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writes:I just want to know is it normal for people to want to masturbate? Is their anything wrong with it aslong as it doesn't become excessive?I must admit I'm 14 and I find myself wanting to sometimes, I do it privately is this wrong?Cheers Reply to this Question
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reader, Dr. Mark  +, writes (24 April 2007):
TasteOfIndia -- What a great site! Thanks. Yeah, looks like I was normal at 14 for doing it 4 or 5 times a day. I wish I had known then what I know now. There was so much guilt back then, because I thought it was wrong. It wasn't so much the masturbation itself, but the thoughts that went with it. As a fundamentalist Christian back then, I thought God was judging my thoughts, and masturbation was always accompanied by pangs of guilt as soon as I "came", as though I had "looked at a woman and committed adultery with her in my heart".
Anyway, thanks for the link.
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reader, XXpussycatXX +, writes (24 April 2007):
hey there nothing wrong atall for anyone to masturbate so just relax and enjoy
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reader, jmac1344 +, writes (24 April 2007):
 Normal is it gets.
And doing it frequently just prooves you have an active sex drive.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (23 April 2007):
 Hi there, sweetness...
So normal, it's incredible! Masturbation is a perfectly healthy and wonderful way to explore sexuality. Not to mention, it's the safest sex you can have!
Check out this website: http://www.jackinworld.com
It's a website devoted to males around your age and the topic of masturbation. I think you'll find it really informative and really fun! Even I like checking out the website...
You're normal, you're healthy, you're fine!!
xxIndia
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reader, penta +, writes (23 April 2007):
 You'll have to cut & paste the URLs below -- for some reason this site isn't marking up anything beyond the '?' in the URL, and that part is required for YouTube to know which video you're requesting...
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2007): hey just relax... i am a woman of 20 and masturbation is part of my day. ha even my boyfriend knows that... hell we even do it in front of each other its that normal for me... hell if you dont do it your not normal. its as natural as having sex.
It feels good so just enjoy it ok
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reader, penta +, writes (23 April 2007):
it's natural! (cat's do it! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HAx095dwORk)
and here's a really funny video clip from a showtime show called "weeds": http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FWzOQTFwRBE
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2007): Hey, even if you are a religious person... it doesnt say anywhere in the Bible not to masturbate. You are be in fact ridding your mind of impure thoughts when you masturbate, so I would see that as good.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2007): Being wrong depends mainly if you are fundamental religious or not. If you're not, excellent, do it as often as u like. If you are however, well, that's really too bad. [wink]
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reader, deejuliet +, writes (23 April 2007):
 It is totally normal. It would be strange if you DIDNT masterbate! Most guys do it 2 or 3 times a day well into thier 20s, even if they have a partner! The only time it would be excessive is if you become so obsessed that it begins to interfere with your life and relationships. So relax, dont worry, enjoy!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (23 April 2007):
 Totally normal.
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reader, Dr. Mark +, writes (23 April 2007):
This question seems to get asked on here often. Mastrubation is perfectly normal. I'm not sure what you mean by excessive. When I was 14 I probably did it 4 or 5 times on some days. I don't know whether that would be considered excessive or not. But it doesn't really matter. The only problem with doing it too much, is that you can chafe the skin a bit from excessive friction, depending on what exactly you are doing. But it's not permanent, and you can always try a little lotion on it.
No problem, you are normal! Enjoy it, and don't stop as you get older. It's good for you!
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