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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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I'm insecure about my penis size and terrified of being called "small". Is it okay to want a woman who doesn't have a past so that she don't compare my size to others?
Q. Im a 21 year old virgin guy and lately ive been trying to figure out what I want in a girlfriend before I know for sure that im ready to have sex. While trying to figured things out for myself ive realized something. I have female friends that joke ...
A. 22 February 2012: I am so glad we are making progress in getting you to relax
one caveat... do NOT put a time frame (year long) on anything.... let things just happen naturally... you will know when it feels right... it might feel right after say 6 or 9 months ... (read in full...)
I don't want to leave my husband but I feel unhappy and unfulfilled due to my feelings for my friend.....
Q. I'm a married mother of one and I'm struggling with my feelings for someone I work with. When he first started at my work, I didn't talk to him much. I thought he was ok looking, kind of my type but I wasnt really interested. I knew he had a gi...
A. 22 February 2012: AH the dreaded WORK crush… BTDT… actually watched a tv show last night (a comedy) with just that topic… Work crushes are very very very common… I used to refer to one guy as my “work husband” but then his wife and my husband were both aware of ... (read in full...)
I don't want to die without trying anal sex, so is it cheating if I hire a prostitute as my wife refuses to do this?
Q. Just something that I've been thinking about: My wife and I have been together for years. Like any other couple, we have boundaries and red flags in sex. Anal sex is a red flag for her. But I can't get it off of my mind! I don't want to die wit...
A. 22 February 2012: Yes if you don’t go to your wife FIRST and ASK (and GET) permission for you to do this it is CHEATING…
You are 35 are you terminally ill? Is this why you think you are dying now? Because you’ve probably got about 50 more years on this earth and ... (read in full...)
Oral sex saved for a special occasion?
Q. My boyfriend has been asking me to give him oral sex for a little while, and I finally brought up the courage to do it for him the other day. It was spontaneous and romantic and everything I imagined it to be. Since then, He has asked me a coupl...
A. 22 February 2012: I"m with your boyfriend too.
in our house we say "sunday mornings are for blow jobs"
but we don't limit it to just then.
it's not something that I see as special... it's one of my favorite things to do for my guy....... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and am wondering what is causing the little 'flutters'?
Q. I'm 34 weeks pregnent, 35 on friday, and today ive noticed that at the top of my vagina, im getting types of little flutters, and alot more in my belly then normal, also getting a bit of back ache, ive also been told by family that i have ...
A. 21 February 2012: back ache... led the little 'flutters" could be the beginning of labor... keep track of the timing and call the doctor if you are concerned.... (read in full...)
What is the opinion on a 40 year old man who has never been married or engaged?
Q. I have a question for the ladies.. what do you think of 40 year old men who have never lived with a woman, been engaged, married, etc. would you question if they are boyfriend or better yet.... husband material? This conversation came up at work ...
A. 21 February 2012: well Mandy I never said there was something wrong with him but if he does not like being touched what has changed now that he's 40? or if he has peter pan syndrome what's changed?
about the only thing that makes sense is if he went into the prie... (read in full...)
If cheated on will the man suddenly find the woman sexually unattractive?
Q. If you made a mistake and was found out for cheating, can it make a man go from finding you very sexually attractive, into not finding you attractive any more? Can men change just like that? How do you pull them back? Any one ever been through this?...
A. 21 February 2012: I would imagine that losing the faith and trust in the one person you loved and cherished would put you off on wanting to be intimate with them.
I don't think it's men or women but rather PEOPLE... I mean you betrayed his trust.
How do ... (read in full...)
I'm being bullied at work by my boss who is also my husband!
Q. This sounds mad I know, but I am being bullied at work. The trouble is its my boss (who is also my husband) We have not been married long (6 months) and worked together for years before this and never had any trouble. I dont know what to do, he c...
A. 21 February 2012: in most locations you can't be a subordinate to a spouse. I am assuming you guys own the business....
if not go to his supervisor and request a transfer or better yet find a new job in a new company.
sounds like he's trying to not show favorit... (read in full...)
I'm worried not attending nasty sister's wedding could cause more problems in the family
Q. Will try and make this short. I've been married for 12 years. My husbands younger sister has always disliked me. I tried to build a bond with her early and had her as a bridesmaid in our wedding and she also lived with us prior to that so s...
A. 21 February 2012: She keeps trying to make nice... IF you can afford it I would suggest going. She sounds like she's immature and childish and jealous of you... but those things can change with time.
Are the children invited and going? I would make even mor... (read in full...)
What's his deal? He got cold feet and decided he wanted both me and the other girl. Is he commitment phobic?
