I felt really uncomfortable when he touched me "there!"
Q. there's this guy that I've spent nearly everyday after school with since I was 12. He's my mom's best friend so she don't have a problem with me staying in his apartment until she gets home from work. He's been acting really strange around me latly ...
A. 14 February 2009: oh my god..what is wrong with this world...i cant beleave things like this happen every single minute of the day...im discusted
you really need to tell your mom about this
you're 13-15 and some old dude is touching you down there...... (read in full...)
Without her I have nobody to talk to for comfort. What should I do?
Q. My girlfriend and I had been going out for 8 months and yesterday she decided to break up with me. We'd been extremely close friends leading up to the relationship and she still felt like my friend during. I know that I love her. There are so many ...
A. 14 February 2009: oh that's gudd, some couples just rush into things like that when they're not really ready for it
well anyways i hope everything goes in your favor in the long run... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has made me paranoid!
Q. Hey guys, I just need someone to read this and then tell me what they think, its getting me really down. I went over my boyfriends house on thursday, and he was doing something upstairs and i was sat on his computer, Me being a typical nos...
A. 14 February 2009: i dont think he's cheating...
you know how guys are with theeir friends
they joke aroound, even with their female friends.
so maybe the thinks they tlk about would worry you
or hurt you, and he doesnt want you to see them for taht reason ... (read in full...)
I was jealous again and we broke up, what do you think? Help me get over her?
Q. hi well im 15 and i just broke up with my girlfriend and i didnt want to but i had to and i'll tell you why. last night me and her were talking and she asked me if it bothers me if she talks to this guy and i said yes it does because they talk all ...
A. 14 February 2009: that wa spretty harsh of her to say that she liked thee other guy...i mean it's okay to be jealous, everybody gets jealous..if the girl i love was spending more time with some horny dude more than me, i'd be jealous too
i know you're feel... (read in full...)
I love my friend but she has a boyfriend already, what should I do?
Q. i love a girl and she also loves me so much but just as a friend and she has a bf (boyfriend) i cannot forget her cause she's my friend also what should I do to be happy?...
A. 14 February 2009: i feel your pain bro...i was in the same situation a few months ago
i was in love with my friend, and she loved me back(but as a friend) and she had a boyfriend
the thing to do is to play it cool and just be her friend, you never know thi... (read in full...)
Without her I have nobody to talk to for comfort. What should I do?
Q. My girlfriend and I had been going out for 8 months and yesterday she decided to break up with me. We'd been extremely close friends leading up to the relationship and she still felt like my friend during. I know that I love her. There are so many ...
A. 14 February 2009: okay first of all i want to say i feel your pain bro, a brake up a day before valentines day, i had the same thing last year..and its a gudd thing you guys haven't had sex yet i beleive you're 13 right
anyways it shows that you stilll love and ... (read in full...)
I told my friend I love her but she loves someone else, what should I say now?
Q. Okay, there is this girl who I've known since August and she goes to my school and rides my bus. I told her I liked her a couple months after I got to know her. (btw I'm a girl) and then a couple days ago I told her I loved her and she said it ...
A. 14 February 2009: yeah the best thing to do is to just play it kool and be a gudd friend to her...... (read in full...)
My guy writes down other guys penis sizes!!!!
Q. Is my guy bi or gay if he calls all male gay talk lines? I found him doing this soon after we met in 2006.. he'd ask guys their penis sizes by the way he'd write them on paper and I'd find them. also he would have their phone numbers but he said ...
A. 14 February 2009: ok this is kinda wierd, he might be bi
cause it'ss strange that he's calling gay chat lines and writing down their numbers or penis size
but on the other hand you never know..he might be feeling insucure of his size and just wanted to see h... (read in full...)
I'm worried she'll slam the door in my face
Q. Kay me and my girlfriend had this horrible fight about me not spending enough time with her after her dad died and wont go to his funeral (I can't handle funerals with wanting to pass out). It got the point where were just streaming at each other, ...
A. 13 February 2009: yeah..if you ahd a reason why you didn't want to go to the wedding(like fainting) than you guys should've sat down and tlked about it..
but you went too far calling her a fucking bitch and that she deserves for her idiot dad to drop dead... (read in full...)
Any good suggestions for great wild sex?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for a while now but every time it's missionary... he just won't let me get on top for some reason... Any good suggestions for great wild sex? !!!=]...
A. 13 February 2009: just ask him why he wont let you go on top..
... (read in full...)
I'm afraid my girlfriend might get bored of me. How can I prevent this?
Q. hey guys im really afraid my g-f might get bored of me. i love her soooo much and shee loves me too we always talk about our future together and enjoy it. but lately im getting vibes shes starting to get bored of me its nothing she says or does i ...
