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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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He texts me with smiley faces. Does he want to pursue a relationship?
Q. So I met this guy who's really nice and very similar to me. I have known him for a few months prior. We both bluntly state that we are extremely attracted to one another. We had a really nice night talking and had some fun with making out and ...
A. 27 February 2012: So glad it went well!... (read in full...)
He texts me with smiley faces. Does he want to pursue a relationship?
Q. So I met this guy who's really nice and very similar to me. I have known him for a few months prior. We both bluntly state that we are extremely attracted to one another. We had a really nice night talking and had some fun with making out and ...
A. 25 February 2012: FAB-U-LOUS! Have a lovely time!
Don't INSIST that you pay for him, but I think OFFERING ONCE is perfectly fine.
Keep us posted.... (read in full...)
I ran from my ex girlfriend! Did I do the right thing?
Q. Hello. I had an encounter with my ex, on a city bus. Now, she's the dumper. I'm scared of her, as she lied to me, and such. Anyways, I got off the bus, and, I find out she got off at the same stop. Now, I attend the same school as her (But, thankf...
A. 24 February 2012: Oh do nothing and ignore them and they will go away.... (read in full...)
How do I get through to my wife that we are over?
Q. So around 10days ago, i posted a question about myself and my wife, but we have since separated as a result of constant fights over what was so pointless and petty. But, she will not just let me be, i ask her and tell her that things are over,...
A. 24 February 2012: There’s a song that says “Cruel to be kind” being “a bastard” to her now (by being firm and holding your ground) in the long run is the kinder thing to do as she will get over it faster than if you drag it out and give her hope.
Best to you O... (read in full...)
He put pictures up on Facebook of his ex wives, am I right to be upset by this or am I over-reacting?
Q. My boyfriend has recently put a couple of photos of his ex wives on his phone, and his FB timeline. I was a bit shocked when I saw them. His explanation was that they were a part of his past and he wanted them there. I found this odd, I too have ex ...
A. 24 February 2012: Yep Miamine is right… facebook is forcing this.
And I see NO Problem with using a printout of this site as a jumping off point for discussion.
And his response is JUST FINE in my opinion… and OP it’s clear he cares about you and wants to... (read in full...)
What sort of Mom says these things to her own daughter! Advice, please!
Q. So I'm a 21 year old woman who still lives with her parents. I've always had horrible self-esteem. I very rarely see myself as beautiful, and it feels like calling myself pretty is pushing it a little. I always get compliments on my hair, my own ...
A. 23 February 2012: Yoda says "do or do not there is no try"
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I cant go to senior prom with my G/f because of the age limit and so her ex is taking her but I know he still has feelings for her. I don't trust this guy and I don't know what to do
Q. hi agony aunts, i am in a relationship with an 18 year old girl. I am 22. the problem is that her senior prom is coming up, and we can't go together because her school has a stupid age limit, you can't go if you're over 21. so anyway, a gu...
A. 23 February 2012: I have nothing to add.. Cindy Cares said it all
they have the age limit for a reason... it's mostly about the legalities of dating under 18 so they just set it across the board.. and under 21 can't buy liquor either...
you don't have to tr... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is seriously misinterpreting stuff from my Facebook
Q. My boyfriend is upset over a message he found on my Facebook. I went to starbucks a couple of months ago and a friend I had not seen in a while was working there, he asked to exchange numbers and then contacted me shortly on Facebook. We would ...
A. 23 February 2012: What I don’t get is why would you say “we should hang out soon” if you had NO intention of ever meeting up with him?
You need to delete the friend and/or facebook and go to your BF and explain it all to him and show him you deleted it and try to w... (read in full...)
Dating a sexually suggestive woman, how do I turn her on without scaring her off?
Q. I recently started somewhat seeing a slightly older woman and yesterday she was fairly sexually suggestive with her texts, but not sexting. Instead, I played along and made her laugh a lot with my sexual humor. Of course this tells me she is more ...
