This marine is coming on to my woman!!!
Q. This guy that recently left for the marines told my girlfriend that he was in love with her and was going to come back for her and was going to write a book about her and all this other stuff. So I told her that it would be for the best to drop all ...
A. 10 March 2010: Instant drama because 3 is a crowd. she is going to talk to him behind your back at this point so its best to make the decision for her before she ends up cheating on you. sounds like she has stars in her eyes from the jukebox hero already...a... (read in full...)
He has a young daughter and we don't get time to ourselves
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, and he has a 2 year old daughter to another woman. He has her every weekend, and the weekend is the only time we spend any time together so we never really get any time to ourselves. this doesn't seem to ...
A. 10 March 2010: I am afraid that you will be vying for attention with the daughter for the rest of your relationship so it wont get any better. And so sadly your relationship has run its course. Yes children are wonderful as long as they are yours. when you ... (read in full...)
We met while clubbing, but he won't let me club anymore!
Q. My boyfriend has told me that he doesn't want a girlfriend who wants to go clubbing and drink. We have been together for 2 years, we met at a club and for the first 6 months always went clubbing together and we went to every music festival ...
A. 10 March 2010: Well I am afraid you have run into the timeless classic of having the boyfriend who wants to control you.
sorry I think most of us around your age went through it on either side. My ex never wanted me to go to a bar becuase she was a bartende... (read in full...)
Crunch time for my husband, either see a doctor or I'll see a lawyer
Q. So I would like to ask what should I do about my terrible sex life, 2 years ago I caught my husband watching porn and wanking behind my back, apparently this had gone on for years of our married life in secret and led to him not wanting to have sex ...
A. 4 March 2010: I think you need to divorce. It seems you only care about sex anyway and jeeze after 32 years familiarity breeds contempt. I mean at this rate you wont get anything better so you might as well be alone.
Sounds like awful advice, huh? IT IS..... (read in full...)
My mom and dad want to use my credit and then have me go bankrupt, any way I can stop them?
Q. So I have sort of a financial problem... Apparently my dad and mom want to work up my credit then have me go bankrupt I have no specicfic reasons why so dey want to ... But I have no control and if I say no they stop talking to me... Why would I ...
A. 4 March 2010: If you are pregnant all the more reason to be VERY suspicious of your parents at this point. You need to take the bull by the horns.
I don't know but generally I would think your parents would want to bend over backwards to make sure your life is ... (read in full...)
My mom and dad want to use my credit and then have me go bankrupt, any way I can stop them?
Q. So I have sort of a financial problem... Apparently my dad and mom want to work up my credit then have me go bankrupt I have no specicfic reasons why so dey want to ... But I have no control and if I say no they stop talking to me... Why would I ...
A. 4 March 2010: Uh yes you are at least 18 years of aged that means you are a legal adult in the United States and if you tell them NO there is not a damn thing they can do about it legally. They can act like kids and kick you out or threaten you I guess if you ... (read in full...)
Tired of Video Games and Thinking of Leaving.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. I am 24 he is 27. I am starting to lose respect for him for a few reasons. He plays online and console video games A LOT. Meaning the days I wake up at his house I can pretty much expect to sit ...
A. 2 March 2010: Just like anything people become complacent. I would suggest that since it seems like you have given him ample opportunity that it may be high time for you to set some bottom lines.
Nothing jolts somebody awake quite like the fear of losing s... (read in full...)
I've stopped talking to my ex girlfriend after she cheated on me
Q. I cut off my 4-year GF, cold turkey, after I caught her cheating. She called (and e-mailed) a few times on the first day. It's been 4 days (no contact)... ...when should I expect the pscyho-ex-girlfriend problems to start? What should I expect?...
A. 2 March 2010: Dont expect them to start.
If you went No Contact then stick to it.
delete her phone number and block her email address.
You dont want to be with a cheater dude, they are bloodsuckers.