A. 12 February 2009: i agree with the second comment on here..... (read in full...)
He has trouble staying hard and has never finished. Any suggestions?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for two years and have been sexually active with him for over a year. He has trouble staying hard and has never finished. I feel terrible. What should we do?...
A. 11 February 2009: tell him too masterbate alot more....it'll help
and if you feel your not getting satisfied...bbefore intercorse try alot of foreplay-gudd luck... (read in full...)
I'm looking for tips to talk to him and maybe hangout.
Q. I met a new guy at the gym. I had my class t-shirt on so he knows how old I am. The last guy I met there was way older than me. He has been there the last two times. The first time I saw him I saw that he was cute and fun, joking around with his ...
A. 11 February 2009: just be bold and ask him to hangout some time....
before you get to that maybe while you're at the gytm/..try making small tlk and be flirty...and ass you get to know each other it'll be easier to ask
gudd luck...... (read in full...)
Would you date a girl with this sexual past?
Q. She is perfect in looks for you, perfect in personality for you! She is 21 years old (just imagine that is the perfect age for you lol), KNOW 100% she would never cheat on you, EVERYTHING is perfect for you. But..... She lost her virginity at 14...
A. 11 February 2009: yeah those girls that are judging her are probly just jelous and immature..in 8 years she could have done a lot more dammage...12 guys in 8 years is nothing compared to some of the girls out there...
in 8 years, some girls sleep with a new guy ... (read in full...)
Would you date a girl with this sexual past?
Q. She is perfect in looks for you, perfect in personality for you! She is 21 years old (just imagine that is the perfect age for you lol), KNOW 100% she would never cheat on you, EVERYTHING is perfect for you. But..... She lost her virginity at 14...
A. 10 February 2009: yes, you shouldnt live in the past
its time to move foward and hope for the future
dont judge her by her past
gudd luck... (read in full...)
Men, what do you prefer, experienced or unexperienced?
Q. I was just wondering for the young guys, (16-25) what do you prefer, experienced or unexperienced? Would you prefer for a girlfreind who is a virgin for example, who you can teach, or someone who is very experienced? xx ...
A. 10 February 2009: it depends....
some guys like girls who are experienced so they could always have a gudd time in bed
some prefer unexperienced, cause we like it when we teach teh girls how to do it
to me it doesn't matter..and it depends on where you ar... (read in full...)
Any tips about asking her out after I refused her invitation?
Q. the girl i fancy asked me to a party on saturday. i said no because i thought she was jokin and did'nt want to gatecrash someone else's party but i'm regretting it we are both 17 and only see each other at work once a week and have began gett...
A. 10 February 2009: yeah you should definitely tell her how you feel..
just relax and tell her what's on your mind..
-gudd luck... (read in full...)
Uprotected sex 3 days after my period, are there risks?
Q. Im dating this guy and we had unprotected sex on 2/7/09 which was 3 days after my period and now im starting to think i might be pregnant am i just paranoid or could i really be prego?...
A. 10 February 2009: well it's a possibility because you weren't using a condom..and you dont know if you got an std or something so there are some big risks
look im not trying to scare you
but next time just get protection first
they dont cost that much you kno... (read in full...)
I lost my best friend because of all this
Q. Ok. Today I lost my best friend (I think) We have been together for almost 10 years now and lately things have been going down hill. See... She is engaged to this guy we call Kyo... He is bi and so she lets him be with other guys... Well... My ...
A. 9 February 2009: yeah she should be happy...i just dont understand any of this..
your friend probably liked the idea of her boyfriend going out with yours...... (read in full...)
Why didn't he kiss me?
Q. Something weird happened to me today. There's this guy I've been working with for a month. I'm 31 and he's 25, although this doesn't seem to matter to him. He's been flirty, and is what you can call a pretty boy, too pretty b/c he's HOT. He says he ...
A. 9 February 2009: wow dats bad... (read in full...)
Would a guy be happy with just a kiss and cuddle?
Q. There is a guy I have fallen head over heals with and he seems to like me, he stares at me kinda funny, anyway we always chat when we are alone but never when anyone else is around. We have arranged to go out together and he wants to book a hotel ...
A. 8 February 2009: if he really cares about you it wont matter wht you do...
he'll just be happy he's with you..and if it feels like he just wants sex then maybe he's just using you... (read in full...)
Would a guy be happy with just a kiss and cuddle?
Q. There is a guy I have fallen head over heals with and he seems to like me, he stares at me kinda funny, anyway we always chat when we are alone but never when anyone else is around. We have arranged to go out together and he wants to book a hotel ...