A. 23 February 2012: if you have to work that hard to be what you are not isn't it exhausting?... (read in full...)
I wish my B/f saw me as one of those ideal girls in dude movies with "big boobs/skinny waist/big butt/slim thighs", instead of the cute girl next door
Q. I always feel so insecure about my body, it's so stupid... I even get really nervous and anxious when watching movies with my boyfriend, especially the type of "dude" movies where lots of perfect boobs are shown. I never say anything in front of ...
A. 23 February 2012: OH dear I so get what you are saying. These women are NOT perfect.
And yes the truth is all your feelings are in your head. Many men like big thighs and big butts.. and say “more than a mouthful is a waste” about boobs….. so to be honest… ... (read in full...)
Have we broken up or are we still in a relationship? Should I ask him what is going on?
Q. My boyfriend and I had always arguments and he always ended up calling me names. But I always tolerated but recently I am so intolerant to his behavior so I said I want to break up with him. He said he is ready too. But after a while he called me ...
A. 23 February 2012: He always called you names... and you took it... that's not loving behavior on his part
consider yourselves broken up and move on find a man that treats you properly.... (read in full...)
He can handle longer sessions.....so what am I doing wrong when he finishes quickly?
Q. Not really sure how to ask this.... sometimes my boyfriend will cum two or three times in a row and we can usually go at it for like an hour. othertimes it only last like 10 minutes. am i doing something wrong when its only 10 minutes? his body can...
A. 23 February 2012: YOU are not doing anything wrong.
Bodies pretty much do what they want... sometimes it takes longer or shorter for anyone to have an orgasm... does not mean their partner is the one at fault.
it doesn't mean anything other than it was a qu... (read in full...)
He claims his chatting with his ex was harmless, but it really hurts me. Who is in the right here?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 18 months, and I love him dearly. A few months ago I found messages on his Facebook between him and an ex. The contents upset me as they were flirting, although nothing too major. I told him how I felt, and he ...
A. 23 February 2012: You are wrong for snooping. But something made you think you had to.
He is wrong for leading his ex on with that kind of talk and keeping it from you.
If he knows it upsets you and has truly deleted his facebook page and ends contact wit... (read in full...)
I gave him oral sex on the 4th date and now he has stopped contacting me, are my fears of him never contacting me again correct?
Q. I know that getting physical too soon especially if you are just dating and the guy is not your boyfriend is not the best way to go. However, I have been on 4 dates with this guy and on the fourth date gave him oral sex. I said some stuff that may ...
A. 23 February 2012: YOU GAVE HIM... what did HE give you? if it was one sided then yeah he's probably a user and gone....
it's a bit soon to think he has gone :poof: but it's possible...
if you don't hear from him in a week or so give him a call (DO NOT TEXT) ... (read in full...)
I met someone else, so how do I let him down gently?
Q. I met this guy towards the end of last year but then we stopped talking, it just fizzled out. But about two weeks ago he contacted me again and we have been flirting and planning to go out with each other sometime. The thing is, I met this guy but I ...
A. 23 February 2012: Are you in a committed relationship with this other guy?
If you are not what us old folks call "going steady" then I can't see why you can't explore your options and see both of them as long as you are honest with them that it's not a serious ... (read in full...)
How do I get through to my wife that we are over?
Q. So around 10days ago, i posted a question about myself and my wife, but we have since separated as a result of constant fights over what was so pointless and petty. But, she will not just let me be, i ask her and tell her that things are over,...
A. 23 February 2012: It’s clear the marriage is dead. She will get it in time… she needs to grieve her loss (as do you but you probably started that process long before you actually left)
Anastasia is correct about the stages of grief and even though it’s about de... (read in full...)
Is it really "no big deal" for married women to have crushes on other men?
Q. I would really be interested in hearing from married women on this one. What does it mean when your wife seems to be very smitten with a husband of a couple we are becoming friends with? Do I have a right to be upset? Or, should I just relax and ...
