Why doesn't she want to have fun and play around like she used to?
Q. this is just a quik 1 :) iv been goin with my gf now for .... amount of time and we used to have fun and play around (coz we are too young for all the way) but lately it desn't seem she wants to, its nothing to do with her period cos..... well it ...
A. 25 February 2009: yeah she's probably scared and feels that she's being pressured into some thing that she's not readyy for -you say that you do things to her but she never doesn anything to you-she's afraid and worried ...you guys are really young,.dont do ... (read in full...)
I'm growing up and find some things not as interesting anymore
Q. Hi there I really think I have changed within a period of weeks/days and want to know what I should prepare myself for. Well our school has broken up from half term and we go back tomorrow. Over the holidays I have really changed. The week before I...
A. 22 February 2009: i think you're going throuhg a growth spurt...... (read in full...)
My cousin is really hot & I want to have sex with her!
Q. i have this cousin we r both 16 and i have only known her for about 9 months but i find her extremely hot and i want to have sex wit her really bad because she always shows me her thongs and bras and i touch her and she dosent care also she says she ...
A. 20 February 2009: come on man... doesn't the whole idea answer your question...yes your cousin is hott, doesn't mean you ahve to go off and have sexx with her, if your mom was hot would you have have sex with her...
any ways man, your cousin's out of the ques... (read in full...)
Is my 'gay' best friend falling for me?
Q. My best friend acts gay, so I didn't care when he hugged or snuggled quite intimately with me because I didn't believe he could have been attracted to me. However, he just told me that he's straight, and has hinted several times about making out. ...
A. 20 February 2009: Just ask him...but don task him if he;'s gay though..if he's not that could really hurt him emotionaly if people ask him that...just ask him if he's into you, an dif he sees you as like a potential girlfriend to him...if he says yes, you know he's ... (read in full...)
How to prolong the climax?
Q. Okay I am about to have sex for the first time. I want to know if there's anything I can do to make myself not finish fast. Any advice would be great. Oh and yes I am being smart, I'm using a condom so don't worry about that. Thanks...
A. 19 February 2009: yeah its gudd you're using a condom...
anyway to make it last longer just slow down a little, pull out, or change positions when you feel you're are almost ready to climax
just tone it down
gudd luck... (read in full...)
My g/f thinks I won't wait until shes ready to have sex... What should I do?
Q. I am 19, my gf is 16. We have only been togheter for a month but already talked about sex. She is a virgin and I have slept with 5 girls in the past. She said that she wants to wait until she's ready and I tell her that I respect that and am willing ...
A. 19 February 2009: be like " hey, i konw i've been talking about sex alot lately, but i don't want you to think i'm pressuring you, im totaly cookl with your dicision, im just really open to talk about it that's all"
she'll understand after that... (read in full...)
My friend is planning on cheating on his girl..what am I supposed to do?
Q. My friend started dating a girl i sort of have known for a while a month ago. They seem to be getting along fine, but recently they haven't been spending to much time together which is mainly because they are both pretty busy which is ...
A. 19 February 2009: i feel your pain man
i see your bud can be a jerk sometimes, it's really wrong to go fool around with other people while you're happy with some one already
i just suggest you keep trying to convince him not to do it, talk to him guy to guy, fri... (read in full...)
I want a relationship based on love and not pleasure. How can I let her know that?
Q. Okay I met this girl I really like 3 months ago and we started dating a month ago but she has a very awful past.. Her ex boyfriende was horrible with her and he used to beat her up and finally they had a kid together. The last time I saw her was 3 ...
A. 19 February 2009: yeah i agree with "JAY"
just continue to be an awesome boyfrined to her and she'll soon realize that she caught a good one this time
and if you really want her to know that you want your guyses relationship based on love not pleasure than tal... (read in full...)
Is it a huge turn-on for men if your girlfriend catches you off guard and wants sex?!?
Q. Is it a huge turn-on for men if your girlfriend catches you off guard and wants sex?!? I'm asking because my bf of almost a month keeps asking for sex, but I'm not ready just yet. I'm getting there though. And I think catching him off guard wo...
A. 19 February 2009: THAT'S HOT... 8-)!... (read in full...)
She does not enjoy sex any more...
Q. I am 30 years old and she is 28. We met 2 years ago and she was my first time. Always valued the fact of being virgin until I was going to meet the right one. In the last months her sex drive dropped and we basically are having sex not more then ...
A. 19 February 2009: you need to sit down and calmly talk to her and tell her what is bothering you..
ask her why it's so hard for her to communicate lately and if theres anything wrong for her sudden decrease of a sexual drive... pull out your puppy dog eyes so e... (read in full...)