A. 8 February 2009: if he really cares about you it wont matter wht you do...
he'll just be happy he's with you..and if it feels liek he just wants sex then maybe he's just using you... (read in full...)
He can't deal with the fact I know he's gay, I wish I never said it, what do I do?
Q. I've been answering questions on this site for some time now. I always do it annonymously, maybe I should set up and account, we'll see. Well, now I'm going to ask for some advice. There is this guy who used to work for me, he's only 25, but we ...
A. 8 February 2009: No you should work it out with him..
hes just scared, and probly things you see him differently now..just show him that your gonna be there for him...and that you wont tell anyone and open the closet door for him-that's his choice to make
jus... (read in full...)
Should I break things off? Or just let things end on their own?
Q. So over the summer I met this guy, and we spent a lot of time together, and talked about trying a serious relationship. I had to leave to go back to school, and we've been talking through phone and email. And we were going to try to get back ...
A. 8 February 2009: then if you feel this way..then why do are you wasting your time beying unhappy
if your not happy... BREAK IT OFF...
gudd luck... (read in full...)
I had sex with the ex to mess with her head!
Q. Split up with my ex girlfrnd of 5 years last year. I always fancied her, and because i was young i put her on a pedastal and chased her for ages, she finaly gave me a shot and we were happy at first. I got a house and we lived 2gether for a year. ...
A. 8 February 2009: you're right..
you did do the wrong thing..you dont just have sex with some boy..twice...just to mess with thier heads...
what to that girl that you're with now..what would she say if she new you had sex with your ex twice???
that was the... (read in full...)
Dry sex..no possibility of pregnancy right?
Q. I had dry sex with my b/f naked about a week or so. Accidently, he ejaculated when he was rubbing his penis onto my vagina. He kinda tried to insert, but did not insert it completely and he took it off immediately. (btw, I'm virgin so it didn't fit ...
A. 8 February 2009: you dont have to go with your mom..you can go to one of those open clinics...... (read in full...)
Don't know if he likes me or not, could you offer your opinion?
Q. hiya ok here goes, to cut a long story short... i reallllllllly like this boy. and i have done since september, and last week i got my friend to ask him out for me and he thought about it for few mintues and then replied no and my friend said oh w...
A. 7 February 2009: "if you want something, go get it"
if you wanna know how he feels about you then just ask him..tell him how you feel
and you have his msn so its even better if you dont want to do it in person...just relax...if he does like then great, i... (read in full...)
Quick ejaculation and erection problem - how can we overcome these?
Q. Hi I've recently started sleeping with my boyfriend and its all going great, however there is one problem. He cums quite quickly is there anything i can do to make it so he lasts longer??? Also after he's cum once we often want to try again ...
A. 7 February 2009: you have to give him time to recuperate afetr the first try...it could take him up to 30 mins for him to start agian..every guys different... (read in full...)
Mom found unopened condom--what will she think?
Q. Hey well basically me and my friends were messing about and lets say I ended up with this unopened condom in my pocket(its a long immature story, lol). It was in my outdoor coat, so not one i would be going out in, but at the time i was out playing ...
A. 7 February 2009: so what were you doing with the condom??... (read in full...)
Random question for those with experience..
Q. why do SOME guys love it when a girl just talks dirty to him and wants nothing else. and dislikes the girl's that would want to be ther physcilaly and emotionally?? is it usual for the two people to mostly talk abot sex at the very begining or...
A. 7 February 2009: then if he's a gudd guy than there's no reason not to be with him... (read in full...)
I lost my best friend because of all this
Q. Ok. Today I lost my best friend (I think) We have been together for almost 10 years now and lately things have been going down hill. See... She is engaged to this guy we call Kyo... He is bi and so she lets him be with other guys... Well... My ...
A. 7 February 2009: woooww.. you got yourself in some deep drama!!!
how did his happen???!!
okay so the thing is your boy friend is bi
and your friends boyfriend is bi, and your boyfriend and your friends boyfriend our both together---thats mest up
i ... (read in full...)
Any way I can stop it from happening so fast?
Q. Hi When I have sex, I come so fast that it just kills the mood for me and my girlfriend as soon as we start to get into it. I’d like to let her enjoy it longer than I do now. It literally takes like 1-2 min for me to come. Is there anything I co...
A. 7 February 2009: like atleast once or twice ever day...... (read in full...)
Little situations w/girlfriend really upset me
Q. My girlfriend did something to make me angry today, you see there was an event at school that i did for her so i could spend the day with her but she nded up having to work, that was fne, but then she said me and a coworker (girl coworker) are going ...