A. 23 February 2012: Ya know there is a good point being made here and that is this:
A person can have a crush. That's fine. BUT they should NOT DO anything to further the crush... no lunches alone (if it's work and you go with a group I see no problem with it)
N... (read in full...)
I've found out that I'm bi, from talking with this girl ... who has a girlfriend. Help?
Q. Hi agony aunts. Well I've recently found out that I'm bi.. Because of this girl. We met via twitter (we've like talked and skyped I know she's real don't worry...) and she only lives in the next state over. First we were friends, but now I really ...
A. 23 February 2012: It sounds like you have a girl crush... perfectly normal.
and like Mandy has said it does not mean you are bi.
do you think about her sexually? do you guys have sexual talk? if so she's cheating on her gf already.
just because you ha... (read in full...)
Dating a sexually suggestive woman, how do I turn her on without scaring her off?
Q. I recently started somewhat seeing a slightly older woman and yesterday she was fairly sexually suggestive with her texts, but not sexting. Instead, I played along and made her laugh a lot with my sexual humor. Of course this tells me she is more ...
A. 23 February 2012: How about if you just be yourself since it's gotten you this far???
What works for one person may not work for another. Not all women will find the same thing a turn on...
if she's being sexual with you then I doubt anything you say short of... (read in full...)
Why am I so heavy on my feet when I walk?
Q. Ever since I can remember, I've had knee problems. I only found out a year and a half ago that I am flat footed also. I did some research and found out that my knee problems may have stemmed from my flat footedness. However, what I am really ...
A. 23 February 2012: I am flat footed. I was born that way... I can't imagine how you didn't know before hand to be honest... unless you have what i have which is a flexible flat foot... which means it LOOKS like there is an arch when you are not standing... but i ... (read in full...)
He put pictures up on Facebook of his ex wives, am I right to be upset by this or am I over-reacting?
Q. My boyfriend has recently put a couple of photos of his ex wives on his phone, and his FB timeline. I was a bit shocked when I saw them. His explanation was that they were a part of his past and he wanted them there. I found this odd, I too have ex ...
A. 23 February 2012: If he JUST did it I'd be pissed too... if they were already there I'd not be upset.
I'd wonder why ALL OF A SUDDEN it's important.... (read in full...)
Should I move back home or stay with my boyfriend?
Q. Hey :) I moved away from home 4.5 years ago to come to uni. Although i finished uni in 2010, I ended up staying here. I've been with my boyfriend for about a year but we dont live together. I live with a friend, but my boyfriend and I are trying to ...
A. 23 February 2012: 2 hours is not a long time. Here where I live some folks commute 90 minutes each way to work...
I just finished and LDR where we were 2 hours apart by car. Once we got serious, we saw each other every weekend....
IF the only issue you h... (read in full...)
Is it really "no big deal" for married women to have crushes on other men?
Q. I would really be interested in hearing from married women on this one. What does it mean when your wife seems to be very smitten with a husband of a couple we are becoming friends with? Do I have a right to be upset? Or, should I just relax and ...
A. 23 February 2012: IF she never does anything about it... then I see nothing wrong with it.
She's married not dead. I've seen married men have crushes too... so while YOUR make up is not to have crushes because you are married... some men do. Just like some mar... (read in full...)
How do I get through to my wife that we are over?
Q. So around 10days ago, i posted a question about myself and my wife, but we have since separated as a result of constant fights over what was so pointless and petty. But, she will not just let me be, i ask her and tell her that things are over,...
A. 23 February 2012: It's less than two weeks since you separated.
I'm assuming she had no idea you were going to do this and that you have moved out... (please correct me if I am wrong)
IF you were married a long time she needs to adjust. It will take months... (read in full...)
He seems off with me...is it because I live far away?
Q. Well me and this guy have been talking for a while, the distance is a bit far (an hour), he seems so sweet and just so perfect! he also said that to me too! problem is, is that we've never met.. he texted me the other day saying 'i feel like we have ...
