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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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If your partner watches porn is it natural to get turned off and start looking elsewhere?
Q. My partner watches porn and masturbates. I have found that this has turned me off of him both sexually and emotionally. My question is this: If it is just natural for men to look at other women and have urges towards them, is it just as...
A. 14 March 2012: Because at 26-29 you ARE young. The fact that you take it as an insult just proves my point sadly.
Just like we think we are mature at 16, and then at 18 and then at 21... etc.
I DID NOT become a grown up till I was 35..... even though i wa... (read in full...)
If your partner watches porn is it natural to get turned off and start looking elsewhere?
Q. My partner watches porn and masturbates. I have found that this has turned me off of him both sexually and emotionally. My question is this: If it is just natural for men to look at other women and have urges towards them, is it just as...
A. 14 March 2012: The OP said: “I think you do have a problem with it old gel, otherwise you wouldn't be getting on at me now would you!”
OP if this attack mode is how you deal with your partner that could be a big part of your problem with him….. Cerberus... (read in full...)
If your partner watches porn is it natural to get turned off and start looking elsewhere?
Q. My partner watches porn and masturbates. I have found that this has turned me off of him both sexually and emotionally. My question is this: If it is just natural for men to look at other women and have urges towards them, is it just as...
A. 14 March 2012: Well, I don’t agree with JustHelpinAgain or the OP’s last post.
To JHA: I don’t mind my man using porn and I wish we had sex more often than we do. I go after him and he turns me down and yet he still uses porn. I don’t’ get sex when I want... (read in full...)
I feel worthless as a wife because I can't offer him more!
Q. Before I dated my husband I use to date only woman . But there was something about him that caught my eye and my heart. I started dating him and I got in a serious relationship with him and we marry. Things between us was good and we were even ...
A. 2 March 2012: Annalisa makes a good point. What is the problem if you are not considering cheating…. Are you just wanting him to accept that you find women attractive? ... (read in full...)
I can't afford the surgery but I don't want to wait!
Q. I have a complicated situation. When I was 18, my kidneys failed. I lost 36 pounds, and went from a C-cup breast size to a small B/A cup. It has been 5 years since the incident, and I haven't gained any weight regardless of my many attempts to do ...
A. 1 March 2012: Chigirl is right I can be a 34C or a 36B depends on the bra... and many men say that MORE than a mouthful is a waste...... (read in full...)
Do you shave your "part" before you have sex?
Q. I asked my friend if you should shave your "part" before you have sex and she didn't know. So Im asking this site,do men like it unsaved, or shaved? I got a boyfriend and I need some advice here before we get more intense....
A. 1 March 2012: I used to shave but i hate the stubble.
I prefer to have it waxed (although more expensive and a touch painful at first) it lasts longer and less hair grows back and it does my thighs too...
the thing is not all men want clean shaven women.. ... (read in full...)
Ladies, would you go out with a guy who asked you out straight away?
Q. As the above question says, would you go out on a date with a guy who you had only met on that occasion asked you out at the end of the evening? If you perceive that as needy, if a guy fancies a girl when should he ask her out?...
A. 1 March 2012: I see no problem with it.
It's not that he came up to you out of the blue and said "I think you look hot go out with me"
he asked at the end of meeting you... how else would they ask?... (read in full...)
Is there still a spark there with him???
Q. I have been in touch with my ex boyfriend, now married. It was a bad breakup and we started to finally talk and be friends again. Well one night I get two phone calls from his wife telling me not to talk to him or text him again. I didn't pick up. ...
A. 29 February 2012: You the missing the point OP
he is MARRIED... it does not matter WHY he married her. he is MARRIED
what you had was the past. what he has now is his future...
IF you want him leave his wife and you have leave your boyfriend....
... (read in full...)
I'm afraid this model-gorgeous girl will steal my thunder at my wedding!
Q. Hi everyone! I know this is gonna sound childish and all but here's the thing: I'm getting married in a few months. It's gonna be a very intimate ceremony with just my fiancé and I plus the witnesses and a bunch of friends. Problem is, my fiancé's ...
