoring me because I was awkward?

Q.   this is kind of stupid but its annoying the hell out of me. so at random this girl i don't really know asked me to chill with her and her friend. so we did and it was really awkward. like we didnt talk at all the entire time. so i texted her a few ...

A.   18 May 2009: When something is awkard it is one of the most annoying things in the world, i hope when i get in a relationship that we have no awkard moments, because i dread them so much. I would just forget about her, she obviously has lost interest in you.... (read in full...)

He said "I love you" and I think it was too soon, what now?

Q.   Well I just started seeing this guy and well I really like him. But he asked me to be his girl friend a few days after I met him and then one night I went over to his house and he told me he loved me. I think that was way way to fast. What should I ...

A.   18 May 2009: I suggest you tell him that you dont love him yet, but you really like him, tell him that you want to get to no him better and be with him for awhile and than maybe you will start saying i love you to him, he probally didnt mean it and he just ... (read in full...)

What to do when your very first moment occurs?

Q.   hi :D I was just wondering what to do when your very first "special moment" comes. My friend had one the other day but she said she completely messed it up. There's a guy I really like, who also likes me and so basically I was wondering what to ...

A.   17 May 2009: I think she means first kiss Im a guy and if that happens i will be completely nervous, i dont like to really lead these things on so i hope that if she wants to kiss me than she will lead it on and than i will kiss her, but if she doesnt lead tha... (read in full...)

Wife had affair. don't know what to do.

Q.   i've been married for 6 years now, and it's been pretty happy up until recently. a couple of days ago, i accidentally overheard a conversation between two of my wife's friends and it was revealed that my wife had an affair with one of her cowor...

A.   17 May 2009: I suggest you forgive her, dont end the marriage yet, i mean she quit her job to get away from that man, you should make a compromise and rebuild eachothers trust in one another but, if she does it again than you should probally end the marriage... (read in full...)

My boyfriend claims he is the shy type in the bedroom yet he likes discussing porn with his friends!

Q.   Hello, I got a question about my bf. We together 1,5 years. Our sex life was very good when we started and we did allot of stuff in the bedroom. However, my bf made me believe that he is a quiet and shy type, as he was not into experimenting with ...

A.   17 May 2009: Im a very shy guy and my friends talk about porn and sex also and i get in on the conversation and joke, but when it comes to talking to girls and trying to go on dates and such my voice gets really soft i feel very hot and i turn somewhat red ... (read in full...)

We're both shy, but I think she might like me. Any advice?

Q.   Hello, im only 15 and i really want to go out with a shy girl I told her i liked her and have asked her out inside of our school yearbook later after class she told me she didn't no she liked me and that she couldn't date becasue her parent...

A.   17 May 2009: Ya i dont like the awkard silence, it makes me sad But ya i'll tell you guys stuff, and if we become BF and GF than ill tell you guys that to... (read in full...)

Should I go? Afterall, he's an absolute stranger!

Q.   i met a guy after a night out randomly on the street in town when every one pours out from the clubs. He was very goodlooking and smart - not some tipsy guy. we exchanged numbers and now, a few days on, he wants to meet up for a drink. i want to go ...

A.   17 May 2009: Just go for it, you got nothing to lose If you dont like him, just dont meet him again... (read in full...)

We're both shy, but I think she might like me. Any advice?

Q.   Hello, im only 15 and i really want to go out with a shy girl I told her i liked her and have asked her out inside of our school yearbook later after class she told me she didn't no she liked me and that she couldn't date becasue her parent...

A.   17 May 2009: Thx i think she also said that we can be friends and go out, but i dont remember I'll try that thx... (read in full...)

I am at a loss for words with my boyfriend and very shy, can someone give me some topics of conversation?

Q.   i have a boyfriend and well i always seem to not to talk to him cuz well i have nothing to say so please give meh things to say and well i always seem to get red when i talk to him and im afraid to kiss him im really nervous cant you help meh???? ...

A.   16 May 2009: Im a guy, in the same age group and i have the same problems (She isnt my girlfriend tho and we havent gone out), but if he really likes you, than i think he is struggling with the same thing, just try to start the conversation with him Theres to... (read in full...)

We're both shy, but I think she might like me. Any advice?

Q.   Hello, im only 15 and i really want to go out with a shy girl I told her i liked her and have asked her out inside of our school yearbook later after class she told me she didn't no she liked me and that she couldn't date becasue her parent...

A.   16 May 2009: I made a mistake in the 3rd Sentence I meant to put She told me "she didnt know that i liked her" sorry if its somewhat hard to read ... (read in full...)

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