I need some "first time" advice.... quick!
Q. For the past year my best friend and I have been getting closer. We have decided to have sex for the first time this Friday, so in two days. Is there any advice somebody can give on what to do and what not do? This is my first time but not hers. So ...
A. 18 February 2009: 1. ummm think before you do this
2. make sure you're ready for sex
3. use a freakin condom-lol
4. know what can go wrong, condom can split
could get std or sti...could get her pregnant
5. and know that if you guys con... (read in full...)
How can I make him last longer than 20 minutes?
Q. Im 17 years old. i have a 17 year old boyfriend. when we have sex its good but its only for like 20 minutes.. then when he cums he doesnt want to do it anymore, or let me touch him down there, why is this? and how can i make him last longer? please ...
A. 17 February 2009: yeah you shoud listen to all these people...after foreplay and you're fully satisfied it wont even matter long he takes and 20 minutes is along time for a 17 year old (every guy is different)
anyways, after he cums, some guys just arent in the ... (read in full...)
Is excessive masturbation the cause of his lack of love-making?
Q. Hi, I have a sex problem. My boyfriend of five months is unable to have sex with me. We get to the stage, past all the foreplay, and then he loses his erection. Sometimes he fails to get one at all. I hate to sound sex mad but the lack of "action"...
A. 17 February 2009: no you shouldnt stay quiet..tell him whats on you're mind, talk it out with him (comunication is key)
as you said, it's his first relationship, so he might be nervous and concered that he wont be good enough for you and that could keep him on k... (read in full...)
Why wont he tell me the cause of his mood?
Q. sometimes he will come and see me.. he will be in a huffy mood.. he won't tell me why.. any tips on getting him to spill? my boyfriend is really amazing.. his is kind.. he supported me and is still supporting me since my granny died two weeks a...
A. 17 February 2009: you have to know that most guys dont open up as much as girls do...so just ask him the truth on why he's mad, if he wants to he'll tell you.
gudd luck... (read in full...)
Why wont he and how can I get him to?
Q. dear cupid, my fiance and i have been together for three years now and he has only perform oral on me three times whereas i lose track of how many times i heve gave him oral.i have asked why he wont do it and all he says is i just dont want to.im ...
A. 16 February 2009: just talk to him, ask him to tell you the true reason why he wont do that..tell him that what ever it is you'll understand...comunacation is key
gudd luck... (read in full...)
What can we do to keep it fun except for sex?
Q. ok well im 16 and well i have been with this boy for like 2 months now and well you no what its like when get to the age of 16 .. well i dont want to rush in to sex and i have talked to my boyfriend about it and hes cool about it but its just i dont ...
A. 16 February 2009: yeah instead of sex...go out on funn dates
chill with your friends go to the pool, join a sports team
there's alot of funn activities out there you guys could do together and that he'll enjoy too....... (read in full...)
What can we do to keep it fun except for sex?
Q. ok well im 16 and well i have been with this boy for like 2 months now and well you no what its like when get to the age of 16 .. well i dont want to rush in to sex and i have talked to my boyfriend about it and hes cool about it but its just i dont ...
A. 16 February 2009: yeah instead of sex...go out on funn dates
chill with your friends go to the pool, join a sports team
there's alot of funn activities out there you guys could do together and that he'll enjoy too....... (read in full...)
Job-phobia!
Q. Job-phobia? Ok so I am 16, last year I tried to work somewhere and I worked for like 1 week. It was hard work and they didn't pay me. I am a pretty shy person about this kind of stuff so I wouldn't fight for my money. Now that I am 16 I want to ...
A. 16 February 2009: wow yo ushould be proud of yourself-pats on the back-you'r elearning english on your own and you're that good...man you must be really smart cause there are a bunch of people who've been in the united states for years and they can't even start a ... (read in full...)
My g/f is close to her male friends, I'm scared to ask about it in case there is more to it!
Q. I've been seeing my girlfriend for about 2 and a half years now, she's 22 and a half and i'm nearly 27, when we first met i was in an unsigned band and out a lot but due to work commitments i had to leave the band which meant my social life has ...
A. 16 February 2009: if you're not soo hot for her hanging out with her male friends than tlk to her and tell her you're uncomfortable about it..but dont tell her she CAN'T, cause as you say-she does need to have social life tooo
to ease your worry you should meet... (read in full...)
Your opinions needed... What is wrong with my boyfriend?
Q. We have been going out for a year. We both love each other. I am suspecting that he is cheating on me with this other girl.. The other day he told me that he hasn't been talking to her recently and told me that she has a boyfriend anyhow. I still ...