A. 29 February 2012: IF she's really nice, laid back and fun and you know her then yes it's all in your head and you are perfectly normal.
I can PROMISE you that Angelina Jolie would not outshine you at your wedding.... there is something spectacular about a brid... (read in full...)
Starving for more in our sex life!
Q. My husband and I got married this last october. I love him more than anything but I knew from the begining that we weren't sexually compatable. This is a problem we've been dealing with for over a year. We've talked many times about what we can do ...
A. 29 February 2012: Honey you knew this was a problem when you married him....
you're doing everything you can and your drive is higher than his already. Sadly it will only get worse as you age...
has he had a medical work up to rule out medical problems?
... (read in full...)
How can I make him see that he is disgusting and needs to lose weight?
Q. I have been married to my husband for almost 25 years and we have 4 children. When we got married I weighed 135 and he weighed 180. We looked and felt great. We did alot of outdoor activities. Now I am at 160 and he is about 310. He is fat! I can ...
A. 29 February 2012: Deep sigh... I know how you feel... my now ex husband was nearly 500 pounds and finally we both went and had gastric bypass... and it was a life changing event for both of us. Sadly the marriage did not survive (folks who have had weight loss ... (read in full...)
Is going to the gym scary?
Q. Hiyaaaa, Well, I've got to a stage in my life where my body isn't going to go any slimmer and as in 6th form (college) we stopped having P.E lesson even though it wasn't exciting I still had fun and its you know exercising! I wanna start going ...
A. 29 February 2012: I love going to the gym.. I've stopped right now due to cost but when I was going I made friends and had a great time.
Folks are not going to stare because they are worried that others are staring at them...
if you don't want to talk to ... (read in full...)
Liking a friend's ex?
Q. I really.like my friend's ex-bf. They have broken up many times when they dated and got back together. They broke up again and now my friend has a new boyfriend. I'm afraid to tell her that I like her ex. But i want to tell her I like him but don't ...
A. 29 February 2012: Girl code... says you have to TALK TO HER ABOUT IT first...
seriously... you can't just date him and spring it on her...
clear it with her first but note that she will not be the friend to go to when you fight... she will not be the friend to... (read in full...)
Is there still a spark there with him???
Q. I have been in touch with my ex boyfriend, now married. It was a bad breakup and we started to finally talk and be friends again. Well one night I get two phone calls from his wife telling me not to talk to him or text him again. I didn't pick up. ...
A. 29 February 2012: Ugh, WHY does it matter what she thinks or what he thinks or does?
YOU have a boyfriend… He is MARRIED! What part of this are you not connecting the dots to? WHY in the world do so many folks think it’s ok to be friends with an ex? They are ... (read in full...)
I feel sometimes that I treat my girlfriend like a comfort blanket.
Q. I am a very self-oriented person who enjoys my own and other people's company, striking a balance between these two depending on how I feel. I love other people's company, but only when it suits me. I am the most important person in my life. My g...
A. 29 February 2012: Being the most important person in your life means you will be very lonely at times.
YOU CAN change but you have to want to change. At this point you don’t want to.
Read what Honeypie wrote. A relationship is not 50/50 or 80/20 it’s 100/1... (read in full...)
If your partner watches porn is it natural to get turned off and start looking elsewhere?
Q. My partner watches porn and masturbates. I have found that this has turned me off of him both sexually and emotionally. My question is this: If it is just natural for men to look at other women and have urges towards them, is it just as...
A. 29 February 2012: Ah well your update is more telling… so he comes to bed after whacking off alone downstairs and doesn’t want to touch you at all… yep that’s a problem AND there’s a double standard where you are not allowed to look at porn but he is? THAT is ... (read in full...)
I don't want to move to another country if it's just going to lead to heartbreak
Q. I am 25 and my boyfriend is 18, we've been together for almost 18 months, and I was his first and only sexual partner. It's a very long distance relationship, and we've had our share of problems but we managed to work through them. He had been ...
