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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My sister is mad at me because I put a floor show with my "underdressed" girlfriend (her dress was quite revealing) at her wedding. Me and my girlfriend had way too much to drink and we were all over each other on the dance floor. My sister and her husband kicked us out (without warning). Since my girlfriend was so drunk she gave my sister and her husband the finger and lipped off to them (she`s usually behaves if she`s sober). My mom drove us home since she didn`t me or my girlfriend to drunk drive. Anyway my sister is still piss off at us cause we took away all her attention and scared some littie kids. Do you think she`s overreacting?
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (19 June 2009):
 Oh, gee, let me think... you only ruined her big day... turned her wedding into a circus... I think you know the answer to that. Satin is right, you need to grow up.
If you even considered drink driving, you belong in jail. You don't sound mature enough to be drinking. Those little kids were better behaved than you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2009): That was HER night. Her and her new hubby. It was the most special night of their lives and you took it away from them. I think they deserved to have the attention that night, as well as feel comfortable with little kids and other family members being there.
I hope you at least apologized, because if you didn't, she is likely to be mad unti you do. Which is ok, because she is not overreacting.
~SY.
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reader, GrimmReality  +, writes (19 June 2009):
 No...she isnt over reacting. You are simply jealous of your sister and you use alcohol and a huge production to show your jealousy.
Its quite common.
You and your friend should apologise to her, her husband, your family and send written apologies to the entire wedding party guest list. Oh and stop drinking...you cant handle your liquor
I am surprised you didn't get a beatdown...if it had been my wedding you'd be pushing up daisies
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reader, pebble  +, writes (19 June 2009):
 What you did was vile and disgusting and showed a complete lack of respect for your sister, her special day and her guests.
Everyone saw how tacky you and your girlfriend are so I would assume you have a large amount of apologies to dish out, the first being to your sister and her husband. She's only hoping for one wedding day and you ruined it. You both should be thoroughly ashamed.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-girlfriend-and-sister-got-into-a-fighthow.html
Is this your question aswell? Because if it is then you and your classless girlfriend are going all out to make your poor sister miserable huh?
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reader, niki20 +, writes (18 June 2009):
 i would be pretty mad to if it was at my wedding. you two should say sorry she'll get over it but not until you apologize,
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2009): Nope, she has every right to be mad at your guys and I won't blame her for ever talking to you again or your gf. I don't think you understand any importance of what her wedding meant to her, and I myself I'm so baffled as to why you can't understand this. Is it that you hate your sister and you had to make her day, your day or something? Did you even think about her and how she feels even once? Do you even know what a wedding is? I can assure you it isn't a wild party to look cool and popular. So your gf was drunk...srly don't even start to blame your gf, the fault is yours since it's YOUR gf. You sure you are 18-21???
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (18 June 2009):
 Yes, she is right to be flaming mad at you. I think you and your girlfriend need to learn a little about etiquette and decorum.
Come on now.. Floor show at a wedding? With kids present? That is not only tacky - it's kinda lame. A wedding is a celebration of two people love and union. ( and you and your GF weren't either of these two).
Now I see nothing wrong in having fun at a wedding, but it really isn't the place to show your sexual prowess...
You owe your sister an apology BIG time, so does your GF. Then your sister needs to get over it. Most likely people will be talking about her wedding for a long time ( if that show was so ... "offensive")..
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2009): No! thats her special day and you and your girlfriend take to the dance floor and make everyone feel uncomfortable! then your girlfriend has the cheek to mouth off to her!!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (18 June 2009):
 No. You acted like an no class idiots. I'd be mad too. She'll cool off sooner or later but you owe her a huge apology for spoiling HER big day. And both you and the girlfriend should take it easy on the sauce, it brings the worst out of both of you.
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