Make her insignificant. The only way to get over som... (read in full...)
My girlfriend sleeps with her lesbian friend but claims they are only good friends and she is not a lesbian!
Q. what if your girlfriend appears to be in love with her lesbo best friend (who has already told my gf she loves her), but says they are only very good friends and she is not a lesbian? they sleep together anytime they can and when she comes home she...
A. 2 March 2010: If you believe her I have some Ocean Front Property in Iowa I can sell you... (read in full...)
I had sex with my boyfriend when I was talking to another guy. Now the other guy says I cheated!
Q. My relationship with my guy started out all wrong. We met on an internet site not intended to *hook-up* people-MFI (a site were you can have friends and benefactors contribute to your boob job). At the time I wanted implants to restore and enhance ...
A. 2 March 2010: You had an emotional affair and now you are boo hooing this? Grow the hell up!
A BoobJob donation site is just the same as AFF so don't blow smoke up our asses. If you didn't want to show your tits to other guys then you would not have been the... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is a bit too close to her ex, what should I do?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been together for about 7 months now. I met her online and we clicked right away, i found out that she lived with her ex (that she dated for 3 years) cause she didn't want to live at her house. we talked for a couple of ...
A. 1 March 2010: Move on...you are being taken for a ride... (read in full...)
I found another man's underwear under the bed!
Q. I just found men's underwear under my side of the bed. I'd like advice on what to do. This weekend, I was searching for a pair of old sneakers and they were shoved way under our bed on my side. I have no clue how long they've been there, I usually...
A. 1 March 2010: Well you might as well ask her. But of course if she is cheating she will lie to you. Time to get a Keylogger on your computer. Undoubtedly if she is seeing someone she will have evidence on the computer. It never fails. if she is she will screw u... (read in full...)
B/F thinks I'm disrespectful to him, and I'm worried he's getting too close to my friend
Q. hi aunts and uncles, I have a problem, my bf is really upset at me at the moment, im going out to dinner with my ex later, bf has expressed how much he dosent like me seeing him as it is for coke and a chat in the pub, but he says its not right we...
A. 1 March 2010: How about if your BF goes out with his ex and you aren't invited? I could barely read the post from all the selfishness and drama you spout. Its all about YOU, YOU, YOU!!! You need to grow up and realize that the world does not revolve aroun... (read in full...)
Would you consider this cheating?
Q. My boyfriend and I seem to have that feeling of distance between us for a few months now. For me- it seems as though he is just comfortable and doesn't feel like he has to try anymore. I believe the two most important things in a relationship are ...
A. 28 February 2010: You are engaging in online ego stroking to make yourself feel better. so eventually this will turn into an emotional affair if it already hasnt. This is a two way street like all relationships are. so tell me what would you feel like if your... (read in full...)
Some ideas needed on sexy pictures I can send my boyfriend
Q. i want to take some sexy pics of myself for my boyfriend, and would like some ideas on how to do so, poses etc... he is away alot with his job so i want to suprise him if you are going to write to me saying i shouldnt because we could break up a...
A. 28 February 2010: Sure,
Why dont you consider using a Professional Photographer with an established reputation if you are not surer as to what you want to do. That person could give you some ideas and some of them are fairly inexpensive to do a set.
Or if y... (read in full...)
Could a phone be more important then your wife?
Q. (Mod note: Titled by poster) what does my husband want from me? why cant we watch a tv program with out him texing someone? we go to dinner and his phone is in his hand the entire time, he sleeps with it underneth his pillow, he is a 48 year old ...
A. 28 February 2010: Your Husband wants you to accept that he is a Philanderer and just live with it while he risks your health and life for his own pleasure.
HE DOES NOT LOVE YOU
HE HAS AND IS CHEATING ON YOU
Why are you even with this man if he is doing ... (read in full...)
Oh, what a tangled web we weave ...........