A. 29 February 2012: six weeks is a very long visit...
heck 2 weeks is a long time.
he's very young to be so sure to be tied down.. in this day and age especially.
and with an LDR it's worse.
I would not move. I would guard your heart carefully as well..... (read in full...)
Suddenly he wants Fridays to himself, leaving us with only Saturday! I don't like this!
Q. Okay so me and my bf have been together for about 1 and a 1/2 years, and for the longest time we have always spent time together on Friday and Saturday, but the following week my bf likes to host a poker game where a bunch of guys come over to play ...
A. 29 February 2012: Oh dear, honey you are so young to be saddled with someone that gets so drunk so often that you worry he will end up naked drinking someone’s puke….
Think long and hard about what a prize you have in this man and think about if you want to be wo... (read in full...)
Why is he looking at sites with girl's underwear???
Q. I know I'll probably be raked over the coals for this one because snooping is such a big invasion of privacy and betrayal of trust but here it goes. My boyfriend of four years has been over my apartment recently and he uses my laptop when I go to ...
A. 29 February 2012: My fiance often looks at women's underwear sites... he's been known to buy some both before we were together and now too.
I think you need to ask him what's up.
for us it was that before we were together he liked to buy it for himself... no... (read in full...)
I can't afford the surgery but I don't want to wait!
Q. I have a complicated situation. When I was 18, my kidneys failed. I lost 36 pounds, and went from a C-cup breast size to a small B/A cup. It has been 5 years since the incident, and I haven't gained any weight regardless of my many attempts to do ...
A. 29 February 2012: Aside from the cost have you figured in the down time for surgery? I had plastic surgery this summer it was the worst surgery of my life. I had a mastopexy without implants and I had drains for nearly 2 weeks in each breast. The pain killers ... (read in full...)
I can't imagine leaving my family to move to be with my boyfriend!
Q. Hey all, I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now, he's a US Marine and is currently stationed in Hawaii and I am in NY. He is done with his contract around the same time I am graduating from college. He has asked me to move to North Dakota ...
A. 29 February 2012: As someone who knows and loves NY if you live anywhere near the city ND will be a huge shock for you.
Will he be living at home in ND or will the oil rigs require him to be onsite and away from home?
Just remember you have to live your life f... (read in full...)
Should I dump this guy and get on with my life?
Q. Ive being in a relationship for the last 15 month. He is 7 years older than me not that you would think it as he quite immature for his age. He told me he has being in a relationship and lived with someone and that he got hurt. I have no evidence...
A. 29 February 2012: “he’s quite immature for his age”
“it’s his business and wont’ talk about it”
“I have never met his family” (after 15 months of dating and he lives with a grandparent)
“he puts me down a lot”
“he seems jealous”
“we have broken up a... (read in full...)
Suddenly he wants Fridays to himself, leaving us with only Saturday! I don't like this!
Q. Okay so me and my bf have been together for about 1 and a 1/2 years, and for the longest time we have always spent time together on Friday and Saturday, but the following week my bf likes to host a poker game where a bunch of guys come over to play ...
A. 29 February 2012: I think you are being very high maintenance here. Are you worried he’s cheating??? He’s not asking to NOT see you, he’s asking for some regularly scheduled down time. Friday nights for him and the bros and the rest of the weekend for you? Seems ... (read in full...)
What advise can I give my friend?
Q. Dear Cupid, my girlfriend has been in an relationship with a married man for ten yrs. now she's also married. 2wks ago they were out of town together in a hotel. The guy paid for the room with his credit card and his wife tracked the hotel and ...
A. 29 February 2012: You give no advice. She's a grown woman making her own choices. Just because her choices are bad does not mean you have to comment on them. ... (read in full...)
My ex is insulting me! What should I do?
Q. Hello Dear-Cupid-Team, I'm having trouble with my ex. When i met him he was a real Mr Right but then he dumped me because of his ex. After that incident he totally cut me of. I found out he cheated on me - what he is doing at the moment with his...
