How do I get over him when this is happening?
Q. I need some help. I have no idea what to do, or what to think, or what to feel. I met this guy a couple of months ago in a parking lot at a car shop that I was at with my best friend. The moment we saw each other across the way, there was this ine...
A. 15 July 2009: Well I am glad that he showed his hand. The thing with person's we met online is that as I had said in my previous post that they cant turn the other person on or off without batting an eye. I had a similar situation a couple of years ago where th... (read in full...)
He says I'm hotter than his wife and we have sex, what should I do?
Q. We see each other whenever we can, he calls me beautiful and says im hotter than his wife and hasn't seen anyone hotter than me. He speaks to me nearly everyday and everytime we see each other we have sex in his car, i really like him and want him...
A. 4 July 2009: TROLL POST!... (read in full...)
My Voyeuristic Boyfriend
Q. My boyfriend and I have been friends for a few years, and have been dating for a few months, and he confessed something to me that I'm not sure how to respond to and not sure what to think about. He told me about his voyeuristic tendencies and t...
A. 4 July 2009: Does it make YOU feel uncomfortable? Thats the question here, and obviously since you posted it does to some extent. Voyeurism is one thing, but on relatives is an tricky issue I imagine. what is your gut telling you? Many voyeurs are harmless... (read in full...)
My heart is broken in pieces I really need help
Q. My boyfriend broke up with me this week and it's being so hard to get over the whole situation for me because it ended up in really hurtful terms, he seemed like he didn't care hurting my feelings, he broke my heart in pieces, but after all that he ...
A. 4 July 2009: Hey my man, Just take a deep breath. You've had a hell of a past few days. gay or straight, we have all had our hearts broken at one point or another in our lives. Yeah I can also understand that you feel pretty used the way your Ex came of... (read in full...)
What can I do to cum sooner?
Q. What can I do to cum sooner? I'm 52 gf is 34 I take cialus and still most times can't cum in her she has a great pussy, help me if maybe I don't jack off or have sex for 3 months I might cum in a few min but otherwise no! Help!...
A. 4 July 2009: Oh yeah this is a troll post to the max....I think "Captain Cialis" forgot top read the product description...hey dude crush those pills up and snort em!!!!... (read in full...)
I'm 21 and asked her out then found out she's 26!!! Will this be a problem?
Q. I met this girl thats really nice and funny, and after a couple times of talking i asked her to get dinner and she said yes, so we set up a date for tommorow and all seems well but i found out today that she is 26 years old, I am only 21, is this a ...
A. 4 July 2009: What are you worried about? she said yes! here is a novel idea...maybe she likes you for you!!!!
Stop being so hard on yourself, my man.
Im 44 and the young lady I am currently casually seeing is 21 years my junior. We get along great becaus... (read in full...)
I feel so ashamed of what I did...what is wrong with me?
Q. While I was broken up with my current boyfriend, I panicked and called one of my ex boyfriends to see if he can take me back. At that time, I was not sure whether I really love my current boyfriend and thought that my attraction to him was immat...
A. 4 July 2009: In this big world, there is only one person you can ever trust, and that is yourself. But believe me, you are not the first person this has happened to, and you wont be the last.
Both posters below me are dead on. But rather than concentr... (read in full...)
Was this really nothing, or is she the most ridiculous person ever? Why is she like this?
Q. I don't know if this is a bigger deal that it should be? My girlfriend is kind of shy, but also kind of picky. People tease her about both these things sometimes, even I do. I think she might have a complex, but I honestly don't understand why s...
A. 4 July 2009: Actually its YOU that is being ridiculous!
Dude, you dont tell someone you love how you could tear their ego to shreds. WHAT THE HELL! Are you proud of that? I hope not.
Look at your post...you are a very immature young man. Do you have any... (read in full...)
Guys: do you normally 'check out' good looking girls? Ladies: are you bothered by this?
Q. my question is out there mainly for the guys but ladies theres one for you to: is it true that most men so called "check out" any girl who is showing a bit of flesh or has a perfect figure i.e big breasts and big bottom lol? is it almost "natur...