Q. I was dating this total sweetheart. He seemed to be everything I ever wanted in a guy and then some. However, we broke up a few months ago. He began dating another girl immediately but kept in contact with me, and eventually dumped the other girl so ...
A. 21 February 2012: I agree with K C100 he's a jerk. he's a game player and not worth the effort.
don't talk to him.
don't text
don' t facebook or tweet.
the deal is he likes all the attention and he's a user.
walk on.... (read in full...)
He's a nice guy but doesn't live close and its quite tiresome to try to see him. Should I end it already?
Q. Hi Everyone, I really need to vent and I need advice about my dating dilema. I met a guy from online who lives 3 hours from me. The date went pretty well. It takes me time to really like someone but I wasn't in a rush to leave so that's a good si...
A. 21 February 2012: does he have to take trains to you also or does he drive?
I just ended an LDR we were 2 hours apart by car... I usually went to see him as I had the car and he did not.
finally after a year we moved in together.
if you think he's a great g... (read in full...)
Is he still interested in me?
Q. I have been talking to a guy for a week now- 7 days. He was texting a lot and then we went out on a date saturday. It went well- there were laughs and flirtation. He drove me home and we text that night and throughtout the day sunday (facebook and ...
A. 21 February 2012: Give it time.
If he’s responding by text that’s good
But wait till he calls and asks you out again.
And do not allow this to become all texting and online… that’s never good.
Aunt worldlywise gives GREAT advice… relax go about your life and ... (read in full...)
Why is he playing with me like this?
Q. Why is this guy playing with me like this? is this some sort of a sick game? So there's this guy that I like. He'd stare all at me all the time. I gave him my number and he'd ring me and text me. But whenever we made plans to go on a date he'...
A. 21 February 2012: fool me once shame on you
fool me twice shame on me
if he has stood you up twice you need to be done with him.... (read in full...)
The more I do for him the less I get back. Is it time to leave him?
Q. So for the last few months I been doing all these nicce things for my boyfriend like cooking and cleaning for him and I never even got a happy valentines day, I have told him a gift or something nice would be appeciated once and a while. He knows I ...
A. 21 February 2012: If you do things because you want to that's fine.
if you are not happy with what he does for you and you've told him and he's like "whatever" then you have your answer.
if he says he's been wrong and he will try to change he has to do so.
... (read in full...)
Boyfriend has almost no sex drive and I have too much of one!
Q. In the beginning of my relationship my bf used to masterbate and actually have the urge to do so, but we ended up having a problem cause I would want sex later that day that he masturbated so he then had no interst in sex at all and this would kind ...
A. 21 February 2012: "i feel like we should be sex monkeys" oh sweetie... not everyone does it all the time.
has he had a medical work up to rule out hormonal medical or emotional problems (depression can affect sex drive)?
do you masturbate? I have ... (read in full...)
I know he is not having an affair, but I don't understand what is going on
Q. Hi, I have been in a relationship for just over four years now , I have been engaged and split , married and divorced with 2 kids one of them leaving home in sept for universaty my other son suffers from ADHD and autism . My partners sons to his ...
A. 21 February 2012: “I just want us to be together lifes to short as it is . And if he loved me as much as he says he does he would want to commit no matter what .”
I tend to agree with you OP… although there are many that would say your partner is right to not take... (read in full...)
I feel I am trying harder than he is, and all this 'engagement' will ever be is just talk...
Q. My boyfriend and I are constantly coming up against obstacles in our path to engagement and marriage. I am frustrated to the point where I want to give up on the relationship and rather start over. We're LDR, he has to take a pay cut so I can't l...
A. 21 February 2012: You are NOT babies…. You are LDR… how far are you apart? How long are you together… how often do you see each other?
“he has to take a pay cut” “he can’t afford it” “I have to support him” “he can’t afford a place to stay so he has to live ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and have a controlling boyfriend. My friend say I can do better than him
Q. So.. Ive been with my boyfriend for 6 months.. And..im not trying to be concieted or anything but.. Im one of those pretty girls alotta guys like..im 13 and i dont rrally understand how love goes.. I thought i did ..but it led me into something i ...
A. 21 February 2012: 6 months is not a long time to have a relationship
you don't understand love yet that is true... you said so yourself...
he's controlling. he won't let you have friends without his approval.... this is not a good thing. this is not love. t... (read in full...)
How can I make him see how right we are for each other?
Q. I have been seeing someone for the best part of 5 years, although it has been on-off for the last 2 years. Yes we sometimes argue and its obviously not going to be like the honeymoon period 24/7, but we have so much fun together and so much love ...