A. 29 February 2012: Ignore him. Have your BF ignore him. HE will stop. But you both have to TOTALLY IGNORE it. It will take a while.
He’s behaving like a child and you need to be the grown up folks here. I know it bothers you but it will be best if you just ign... (read in full...)
My ex is insulting me! What should I do?
Q. Hello Dear-Cupid-Team, I'm having trouble with my ex. When i met him he was a real Mr Right but then he dumped me because of his ex. After that incident he totally cut me of. I found out he cheated on me - what he is doing at the moment with his...
A. 29 February 2012: Ignore him. Have your BF ignore him. HE will stop. But you both have to TOTALLY IGNORE it. It will take a while.
He’s behaving like a child and you need to be the grown up folks here. I know it bothers you but it will be best if you just ign... (read in full...)
I was trying to be friends with my ex, then he started yelling at me!
Q. So i was dating this guy and we dated for about 3 months then we broke up and we agreed to be "friends" as almost every couple do and then about 2 weeks ago he text-ed me saying shut up because i said hey sup then we went on and he just kept ...
A. 29 February 2012: I hate to break it to you but most adults I know do NOT agree to be friends with exs. They are an ex for a reason. Your friends are right.. IGNORE HIM. Delete his info and get on with life…... (read in full...)
My boyfriend never calls and it's starting to bother me.
Q. I know this isn't a life altering issue or anything, but it's starting to really bother me. My boyfriend and I spend a lot of time together and we text every day. We rarely talk on the phone- maybe once a week. When we talk, and the conversation ...
A. 29 February 2012: you see him every day or so
he texts you
he's into you
the ONLY thing missing for you is phone time....
I'd let it go he's just not a phone guy... (read in full...)
Have I given her the message that I'm only looking for something casual?
Q. Hey guys, could do with some advice here. Main question - do you think if you sleep with a girl on 2nd date that means you give the impression you're not that interested in a relationship/serious thing, but moreso a casual thing? I met this gir...
A. 29 February 2012: Talk to her and ask her what she is thinking and let her know how you feel.
I married a man I slept with on the first date... it happens.... (read in full...)
I feel worthless as a wife because I can't offer him more!
Q. Before I dated my husband I use to date only woman . But there was something about him that caught my eye and my heart. I started dating him and I got in a serious relationship with him and we marry. Things between us was good and we were even ...
A. 29 February 2012: Leave the marriage. Your feelings are not a sin. Your drives are who you are and what make you who you are.
I am bisexual. I am with a man now who is perfectly content to encourage me to find a woman to have a physical relationship with... ... (read in full...)
I feel like an outsider after our discussion about wills and money!
Q. HI guys. I have posted questions on here before and had some really good advice so hope you can help. To cut a long story short, I have been with my partner almost four years and we are reasonably happy. It started out long distant but i mo...
A. 29 February 2012: Yeah I’d be upset too. I’m sorry but if you live together you are a couple and you are and should be treated as the defacto spouse.
IF you sell your house and move into a new home together then when he dies it should become YOURS… not his kids... (read in full...)
Can someone really be ready to marry after only three months?
Q. So I posted on here a while ago and the advice was pretty good so I wanted some opinions on something else. Basically I was in a relationship and through no fault of hers I moved away making it an LDR and this put a strain on the relationship to the ...
A. 29 February 2012: I know couples that married after 6 weeks and that was over 30 years ago...
I knew pretty much by month three that I was going to marry husband #1.... so yea I think it's perfectly reasonable to know you want to marry someone early out.... (read in full...)
If your partner watches porn is it natural to get turned off and start looking elsewhere?
Q. My partner watches porn and masturbates. I have found that this has turned me off of him both sexually and emotionally. My question is this: If it is just natural for men to look at other women and have urges towards them, is it just as...