A. 16 February 2009: sorry, i dont really know how to answer this question.but it wouldn't be a gudd thing to get on his msn/myspace an ect. its an invasion of privacy..... (read in full...)
To scenarios to enable me to talk with her...
Q. I really need help! I like this girl and she likes me. When we are at school she's often quiet. I want to be able to talk to her. I want to use the time and just talk. Do I walk up to her and just start talking? Would that make her comfortable?? I ...
A. 16 February 2009: do you have any classes with her..the best thing to do is to start there, start up some conversation with her, ask her about what you're currently doing in class..
even if you just say hi-it's a start
and as time goes by you guys will gra... (read in full...)
How do I say NO to my ex boyfriend's best mate?
Q. I am a single, young woman of nineteen years and I am currently in a friends-with-benefits kind of thing with two young men my age (only making out). I honestly do not feel good about any of this. You see, one of these guys is my ex-boyfriend's best ...
A. 16 February 2009: just tell him straight up you're not interested in him like that, and lay it down nicely
just tell him you only want to be friends, nothing more gudd luck... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and my boyfriend (15) wants to have sex with me!
Q. I need you advice. My boyfriend (15) wants to have sex with me, but I think I am too young. What do you say? I really would like to have sexual intercourse, but I'm not sure whether I am old enough to decide that....
A. 16 February 2009: tell you're not ready to go that far yet and he should understand..both of you are way too young to be having sex
and if actually do have sex..use protection
but i wouldn't at your age cause the whole thing is complicated..
gudd luck... (read in full...)
I wanna have sex, but I'm just too scared. Is that normal?
Q. Eventually I wanna try to have sex but I'm still so young. I would have sex now, but I'm terrified of the condom breaking and I'm too scared to ask my mom for birth control so some of the stress of sex can rub off. I don't know how to handle th...
A. 16 February 2009: dont have sex if you're not ready..
and it is normal,.. everyone's scared on their first time especially girls, with getting pregnant and birth control and ect.... (read in full...)
What's a not-too-obvious excuse to get a guy to touch/ hold my hand?
Q. What's a not-too-obvious excuse to get a guy to touch/ hold my hand. It's just... his hands are so masculine, and I just want to know their feeling. Plus, I think he might like my hands as well (they're small and soft)... I feel like this sort of ...
A. 16 February 2009: just hold his hands...
easy enough huh-lol... (read in full...)
Sexual advice needed please.
Q. Ok, well I've madeout a lot and cuddled and shit but I do think I'm prude and I get pressured to get fingered and giving blowjobs and handjobs and sometimes even sex. I do wanna try to get fingered and try a handjob and a blowjob. I know what the...
A. 16 February 2009: none of that will happen just relax..he'll be happy to teach you, he'll show you how to do it, he'll teach you how he likes it..
just tell him that you're new to this sort of thing and he'll understand
gudd luck, you have nothing to worry ab... (read in full...)
Did I take my jesting too far with her?
Q. My girlfriend and I went to this pool party (I live in Australia) with some our friends. My girlfriend never let me see her breasts (because of a scar on one) and she thinks it might turn me off. Anyway we were in the pool making out until my very ...
A. 16 February 2009: wow dude you messed up..
girls are really self conciousabout
their bodies..why would you laugh at
her???
she wasn't confident enough to show
you her breasts in the first place and now
it's there for everyone to see..
an d... (read in full...)
How do you say sorry to a guy friend?
Q. how do u say sorry to a guy friend who used to go with but your now friends and you dont fancy? its hard to explain...but i asked him out in yr 7 and it didnt go well...he said yes and i knew he liked this other girl and i got annoyed at him when he ...
A. 16 February 2009: anywhere...just pull him aside and tell him you need to tlk to him and get him to really listen and pay attention to you..
then apoligise for everything you're sorry about and try to be friends with him afterwards...just hope he forgive syou... (read in full...)
How do you say sorry to a guy friend?
Q. how do u say sorry to a guy friend who used to go with but your now friends and you dont fancy? its hard to explain...but i asked him out in yr 7 and it didnt go well...he said yes and i knew he liked this other girl and i got annoyed at him when he ...
A. 15 February 2009: umm isnt it prettty obvious..
just say sorry to him an dapologise, do it sincerely an dim sure he'll understand. and if you wnat you guys could put all that stuff in the past and actually be friends again..
gudd luck... (read in full...)
My mum thinks I'm sleeping with my own brother!?
Q. I'm 15 going on 16 and my boyfriend's 19 going on 20. my mom's bitchin cuz she think where havin sex when were not. she want's me to take a virgin test, but i'm sure i'll fail. and his gonna be locked up. how am i gonna get my mom to listen to me, ...