A. 22 February 2012: an HOUR is not long distance in my book.
I just finished an LDR where he was 2 hours by car... we are now together full time but if it had been an hour... I'm not sure he would have had to move...
how come you are not meeting if you are j... (read in full...)
Too soon to date?
Q. hi. just need advice on dating after serious relationship! Basically i was with my ex for four years and we have a daughter together. i finished with him 3 and a half months ago, coz i was sick of his drink problem and lies. he is getting help aga...
A. 22 February 2012: IMO it's not too soon to begin casually dating others...
my father was dating 3 months after my mother died...
I've always gone by the "as soon as you feel ready"
with my first husband when we broke up I was ready within months...
wit... (read in full...)
I'm insecure about my penis size and terrified of being called "small". Is it okay to want a woman who doesn't have a past so that she don't compare my size to others?
Q. Im a 21 year old virgin guy and lately ive been trying to figure out what I want in a girlfriend before I know for sure that im ready to have sex. While trying to figured things out for myself ive realized something. I have female friends that joke ...
A. 22 February 2012: I am so glad we are making progress in getting you to relax
one caveat... do NOT put a time frame (year long) on anything.... let things just happen naturally... you will know when it feels right... it might feel right after say 6 or 9 months ... (read in full...)
I keep having dreams of my partner cheating on me
Q. i'm in my early 50's divorced almost 9yrs. and can finially say to some that i'm gay. i just started my first relationship 5 months ago, he's 39. i keep having dreams of him cheating and lying to me. prior to this we've were friends the last 4yrs.i ...
A. 22 February 2012: Congrats on finding a parter! you guys have the same gap as us... I'm 13 years older than my guy...
the dreams you are having are your own insecurities and fears.... they are not premonitions or facts.
why do you not trust him? why are... (read in full...)
Should I ask him about his relationship with his ex?
Q. So my boyfriend I am now seeing are planning on getting married in the near future. He moved from alabama to north dakota and thats when I met him. But as I was creeping on his facebook wall and looking at his pictures I noticed that he is still ...
A. 22 February 2012: how long have you known this boyfriend that you plan to marry in the near future?
"creeping on his facebook wall" is that like spying on him?
I'm still friends with my ex husband on facebook... btw doesn't mean much. I'm also friends with my ... (read in full...)
After 10 months of being together, having sex, bf still hasn't said those 3 little words
Q. What if you and your boyfriend have been dating for 10 months then loose your virginity to each other and yet we still didn't say "I love you"? He believes to love someone you have to be with them for the rest of your life,but that was at the ...
A. 22 February 2012: why don't you just tell him.
dropping hints? that's a game.
you need to tell him "I love you" and I need to know where we stand....
but you need to be prepared for him to say "thank you"
and not "I love you too"
stop playing ga... (read in full...)
Should I still be sleeping with my ex?
Q. My ex boyfriend and I broke up two months ago, but were still good friends. We hang out regularly and its not awkward at all. He will call me up just to chat, surprise me with dinner and ice cream and even bought me chocolates the other day. We s...
A. 22 February 2012: YOu have morphed into FWB...
STOP sleeping with him at bare minimum. Personally I would cut contact all together and make a clean break.... (read in full...)
After only 2 months my girlfriend cheated on me. Do I end things?
Q. So I found out yesterday that my girlfriend cheated on me! I took her virginity but still she slept with another guy only 2 months after I took it. I know she was a virgin because she's inexperienced and she bleed the first time we had sex. Also, it ...
A. 22 February 2012: if you can't trust her then it's time to move on.... (read in full...)
Should I break up with him on his birthday?
Q. Should I break up with my boyfriend? A little background on me: I'm 16. I dated a really sweet guy for a year, then we broke up, I started dating my current boyfriend, who is also a very sweet guy. We've been dating for 10 months now. The...