A. 21 February 2012: IF you are on and off and fighting a lot even about stupid stuff (or especially about stupid little stuff) then perhaps it’s NOT right…
Delightful84 is right… constant arguing and being on and off is NOT a normal relationship. My partner and I di... (read in full...)
We are both divorced. Originally intended to stay that way. How do I how bring up "marriage" as an option?
Q. I have been dating a man for a year and we live together. We are very happy and love and respect each other the problem is we are both divorced and when we first met we both said we never wanted to get married again. I now feel like I would love...
A. 21 February 2012: About 15 months ago I started an affair with a man who swore he never wanted to get married. He said he did not believe in marriage. This worked GREAT for me as I was married (in an open marriage so not cheating on my spouse) and was not interested ... (read in full...)
Could my baby look like my lover?
Q. If a woman is pregnant and sleeps with another man can the baby have features of the man who is not the father?...
A. 21 February 2012:
How do you think a baby can look like someone who did not contribute to their genetic makeup?
Do you understand about sex?
Are you having sex with a man who is not the father of the baby you are carrying? Do you think that the sperm can g... (read in full...)
Husband are I are moving back to his hometown where he has alot of ex girlfriends!
Q. My husband and I are in a situation where we need to move closer to his work. Unfortunately, that move will take us to the small town he grew up in. That town has LOTS of his ex girlfriends in it. (He was quite the cassanova) I am upset about this ...
A. 21 February 2012: Is your husband much younger than you? Like 20? Are these girls he dated RECENTLY?
“am I right for feeling this jealousy”
NO I’m sorry you are NOT RIGHT for feeling this jealousy. Perhaps it’s not jealousy but you are very anxious mov... (read in full...)
How equal should things be? I give her oral, but she just gives me excuses for why not, when I seek same from her.
Q. Hi, I'm wondering whether I should expect oral sex for giving oral sex. Me and my girlfriend don't have sex often, but my sex drive is a lot more than hers, so she uses her hands to satisfy me. I've told her I really enjoy oral sex and she gave...
A. 21 February 2012: “Hi, I'm wondering whether I should expect oral sex for giving oral sex”
Well do you give oral to get oral? Have you made that clear to your partner? Because that’s a LOUSY reason to give oral….
“there’s nothing good tasting around for after... (read in full...)
What is the opinion on a 40 year old man who has never been married or engaged?
Q. I have a question for the ladies.. what do you think of 40 year old men who have never lived with a woman, been engaged, married, etc. would you question if they are boyfriend or better yet.... husband material? This conversation came up at work ...
A. 21 February 2012: I agree with Chigirl... never being married or engaged is ONE thing... having had NO long term relationships IRL (not only online) is a bit of a red flag.... (read in full...)
I'm insecure about my penis size and terrified of being called "small". Is it okay to want a woman who doesn't have a past so that she don't compare my size to others?
Q. Im a 21 year old virgin guy and lately ive been trying to figure out what I want in a girlfriend before I know for sure that im ready to have sex. While trying to figured things out for myself ive realized something. I have female friends that joke ...
A. 21 February 2012: What goes through my mind….. oy… It’s all very split second… I don’t devote a lot of time to it… to be honest a penis is just what’s attached to the man I care about… again if it didn’t work but his mouth and hands do I’m fine….
But as to what ... (read in full...)
Is there something going on between my ex and one of our friends?
Q. Arghhhhh! I need someone to calm me down a bit!!! My thoughts are running away with me and i'm totally freaking out!!! I'm trying to get over my ex at the minute, and it's going well so far, apart from this one thing that's literally tortur...
A. 21 February 2012: I really understand you and your friend are both angry and hurt but the truth is that the first steps to heal are to let the pain and anger go.
To be honest it doesn’t matter when it started or why.., it is what it is and there is nothing your ang... (read in full...)
My Family are against me going to his country to join him. Should I do this? My family object to this LDR
Q. Dear Cupid Ok i am a student living in a east coast state in the us.. on break i met a man online on skype.. at first i was hesitant but then i just began talking to him..we have been talking to each other for almost 3 months now but are serious ...
A. 21 February 2012: The website I used was this one: http://israel.usembassy.gov/visas.html
The PROBLEMS however as you post more information continue to GROW in my opinion
1. You have talked about “we want to meet each other and wed one day the ONLY (my emp... (read in full...)
Is there something going on between my ex and one of our friends?
Q. Arghhhhh! I need someone to calm me down a bit!!! My thoughts are running away with me and i'm totally freaking out!!! I'm trying to get over my ex at the minute, and it's going well so far, apart from this one thing that's literally tortur...
A. 21 February 2012: and what good would confronting them do?
what will it resolve?... (read in full...)