A. 4 July 2009: Guys have that reaction of checking out just about anyone who has two boobs an ass and a heartbeat. Ever notice if you are in a business situation that guys seem to "Talk to your chest"?
Its just part of the hetero male makeup to stare at a g... (read in full...)
Am I justified in feeling suspicious and what can I do about it?
Q. I just want to know if what I am feeling is normal and justified or if I'm over-reacting. Here's the story. I have been in a relationship with my current girlfriend for 10 years and we are engaged but have never got married. We met at Uni and as f...
A. 4 July 2009: wait a second...
youve been with her for 10 years but not been intimate for a year?
You don't have a girlfriend, you have a person that has moved on from you but you are the last to find out. WAKE UP!
I dont know if you realize it, but ... (read in full...)
Does liking transsexuals make me gay?
Q. So I've recently developed a pretty strong fetish for Shemales (yes, I know the term is offensive to some, and I'm sorry, but that's the best way I know how to describe them - that is, transsexual men - women who have penises). Does it make me gay ...
A. 4 July 2009: I don't think it makes you gay at all. Plus it's no one elses' business but yours if you do fantasize about it. As a matter of fact one of my friends of over 30 years has been happily married for well over 20 and he and his wife love having group ... (read in full...)
How do I show her that I trust her and that I would do anything for her
Q. Hey there my girlfriend has recently finished me after a two year relationship, she says because she is emotionally drained due to me being quiet mean over the past month ( the reason i have been like this is because she started a new job and a guy ...
A. 3 July 2009: Oh dear,
you are the unwitting victim of "The Guy is there for me so I need some space routine".
Which translates to:
"I am going to have sex with him, and I expect you to wear the "sucker" sticker on your forehead until I deem an app... (read in full...)
If I am having all these feeling and doubts should I still go though with the wedding?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for seven years and we are to get married in 2 months. I started dating her 1 year after my ex-girlfriend. Me and the ex had a terrible break up of course cheating was involved. The relationship ended and for the most ...
A. 3 July 2009: Well lets look at this honestly.
I assume that your breakup was because of your GF cheating. so now you have a drama free relationship and of course you are getting cold feet because you didn't really end things well with the former GF. Thats no... (read in full...)
I love him, but I miss myself and I want to be happy again, how can I find myself?
Q. I've been dating C for 4 months, everything moved way too fast. He has a lot on his plate right now trying to get his 2 daughters back from CPS and he can't seem to let his baby's mama go, after 9 years. I saw all the warnings and walked into this ...
A. 3 July 2009: You do it by action. And the first action is by not believing his act. Its as fresh as a Foghat Concert. You know that he will come back with a sob story the next time it happens, which there will be a next time, and a next time, and a next time. ... (read in full...)
Advice please... Should I try to make things work with my husband or get out now?
Q. I have been married a little over a year and things have been pretty rocky for the last 6 months. We lived a little town which totally sucked and we moved back to my home town and I thought it was the town that was dragging me down. I do not feel I ...
A. 3 July 2009: Ok, Not once in your post did you mention MARRIAGE COUNSELING! And please do not cheat on your husband. that is something you can never come back from and if you live in a small town, everyione will know...its inevitable, and it will only ... (read in full...)
I'm not gay but watching gay porn turns me on...
Q. I'm straight i know that, i mean, girls turn me on so much you wouldnt believe it, i've had my fair share of girls and i've slept with one. Anyway, My problem is that gay porn arouses me, and not just gay porn, the smell of a penis turns me on, as ...
A. 3 July 2009: Have you ever thought you may be Bi-Sexual?
There is nothing wrong with it. You are very young, so you are really exploring your own sexuality. But dont feel embarrased by it, for everyone is different. embrace it, and maybe you can have the best... (read in full...)
Broken...
Q. Hello, I've been in a relationship for 6 years with this woman who is now 31. She was a single mom of 3 kids with three different fathers, a high school drop out. I became daddy #4 four years ago. In our house there is a total of 6 different ...
A. 3 July 2009: Unfortuantely, you have been blinded by your emotions. 3 kids with 3 different men before you met? sounds like a red flag right there. Where I come from thats called DAMAGED GOODS and men are urged to stay away from women like that as if they have ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend that drinks too much!