A. 22 February 2012: DO NOT break up with him on his birthday...
If it's in a few days celebrate it the best you can with him and then as soon as you can you must tell him that you really can't be his girlfriend anymore.
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How can my husband say he cares but he wants someone else?
Q. This is long but I need help! I have been married for almost 10 years with 3 kids. I know all relationships have ups n downs. Here's my story! We have had many great times and also are down times. He plays in a band, works full time his own busi...
A. 22 February 2012: It wasn’t long at all. My dad had a midlife crisis and moved out for a few months and had a girlfriend. My mom forgave him and he came home… they were married 25 years when it happened and they had 21 more together before she died. She forgave ... (read in full...)
How can I calm my girlfriend down without stirring up her temper?
Q. Hello everyone I've been having a lot of rough times with my girlfriend and one main problem seems to reoccur a lot is the fact when it comes to us arguing it never stops. She says it's because I'm an idiot I have no idea how to do anything righ...
A. 22 February 2012: “She says it's because I'm an idiot I have no idea how to do anything right and she does all things things to help me and I always find a way to mess it up somehow.”
OP why are you with this woman???
She calls you an idiot
She says ... (read in full...)
He texts me with smiley faces. Does he want to pursue a relationship?
Q. So I met this guy who's really nice and very similar to me. I have known him for a few months prior. We both bluntly state that we are extremely attracted to one another. We had a really nice night talking and had some fun with making out and ...
A. 22 February 2012: He may be interested in a relationship or he may think that since you already told him you are interested that he can get sex without having to put much effort into it....
I agree with Mandy however that you need to back off and let him come aft... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's comment about my short hair is she gay, or does she like men and women ? has left me feeling really bad!
Q. I'm hurt by a comment that my boyfriend's friend made. When my boyfriend showed him my photo, he said " is she gay, or does she like men and women ? ". He said that just because i have very short hair!. It's a pixie style hair cut.I feel really self ...
A. 22 February 2012: I love a pixie hair cut and have worn one on and off since I was a child… it can be very feminine and your boyfriend’s friend is a JERK…
Why is the comment of a friend once removed that you clearly don’t even know hurting you so badly?
... (read in full...)
My girlfriend will ruin my life if I leave her. How do I get out of this?
Q. My girlfriend is completely obsessed with me. If I leave her she will ruin my life. I think the only way to make her fall out of love with me is to tell her that im convinced that im seriousely gay even though im not. What can I do that will make ...
A. 22 February 2012: Please elaborate on how this woman will ruin your life if you leave her?
I think you are being a bit dramatic…
And LIES are never a good thing.
You need to be a man and tell the truth not make up some stupid lie. You’re not 16.
... (read in full...)
I love him but I'm not ready for marriage or a baby, how do I tell him this?
Q. I have been dating an older guy for almost a year now, when it first started it was just two people hooking up in the bedroom. I know that it was wrong but we were both having fun and I never thought it would last long or amount to anything. After a ...
A. 22 February 2012:
It was NOT wrong if you were both single and over 18 to be “hooking up in the bedroom” two adults can easily make that decision…. And it’s perfectly fine…
You have a 12 year gap… my fiancé and I started out as FWB and I am a bit more than 13... (read in full...)
Whatever happened to amicably breaking up??!
Q. Hi guys. I have posted on here before recently. I have had a horrible time recently. Me and my bf broke up in December after I had a miscarriage in November. Basically he wasn’t really there for me and I was really going through it and I pretty much ...
A. 22 February 2012: do not sign anything over to him.
IF he wants to buy you out by paying you half of what the house is worth then you could do that but otherwise just be calm and cool and perhaps seek a lawyer to get advice to protect your interests.... (read in full...)
Why was I bleeding after anal sex?
Q. My hubby and I have been having anal sex for about 5.5 years and I have never bled as badly as I did last night. A lot of online articles talk about fissures and friction but after anal there was as much blood in the toilet as if I had my period? ...