I'm getting tired of defending myself against boyfriend's thoughts that I might cheat
Q. My boyfriend and I began dating exclusively from the day we met. He calls frequently and tells me he can't live without me and if anything is a bit over-possesive. He always makes comments that imply that I'm ready to have an affair with the ...
A. 20 February 2012: this is about HIS insecurity. And it will only get worse.
The big red flag to be honest (and I know this from prior experience) was the very quick jump to exclusive relationship... it's actually a bad sign... you two didn't really know each oth... (read in full...)
I'm eight months pregnant and the baby's father is incommunicado.
Q. Hello, I need some advice please, I'm 35 weeks pregnant and the baby's father hasn't been in contact with me since we split up 3 month ago. I've tried ringing him and have had no answer to my calls or texts. Its like he isn't interested, and I hear ...
A. 20 February 2012: he's moving in with another woman.. he does not want to make it work with you but is being kind due to the impending birth of your child.
he wants a relationship with his son and the only way he can have one easily is keeping on your good side... ... (read in full...)
What is the opinion on a 40 year old man who has never been married or engaged?
Q. I have a question for the ladies.. what do you think of 40 year old men who have never lived with a woman, been engaged, married, etc. would you question if they are boyfriend or better yet.... husband material? This conversation came up at work ...
A. 20 February 2012: My finace has never been married he's 38 and has had only one real gf before me... he's a bit impatient and hard to deal with so it's not about his desire but his inability to compromise in relationships more than anything... we plan to marry this ... (read in full...)
I want to get over my abusive LDR ex. But I need some ideas please on how to do this?
Q. I'm really sad and depressed. I was with this guy in a long distance thing for almost 2 years. It was never really perfect or ideal but I cared about this person a lot. We would fight. He would call me names but i in the back of my head I would t...
A. 20 February 2012: honey it's over and done... delete his info...
and then... write him a long long long letter ON PAPER... tell him every and anything you want to say.. make it as long as possible... leave NOTHING out.
put in in an envelope
seal the envel... (read in full...)
I lost him once before and I don't want to lose him again, but I'm not ready to lose my virginity either!
Q. I recently started seeing this guy, only it didnt happen the way it normally would, I already knew him because we dated over a year ago. Then I bumped into him last week and he said we should go for a drink sometime and I mentioned that I was having ...
A. 20 February 2012: doesn't matter if you are dating.. it's very nen... and I don't even know any more what "dating" means.
in my day dating was not a reason to have sex with a boy...
going steady was.
but if you are a virgin then all bets are off and yo... (read in full...)
My Family are against me going to his country to join him. Should I do this? My family object to this LDR
Q. Dear Cupid Ok i am a student living in a east coast state in the us.. on break i met a man online on skype.. at first i was hesitant but then i just began talking to him..we have been talking to each other for almost 3 months now but are serious ...
A. 20 February 2012: wait a second... he's from Israel... why can't he get a visa? US relations with Israel are about as friendly as you can get... so what's his rationale?
I have many friends that have moved there from the states.. both my sons have been there..... (read in full...)
After being raped, are women ever able to enjoy sex?
Q. Nearly three years ago I was raped, so I have never had sex other than that one time. I have started a relationship with someone and I like him and he respects me, but I don't want to have sex. Do other women actually want sex after rape or do ...
A. 20 February 2012: you were raped. that is not about sex it's about power... the fact that you consider it sex tells me that you probably would benefit from some counseling to help get over the terrible trauma that you were put through..
You did nothing wron... (read in full...)
I slept with a married man and now he doesn't call me
Q. I slept with a married man a week ago. It was only once but I've been feeling terrible since. I had known him for three years. After that night, he texted me once or twice mentioning how great that night was. I texted him back but I tried to distant ...
A. 20 February 2012: mistakes happen... bad choices teach us to make better choices next time.
beating yourself up accomplishes nothing...
use this as a learning tool and make positive changes for yourself.... (read in full...)
How do I stop this guy from being boring and getting upset so easily?
Q. Hi people! I really need help with this one. I've been in a relationship with this guy for 3 weeks now. He was a very mysterious type in the beginning but now he's soo boring now. He's a quite romantic guy but he keeps saying the same things o...
A. 20 February 2012: ya know what... when it's the right person you won't mind hearing the words over and over.... this is just not a good fit for you or for him.... only he doesn't know it yet.... (read in full...)
Ex says I don't deserve her. Should I fight for her or move on?
Q. My ex and I broke up last month. Less than a week later she tells me she's seeing someone new. I have had time to work on myself and want to give it another shot with her. However, she doesn't. Today she told me she still loves me but can't let ...
