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My sister is obsessed with my boyfriend

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Question - (14 April 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 14 April 2009)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i am 20 years old n i am dealing with the sensitive heart of a 17 year old girl

to begin with there was this daily saop that used to come on an indian tv show..it was like this huge hit soap ever based on teens life more a like the gossip girl of american television..there was this guy in that show the lead actor and my sister who is 17 had a major crush on him,she would do anything too see him

and now comes the disturbing part i went to a fashion show recently and this man happen to be the show stopper there..one my friends introduced us and we hit it off like crazy its just like the both of us were meant to be..its been a month and we r crazily in love,he is is the teen star in india nd he wants me to attend premeires with him and i always say no because if my sister watches me on tv she would be devasted

recently wen the papparzazi said that this guy is seeing someone my sis goes like sucha bitch m gonna kill her.she is obsessed with him..what do i do??

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A female reader, ilovebowsandcherries United Kingdom +, writes (14 April 2009):

ilovebowsandcherries agony auntoh right.

oh dear quite a pickle

but i mean surely she's your sister she'll understand?

i mean can't you try talking to her a little just try to make her understand how much you guys like eachother?

i mean if she's any sort of sister she'll just support you right?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009):

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its not that easy for me to tell her anything

because even when she was 13 she had a crush on this guy n he got close to her only to get to know me..even in high school the guy she liked asked me for the prom and now this

i feel terrible she is just 17 and she has never said a word to me although i have seen her cry all day for this:(

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A female reader, ilovebowsandcherries United Kingdom +, writes (14 April 2009):

ilovebowsandcherries agony aunthun its just a teen crush

she'll get over it!!

you and him have clearly hit it off im sure she would be happy enough that you ar with him and he can come to the house she'll move on from this silly crush thing.

honestly it's just an innocent crush.

try not too worry.

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A male reader, CrazyMind United Kingdom +, writes (14 April 2009):

CrazyMind agony auntFirstly, I feel sorry for your situation. As soon as you're revealed, then the probability of constant paparazzi following you around could be high.

With regards to your sister, I'd suggest being open about it, let her know the truth - she'd probably be excited by the fact that she'll can get to meet him in person, and that if things do go well between you two, she could be in the extended family of this guy.

Sooner or later, your name or picture may end up being leaked to the press, it would be better for you to let your sister know yourself, than have her read it in a paper/on the internet and have to confront you herself.

Best of luck; please keep me updated!

- Crazy.

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