Q. I am crazy about my boyfriend but he drinks too much. have told him I dont want to be around him when he drinks because he is really unpleasant and he always argues with me. we had a row a few days ago because he was drunk now he ignoring me and ...
A. 3 July 2009: Are you supposed to take responsibility for his drinking? Are you pouring liquor down his throat?
No you arent. He has to help himself. You can only encourage him to stop, which most likely wont work because he will not admit to it being a proble... (read in full...)
He's now dating BOTH of us! What do I do?
Q. I started dating my boyfriend 2 years ago and he told me he has a girlfriend but based on the girl's attitude he wants to breakup the relationship but all those times they had a quarell and i thought it will soon be over but the girl kept calling ...
A. 3 July 2009: One answer and one answer only...and I will pose it as a question: "Why would you waste any more time on this guy who is obviously a loser. Why sacrifice your dignity for this guy if he treats you like this?" what I am trying to say is that a... (read in full...)
How do I get over him when this is happening?
Q. I need some help. I have no idea what to do, or what to think, or what to feel. I met this guy a couple of months ago in a parking lot at a car shop that I was at with my best friend. The moment we saw each other across the way, there was this ine...
A. 2 July 2009: Uh, It seems that you have run into a guy that is now (and no its not a novel idea) "running into you". Lets face it. This guy had an online relationship with another gal. He told you about her on the 3rd date. He likes the attention that sh... (read in full...)
Is there something you can eat to make your sperm taste sweet?
Q. I hope this isn't a dumb question -,- lol But I was reading a question on here and I was wondering if you could eat something to make your sperm sweet??? okay so I love eating out my girlfriend, I do it on almost a daily basis BUT she rare...
A. 30 June 2009: Well I cant answer as far as food, but I had a GF at one time that claimed to be able to decipher if I had drunk a Rum and Coke or not so laughingly the only thing I can say is try it with a twist of lemon...LMAO!... (read in full...)
Which guy do I choose? Help!
Q. Basically I have to choose between 2 really great guys. Feel free to comment on any or all aspects of this, because I need all the help I can get! First guy: A beautiful person who helped me get out of a 3 year emotionally abusive relation...
A. 30 June 2009: Uh.....
You don't HAVE to choose between either of them. You see, it seems as the 42 year old was upfront with you about what he could and coud'nt give you. And kudos to him for doing that. He is going overseas and will be joined at some point b... (read in full...)
My wife sends 60 texts a day to this old friend...isn't that a bit much??
Q. I know there are other answers of similar variety, but I want to include my details to see what others may think. First off, my wife had a crush on this guy when she was in high school. I guess she tried to be with him, but he gave her the "I only ...
A. 19 June 2009: Thank you for serving our country. Now on to the issue at hand. The signs are all there. I am afraid to tell you, but you already know the answer. She is most likley sleeping with this guy while you are overseas. We like to think "how c... (read in full...)
How can our marriage be saved now that I've found out about his mistress?
Q. Hello I am in my early 40s. One year ago, my husband told me that he didnt love me anymore and that he had been unhappy in our marriage for the last year. He said I didnt support him or love him they way he wanted. I was in total shock - I knew w...
A. 19 June 2009: Thats the bad thing with counselors and therapists...they are a dime a dozen and many of them aren't worth the paper their certification is printed on. first off I am so sorry that this is happening to you. But you have to realize that he is not c... (read in full...)
Married co-worker confessed his love for me...should I go for it?
Q. I have been working with someone for the past 4 years and recently he told me he was in love with me. I always thought we were close but I never knew he had these feelings. Now that he has confessed to me. Only one problem...He is married and so am ...
A. 19 June 2009: Nothing good will come from this, and you cant find love in your marriage if you are looking for love outside of it. Please consider that if you do it, you are destroying two other peoples lives for no reason...your husband and the other guy's ... (read in full...)
Married for 14 yrs, is it normal to have other women and men in our bedroom
Q. Dear cupid, I have been married for 14 yrs now and I am still very attracted to my husband. Before i met him i didn't care if i had sex or not. It was no big deal. After having sex with him, I realized what i was missing, Its been great ever ...