Q. I am 22 years old as well as my girlfriend well ex girlfriend now. We have know eachother sense we were 12 and started dating when we were 15. our relationship was great until the last year of it there was a serious lack of affection and intamacy on ...
A. 28 February 2010: You should have thought about the repercussions before you went home with another girl. Six years thrown down the drain because you were selfish and stupid and lied on top of it.
Funny how stuff turns out when you are only thinking about yourself... (read in full...)
I cheated. What can I do to try and fix things?
Q. Recently, i cheated on my boyfriend with his bestfriend, i feel really guilty about it and made up a different excuse to split up with him, his friend is acting like nothing has happened what can i do?...
A. 26 February 2010: Nothing. You cast your lot. And by cheating with his best friend it will eventually come out. So since you are all young and immature they will eventually get into a fight and you will look like an idiot.
The only thing that can possibly save you... (read in full...)
Two guys one choice to make.
Q. Hello, A = Boyfriend(about 7 years) B = ex (known each other for 12 years, dated 5 months in high school, on/off for the past 3 years. I wanted to break up with A because I realized that he's probably not the right one for me. In addition to...
A. 26 February 2010: GrimmReality returns for but a moment to give it to you straight. This is not going to be what you want to hear, but its the truth, so listen up.
Mistake #1: stringing A along like that because you were probably just keeping him around in case it ... (read in full...)
She constantly accuses me of cheating on her, yet she's the one who did the cheating?
Q. My girlfriend cheated on me a while ago and i forgave her and took her back, i love her, but our relationship is hard recently i don't know what to do. I lost a lot of trust in her when she did that, but i had enough to believe her and take her...
A. 18 February 2010: It is up to HER to rebuild that thrust. why is it your duty? she cheated. she should be transparent if you were crazy enough to take her back.
what this is called is blameshifting. and she will continue to do this to justify her behavior... (read in full...)
My wife cheated on me and I think she's still with him. How do I prove my worth?
Q. My wife cheated on me and I think she's still with him. I begged her to give me another chance, but she said she didn't know if she could make us work anymore. She thinks she's in love with the new guy and has said that sex with me had become ...
A. 9 February 2010: WAIT A DAMN MINUTE!! You were betrayed and yet you are trying to prove YOUR WORTH?? THE TIME For sitting down and talking to her is over...that train left a long time ago...MAN UP! What the hell are you doing. People do not respect doorm... (read in full...)
The thought of her doing that with another guy disgusts me!
Q. I need your opinions. So last night my fiancé was giving me head. As I was about to finish, I pulled it out of her mouth and finished on a towel. She seemed surprised and asked why I didn't finish in her mouth. I said I didn't know, I didn't t...
A. 9 February 2010: Well thank you. And yes I don't sugarcoat anything. Many people don't like it but the truth is never a pretty thing.You needed to hear it straight.... (read in full...)
How do I go about having sex with my cousin?
Q. ok so im 14 almost 15 and so is my cousin only she turns 15 a few months before me. ever since we were about 6 weve played sexual games like "show me urs ill show u mine" and doctor and we also watch porn together almost everytime we see each other. ...
A. 9 February 2010: Oh come on is this West Virginia Day at DC?...I just answered a post about some guy that wants to screw his sister in law and now this?
This is so wrong on so many levels
... (read in full...)
Will it be a mistake to have sex with my sister-in-law?
Q. I have a sister in law whom is living with us in the same house. She wears clothes where her nipples are visibly mark, wears shorts where her most private part is also marked. I can't evade fantacizing her. Whenever the door of her room is open, I ...
A. 9 February 2010: If you think doing your SIL makes sense I have some oceanfront property in Iowa I'd like to sell you... (read in full...)
The thought of her doing that with another guy disgusts me!
Q. I need your opinions. So last night my fiancé was giving me head. As I was about to finish, I pulled it out of her mouth and finished on a towel. She seemed surprised and asked why I didn't finish in her mouth. I said I didn't know, I didn't t...
