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Will my wife cheat again?

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Question - (6 January 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 7 January 2010)
A male United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Will my wife cheat again? I'm in the army and was in Iraq, my wife told me she met a gay stripper. when i got back i found pics with other half torn out, stories not adding up, laptop shut when i walked in, her running for him all the time, hanging out with his friends, long phone calls.

One day i searched the whole house and found a cd, when i opened it it was her screwing him on vacation, hotels. lots of nude pics. when i told her she quickly apologized and stopped seeing him cold, 3 years later im back in iraq, i just got this hunch somethings up. what do you think?

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A male reader, GrimmReality United States +, writes (7 January 2010):

GrimmReality agony auntShould have dumped her the first time....

what do ytou think will change in her withn you being deployed again...

She craved another guy's penis once...now you are gone....

Divorce her, that what you need to do.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2010):

You deserve better! Your out there risking your life for someone who doesn't care enough to tell you the truth?? You need somebody who can respect you for who you are and what you do and if she doesn't have the patience to wait for you, then forget her!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2010):

brainscanhug - what a ridiculous and misogynistic thing to say. Very helpful to the man I'm sure.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2010):

If something seems wrong and she seems to be showing the signs that she did beforehand when she cheated on you beforehand then she probably has cheated on you again. Get rid of her. She risked your relationship when she cheated on you the first time and might believe that she can carry on cheating on you because you forgave her for that. She needs to be shown that she can't carry on cheating on you and get away with it.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (6 January 2010):

The truth is, this is something that was never really resolved in the first place. Did you ever find out why she cheated? Did you ever really talk about it? The truth is, I can't tell you whether she's cheating or not. All I can say is that if she did it before, she can again. Clearly you need proof. Maybe take a close look at what has been going on when you get back. If she hasn't then you both need to sit down and talk about how you feel. If she has, then move on from her. Is there any reason you have a hunch this time? I often find gut instincts are right.

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