A. 20 February 2012: she is playing games with you.... do you want to play this game?
I would BLOCK her phone number and not accept from numbers you do not know...... (read in full...)
My deceased ex-bf's son wants to date me--and he looks just like his dad!
Q. My exboyfriend died in 1993, when he died he had a little son by someone else. Now the son is 23 years old and wants to date me. I like him to but I don't know if this is right, the thing that is nagging at me is he looks just like his dad.What ...
A. 20 February 2012: ya know that's a good point...if you are 35 now... 19 years ago when your EX boyfriend died you would have been 16 at the oldest... so was his dad a much older man taking advantage of a young girl or was his dad a younger man say about 19 with a ... (read in full...)
Seriously ! I do have the biggest crush on a guy four years older than me. What do you suggest I do?
Q. Ok so I'm almost 17 and very shy person. I have the biggest crush on this guy from work who is like four years older than me. I have really talked to him, like have an actual conversation with him. I really don't know what to do. Everytime ...
A. 20 February 2012: So you are 16 and he is 20...
and here in the USA that's illegal and he would go to jail.... not sure about the laws where you are however.
here's the thing... he may look at you and think you are too young... and that is his right... and may... (read in full...)
Sex! Why, so far, has it all been so unsatisfying?
Q. hey ive been sexually active for about a year.. ive just been wondering.. I don't know if im sexually frustrated or not but i think i am. I've had sex about a good fifteen times in the year or so since i lost my virginity and it just doesnt f...
A. 20 February 2012: I became sexually active at 14
I have had lots and lots and lots of experience.
sex didn't get good till around age 35... this is a very common pattern for many women...... (read in full...)
The Cody Chronicles, Part 3: Should I reject Cody simply on the basis of the rumors about him (like him having sex with a goat)?
Q. Sorry if the questions about Cody are annoying but the people of DearCupid are my only resource for advice that I take pride in and trust. So I know that y'all know what's right. Well anyways, Cody has a horrible reputation. Every time I mention his ...
A. 19 February 2012: even if the rumors are NOT true, if you go out with cody you will get a skanky reputation just like him just because you go out with him..... do you want that?... (read in full...)
I'm insecure about my penis size and terrified of being called "small". Is it okay to want a woman who doesn't have a past so that she don't compare my size to others?
Q. Im a 21 year old virgin guy and lately ive been trying to figure out what I want in a girlfriend before I know for sure that im ready to have sex. While trying to figured things out for myself ive realized something. I have female friends that joke ...
A. 19 February 2012: Listen to me very carefully... I would marry an impotent man with a talented tongue and good hands over a guy with a working penis and no manual and oral skills any day of the week....
and in the case of a penis.. I've had small. I've had average,... (read in full...)
I slept with a married man and now he doesn't call me
Q. I slept with a married man a week ago. It was only once but I've been feeling terrible since. I had known him for three years. After that night, he texted me once or twice mentioning how great that night was. I texted him back but I tried to distant ...
A. 19 February 2012: do not call him.
instead write a very long detailed letter to him tell him everything. IN WRITING.
then seal it in an envelope and put it away in a drawer for years and years.... later on when you read it you will see how much you have grown a... (read in full...)
I slept with a married man and now he doesn't call me
Q. I slept with a married man a week ago. It was only once but I've been feeling terrible since. I had known him for three years. After that night, he texted me once or twice mentioning how great that night was. I texted him back but I tried to distant ...
A. 19 February 2012: you haven't' tried to contact him.
you don't want to get involved with him and yet you are wondering why he hasn't called?
be grateful he's not contacting you.
as to why... it's easy you are no longer a challenge... he got sex now ... (read in full...)
Ex says I don't deserve her. Should I fight for her or move on?
Q. My ex and I broke up last month. Less than a week later she tells me she's seeing someone new. I have had time to work on myself and want to give it another shot with her. However, she doesn't. Today she told me she still loves me but can't let ...
A. 15 February 2012: She’s done. You need to be done too. Learn from this, continue your path of self-awareness and growth and find a new lady in a little bit of time… it’s all going to be fine in the end…... (read in full...)
I'm eight months pregnant and the baby's father is incommunicado.
Q. Hello, I need some advice please, I'm 35 weeks pregnant and the baby's father hasn't been in contact with me since we split up 3 month ago. I've tried ringing him and have had no answer to my calls or texts. Its like he isn't interested, and I hear ...
A. 30 January 2012: you move on and live well and raise your son to the best of your ability.
do not discount that in a few years you may meet someone who does not mind parenting another man's child. They are usually good guys too.
best of luck.... (read in full...)
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added them and they have added *o_Very_Confused!
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