A. 15 February 2009: what does your brother say in this whole situattion???... (read in full...)
I have no idea how to approach, converse and get numbers...please help
Q. Hey guys. Im not sure where to start so ill give some background and the problems. When I was younger (8-10) I missed a couple of years of school as I had to take care of my little sister. This was due to my mum having a drink problem. This me...
A. 15 February 2009: just go out there man
be confident!!( women like confidence in a guy) just go out there, relax and be yourself, go to more public places and events and meet more people...conversate be natural be you..and you'll make new friends and even find... (read in full...)
I'm confused with this girl, is it really bad timing?
Q. Ok ill put this in point form so its not a bible to read -Im 19 and this girl is 21 and we go to school together -We've known each other for about 7 months now and we're close -For a good 5 months she flirted with me like crazy drawing hearts on ...
A. 15 February 2009: then dont act on the thought of beying with her...play it kool for a little bit, be a good friend for awhile even though you know that she likes you back
give her alittle tim eto make up her mind between her current boyfriend and you....
gud... (read in full...)
She acts different when her Ex's are around...
Q. I am young and confused but here goes, i need some help my girl friend and i are fighting all the time because every time one of the people she messed around with before me comes around she acts completley different. She doesn't show the same ...
A. 15 February 2009: than just calmly talk to her and tell her whats on your mind(doesnt have to be any yelling even if she is) tell her that the issue makes you uncomfortable an dhopefully you guys could resolve the issue together
gudd luck bro... (read in full...)
I have a desire to have sex with my sister, what do you think?
Q. i need help to sleep with my sister but she says that she is complely by say that that stuff is gross when ever its mentioned. i feel like she just say that to convince her self. when we were little we would alwaly show eachother our privite parts ...
A. 15 February 2009: okay bro, i know you have some ragging hormones and are sexually ettracted to her but that is sick!!!! it's your sister..(and you guys used to kiss and hump when you were little, thats disgusting bro) you could go to jail and what you're doing can ... (read in full...)
I need help with an erection problem, any suggestions from the guys?
Q. Hey I'm 15 and the other day me and my girlfriend went to have sex for the first time. It would of been my first time ever, but I couldn't get an erection and even when it got a little hard it just went again. I'm really attracted to my gf and alw...
A. 15 February 2009: the reason you probly didn't as gudd of an erection was probly because you were neervous bro....it happens
every guy gets nervous on their first time, especially in the preteen years-this happens
anyway next time you guys have sex, just rel... (read in full...)
G spot questions
Q. would you girls stimulate your man's G spot and would you guys let your girl do it to you? ...
A. 15 February 2009: yeah some guys like it
some guys like anal penetration,
he likes what he likes , there's
nothing wrong with that-lmafo!!!-lol... (read in full...)
Is this a normal size?
Q. Hi iam almost 17 and I have a 3 inch penis I don't know what to do about it does anyone know what I should do or is that a normal size...
A. 15 February 2009: dats normal...you could be a late bloomer..some guys dont finish through puberty untill they're 20..so dont worry bro..you're still growing... (read in full...)
I love my cousin but she rejected me, how can we stay friends?
Q. Hello. Guys . This is about me and my cousin. She is 15 . Im 19. Things are like, this started 2 years back. This cousin of mine and me is too close. More than just cousins. We used to talk for hours, we used to hold hands, she used to rest on ...
A. 15 February 2009: isn't it kinda wierd that you feel this way about your cousin????... (read in full...)
G spot questions
Q. would you girls stimulate your man's G spot and would you guys let your girl do it to you? ...
A. 15 February 2009: aww!! dats disgusting...i wouldn't want a girl stiking her finger up my ass, that'll totatly kill the mood!! and really painful!!!... (read in full...)
How do you resist other girls when in a relationship?
Q. How do you resist other girls, Been going out with my existing girlfriend for about 5 months now... And there is about 3-4 girls who are all over me when I see them and I keep getting closer to accepting one of those invitations. They know I have a ...
A. 15 February 2009: yeah dont tell em to back off just stay true and faithful to your girlfriend and play it kool..
you dont wanna be labelled as a cheater!!1
just dodge those other girls that are after you and pay more attention to your girlfriend to get your... (read in full...)
I felt really uncomfortable when he touched me "there!"
Q. there's this guy that I've spent nearly everyday after school with since I was 12. He's my mom's best friend so she don't have a problem with me staying in his apartment until she gets home from work. He's been acting really strange around me latly ...
A. 14 February 2009: oh my god..what is wrong with this world...i cant beleave things like this happen every single minute of the day...im discusted
you really need to tell your mom about this
you're 13-15 and some old dude is touching you down there...... (read in full...)
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