A. 19 June 2009: Well if you are comfortable doing it...I mean usually I am a absolutist about cheating(as in no excuse...read some of my posts as how I treat cheaters on this site) but you bring up a completely different dynamic. Both of you are interested in it ... (read in full...)
Is it like, love or lust?
Q. Is it like, love, or lust? 1. I see this guy and am instantly attracted to him. I fantacize about him kissing me, etc. 2. I get to kinow this guy and realize that we have a lot in common.. even really random things, like favorite ice cream ...
A. 19 June 2009: The scolding is tiresome? You asked for advice...you got it...once again another instance of someone coming here to get the answers THEY WANT TO HEAR RATHER THAN WHAT THEY NEED TO HEAR!
which means your dilemma will not be solved because you refu... (read in full...)
Can't see my dad alone, his new wife has to be there
Q. My parents got divorced 6 years ago when I was in fifth grade and it was hard for me to go through but I made it through, things we're good for the first two years, well as good as they could be. But about two and a half years after the divorce my ...
A. 19 June 2009: Oh dear,
I am very, very sorry for your predicament. It's a shame that children always are the unwilling pawns in divorces.
Your father, by presenting this ultimatum is trying to come with grips that he is losing you, and with good reason. It ... (read in full...)
We put a "floor show" on at her wedding.. Is she right to be mad at us?
Q. My sister is mad at me because I put a floor show with my "underdressed" girlfriend (her dress was quite revealing) at her wedding. Me and my girlfriend had way too much to drink and we were all over each other on the dance floor. My sister and her ...
A. 19 June 2009: No...she isnt over reacting. You are simply jealous of your sister and you use alcohol and a huge production to show your jealousy.
Its quite common.
You and your friend should apologise to her, her husband, your family and send written apo... (read in full...)
How do I get my girl to trust me after lying and cheating on her?
Q. I have this girl that i been with for goin on 2 years as of sept 3rd and i made mistakes in my past like cheating and lying and i had recently cheated in april but im really done this time with playin with her i love her and want to be with her how ...
A. 19 June 2009: It is not up to her to forgive your stupuidity and selfishness at all. You lost any rights to have any say in the relatiuonship the moment you screwed somebody else. You said you are done "playin her"...Bullshit. Thats the most ... (read in full...)
My husband says if I engage in a threesome just once, he'll stop the flirting and porn...
Q. Please Help if you can! My hubby is overseas til September..since he has been gone he has been signing up on singles sites as single, going to porn sites and even sent a sex letter to a gal that is supposed to be my friend..now, I know he has ...
A. 18 June 2009: Uh you need to not think about helping him..you need to divorce him. He has no regard for you whatsoever. By signing up for dating suites while he is married, and away from you its a clear indication that he is already deciding to practice this fa... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a guy to use a strap-on dildo on his wife?
Q. My wife and I have been married for 11 years. We have 2 kids. Sex is wonderful, when we have it, 1 to 2 times a week-work, kids, busy schedule. My question to both men and women, my wife has hinted at the use of sex toys. Apparently she has been ...
A. 18 June 2009: You are sitting on a gold mine...Its the most conservative that go wild when introduced to something that they find great...Best of luck...GET THAT SYBIAN...Your wife will thank you in more ways than one... (read in full...)
In love with an up and coming drummer..am I just a friend?
Q. i have this friend, i've known of him since 2007. and we only got acquainted this march2009. we started texting each other, chatting, talking on the phone. he is a drummer of this "rising-up" band. so most of the time, i would meet him and hang-out ...
A. 18 June 2009: oh lets see here....you like a drummer? Rock Band...up and coming...oh yeah this has potential!
NOT!
He is in a rock band for two reasons...to make money and screw hot women. He may in fact like you, but be warned that if he is as Up and Comi... (read in full...)
Is it like, love or lust?
Q. Is it like, love, or lust? 1. I see this guy and am instantly attracted to him. I fantacize about him kissing me, etc. 2. I get to kinow this guy and realize that we have a lot in common.. even really random things, like favorite ice cream ...
A. 18 June 2009: In step by Step form or in total the answer is still the same.
You are deeply infatuated at this point. You are very young and this will not be the only guy you feel this way for. There will be others...its part of growing up
I can tell since y... (read in full...)
