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She says she doesn't love me! How can I make her love me?

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Question - (14 April 2009) 10 Answers - (Newest, 14 April 2009)
A male Ghana age 41-50, *ampong writes:

How can you make someone you girl frnd who is telling you she dont love you love you.

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A female reader, cls1990 United Kingdom +, writes (14 April 2009):

cls1990 agony auntyou cant make somebody love you!

The more you try, the more your going too push her away!

If she doesnt want a relationship with her, leave her alone!

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (14 April 2009):

eyeswideopen agony auntTo make her fall in love with you, you'll need the following: a roasting chicken, a potato, some salad greens (any kind), a large lemon, salt, pepper, butter, oil, and vinegar.

Here's what you do:

Rub the chicken with the butter then squeese the lemon all over the chicken put it in the oven at 350 and cook for about 50 minutes or until golden brown.

While the chicken is cooking rub the potato with butter and toss in with the chicken.

Toss the salad greens with the oil and vinegar.

Now here's the tricky part, call the person you are placing this spell on and repeat this EXACTLY:

"Do you want to go out on a date some time soon?"

If she says NO at least you have a nice dinner.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009):

Simple answer: You CAN'T.

Furthermore, if you keep trying to do so, she will think you are being a pest and annoying. Not only will she not "love" you, she may come to feel angry and resentful.

Let her alone and find someone else more compatible!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009):

i agree with everyone out here. You cant force someone to like you. but you can be there GOOD FREIND... when she sees your with her in times of trouble and enjoyment. Being with her. helping her. every possible thing a good friend does . i am sure ... one fine day . she might start falling in love with you.

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A male reader, Lee_2131234 United Kingdom +, writes (14 April 2009):

yeah they are right, you cant. Don't try force things it will make it worse. The best thing to do is chat is over and if worst comes to worst, then show her that you are independent and move on. she will respect you for that and may be her absence will make her heart grow stronger, but don't put your hopes on it

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (14 April 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntYou CAN'T and you DON'T! If she doesn't like you like that then it's tough luck! There are no secret love spells or magic potions, and you can't use Jedi mind tricks to make some one fall in love with you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009):

You can't make someone to love so theres nothing you can do man.

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A female reader, UnderWhere United Kingdom +, writes (14 April 2009):

You can't. No matter what the circumstances are you can never MAKE someone love you. She may love you in time, but if this has already been a long term relationship and you are looking to settle down then perhaps this isn't the relationship for you.

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A female reader, Olivia(Y). United Kingdom +, writes (14 April 2009):

Olivia(Y). agony auntYou can't.

Talk to her and get to know her as a friend but you can't make someone love you.

Livia

xxx

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A female reader, ilovebowsandcherries United Kingdom +, writes (14 April 2009):

ilovebowsandcherries agony auntyou can't make someone love you.

love just happens.

if she doesn't love you then that's it she doesn't love you.

you can't force anyone to fall in love

love if just something that happens,

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