A. 9 February 2010: Lesson one...when you ask someone about the acts they performed with other lover you are setting yourself up to fail in this relationship. You are going to now set yourself up for every future round of sex having something else creep in the back of ... (read in full...)
Is Facebook reflecting how I fail socially in the real world?
Q. Sorry, but this is post about using a social networking site to validate my worth as a human being. I am on facebook and I am not popular on there, nor am terribly popular in real life. I'm like a leper of facebook actually. Less than 30 friends and ...
A. 9 February 2010: I have over 2000+ friends on both FB and Myspace and you know how many I actually talk to? About 3. The rest are for Mafia wars and other apps.
Listen, don't worry about it. Those 1997 friends I have I could delete in a heartbeat. social Networki... (read in full...)
Help! How can I gain her trust?
Q. i love this girl so much she means the world to me... but she doesnt trust me... how can i gain her trust?...
A. 9 February 2010: By actions and not words. words are cheap... (read in full...)
Am I paranoid? Am I overreacting? I feel trapped!
Q. Hi, yet another issue of trust Iv had a long discussion with my gf about her talking to her ex and this guy she lied about a couple of times and also kissed, told her it unsettles me and i dont really feel secure because of it. she- however - ...
A. 9 February 2010: You are dating a liar and a cheater.
I live my life in all relationships with other person based on the Law of three lies. I'll post it for you now so you will have a little motivation to grow some balls and get this tramp out of your life.
... (read in full...)
Do you think my wifes long distance affair will last? Should I ring the other guy and explain what she means to me and hope he will back off?
Q. my wife has been talking to this guy she knew 10 years ago from work.i just found out that they had sex when she was supposed to be at her moms.they talk on the internet.he lives in nevada and we live in va.i overheard her tell him that she loves ...
A. 8 February 2010: You need to make your wife feel some consequences. If your wife is in love with him she is in what is called "The Fog". Unless she goes no contact with this guy, then there is no hope for reconciliation.
In the mean time it is an imperati... (read in full...)
He flipped out when I answered his phone. Is his anger justified?
Q. Tonight, I was playing a game on my boyfriend's cell phone. A private number called, so I handed him the phone. He pressed the ignore button, which ended the call. I went back to my game, and the private number called back about a minute later. I ...
A. 3 February 2010: Sadly if you have only been with him for a month then my humble opinion is that he may or may not be on the same page as you are if you two are exclusive. sadly people like to play semantics with that.
So in this case if you are pursuing a relati... (read in full...)
He flipped out when I answered his phone. Is his anger justified?
Q. Tonight, I was playing a game on my boyfriend's cell phone. A private number called, so I handed him the phone. He pressed the ignore button, which ended the call. I went back to my game, and the private number called back about a minute later. I ...
A. 31 January 2010: Well if someone said "who is this" I would submit to you that he didn't want you to answer the phone. Instead of invading his privacy...looks like you invaded his secrecy. Trust your gut. where there is smoke there is fire.... (read in full...)
Should I dump him and move on or give him another chance?
Q. I have been dating this guy for two years and its been on the rocks since day one. We developed a relationship from a one night stand.To make matters worse I found out several months later that I was a part of him cheating on his at that time, ...
A. 31 January 2010: So you start dating a guy. Then when you find out that you are only an affair partner This does not give you a hint at his behavior? when you found out he had a GF did you still keep dating him and not dump him right there? That would be a normal ... (read in full...)
She has a problem with my drinking!
Q. So last night i was drinking shots and i popped a couple of xanex pills to establish a buzz faster than useuall well i was having a good time, and i went to sleep.. well i wake up this morning, and everything in my room is broken, one of my walls is ...
A. 21 January 2010: Yeah you are The Ladies Man All right...I bet Ike Turner is your idol huh?
Seriously I dont know which is the more disturbing: Your cavalier attitude or you wondering how you can get her back after beating her ass. You are quite a guy. You'd la... (read in full...)