I have a tickling fetish!
Q. Okay, I'm young, but I've always known what I like. I have a tickling fetish, and I prefer to be the 'ler and not the 'lee. So I kind of have two questions here. First, is it even remotely normal? I've always felt kind of freaked out by it. Like, it...
A. 18 June 2009: Yeah me too.....So maybe you want to disregard what I said about giving your BF a Cleveland Steamer...being that your BF is really your GF
My advice remains the same however. Just don't impale your GF with the feather..lol
And to think I alway... (read in full...)
I have a tickling fetish!
Q. Okay, I'm young, but I've always known what I like. I have a tickling fetish, and I prefer to be the 'ler and not the 'lee. So I kind of have two questions here. First, is it even remotely normal? I've always felt kind of freaked out by it. Like, it...
A. 18 June 2009: Young lady, When you and your fiance do the deed....grab a big ass feather na dgo to town. Make sure your man lies completely still and BLINDFOLDED(he will lose his sense of vision which will enhance his sense of touch) and you use that feath... (read in full...)
He hid his profile on the dating site?
Q. I’m on a dating site and recently I emailed a guy who I liked the sound of. He responded and we’ve been emailing ever since. After our first email exchange he hid his profile. I can still email him but his profile isn’t visible to anyone else o...
A. 18 June 2009: Well there are two schools of thought. The other posters do have a point. In fact he may have hidden his profile becuase he is so enamoured with you that he does not want any traffic from anyone else until you meet in person and can gauge whether ... (read in full...)
She's overfriendly with other guys on social-network, it's making me insecure
Q. Hello everyone. I have a long distance relationship. She is over 30, divorced, have a child with her and I am 5 years younger. It has been 1 year and we fight a lot. It has been 1 week we didn't contact each other. Out of blue, she called m...
A. 18 June 2009: Uh you are answering your own questions. Social Networks are Relationship Killers. Also online relationships and long distance ones have to be flush with trust, communication and understanding in order to have a chance of working. None of which you ... (read in full...)
I lost my wedding ring, never told him and now he's furious!
Q. I lost my wedding ring about 4 years ago, never told my husband, bought a ring that looked similar to mine, and just recently he somehow found out and is extremely angry, yet he too lost his around the same time and it was not a big deal. We have ...
A. 18 June 2009: More info please...I have to ask one question though. If he didnt even recognize that you had lost your ring and that you replaced it with a similar but not exact same one, and he lost his but does not seem to care, how have you two communicated ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a guy to use a strap-on dildo on his wife?
Q. My wife and I have been married for 11 years. We have 2 kids. Sex is wonderful, when we have it, 1 to 2 times a week-work, kids, busy schedule. My question to both men and women, my wife has hinted at the use of sex toys. Apparently she has been ...
A. 18 June 2009: Yep, If you can use marital aids to spice it up....nothing wrong with it. Look at it this way...rather the latex boyfriend than a second boyfriend. I commend you for listening to your wife. May men may consider this a huge blow(no pun intended) to... (read in full...)
I can't believe we are over for the 3rd time!
Q. My girlfriend and i were together for 2 and a half years, we then broke up for about 8mnths, she thencame back to me saying that she wanted me back only to leave agagin and start seeing some other guy. I finished it saying there will never be ...
A. 18 June 2009: Yeah.... I have insight... How many times do you have to be a doormat? Dude, come on...Why are you justifying staying with her...she is playing you like a fiddle. She leaves, screws who she wants until she discovers that they aren't gonna... (read in full...)
He cheated on me so I burned all of his things!
Q. Lets cut to the chase, shall we? my boyfriend and I were dating for a good year and three months. I am sixteen and he is eighteen. I thought we were in love, he bought me a promise ring for our one year. i honestly thought i would spend th...
A. 18 June 2009: Threatening to charge you? I commend you for not setting HIM on fire...he should be thanking you he still has that empty husk that he calls a scrotum! The hell with him! He cheated....HE SHOULD BE THE ONE THAT LEAVES NOT YOU! Young lady, 21 ... (read in full...)
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