A. 7 February 2009: then if that's the issue.. you two really need to get 2gether and tlk about this and to come up with and agreement..
both you guyss should be able to have a social life...give each other some space sometimes,,,,, chill out
beying together... (read in full...)
She's talking to her ex and I'm uncomfortable with it, what should I do?
Q. hi, well im dating this girl and we have been going out for a really long time like 2 or 3 years, and i know im only 15 but i love this girl. but in the last couple of days she has been talking to her ex and ill be like "who are you talking to?" and ...
A. 7 February 2009: If you really love why would you break up with her? Just tell her how you feel, tell her that you just don't feel comfortable with her talking to him x Communication is the key. Good luck bro... (read in full...)
Do boys find a girl swearing attractive?
Q. Like in a tomboyish way. Girls who act like boys not in a lesbian way like the way they act and everything (you know what I mean) OR ANOTHER TYPE OF girly girls like sluts who think ther're all "IT".. They also swear alot and dab on makeup so muc...
A. 7 February 2009: different guys like different thingss...if we liked the same things we'd be falling for the same girl..'
so just be your self and the right guy will come along
' beying a 14 year old guy myself i just think its an absolute turn off when a g... (read in full...)
I love him but can't tell him to his face
Q. i love him so much but in just can't tell him face to face. he always ask me how i feel about him but when i attempt to tell him my mind goes blank and my hands start sweating and i start stuttering. i want to tell him im in love with him and i need ...
A. 6 February 2009: okay if he's asking how you feel about him, he may like you too..so you need to get over your fears and tell him exactly how you feels before you're too late...... (read in full...)
Is he dropping hints about sex?
Q. So my boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months and i think he's dropping "hints" about sex. Yesterday we went to see his parents for a couple of hours and they seam to approve. Then that night he came over to my place and took a shower. Then ...
A. 6 February 2009: yes it maybe so..or he just feels comfortable enough aroundf you to come out of the shower naked... and for the penis pump thing, i think that now you got the approval of the rents and are really official he thinks that sooner or later you guys... (read in full...)
Little situations w/girlfriend really upset me
Q. My girlfriend did something to make me angry today, you see there was an event at school that i did for her so i could spend the day with her but she nded up having to work, that was fne, but then she said me and a coworker (girl coworker) are going ...
A. 6 February 2009: just relax and find something to do (as long as you're not crossing bounderies)im sure she'll be around your arms later on on or the next day
gudd luck... (read in full...)
Do I keep trying? Move on?
Q. Theres this girl I've know for a long time, and we've been ok friends untill now. I really like her and want to go out with her. I've heard that she likes me, but she dosen't want to ruin our friendship, and thinks it would be too awkward. I'm ...
A. 6 February 2009: if you like her and you knoe she likes you too...then ther's something there..go for it..
just tell her to atleast try it out.not just to dismisss it on the dot...she shouldn't be worrying about the friendship. you guys would be working on a re... (read in full...)
Any way I can stop it from happening so fast?
Q. Hi When I have sex, I come so fast that it just kills the mood for me and my girlfriend as soon as we start to get into it. I’d like to let her enjoy it longer than I do now. It literally takes like 1-2 min for me to come. Is there anything I co...
A. 6 February 2009: try masterbating alot more and beying intimite withher more often...the more you do it, the better it gets, the better you'll be able to control it and when you're intimate with her and you feel like you're about to climax, juss tone it tone a l... (read in full...)
Girlfriend's new friend! (Yawwwwwn)
Q. Little stuff with my gf is pissing me off, she met a new friend at work and blew me off, I played it cool cause I love her and she doesn't have many friends. I love her to death, we will probably meet tonight and get a little intimate if you know ...
A. 6 February 2009: there's no reason to be soo jealous.. if you really love her then there should be some trust in the relationship..you say that she doesnt have much friends, she may just be trying to make some new friends... chill bro...relax grls dont like g... (read in full...)
Random question for those with experience..
Q. why do SOME guys love it when a girl just talks dirty to him and wants nothing else. and dislikes the girl's that would want to be ther physcilaly and emotionally?? is it usual for the two people to mostly talk abot sex at the very begining or...
A. 6 February 2009: i think he just wants to get in your pants... (read in full...)
Why didn't he kiss me?
Q. Something weird happened to me today. There's this guy I've been working with for a month. I'm 31 and he's 25, although this doesn't seem to matter to him. He's been flirty, and is what you can call a pretty boy, too pretty b/c he's HOT. He says he ...
A. 6 February 2009: he doesnt want to go tooo fast..
he thinks that you might think hes beying too
foward on everything...... (read in full...)
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