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Should I ask her out in a note, so she has time to think about it?

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Question - (23 April 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 24 April 2007)
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i want to ask this friend of mine out. but this time i want to ask her out by writing it all in a letter/note.

whenever i've asked a girl out before via a friend was bad, on msn they also dont respond well.

so i thought if i write a letter and give it to her and tell her to read it in private. she'll have more time to read it and think about it.

is this a good idea? i'm 16.

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A female reader, deejuliet United States +, writes (24 April 2007):

deejuliet agony auntAsking her out by doing it in person or on the phone is much better than doing it by note, friend, or msn.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2007):

Why can't you ask her out face to face? I think that is always the best way. Be brave and positive!

Take care

xx

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (24 April 2007):

kenny agony auntI think that by asking her out in a letter will be more effective than getting a friend to do it for you. A letter is more personal, and you can get your point across, and remember things that you might have forgot if you asked her out face to face.

Good luck

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A female reader, Mandy12 United States +, writes (24 April 2007):

Well..i think a letter is actually a good idea sometimes....some ppl think writin a letter to some1 is really sweet! plus, yea itll give her time to think about it. Just make sure that u personally give it to her, dont leave it sumwhere and dont give it to her through a friend...she might think its a joke or sumthin.

Anyways, just try to think about it...I hope i helped and Good luck!

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