A. 22 February 2012: Yes you need to see the doctor... if the blood was bright red it's probably that you have internal hemorrhoids that were ruptured.... (read in full...)
I ran from my ex girlfriend! Did I do the right thing?
Q. Hello. I had an encounter with my ex, on a city bus. Now, she's the dumper. I'm scared of her, as she lied to me, and such. Anyways, I got off the bus, and, I find out she got off at the same stop. Now, I attend the same school as her (But, thankf...
A. 22 February 2012: You are scared of her because she lied to you? Did she abuse you in some way? Has she attacked you in the past?
If you go to the same school and she's never physically abused you then I think being polite is the best way to go...
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Would you be put off a guy who said his son was "just a baby I made"?
Q. I'm dating a man who is a lot older than me, and he has a son who is a year younger than i am . He hasn't had much contact with his ex wife since they got divorced 23 years ago. He also hasn't seen his son much since his son was three years old. He ...
A. 22 February 2012: OMG that's horrible.
I have two children. I divorced their dad when they were 3 and 5. when they were 5 and 7 they went to live with dad full time with his new wife (their stepmom)
I am not the best mother and have very little contact w... (read in full...)
I don't know if I can deal with a guy being so messy and home stinking that way so I told him and now he hasn't contacted me
Q. I met this guy which he is very nice and good looking. I like him a lot. We have dated several and I enjoyed his company. We even spend the weekend at the coast nothing happen since we both brought our kids to enjoyed ourself. We have alot of ...
A. 22 February 2012: Nope no apology needed on your end.
You told him his house made you sick and he blew you off.
more than likely he's embarrassed about the smell and the mess but he has no coping skills to work with it...
I had to give up my dogs to be wi... (read in full...)
Fiance called off our wedding and there was no warning! Help!
Q. Yesterday, my fiance called off our wedding. I never before believed the people who say 'It came totally out of the blue'. 'Surely', I used to think 'there must have been signs. Arguments, tensions, disagreements, pressure. Things that led ...
A. 22 February 2012: I was going to reply sooner but I was formulating my response to not sound harsh... Youwish was able to do it for me.
the part that irks me about his requests is that he does not want you to tell others so he doesn't look bad.
TOUGH TOENAIL... (read in full...)
I don't want to leave my husband but I feel unhappy and unfulfilled due to my feelings for my friend.....
Q. I'm a married mother of one and I'm struggling with my feelings for someone I work with. When he first started at my work, I didn't talk to him much. I thought he was ok looking, kind of my type but I wasnt really interested. I knew he had a gi...
A. 22 February 2012: AH the dreaded WORK crush… BTDT… actually watched a tv show last night (a comedy) with just that topic… Work crushes are very very very common… I used to refer to one guy as my “work husband” but then his wife and my husband were both aware of ... (read in full...)
I'm insecure about my penis size and terrified of being called "small". Is it okay to want a woman who doesn't have a past so that she don't compare my size to others?
Q. Im a 21 year old virgin guy and lately ive been trying to figure out what I want in a girlfriend before I know for sure that im ready to have sex. While trying to figured things out for myself ive realized something. I have female friends that joke ...
A. 21 February 2012: What goes through my mind….. oy… It’s all very split second… I don’t devote a lot of time to it… to be honest a penis is just what’s attached to the man I care about… again if it didn’t work but his mouth and hands do I’m fine….
But as to what ... (read in full...)
I'm insecure about my penis size and terrified of being called "small". Is it okay to want a woman who doesn't have a past so that she don't compare my size to others?
Q. Im a 21 year old virgin guy and lately ive been trying to figure out what I want in a girlfriend before I know for sure that im ready to have sex. While trying to figured things out for myself ive realized something. I have female friends that joke ...
A. 19 February 2012: Listen to me very carefully... I would marry an impotent man with a talented tongue and good hands over a guy with a working penis and no manual and oral skills any day of the week....
and in the case of a penis.. I've had small. I've had average,... (read in full...)
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