A. 29 February 2012: Unlike most of the women on this site, I don’t think your response is normal or natural.
I am a 52 year old woman and I think that porn is perfectly fine. I have no problem with my partner looking at porn, I have no problem with my partner ... (read in full...)
How can she love us both equally?
Q. If a women says she can't choose between 2 Men because she says she's in love with both so when I got out of my relationship and told her 2 Make a choice the other guy is her fiancé so she got so upset that she couldn't go 2 work for over a week she ...
A. 29 February 2012: I left my marriage for a single man. We get engaged tonight. It happens. I wanted to keep both but my husband could not cope.
It's not a good situation and I feel like a total failure...
What concerns me is HIS FAMILY tried to make he... (read in full...)
Is it fine to casually date two women before choosing whom I want to be with? Does that make me a player?
Q. After a tough break up last year, I've been only getting out to start dating now. I met one lady at start of February, I've met her 4 other times now, even cooked her breakfast. I met another girl two weeks ago, that wouldn't work out. I met another ...
A. 28 February 2012: Again I think we have to DEFINE DATING:
Wikipedia says:
Dating is a form of courtship consisting of social activities done by two persons with the aim of each assessing the other's suitability as a partner in an intimate relationship or ... (read in full...)
My fiance wont have sex with me, so how do I reduce my sex drive?
Q. I am a 20 year old male and im posting this because i simply do not know what to do with m y fiance. her sex drive is low and mine is pretty high. We have been together for 2 years so far.We started having sex pretty early in the relationship and ...
A. 28 February 2012: You can’t lower a sex drive as it’s internal. You can masturbate to relieve the tension but it’s not the same thing. IF you were sexual before and now are not, you need to consider that you’re not sexually compatible…. IF you think that it will ... (read in full...)
The 'Honeymoon' phase in relationships....
Q. Hi, Can I ask for honeymoon period in a relationship, how long does it usually range from? And what are the symptoms that one is still in honeymoon period? Thanks....
A. 28 February 2012: Honeymoon phase will vary from relationship to relationship.
how long also varies.
The best way to know you are in a honeymoon stage:
you don't fight
you think your partner can do no wrong
you diss your other friends to be with your pa... (read in full...)
We stopped fooling around but to my surprise we still see each other. Does this mean he respects me? Or does it mean he is no longer interested in me sexually?
Q. i'm in a situation with a guy which first started off as a flirtation. we fooled around a few times (pg rated stuff) but i've pulled away from that and expected him to ignore me since he wasn't getting what he wanted. surprisingly though we still ...
A. 28 February 2012: or all of the above.
we have no clue and neither do you
just don't do anything you don't think you should
enjoy the time together and if you stop enjoying it then stop spending time with him.... (read in full...)
My relationship is boring! any advice?
Q. Been with my girlfriend for 2 years. I just told her that I found us to be boring because frankly everything has been soo plain and a routine. I told her these exact same words and she said "well what are you gonna do" in a way like if she has no ...
A. 28 February 2012: IF everything is so plain and boring then what are YOU doing to make it more exciting?
IF she is happy and content with the way things are why is it up to her to fix your problem? She’s right it is up to you to fix yourself.
IF you feel annoyed ... (read in full...)
18 months..how much longer do I have to wait?
Q. So this is a really long and confusing question but here it goes. I have been in a relationship with a guy who is separated but not completely divorced for about a year and a half. When I met him he had already moved out and was not living or sl...
A. 28 February 2012: have you been to his home? do you have his home office and cell numbers?
to be honest, in my state there is no legal separation you are either married or you are not. I was told by my lawyer the first time to NOT be seen in public with any... (read in full...)
What is wrong with my ex boyfriend? Does he have a split personality?
Q. Hi, I broke up with my exbf September last year because he said he just wanted to have fun with me and he didn't need serious relationship with me because he has too many girlfriends. Afterward, I dated a new guy, and now I have a new bf who really ...
A. 28 February 2012: he is manipulative and he does NOT love you. He only loves himself and he's being selfish with his behavior.