She cheated on me at christmas and I don't know what to do for the best...
Q. me and my girlfriend have been seeing each other for about 4 months now and she told me the other day that over christmas she got drunk and ended up cheating on me, she didn't have sex with this person but they did other things. I really don't know ...
A. 13 January 2010: Please just do yourself a favor and move on. Booze is never an excuse for cheating. It only brings out and puts a microscope of our true selves.
If I were you Id run from her. You are young, dont cast your die with a cheater at such an early st... (read in full...)
Phone dropped in toilet...
Q. This isn't really a relationship question but I gotta ask. My boyfriend was texting me one day, supposedly while he was using the restroom and he dropped his phone in the toilet(I know, nasty.) well, he got it to work, he used a hair dryer to dry it ...
A. 13 January 2010: Well it is dependent on what model it is. Hopefully he had some type of insurance on the phone.
Regardless if he did or not if he gets the phone replaced he should still have his contacts in the chip or maybe he was smart enough to back them up ... (read in full...)
He was out of order for reading my messages, now I'm so confused.
Q. So ive been chatting to this lad for about 4 months now, we have history but lost contact. We started chatting and getting very close, and i was confused at where we stood with each other, i asked him, he told me he wasnt able to commit to anything ...
A. 7 January 2010: No... if you were so dumb as to give somebody online your information willingly, then It's YOU who are out of order!!! Didn't you grow up in the age of "DONT GIVE YOUR INFORMATION TO ANYONE???" Of course you did. All you had to do was co... (read in full...)
How can I trust her after her fling?
Q. My girlfriend of three months, whom I've known for six years, chose to have a two day fling with her ex while he was in town. We have talked about what happened and I don't feel I got a strait answer of why this occurred. She has told me they are ...
A. 7 January 2010: Of course you cant get a straight answer!!! She just wants to screw this guy while you put up with it!
Sorry but she is lying to you. And NO YOU CANT TRUST HER!!!!
If she was done with him she would be No Contact. The fact is that you CAN... (read in full...)
She cheated on me when I relocated.
Q. I meet this wonderful woman when I was eighteen right out of high school. I knew that she was the one that I wanted to marry. She is my all and everything. We have a wonderful relationship. We were open about our past. I told her everything about ...
A. 7 January 2010: 1. See a doctor, get tested for STD's and get DNA for paternity
2. See A lawyer, sever any joint bank accounts you may have,because if you cant trustr her with her vagina you cant trust her with your money.
3. Divorce her....don't believe a word o... (read in full...)
Will my wife cheat again?
Q. Will my wife cheat again? I'm in the army and was in Iraq, my wife told me she met a gay stripper. when i got back i found pics with other half torn out, stories not adding up, laptop shut when i walked in, her running for him all the time, ...
A. 7 January 2010: Should have dumped her the first time....
what do ytou think will change in her withn you being deployed again...
She craved another guy's penis once...now you are gone....
Divorce her, that what you need to do.... (read in full...)
Wife hates ex wife's crass comment to 9 year old
Q. My current wife hates my ex-wife whom I have almost no contact with. Help! I am usually pretty good at figuring things out, but this.... My ex wife is callous, crass, and often tells my kids (when they are with her) crude 'jokes' and talks about ...
A. 4 January 2010: I agree. Jeeze that is just your current wife trying to invoke needless drama.
she needs to chill out!... (read in full...)
Our affair was exposed and my reputation is at stake!
Q. I had an affair with a married man. About a year ago we started hanging out and a kiss led to touching, and touching led to sex. We had sex 3 different times and hung out from time to time after that. I have not seen him in about 9 months and then ...
A. 29 December 2009: The answer is the same whether you shop this question on other sites(which you did) or here, young lady. and the answer is the same. The only difference is that you left the particulars out that you did not on another site, possibly tailoring this ... (read in full...)
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