IGNORE HIM and get on with your life. He's an EX for a reason.... (read in full...)
Why is my boyfriend taking so long to reply to my texts?
Q. my boyfriend used to text me back instantly after i text him then over time it started taking him longer and longer to reply even after school now it takes him between thirty minutes to an hour to reply to each text it really bugs me because we are ...
A. 28 February 2012: have you met this boyfriend?
my red flags are waving very very VERY hard right now sweetie...
he can't speak on the phone because he's a mute is one of the oldest tricks in the books used by predators...
... (read in full...)
I'm scared that things are going to change when my boyfriend goes to college, or he'll fall for some college girl, or his feelings will change
Q. So, I'm now 17, and my boyfriend is 18. As everyone should know, school will be coming to an end soon, and he will go to college. The thing is he will be going to college out of the city, (155mi away). I know it's not a big number, but I don't know ...
A. 28 February 2012: Sadly, your fears are well founded but there is NOT much you can do about it. MOST teen relationships do not survive into adulthood, Being apart for college has no bearing on it. You could be together 24/7 and after a few years you will grow ... (read in full...)
All she can talk about is her b/f and it's wearing thin
Q. Ok, so I'm a 15 year old girl and am experiencing, 'issues' with my best friend. Around five months ago my friend got together with a boy that she really liked, and she's really happy with him. At first I was really happy for her, but now, not so ...
A. 28 February 2012: if you are the only friend she can talk about it to then you are in a special position as she needs to work through the whole thing. It's new to her too..
you should tell her it's annoying and tell her that she needs to stop keeping him a secret s... (read in full...)
I am worried it is over.
Q. I feel so helpless and depressed and lost. I started dating a guy and we went out on a few dates..everything was going well now he has stopped calling. Before then we emailed each other a lot for a few months before we met (we had met online). ...
A. 28 February 2012: Learn from this. Respect yourself, use this as a growth experience and move forward. Do not give yourself so freely, either emotionally or physically to someone until you are sure they return those feelings. It's harder to do it than to say it ... (read in full...)
Isn't there usually a spark when you're dating?
Q. A few weeks ago, I started seeing this guy named Alex. He's a good friend of my best friend. She set me up with him. He turned out to be really nice, funny, cute, and we have a lot in common. Even though I had fun with him, there's just not...
A. 28 February 2012: “we had a spark the first moment we met. The best kind of love usually happens like that right? Or no?”
I vote for NO. Sometimes love grows and builds over time… let’s talk about fires in terms of love.
Think of a flash fire… it’ starts l... (read in full...)
I am worried it is over.
Q. I feel so helpless and depressed and lost. I started dating a guy and we went out on a few dates..everything was going well now he has stopped calling. Before then we emailed each other a lot for a few months before we met (we had met online). ...
A. 27 February 2012: He’s just not that into you honey… Read the first thing Eddie Said “men will move heaven and earth to stay in touch with a woman who captures his fancy” He’s right. I never understood it till I saw it in action. I had a FWB who fell in love ... (read in full...)
Is it fine to casually date two women before choosing whom I want to be with? Does that make me a player?
Q. After a tough break up last year, I've been only getting out to start dating now. I met one lady at start of February, I've met her 4 other times now, even cooked her breakfast. I met another girl two weeks ago, that wouldn't work out. I met another ...
A. 27 February 2012: As long as you are not pretending you are monogamous with them and are above board and honest about what's going on I see no problem with it.
UNLIKE CHIGIRL I however think kissing is just fine (as long as they know that they are not your one and ... (read in full...)
How can she love us both equally?
Q. If a women says she can't choose between 2 Men because she says she's in love with both so when I got out of my relationship and told her 2 Make a choice the other guy is her fiancé so she got so upset that she couldn't go 2 work for over a week she ...
A. 17 February 2012: It's very possible to love more than one man.
You love more than one child... you love more than one parent... why can't you love more than one partner?
I was in that situation last year and had my then husband been able to cope I would have... (read in full...)
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